{"id":57987,"date":"2020-04-07T20:28:37","date_gmt":"2020-04-07T20:28:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=57987"},"modified":"2022-01-24T19:05:53","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T19:05:53","slug":"razoes-pelas-quais-sou-feliz-por-ser-solteiro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/razoes-pelas-quais-sou-feliz-por-ser-solteiro\/","title":{"rendered":"11 raz\u00f5es pelas quais estou feliz por ser solteira (e porque tamb\u00e9m devias estar)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Yes, it’s possible, I realized I’m happy ser solteiro<\/a>! Nunca pensei que o fosse dizer, mas aqui estamos.<\/p>\n

There’s a certain stigma surrounding people who are single and choosing to be single in their adult life.<\/p>\n

While I can understand why that’s the case, I also want to shed some light on the reasons why I don’t agree with it.<\/p>\n

A vida de solteiro pode ser preenchida e significativa da mesma forma que as rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas.<\/p>\n

\"Duas<\/p>\n

It’s a different experience, for sure but it doesn’t mean it’s any less good.<\/p>\n

Your relationship status shouldn’t be an obstacle to your personal growth. Meeting o \u00fanico<\/em> isn’t everyone’s ultimate life goal.<\/p>\n

De facto, as pessoas solteiras podem ser ainda mais sortudas num certo sentido, porque podem conhecer-se a si pr\u00f3prias sem filtros, sem sacrificar nada, e fazer tudo isso ao seu pr\u00f3prio ritmo.<\/p>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Maybe when the time is right I’d be happy to be one of those adorably obnoxious married people but for now, I’m happier single.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 muitas maneiras de as pessoas beneficiarem da sua experi\u00eancia de solteirice.<\/p>\n

As someone who was in a long term relationship and then spontaneously decided to remain single after the break-up, I\u2019d like to share with you what I found to be particularly beneficial, valuable and true during my time of singleness.<\/p>\n

1. Come\u00e7a (finalmente) a aceitar-se plenamente<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Being part of a couple is, without a doubt, a wonderful thing but that doesn’t mean it can’t be hard work.<\/p>\n

If we want a healthy relationship, we need to work hard to align our needs with our partner’s needs.<\/p>\n

That’s admirable but sometimes in that process, we start losing ourself.<\/p>\n

Por vezes, apesar dos nossos esfor\u00e7os, acabamos numa m\u00e1 rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Construir uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o implica mudarmo-nos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios de alguma forma; mudar os nossos h\u00e1bitos, a forma como reagimos naturalmente e at\u00e9 mudar os nossos interesses e a forma como passamos o nosso tempo livre.<\/p>\n

\"Perfil<\/p>\n

Para al\u00e9m disso, muitas pessoas sentem-se pressionadas a dar o seu melhor a todo o momento.<\/p>\n

Queremos ser a melhor vers\u00e3o de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios para a nossa cara-metade, o que pode ser cansativo.<\/p>\n

The fact that everyone acts differently from their normal self when they’re falling in love doesn’t help.<\/p>\n

O nosso parceiro fica a conhecer-nos atrav\u00e9s daquilo que apresentamos no in\u00edcio da rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Later on, when the first love spell washes off, we’re stuck trying to fulfill expectations that weren’t even completely reasonable to begin with.<\/p>\n

\"De<\/p>\n

This might sound harsh, but in many cases, it’s true. For this reason, becoming and staying single can be great to renew our relationship with ourself.<\/p>\n

Isso significa aceitar tudo o que foi suprimido ou ignorado durante a rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Pode agir sem ser julgado e Deus sabe que os casais t\u00eam tend\u00eancia para se preocuparem com as coisas menos importantes.<\/p>\n

When there’s no one to criticize you, you become your own critic.<\/p>\n

Being your own critic is always more productive than listening to someone else and that\u2019s how you slowly start truly accepting yourself.<\/p>\n

2. Explora os seus interesses<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Quando n\u00e3o h\u00e1 outra pessoa por perto, podemos tomar conta do nosso tempo, o que significa passar o tempo livre como quisermos e ver Netflix quando quisermos. tu<\/em> querer.<\/p>\n

Muitas pessoas desistem dos seus interesses e passatempos porque querem dedicar todo o seu tempo ao seu parceiro.<\/p>\n

It’s also possible that their partner doesn’t understand their interests so they abandon them altogether.<\/p>\n

Being single allows you to explore your interests and do what you’ve been postponing your whole life, especially during a time of coupledom.<\/p>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Os seus interesses s\u00e3o uma parte importante de si. A explora\u00e7\u00e3o dos seus interesses resulta frequentemente em novas compet\u00eancias e aumenta a sua confian\u00e7a e autoestima.<\/p>\n

