{"id":57650,"date":"2020-03-30T16:53:43","date_gmt":"2020-03-30T16:53:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=57650"},"modified":"2021-11-12T17:36:18","modified_gmt":"2021-11-12T17:36:18","slug":"manter-se-solteiro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/manter-se-solteiro\/","title":{"rendered":"8 maneiras pelas quais voc\u00ea est\u00e1 inconscientemente se mantendo solteiro"},"content":{"rendered":"

D\u00e1 por si a pensar: Ser\u00e1 que alguma vez vou encontrar o verdadeiro amor?<\/em><\/p>\n

O amor \u00e9 algo de que toda a gente precisa. Toda a gente quer sentir-se segura e acarinhada.<\/p>\n

When you have a significant other, it’s easier to face challenges and everyday life is happier and more comfortable overall.<\/p>\n

If you’re one of those people who is losing hope when it comes to their love life, ask yourself if these things are subconsciously keeping you \u00fanico<\/a>:<\/p>\n

1. You haven\u2019t really gotten over your ex<\/h2>\n

\"jovem
\nYou know he wasn’t the one but that doesn\u2019t keep you from feeling nostalgic over the time you spent together.<\/p>\n

It may look good in your mind, in your memories, but in reality, it’s probably better you’re not together.<\/p>\n

Be honest with yourself and think about this possibility; if that doesn\u2019t help, remember the reason why you broke up in the first place.<\/p>\n

2. D\u00e1 mais ouvidos aos seus amigos do que a si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"duas
\nOk, so you meet a guy and you like him; naturally, the first person you’re going to talk about it to is your friend and sometimes friends project their own experiences and worries onto us.<\/p>\n

Friends mean us no harm but that doesn’t mean they can\u2019t do any harm. Listen to your friend but listen to yourself first.<\/p>\n

If you like someone, go for it; you don’t need permission from anyone.<\/p>\n

3. Os vossos padr\u00f5es n\u00e3o s\u00e3o racionais<\/h2>\n

\"rapariga
\nMaybe it’s because you were hurt before or maybe you’re just stubborn but setting irrationally high standards doesn\u2019t make sense.<\/p>\n

Every person is different and every person has their good and bad sides. We can’t think our perfect person into existence; that\u2019s not how it works.<\/p>\n

For love to be true, we need to accept the fact that everyone makes mistakes and the fact that what we think is best for us isn\u2019t always best for us.<\/p>\n

4. You don’t believe good men exist<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nEsta l\u00f3gica \u00e9 obviamente causada por m\u00e1s experi\u00eancias com o seu antigo parceiro ou com figuras masculinas da sua vida.<\/p>\n

It’s hard to believe in the goodness of men once we experience terrible things. However, the reality is that good men do exist.<\/p>\n

Once you start believing in the existence of good men, they will appear in your life. Don’t judge all men based on one experience. Give them a chance.<\/p>\n

5. You’re afraid of being hurt again<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nEsta \u00e9 uma rea\u00e7\u00e3o normal quando se trata de sobreviver a algum tipo de trauma.<\/p>\n

Maybe you’re telling yourself you want to be alone but the truth is you’re just scared of being hurt.<\/p>\n

O medo de ser magoado pode prejudicar tremendamente a sua vida amorosa. Temos de nos curar e seguir em frente. Quando o verdadeiro amor bater \u00e0 sua porta, esteja pronto para a abrir!<\/p>\n

6. You’re too focused on your career and other things in life<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nRelationships need effort to work out. When you’re busy with things like your career or some type of time-consuming business, you’re putting aside your love life.<\/p>\n

That’s okay\u2014if that’s what you want! If that’s not what you want, think about the priorities in your life.<\/p>\n

Nothing is set in stone, you’re free to change your life if you want to.<\/p>\n

7. Romantiza as rela\u00e7\u00f5es e confia no destino<\/h2>\n

\"homem
\nAcreditar no destino e no amor verdadeiro \u00e9 uma coisa positiva. Por outro lado, esperar que algu\u00e9m ou alguma coisa fa\u00e7a o trabalho por si \u00e9 ilus\u00f3rio.<\/p>\n

Assuma a responsabilidade e tome medidas que o levem ao seu objetivo. Para que algo aconte\u00e7a, \u00e9 preciso criar primeiro a possibilidade.<\/p>\n

8. Fica demasiado tempo em casa<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nI know there are introverts among us but that shouldn\u2019t stop you from finding the love of your life.<\/p>\n

Se gosta de ficar em casa e passar o seu tempo a ler um livro ou a ver filmes, pode ter a certeza de que algures por a\u00ed h\u00e1 uma pessoa que gosta de fazer o mesmo.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 precisam de se encontrar um ao outro.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t like clubs or bars, try online options. List your interests and try your luck; why not?<\/p>\n

To sum this up, here\u2019s what I need to say: Don\u2019t deny yourself love.<\/p>\n

Be open and good things will come your way. Love takes courage so be brave and don\u2019t give up.<\/p>\n

\"8<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Do you find yourself thinking: Am I ever going to find true love? Love is something everyone needs. Everyone wants to feel safe and cared for. When you have a significant other, it’s easier to face challenges and everyday life is happier and more comfortable overall. If you’re one of those people who is losing…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":57666,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-57650","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/8-Ways-Youre-Subconsciously-Keeping-Yourself-Single.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","parent":29643,"count":114,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29645,"category_count":114,"category_description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","cat_name":"being single","category_nicename":"being-single","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57650","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=57650"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57650\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/57666"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=57650"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=57650"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=57650"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}