{"id":5825,"date":"2019-09-29T12:17:26","date_gmt":"2019-09-29T12:17:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5825"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:05:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:05:54","slug":"o-homem-certo-na-altura-errada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-homem-certo-na-altura-errada\/","title":{"rendered":"Eras o homem certo na altura errada"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c9 um facto bem conhecido que o momento certo \u00e9 algo que nenhuma de n\u00f3s pode afetar. Aposto que todas voc\u00eas j\u00e1 passaram por uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o na vossa vida em que conheceram um rapaz fant\u00e1stico mas ele j\u00e1 estava comprometido. Ou aproximaram-se da pessoa que se tornou vossa amiga num curto espa\u00e7o de tempo, mas ela teve de se mudar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Coisas deste g\u00e9nero acontecem a toda a hora e somos n\u00f3s que temos de decidir se vale a pena correr o risco.<\/span><\/p>\n

I am writing all this because I once fell for the wrong guy. I mean he was the right one but at the wrong time. Which means we didn\u2019t make our dreams come true.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Est\u00e1vamos ambos sem esperan\u00e7a devido \u00e0 situa\u00e7\u00e3o em que nos encontr\u00e1vamos. Quer\u00edamos estar juntos, mas ambos \u00e9ramos casados. Ele vivia num casamento infeliz, tal como eu. <\/span><\/p>\n

When I think twice, now I finally understand that all those mysterious looks between the two of us were signs that we understood each other even if we didn\u2019t say anything.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong> Foi assim que casei com o meu ex<\/a><\/p>\n

Era f\u00e1cil vermo-nos todos os dias, uma vez que trabalh\u00e1vamos na mesma empresa. Ainda me lembro do teu olhar naquele dia em que te contei que o meu marido me tinha batido. <\/span><\/p>\n

A n\u00f3doa negra ainda estava na minha cara, mas consegui cobri-la com a ajuda de um pouco de base. Conseguia ver a raiva nos teus olhos por algu\u00e9m me ter feito sentir assim. <\/span><\/p>\n

For you, I was a woman to love. And I must admit that I felt the same for you. But the circumstances weren\u2019t in our favor.<\/span><\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t leave my husband because I was feeling sorry for my kids and you felt the same way about yours. I always wanted my kids to have a good home and loving parents, and I knew that a divorce would ruin them.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s porque \u00e9 que fiquei numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/a> like that. I wanted my kids to feel safe and good and I wasn\u2019t thinking about myself at all.<\/span><\/p>\n

Agora, gostava de ter escapado ao homem abusivo que o meu marido era. Podia ter tido uma vida fant\u00e1stica com o homem que escolhi. E estaria a escolh\u00ea-lo sempre. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas a vida escreveu uma hist\u00f3ria diferente para n\u00f3s os dois. Tu ficaste com a tua mulher e eu fiquei com o meu marido. E fizemo-lo mesmo que os nossos mundos se estivessem a desmoronar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sabes, n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim t\u00e3o f\u00e1cil deixar quem amamos e saber que nunca estaremos com ele. <\/span><\/p>\n

Because that\u2019s what the two of us did. We stayed in unhappy relationships to make others happy while we were sad. We sacrificed our lives to make our kids feel good. <\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe we shouldn\u2019t have done that. Maybe our kids would have been happier in a different family. Maybe it would be better for them not to look their parents argue every single day.<\/span><\/p>\n

Just maybe\u2026<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Mas n\u00f3s escolhemos um caminho diferente. E talvez as coisas fossem muito diferentes se ambos tiv\u00e9ssemos feito um esfor\u00e7o. Porque quando conhecemos o homem certo, o momento nunca \u00e9 mau. <\/span><\/p>\n

You will do anything to make it work, right? Unfortunately, you and I weren\u2019t so brave and we went with the flow.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, this story is for all of you out there who think that they met the right guy at the wrong time. If you let go a person you love the most, you can\u2019t blame timing. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can only blame yourself because you weren\u2019t into them enough to make it work.<\/span><\/p>\n

There isn\u2019t a magical time when all the things will fit into their places. But there is maybe a person in your life who will make timing unessential.<\/span><\/p>\n

E quando essa pessoa passa a fazer parte da sua vida, encontra uma forma de se manter fiel a ela, porque esse tipo de timing \u00e9 <\/span>sempre <\/i><\/b>certo!<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It is a well-known fact that timing is something that none of us can affect. I bet all of you had a situation in your lives when you met an amazing guy but he was already taken. Or you got close to the person who became your friend in a very short time but he…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":5826,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5825","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/StockSnap_EPF8FMHVS5.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5825","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5825"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5825\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5826"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5825"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5825"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5825"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}