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<\/p>\nEra uma vez uma rapariga que sentia que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o podia lutar.<\/p>\n
Que sentia que toda a energia se tinha esgotado nela. Sentia-se cansada, doente, indiferente.<\/p>\n
There was this boy. There\u2019s ALWAYS a boy. He made her sink deep down into the abyss. The great, black hole swallowed her.<\/p>\n
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Quando ela queria rir, ele fazia-a chorar.<\/em><\/p>\n Quando ela queria cantar, ele obrigava-a a ficar em sil\u00eancio.<\/em><\/p>\n Quando ela estava prestes a dan\u00e7ar, ele pisou-lhe os p\u00e9s.<\/em><\/p>\n Nothing beautiful ever came from him. Inspiration, love, trust, romance – they were never a part of her life with him.<\/p>\n Ela nunca poderia confiar que ele faria a coisa certa, que diria as palavras certas, que faria uma promessa a ela e a cumpriria.<\/p>\n Tudo o que ela recebia eram palavras insens\u00edveis e duras e ilus\u00f5es vazias de como seria a sua vida no futuro, o seu futuro com ele. S\u00f3 de pensar nisso, ficava doente do est\u00f4mago.<\/p>\n O seu papel egoc\u00eantrico e sem emo\u00e7\u00f5es na vida dela tornou-se t\u00e3o esmagador, t\u00e3o poderoso que parecia n\u00e3o haver sa\u00edda do ciclo t\u00f3xico em que ela se encontrava com ele.<\/p>\n Nada do que ela fizesse era suficientemente bom. Ele tinha opini\u00f5es sobre tudo o que ela escolhia fazer, todas as formas simples como ela se comportava.<\/p>\n She didn\u2019t manage to see past the image he had created of her. <\/strong>Mas algo mudou. Alguma coisa fez clique.<\/p>\n She knows her story. She knows how far she has come. She won\u2019t let him dictate her life any longer.<\/em><\/p>\n Ela estava \u00e0 procura de uma pessoa para mudar a sua vida e quando percebeu que o melhor s\u00edtio para se olhar era no espelho, tudo come\u00e7ou a ser muito, muito melhor. Esse foi o primeiro passo.<\/p>\n Step two – was getting rid of the maniac who was ruining her life second by second, day by day, pulling her deeper into his web of controlling behavior.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o havia o terceiro passo. Dois passos simples para fazer a vida dela florescer. Ele tinha-a feito passar pelo inferno, mas agora ela estava no c\u00e9u.<\/p>\n Ela sabia que era suficiente. Inteligente o suficiente, bonita o suficiente, carinhosa o suficiente. Ela nunca tinha sido suficiente para ele.<\/p>\n Ela sabia que precisava de um bom homem. Aprendeu a afastar-se dos rapazes maus.<\/p>\n Era um rapaz mau que, durante um curto per\u00edodo de tempo, pareceu uma \u00f3ptima escolha.<\/p>\n Ela sabia agora que merecia algu\u00e9m que estivesse confiante no seu amor por ela. <\/strong><\/p>\n Someone who wouldn\u2019t test her, someone who wouldn\u2019t give her a trial only position in their relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ela sabia que precisava de algu\u00e9m que valorizasse o seu tempo em vez de o desperdi\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n Someone who wasn\u2019t too busy for her. A boy who missed her when she was gone – as simple as that.<\/p>\n Ela j\u00e1 n\u00e3o queria ser um plano de reserva. O seu homem tinha de ter a certeza de que ela era a tal, n\u00e3o a segunda melhor.<\/p>\n She wasn\u2019t someone he\u2019d settle for, she was his absolute best.<\/strong><\/p>\n She deserved someone who\u2019d fight for her, not someone who would throw in the towel like she was no longer an option.<\/p>\n Algu\u00e9m que se preocupasse. Ela queria encontrar algo especial. Ela queria sentir-se completa novamente.<\/p>\n Ela precisava de algu\u00e9m que apreciasse tudo o que ela \u00e9. Ela s\u00f3 queria ser ela pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n Ela precisava de sentir confian\u00e7a. Precisava de n\u00e3o se preocupar com o facto de o seu filho a deixar doente ao fazer algo que ela nunca poderia esquecer.<\/p>\n Ela precisava da calma de confiar completamente em algu\u00e9m. Depois de se ter reerguido das cinzas, apercebeu-se do que procurava.<\/p>\n She was looking for someone who was the complete opposite of him. Someone who wasn\u2019t like him in any way, because everything he ever did was awful.<\/p>\n She was looking for love. Commitment. Healthy communication. And, let me tell you something – she sure found it.<\/p>\n A sua alma g\u00e9mea estava mesmo ao virar da esquina, \u00e0 sua espera, mais perto do que alguma vez poderia ter imaginado.<\/em><\/p>\n Se ela nunca tivesse tido a for\u00e7a para romper com o seu terr\u00edvel passado, ele teria esperado em v\u00e3o.<\/p>\n She realized that life doesn\u2019t get better by chance but by change. He sure put her through hell but now, now she was in heaven.<\/p>\n Uma coisa era certa:<\/p>\n De forma alguma o seu futuro glorioso poderia ter sido previsto pelo seu passado devastador.<\/em><\/p>\n Once upon a time, there was a girl who felt like she could no longer fight. Who felt like all the energy had drained out of her. She felt tired, sick, indifferent. There was this boy. There\u2019s ALWAYS a boy. He made her sink deep down into the abyss. The great, black hole swallowed her….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":58593,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-58592","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/He-Put-Her-Through-Hell-But-She-Managed-To-Find-Heaven-Without-Him-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/58592","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=58592"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/58592\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/58593"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=58592"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=58592"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=58592"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-hat-on-sunset.jpg\")
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