{"id":57564,"date":"2020-03-30T10:28:46","date_gmt":"2020-03-30T10:28:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=57564"},"modified":"2022-02-23T00:30:11","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T00:30:11","slug":"tomar-a-decisao-de-curar-a-sua-alma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tomar-a-decisao-de-curar-a-sua-alma\/","title":{"rendered":"Tens de tomar uma decis\u00e3o para curar a tua alma, mesmo que isso magoe o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Pensaste que tinhas encontrado o teu amor eterno. Ele foi o \u00fanico homem que alguma vez amaste.<\/p>\n<p>O teu amor por ele era puro e profundo como o pr\u00f3prio oceano. Os teus sentimentos eram sinceros e fortes.<\/p>\n<p>You thought that your love was one of a kind and that you wouldn\u2019t love anyone as much as you loved him.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, you couldn&#8217;t see the other side of that love story. Your love made you blind.<\/p>\n<p>Fechaste os olhos aos seus defeitos fatais e ao facto de ele n\u00e3o ser o ideal para ti.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-57568 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-with-dark-hair-standing-outside-2.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem com cabelo escuro \u00e0 porta\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-with-dark-hair-standing-outside-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-with-dark-hair-standing-outside-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-with-dark-hair-standing-outside-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Na verdade, apaixonaste-te pela vers\u00e3o dele que criaste na tua cabe\u00e7a. A realidade era t\u00e3o diferente, confusa e m\u00e1.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>After some time, you realized that your honest love didn&#8217;t let you see the real him, the man who took your love for granted.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/quando-o-teu-homem-nao-te-valoriza-merece-perder\/\">The man who didn&#8217;t deserve you<\/a>. The man who wouldn&#8217;t shed a single tear for you.&nbsp; The man who only used your naivety and your sincere love.<\/p>\n<p>Arranjou sempre desculpas para o seu comportamento. Justificavas tudo o que ele te fazia porque pensavas que ele estava apenas a ter um dia mau.<\/p>\n<p>Tinhas medo de dizer o que te incomodava porque ele fazia-te pensar que a tua opini\u00e3o estava errada.<\/p>\n<p>You didn&#8217;t want to stand up to his criticism or to ask him for things you needed because you were afraid of his rejection or that he\u2019d leave you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-57569 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-hugging-on-the-nature-5.jpg\" alt=\"jovem casal abra\u00e7ado na natureza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-hugging-on-the-nature-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-hugging-on-the-nature-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-hugging-on-the-nature-5-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>You hoped that he\u2019d change. You prayed every day for that moment to happen. And it never did. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You should know that you can&#8217;t change a man who never wanted to change.<\/p>\n<p>Your soul was exhausted. The damage that his so-called \u2018love\u2019 left on your soul was almost irreparable.<\/p>\n<p>Percebeu imediatamente que a cura de tudo isso seria uma das tarefas mais dif\u00edceis que teria de fazer.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Your only mistake was believing in love that didn&#8217;t exist.<\/strong> Oh, lamento, mas existia, mas s\u00f3 do vosso lado.<\/p>\n<p>E isso torna tudo ainda pior. Um amor unilateral \u00e9 a maior dor que uma pessoa pode sentir.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-57570 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-1.jpg\" alt=\"casal junto ao lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>One day, you woke up and finally realized that he wasn&#8217;t worth it and it made you feel ready for everything that was coming.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/a-mulher-traida-tem-de-seguir-em-frente\/\">A sua trai\u00e7\u00e3o foi a gota de \u00e1gua<\/a> the camel&#8217;s back. You decided that it was enough, you couldn&#8217;t put up with him anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Ele arruinou a tua autoestima. Quando o deixaste, compreendeste que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o havia ningu\u00e9m que te impedisse.<\/p>\n<p>Querias trabalhar em ti. Para mostrar o seu valor a si pr\u00f3prio e ao resto do mundo.<\/p>\n<p>Chegou \u00e0 conclus\u00e3o de que o amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente, especialmente se for um amor unilateral. Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel precisa de muito mais do que amor.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 preciso aliment\u00e1-lo todos os dias para o fazer durar.  Ele precisa de tudo o que o homem nunca foi capaz de lhe dar.