Maybe it\u2019s because subconsciously my mind thinks I\u2019m not deserving of love. Why?<\/p>\n
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I don\u2019t accept myself as I am, and no matter how hard the other person tries to make me comfortable, I can\u2019t feel comfortable inside myself.<\/p>\n
A mesma coisa faz-me sentir atra\u00eddo por parceiros que me maltratam.<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t want to end up with someone who will ruin my life and leave me in pieces. It happened before. That\u2019s why I\u2019m feeling this wrecked in the first place.<\/p>\n
When you go through abuse, everything in your life changes. You\u2019re not the person you were before.<\/strong><\/p>\n Uncertainty and feeling powerless become part of you. There\u2019s no going back to the old.<\/p>\n Francamente, a ideia de algu\u00e9m me ver exatamente como<\/em> I am scares the heck out of me. It\u2019s almost like admitting o que v\u00eas agora \u00e9 tudo o que te posso dar<\/em>. And I\u2018m scared that\u2019s not enough.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t want to just wake up heartbroken one day. I\u2019d rather wake up lonely even if it hurts. The fear of future pain is almost paralyzing.<\/p>\n However, I want to overcome this fear and I\u2019m aware that the first step in overcoming it is changing my relationship with myself.<\/strong><\/p>\n When we stop limiting our feelings and let ourselves be vulnerable, things start changing. If we\u2019re not vulnerable, we\u2019re not being honest with ourselves.<\/p>\n Eu lembro-me: Algures por a\u00ed h\u00e1 uma pessoa que aceitar\u00e1 as nossas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es e nunca pensar\u00e1 em n\u00f3s como demasiado ou pouco<\/em> qualquer coisa. Algu\u00e9m que ama verdadeiramente tudo o que tu \u00e9s.<\/p>\n Mas antes disso, \u00e9 preciso deix\u00e1-los ver-nos.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t paralyze yourself in fear and don\u2019t give or accept half-hearted love.<\/p>\n Be yourself proudly. Don\u2019t let the past trauma take you away from you. You\u2019re more than the things that happened to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n Don\u2019t close off your heart because by doing that, you\u2019re hurting yourself anyway.<\/p>\n Cada li\u00e7\u00e3o de vida tem o seu significado. Tudo na vida continua, por isso deixa-a continuar.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t settle thinking I\u2019m that girl who\u2019s going to end up alone forever. That\u2019s not true! You decide who you are.<\/strong><\/p>\n Instead, stop thinking about love and a relationship as something unattainable. Making an effort towards something always opens a new door you didn\u2019t know about.<\/p>\n Make a connection, say what\u2019s on your heart, don\u2019t worry about how you\u2019re being perceived, and let the magic happen.<\/p>\n Being hurt or even being alone isn\u2019t the worst thing that can happen to you. Every situation is a chance for growth.<\/p>\n Take your pain and what you learned from it to plant something new \u2013 something that can be your own revolution.<\/p>\n You can have someone you can call your own, someone who will be there always. Someone who loves you without limit \u2013 who won\u2019t make you feel worthless, overlooked, put aside or sad.<\/p>\n Mereces amar e ser amado em troca. Abre o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o para algo novo.<\/p>\n Start by loving yourself and watch things change. Little by little you will find yourself doing things you never imagined. Bit by bit you\u2019ll notice fear disappearing.<\/p>\n Love is the most powerful of all things, so don\u2019t underestimate its importance in your life. You need it, you\u2019re deserving of it, and you can experience it in its truest form.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t let it scare you. True love doesn\u2019t know fear.<\/p>\n Ela existe. Deixa-o encontrar-te.<\/p>\n I want love \u2013 true love to finally show me I can be myself. I want a love that doesn\u2019t hide, that isn\u2019t calculated, scared, or indecisive. I want love so strong it overcomes all my fears. Is that too much to ask? Sometimes I\u2019m so convinced I will never find it. 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