{"id":5770,"date":"2017-09-28T12:59:42","date_gmt":"2017-09-28T12:59:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5770"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:01:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:01:09","slug":"mesmo-que-nunca-tenham-namorado-oficialmente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/mesmo-que-nunca-tenham-namorado-oficialmente\/","title":{"rendered":"Tenho o direito de ter saudades dele apesar de nunca termos sa\u00eddo oficialmente juntos?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Estou sempre a perguntar-me,<\/span> \u201cDo I have the right to be sad now that we are no longer together?\u201d <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

We were never exclusive. Barely anybody knew about us. People usually thought that we are just good friends that hang out together, go out, have the same friends. They would sometimes say something like, \u201cYou guys should be together\u2014you fit just perfectly!\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n

Costum\u00e1vamos discutir tantas vezes como um velho casal e ver as coisas da mesma forma. Costum\u00e1vamos ter tantos temas, ideias e sonhos em comum. <\/span><\/p>\n

That’s what I miss the most. Us, dreaming and planning the future. We never said it was our future together. But we were both there. You never said I am your girlfriend. You never pictured me as your wife in those little fantasies of ours. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

But, I was the one that was standing there right beside you every step of the way. What happened to that picture\u2014why am I standing here all alone???<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Sempre que encontr\u00e1vamos algu\u00e9m que conhecias, apresentavas-me como amigo. Isso incomodava-me por uma fra\u00e7\u00e3o de segundo. Depois, mal sa\u00edamos da vista deles, puxavas-me para perto de ti e beijavas todas as coisas que me incomodavam. <\/span><\/p>\n

You used to say, \u201cWe know what we are., We don’t need to share everything with other people., <\/span>I like this secret love of ours.\u201d<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong>\u00a0\u00c9 por isso que ele n\u00e3o quer p\u00f4r um r\u00f3tulo na vossa \"rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a><\/p>\n

I agreed. I never thought that you need someone’s approval when you are in a relationship. All those couples displaying their love on Facebook and Instagram for everyone to see always seemed fake to me. It’s just not who I am. I like keeping things to myself. I liked keeping you for myself. <\/span>Eras o meu segredo mais doce.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sometimes, I think our love story was just in our minds. But, it wasn’t\u2014It was real. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Os sentimentos estavam l\u00e1. Verdadeiros. Talvez nos am\u00e1ssemos mais do que a maioria das pessoas que est\u00e3o numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o cl\u00e1ssica. Pelo menos, tenho a certeza de que te amava. <\/span><\/p>\n

Now that I am overthinking everything, I come to think that maybe you were hiding me because you were so insecure about us\u2014cause you are the one that left me\u2014and I am still holding on to something. Still asking myself, <\/span>\u201cDo I have the right to cry about us even though you were never officially my boyfriend?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

The truth is it doesn’t matter. <\/span><\/p>\n

I will cry anyway. I can\u2019t stop the tears from falling. You were mine. Someone and something of mine that cannot easily be replaced. <\/span>\u00a0I just don’t know what I should do with this love that you left behind?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Vou deix\u00e1-lo sair de mim atrav\u00e9s das l\u00e1grimas. Terei de o deixar doer. E depois deixar sarar. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

I am going to go through the same process that I went through after a previous three-year relationship\u2014even though our thing lasted shorter. We shared so many common things. Not just physical stuff, even though I miss that, too. God, I miss that. But it felt like a real textbook relationship in every aspect and every segment. You leaving hurts even more. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tenho a sorte de ter alguns amigos que sabiam de si. \u00c9 mais f\u00e1cil quando partilho as minhas m\u00e1goas. Eles tamb\u00e9m partilham as deles comigo. Mesmo que muitas vezes me perguntem,<\/span> \u201cHow can you miss somebody that was never yours?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

They don’t get it, I had you – you had me. You were mine – body, heart, and soul. Like no one before. My heart is broken and it doesn’t care whether we were labeled as a couple or not. It doesn’t care. It just grieves. And I have the right to grieve, too. \u00a0<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong>\u00a0N\u00e3o \u00e9s louco por sentires falta de algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o \u00e9 teu<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I just keep asking myself, \u201cDo I have the right to be sad now that we are no longer together?\u201d We were never exclusive. Barely anybody knew about us. People usually thought that we are just good friends that hang out together, go out, have the same friends. They would sometimes say something like, \u201cYou…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":5776,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5770","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/thanh-alex-67732.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5770","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5770"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5770\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5776"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5770"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5770"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5770"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}