{"id":58536,"date":"2020-04-01T21:36:00","date_gmt":"2020-04-01T21:36:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=58536"},"modified":"2022-02-27T13:35:38","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T13:35:38","slug":"estou-farto-de-tentar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/estou-farto-de-tentar\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o estou cansado de amar, estou cansado de tentar"},"content":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m done trying to fix you. I\u2019m done being the last one on the list. I\u2019m done being an option, a routine call or desculpe, esqueci-me.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m tired of feeling miserable after realizing you weren\u2019t even thinking about me when I was counting on you. It\u2019s so disappointing.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m tired of getting my hopes up just to be let down soon after. I\u2019m tired of believing half-truths and holding on to nothing.<\/p>\n

If you have no motivation to show me you care for me, just be honest about it. There\u2019s no need to avoid my questions and talk about the least important topics while I\u2019m waiting for a single sign you actually care.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to wake up beside a man who can never tell if I\u2019m sad or comfort me. I don\u2019t want to wake up thinking I\u2019m not good enough.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Eu estava contigo porque eras especial para mim e pensei que esse sentimento era m\u00fatuo. Infelizmente, enganei-me.<\/p>\n

Tive de me decidir. Because you didn\u2019t<\/em>.<\/strong> Estavas sempre \u00e0 espera que eu desse o primeiro passo, que fizesse alguma coisa.<\/p>\n

When I love, I love hard; there\u2019s no second-guessing, there\u2019s no indecision. I do everything for the one I love. I wish I could say the same about you.<\/p>\n

From day one, you were misleading me; you talked about the future and plans and I was in awe. Unfortunately, I didn\u2019t know that was just a weak projection of your weak ego.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not here to be taken for granted. I\u2019m here to spend my life with someone who will show me I\u2019m rare and treat me like I deserve to be treated.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not scared of loving but wasting my time on someone who doesn\u2019t love me back.<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o desistir facilmente fez-me perder a minha energia com as mesmas coisas vezes sem conta. Tornou-se cansativo.<\/p>\n

When someone loves you, your energy is regenerated; they give love back. It\u2019s not expendable.<\/p>\n

True love shouldn\u2019t be begged for or ignored. Your indifference and lack of effort made me let go.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Deixar ir fez-me perceber o qu\u00e3o in\u00fatil era a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Instead of respecting myself and seeing my worth, I spent a significant amount of my life caring for something that wasn\u2019t even real; not for you anyway.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not a babysitter, I\u2019m a woman<\/em>; I can\u2019t and won\u2019t tell you what to do and how to live your life. You\u2019re um homem adulto<\/a> e espero que ajas como tal.<\/p>\n

I lost my precious time and energy on a guy who didn\u2019t have the courage to love me as I deserve to be loved. I hope others can learn from my mistakes.<\/p>\n

Now I know I\u2019m worthy of a love that\u2019s encompassing and unconditional. I\u2019m worthy of being accepted as I am.<\/p>\n

I learned my lesson and I\u2019m ready to move on. It\u2019s going to hurt but I know that\u2019s the best for me.<\/p>\n

Despite everything, I didn\u2019t lose hope.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I still believe that someday I\u2019ll meet a guy who is going to be perfect for me but the thing is, he will have to find me because I\u2019m done trying, searching and doing a man\u2019s job.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Se me queres, mostra-me e torna-o claro.<\/p>\n

I refuse to be a victim of someone\u2019s ignorance and selfishness. I have my own needs and next time, I will insist my partner puts in the effort to meet them.<\/p>\n

I want a man who will respect me and recognize that I\u2019m worth dying for.<\/p>\n

Quero um andar ou morrer<\/em> love, passion. A man who\u2019s going to be my backbone and my strength, someone I can count on.<\/p>\n

I want a radical love because I\u2019m ready for it. Only this time, I\u2019m starting with myself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m done trying to fix you. I\u2019m done being the last one on the list. I\u2019m done being an option, a routine call or sorry I forgot. I\u2019m tired of feeling miserable after realizing you weren\u2019t even thinking about me when I was counting on you. It\u2019s so disappointing. I\u2019m tired of getting my hopes…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":58554,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-58536","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Im-Not-Tired-Of-Loving-Im-Tired-Of-Trying.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/58536","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=58536"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/58536\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/58554"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=58536"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=58536"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=58536"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}