Ter conhecimentos sobre determinados t\u00f3picos torna-o mais interessante e mais suscet\u00edvel de se relacionar com pessoas que s\u00e3o como voc\u00ea.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, sabe-se que os passatempos aliviam o stress e evitam maus h\u00e1bitos.<\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m o desafiam a ser sempre melhor em alguma coisa e a gastar menos tempo em actividades in\u00fateis ou negativas.<\/p>\n

3. Tudo o que fazes \u00e9 livre de culpa<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso tem os seus altos e baixos, obviamente.<\/p>\n

Um dos descidas<\/em> is feeling guilty over perfectly normal stuff like spending time with your friends or doing anything that doesn’t involve your partner.<\/p>\n

Should I even mention irrational jealousy? I’m sure that’s something you experienced in your past relationships.<\/p>\n

Ter vidas sociais separadas sem discutir ou sentir-se culpado parece por vezes imposs\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

O sentimento de culpa (especialmente desnecess\u00e1rio<\/em> culpa) pode ser muito mau para o seu bem-estar.<\/p>\n

It’s a strong emotion that makes us feel like we’re doing something against our partner when in reality we just need time for ourself or the company of someone else.<\/p>\n

It’s not a question of loyalty or dedication, just a need for different experiences.<\/p>\n

And that’s normal. Sometimes you need your own company.<\/p>\n

The point is: it’s not wrong to spend time with yourself and you can enjoy being single.<\/p>\n

4. Ainda se pode ser rom\u00e2ntico como mulher solteira<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Pensar que o romance s\u00f3 \u00e9 poss\u00edvel num casal \u00e9 o maior equ\u00edvoco de sempre.<\/p>\n

O romance pode simplesmente representar uma qualidade ou um sentimento de mist\u00e9rio, excita\u00e7\u00e3o ou distanciamento na vida quotidiana.<\/p>\n

And that’s what many women want.<\/p>\n

Fazer um jantar para si pr\u00f3prio pode ser rom\u00e2ntico. Comprar perfume e flores para si pode ser rom\u00e2ntico.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the same with walking in the park and choosing a window seat.<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Estabelecer contacto visual com um estranho e ficar entusiasmado com um livro que acabou de ler.<\/p>\n

Fazer uma viagem ou visitar um museu de arte. Todas estas coisas podem ser rom\u00e2nticas quando feitas a s\u00f3s.<\/p>\n

O romance consiste em sentir-se comovido e entusiasmado com algo inspirador e misterioso.<\/p>\n

The next time your friend tries to be a matchmaker, tell her you’re in a romantic relationship with yourself.<\/p>\n

5. You’re focused on your career goals more than ever<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Outra raz\u00e3o you’re a happy single<\/a> is your career. It’s no secret that a lot of hard-working and career-focused people are single.<\/p>\n

Enquanto para alguns isso pode ser apenas um mecanismo de sobreviv\u00eancia (e um problema para um psic\u00f3logo cl\u00ednico), para outros pode ser uma coisa ben\u00e9fica, especialmente depois de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

When we’re single and undistracted by a cluttered mind, we’re more likely to be focused and more productive at our job and we don’t feel guilty about it.<\/p>\n

6. It’s easier to plan things<\/h2>\n

\"Pessoa<\/p>\n

It’s no surprise that by being in charge of your time and without responsibility for anyone other than yourself, you’ll feel freer.<\/p>\n

Este tipo de liberdade permite-nos decidir quando e onde vamos fazer alguma coisa.<\/p>\n

Planning a trip is a lot easier for one person; there’s no never ending adjusting and scheduling.<\/p>\n

There’s no canceling plans because of the other person or making another person sad by canceling plans.<\/p>\n

You don’t depend on someone’s mood and will to do something or go somewhere.<\/p>\n

Even everyday things like making dinner are so much simpler when you’re planning them alone.<\/p>\n

7. As tuas amizades tornam-se mais profundas<\/h2>\n

\"Grupo<\/p>\n

When we’re in a long-term relationship, sometimes our other relationships suffer, especially if we’re prone to be stuck in coupledom.<\/p>\n

That’s not fair to our friends. Being single is the perfect time to dedicate yourself to your family and friends.<\/p>\n

A fam\u00edlia e os amigos s\u00e3o coisas muito importantes na vida.<\/p>\n

Enquanto uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o amorosa pode, por vezes, ser exigente e cansativa (devido \u00e0s elevadas expectativas que duas pessoas t\u00eam uma pela outra), as rela\u00e7\u00f5es com os nossos amigos e familiares podem ser t\u00e3o relaxantes e curativas.<\/p>\n