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-57571 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-look-thoughtful-and-looking-outside-2.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem com ar pensativo e a olhar para o exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-look-thoughtful-and-looking-outside-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-look-thoughtful-and-looking-outside-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-look-thoughtful-and-looking-outside-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>In order to find true happiness, you had to make the right decision\u2014to let go. Let go of him and move the hell on.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I won&#8217;t lie to you. It always hurts. Your heart will now be broken into pieces.<\/p>\n<p>Pensar\u00e1s que nunca <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/curar-completamente-acolhendo-o-pensamento-consciente-e-o-descanso\/\">sarar completamente<\/a> ou ser capaz de encontrar um novo amor.<\/p>\n<p>Leaving him was one of the most courageous decisions you\u2019ll ever make. Believe me and don&#8217;t give up.<\/p>\n<p>You will collect all the broken pieces of your heart and glue them together again. You&#8217;ll gather the strength to move on.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll survive and it will all be just one bad dream for you. A dream you left where it belongs\u2014in the past.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-57572 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-lake-2.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada \u00e0 beira do lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-lake-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-lake-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-lake-2-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Estabelecer\u00e1 novos objectivos e sonhos. E todos os dias trabalhar\u00e1 para os concretizar e para ser uma melhor vers\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p><strong>D\u00e1 tempo a ti pr\u00f3pria para te curares. Vais encontrar algu\u00e9m que te vai amar da forma que mereces. Sabes, da forma como o amaste.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tenta encontrar a for\u00e7a na tua dor. Tente recompor-se e descobrir\u00e1 que \u00e9 mais forte do que era antes.<\/p>\n<p><strong>He was meant to be a part of your journey but obviously, he wasn&#8217;t meant to stay until the end.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s time for you to be happy again and that&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/e-altura-de-encerrar-finalmente-o-capitulo-sobre-ti-e-seguir-em-frente\/\">porque deve seguir em frente<\/a>. Close that chapter.&nbsp; Don&#8217;t let one bad experience make you afraid to live your life.<\/p>\n<p>God sends us some people as a blessing to our life but he also sends us some people to teach us a lesson.&nbsp; He was your lesson BUT you&#8217;ll find your blessing one day.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-57574 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/YOU-HAVE-TO-MAKE-A-DECISION-TO-HEAL-YOUR-SOUL-EVEN-IF-IT-HURTS-YOUR-HEART-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Tens de tomar uma decis\u00e3o para curar a tua alma, mesmo que isso magoe o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/YOU-HAVE-TO-MAKE-A-DECISION-TO-HEAL-YOUR-SOUL-EVEN-IF-IT-HURTS-YOUR-HEART-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/YOU-HAVE-TO-MAKE-A-DECISION-TO-HEAL-YOUR-SOUL-EVEN-IF-IT-HURTS-YOUR-HEART-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/YOU-HAVE-TO-MAKE-A-DECISION-TO-HEAL-YOUR-SOUL-EVEN-IF-IT-HURTS-YOUR-HEART-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/YOU-HAVE-TO-MAKE-A-DECISION-TO-HEAL-YOUR-SOUL-EVEN-IF-IT-HURTS-YOUR-HEART-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/YOU-HAVE-TO-MAKE-A-DECISION-TO-HEAL-YOUR-SOUL-EVEN-IF-IT-HURTS-YOUR-HEART-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/YOU-HAVE-TO-MAKE-A-DECISION-TO-HEAL-YOUR-SOUL-EVEN-IF-IT-HURTS-YOUR-HEART-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You thought that you\u2019d found your forever love. He was the only man you ever loved. Your love for him was pure and deep like an ocean itself. Your feelings were sincere and strong. You thought that your love was one of a kind and that you wouldn\u2019t love anyone as much as you loved&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":57573,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-57564","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/You-Have-To-Make-A-Decision-To-Heal-Your-Soul-Even-If-It-Hurts-Your-Heart.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57564","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=57564"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57564\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/57573"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=57564"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=57564"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=57564"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}