{"id":5845,"date":"2020-05-29T13:38:48","date_gmt":"2020-05-29T13:38:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5845"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:07:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:07:35","slug":"7-sinais-de-que-es-apenas-uma-opcao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-sinais-de-que-es-apenas-uma-opcao\/","title":{"rendered":"7 sinais de que voc\u00ea \u00e9 apenas uma op\u00e7\u00e3o para ele"},"content":{"rendered":"

At some point in life, you’ve been on someone’s hook. He dragged you along because he probably had someone else in his plan and you were there just as an option\u2014in case his original plans didn\u2019t go through.<\/p>\r\n

You were never the first thing on his mind. Yeah I know it\u2019s easy to talk about it when it\u2019s all over.<\/p>\r\n

But when it\u2019s actually happening to you, you don\u2019t see it. Maybe you do see it, but you don\u2019t want to admit it.<\/p>\r\n

E porque \u00e9 que o faria? No one wants to be anyone\u2019s second choice. <\/a>But time will catch up with you and show you how unstable the ground you\u2019re standing on is.<\/p>\r\n

You\u2019ll see that you made a huge mistake. If you don\u2019t already, check out the signs you\u2019re just an option that will confirm what you\u2019ve been doubting for some time now.<\/p>\r\n

He doesn\u2019t make plans<\/h2>\r\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\r\n

You never know where you\u2019re standing. He never makes plans or commits to you, because he knows something better may come up any second.<\/p>\r\n

Por melhor, refiro-me \u00e0quele que \u00e9 mais importante do que tu. Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o espont\u00e2nea \u00e9 divertida, mas ser espont\u00e2neo e pouco fi\u00e1vel a toda a hora pode ser um pouco suspeito.<\/p>\r\n

Ele abandona-te<\/h2>\r\n

\"homem<\/p>\r\n

This is closely connected to the first one. Even if he makes any plans with you, he will bail on you at the last minute. And he won\u2019t feel any guilt. Your feelings are not important to him.<\/p>\r\n

The only thing that matters is that he gets what he wants. Sometimes when he doesn\u2019t, he settles for you. Do you want to be someone\u2019s second choice?<\/p>\r\n

He\u2019s hot \u2019n\u2019 cold<\/h2>\r\n

\"mulher<\/p>\r\n

His opinions change all the time. One day he is totally in love with you and he wants to give you the world, but the next day, he totally ignores you\u2014I mean watching trees grow in a park would be his choice over you.<\/p>\r\n

This is why this topic is so tricky. You get all these mixed signals and you don\u2019t know how to act anymore. Is he or isn\u2019t he?<\/p>\r\n

He didn\u2019t define your relationship<\/h2>\r\n

\"mulher<\/p>\r\n

Voc\u00eas os dois n\u00e3o est\u00e3o rotulados. Ele recusa-se a dar um nome ao que quer que seja que se esteja a passar entre voc\u00eas os dois.<\/p>\r\n

You know why? Because your name would be\u2014The Other One.<\/p>\r\n

And you probably wouldn\u2019t be comfortable with that. Even when you bring up this issue, he does anything in his power to simply ignore and avoid it.<\/p>\r\n

Ele s\u00f3 quer uma coisa de ti<\/h2>\r\n

\"homem<\/p>\r\n

When he\u2019s \u2018in the mood\u2019, he\u2019ll run to you. Do you really want to be his booty call?<\/p>\r\n

Remember that you are on the other side of the relationship\u2014you are the one who is left alone after he\u2019s done with you. And he moves on with his life until the next time he gets a hard-on.<\/p>\r\n

You are the only one who\u2019s trying<\/h2>\r\n

\"O<\/p>\r\n

He doesn\u2019t put any effort in your relationship. He\u2019s not even trying.<\/p>\r\n

If you succeed in talking him into a date and he doesn\u2019t cancel at the last minute, you are the one who has to take care of everything\u2014how you\u2019re going to get there and where are you going to go. He leaves everything up to you.<\/p>\r\n

He’s constantly making excuses<\/h2>\r\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\r\n

Every time you ask him why he didn\u2019t make it on your date, why he called it off, or why he was late, he always has an excuse.<\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s remarkable. So many coincidences happen to just the same guy.<\/p>\r\n

If you care about yourself, let him know you\u2019re sick and tired of hearing those empty words. Congratulate him on his imagination and dump his sorry ass.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

\"7<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

At some point in life, you’ve been on someone’s hook. He dragged you along because he probably had someone else in his plan and you were there just as an option\u2014in case his original plans didn\u2019t go through. You were never the first thing on his mind. Yeah I know it\u2019s easy to talk about…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":84889,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5845","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/7-Signs-Youre-Just-An-Option-To-Him.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5845","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5845"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5845\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/84889"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5845"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5845"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5845"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}