Quando olho para tr\u00e1s, apercebo-me que passei demasiado tempo a tentar reviver a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mas nada funcionou porque j\u00e1 estava morta h\u00e1 muito tempo e t\u00ednhamos demasiado medo de a enfrentar.<\/p>\n
It never worked because at some point you gave up and I was the only one who gave a damn. I should be angry\u2014but I\u2019m content. I\u2019m genuinely grateful to finally be myself.<\/p>\n
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Consumiste tanta da minha energia que me esqueci de como era ser feliz e entusiasmado com a vida.<\/p>\n
O que era simplesmente apreciar as pequenas coisas, os pequenos prazeres, e exprimir-me sem medo de que algu\u00e9m me julgasse.<\/p>\n
There was nothing we could do without the pressure of failing or getting on each other\u2019s nerves. The more I tried, the more toxic it became.<\/p>\n
Sempre que eu tentava quebrar a mesma velha rotina, tu puxavas-me para tr\u00e1s. Talvez eu tenha feito o mesmo contigo? Come\u00e7\u00e1mos a perseguir-nos um ao outro em c\u00edrculos.<\/p>\n
No final, n\u00e3o pass\u00e1vamos de estranhos com h\u00e1bitos semelhantes. Como bonecos empilhados, cheios de camadas mas sem nada dentro.<\/strong><\/p>\n Na minha rec\u00e9m-encontrada liberdade, depois de anos a transformar-me em algo que precisavas que eu fosse, comecei a lembrar-me do que costumava ser.<\/p>\n Tornei-me mais animado, confiante, extrovertido e pronto a superar tudo.<\/p>\n Now I can finally say that I love being alone and I love being myself. I didn\u2019t think I\u2019d ever say it but here I am.<\/p>\n Sometimes people get so caught up in their relationship with another person that they don\u2019t realize how they changed throughout the years.<\/p>\n They don\u2019t realize they\u2019re not the same person they were years ago but still do the same old things they did before.<\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t make sense in most cases. As you grow old and experience new things in life, it\u2019s normal to change.<\/p>\n Sometimes we outgrow another person and that\u2019s okay<\/strong>. It doesn\u2019t mean the person was somehow less than we are, not at all. They were at different stages of life, that\u2019s all.<\/p>\n As pessoas escolhem caminhos diferentes, deixam de partilhar as mesmas cren\u00e7as e as raz\u00f5es para as separa\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o muitas.<\/p>\n It\u2019s important to recognize when to let go. Letting go is mostly an uncomfortable feeling while it happens.<\/p>\n It\u2019s no surprise, knowing all the work and effort that went into building something that needs to be let go of.<\/p>\n Abandonar algo de que gost\u00e1mos em tempos \u00e9 como abandonar uma parte de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/strong><\/p>\n However, we need to have in mind that everything happens for a reason. His place in my life wasn\u2019t an accident. N\u00f3s foram<\/em> destinado a ser<\/strong>. Mas n\u00e3o para sempre.<\/p>\n It\u2019s wrong to underestimate the meaning of quase amor<\/em>. Nem tudo tem de ser perfeito para ter valor.<\/p>\n We were meant to be so I could finally realize what I want and that\u2019s important. I want authenticity. I want freedom. I want a chance to mess up. I want to see everything I can do.<\/p>\n Everything I couldn\u2019t do with you.<\/p>\n Now I know I\u2019m enough on my own. I don\u2019t need anyone to measure my value other than me.<\/p>\n I accept everything that happened to me and I\u2019m happily turning over a new leaf. I\u2019m giving myself a fresh start.<\/p>\n I hope that someday I\u2019ll see him and I won\u2019t be reminded of bad memories, only the good ones. I\u2019ll see a man who helped me learn in the most unexpected way that I\u2019m enough.<\/p>\n At that moment, I\u2019ll be thankful and happy we both moved on.<\/p>\n Agradecida pelo que tenho, sem medo do que quero<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n When we split up, I was in deep pain. Life as I knew it completely fell apart. It was in those moments when I thought I would never get through it. Strangely enough, soon after the first wave of desperation passed, I felt relieved. I almost felt guilty over how good it felt. 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