\"Grupo<\/p>\n

Ter amizades verdadeiras na nossa vida \u00e9 muito importante para o nosso bem-estar.<\/p>\n

When we’re single, we spend more time with our friends and get to deepen our relationships with them.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 tantas raz\u00f5es pelas quais as amizades s\u00e3o por vezes ainda melhores do que as rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

For example, in a friendship, you don’t have to impress anyone. You don’t have to think about jealousy or defend yourself over unimportant things.<\/p>\n

\"Duas<\/p>\n

Podemos ser n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios sem medo de sermos vistos como est\u00fapidos ou patetas.<\/p>\n

Uma amizade \u00e9, por vezes, uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o mais genu\u00edna do que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica; nem sempre, mas por vezes.<\/p>\n

A genuine relationship can create a deep bond between two people and when people love each other without conditions, that’s one of the most precious things in life.<\/p>\n

8. You’re more spontaneous<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

This is no surprise either. Being on your own and unrestricted by other people’s plans makes you a lot more flexible.<\/p>\n

You’re free to decide whatever you want.<\/p>\n

A espontaneidade \u00e9 muito importante na vida. Ter momentos inesperados e aproveitar o momento \u00e9 uma forma incr\u00edvel de valorizar a sua vida.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o estar constantemente stressado com pequenas decis\u00f5es \u00e9 t\u00e3o libertador para a alma.<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Being spontaneous means not setting boundaries for what you can accomplish; it’s choosing to be in the moment and to express yourself as you feel at that moment.<\/p>\n

Being spontaneous means you’re always up to something new, it means you’re ready for whatever comes your way.<\/p>\n

Tendo isso seguir o fluxo<\/em> mentality is what keeps you grounded and stress-free. Isn\u2019t that a reason to feel happy being single?<\/p>\n

9. Experimenta as coisas de forma diferente<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Estar com o seu parceiro pode ensinar-lhe muito sobre a vida.<\/p>\n

Leva-o a desenvolver uma compreens\u00e3o de diferentes pontos de vista e a reconsiderar as suas experi\u00eancias anteriores.<\/p>\n

No entanto, experimentar algo com o seu parceiro e experimentar algo sozinho \u00e9 uma experi\u00eancia muito diferente.<\/p>\n

When we’re in some sort of partnership, we’re more likely to transfer responsibilities and become dependable on or influenced by other people’s experiences.<\/p>\n

When you’re alone, you’re forced to depend on yourself only and explore your limitations. It’s a totally different experience.<\/p>\n

It’s good to motivate ourself to experience things on our own, even if they’re more intense.<\/p>\n

10. Torna-se mais confiante<\/h2>\n

\"Silhueta<\/p>\n

Self-care is one of the things we do better when we’re single.<\/p>\n

Fazer exerc\u00edcio diariamente, comer alimentos nutritivos, organizar-se, estabelecer limites, dormir melhor e, de um modo geral, dedicar mais tempo a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios \u00e9 o que nos faz sentir mais confiantes.<\/p>\n

Other than that, we don’t have to ignore attention from other people, we can enjoy it.<\/p>\n

When single, you’re less likely to ask for reassurance or worry about things you can’t control.<\/p>\n

Isso equivale a confian\u00e7a. E a confian\u00e7a \u00e9 sexy.<\/p>\n

11. You learn that being single isn’t about being afraid to love<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

No! Being single doesn’t mean you’re afraid of love or not emotionally mature.<\/p>\n

Being single means you’re dedicated to working on yourself without anyone’s approval and that’s an admirable thing.<\/p>\n

Being single can be a call to focus on yourself and there’s nothing wrong about that.<\/p>\n

Focusing on yourself isn’t selfish; in fact, it’s very considerate.<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

It means you’re willing to work on being the best version of yourself.<\/p>\n

Being single and enjoying it means you’re open to life despite everything that has previously happened to you.<\/p>\n

Estar aberto \u00e0 vida significa ser corajoso.<\/p>\n

Gostaria de terminar as minhas observa\u00e7\u00f5es dizendo que podem fazer tudo o que quiserem, apesar do vosso estado de relacionamento.<\/p>\n

Our status shouldn’t be used as a way to define our value as a human being.<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Only we get to define our own value. It’s important for us to learn to accept ourself as we are and understand that we’re enough as we are.<\/p>\n

Para amar tudo e todos, precisamos primeiro de aprender a amar-nos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

A melhor forma de aprender o amor-pr\u00f3prio \u00e9 estar na nossa pr\u00f3pria companhia e deixarmo-nos fazer o que quisermos, sem expectativas nem julgamentos.<\/p>\n

Your singlehood can the best thing that happens to you because that’s the time you learn to love yourself and just feel happy being single.<\/p>\n

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