You can\u2019t force someone to be with you, but<\/strong> um homem que te ama fica contigo<\/b><\/a> n\u00e3o importa o que aconte\u00e7a.<\/strong><\/p>\n Se quiser descobrir se mudou negativamente na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, pergunte a si pr\u00f3prio se se identifica com alguma das seguintes situa\u00e7\u00f5es:<\/p>\n If you want to show your man how much you appreciate him, of course you\u2019ll put him ahead of your own needs sometimes.<\/p>\n You want to make him happy so you\u2019ll do something that he likes, even if you don\u2019t like it.<\/p>\n But if you always do that, it means that you\u2019re not caring for yourself the way you used to.<\/p>\n Your partner has become the center of your universe (that\u2019s nice, don\u2019t get me wrong) and you have forgotten about all your own needs and wishes.<\/p>\n Tenha cuidado, o seu homem pode habituar-se a isto e tamb\u00e9m pode gostar. <\/strong><\/p>\n If he realizes what\u2019s happening, he may appreciate you less because he\u2019ll see that you don\u2019t appreciate yourself enough to stay true to yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n You want to know your partner\u2019s opinion about everything you do, and you\u2019ll change your mind if he is not okay with it.<\/p>\n You\u2019ll even ask him his opinion about what clothes to wear and if he says that your choice isn\u2019t the best, you\u2019ll immediately change your clothes.<\/p>\n Isto pode tornar-se muito perigoso porque ele poderia habituar-se a aprovar<\/span><\/a> todas as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es e a sua apar\u00eancia.<\/p>\n Uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o como esta pode levar a que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o se torne t\u00f3xica e pode acabar por se culpar por n\u00e3o ser suficientemente bom.<\/p>\n A sua moral \u00e9 o que o define. O que seria de si sem eles, ou se eles est\u00e3o constantemente a mudar? Seria realmente a mesma pessoa?<\/strong><\/p>\n You think it\u2019s okay to neglect and change your beliefs and morals because of the man you love.<\/p>\n You\u2019ll do everything necessary to be with him, even if it means that you have to change the most important thing about yourself.<\/p>\n If you lose yourself this way, you won\u2019t be able to fully enjoy your relationship.<\/p>\n Por vezes, pensa em mudar a sua moral s\u00f3 para evitar uma discuss\u00e3o com ele. Tem medo de entrar em conflito com ele, caso ele a deixe.<\/p>\n Bem, se o fizer, isso significa quehe doesn\u2019t deserve you<\/span><\/a> because he thinks that your opinion doesn\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n You\u2019ve always talked about your feelings and you don\u2019t regret it. You\u2019ve even encouraged others to do the same.<\/p>\n So, what\u2019s happened? Why are you keeping quiet now?<\/p>\n I\u2019ll tell you what\u2019s happened: Your fear of losing the man you love. You are afraid that if you talk with him about what\u2019s bothering you, he won\u2019t understand or he\u2019ll be angry.<\/p>\n A express\u00e3o de sentimentos \u00e9 a parte mais importante de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Ajuda-nos a lidar com os problemas.<\/p>\n Instead, you\u2019ve chosen to bury your feelings. Like that will make them go away.<\/p>\n It won\u2019t. You\u2019ll feel stressed and uncomfortable, but you\u2019ll deal with all the negative emotions because you think that opening up to your partner could be risky for your relationship.<\/p>\n Mais uma vez, esta \u00e9 uma das coisas que se faz porque you are afraid he\u2019ll leave<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n Come\u00e7a a duvidar da sua lealdade. At\u00e9 encontra uma pequena prova e o seu instinto diz-lhe que h\u00e1 algo de errado.<\/p>\n Ele come\u00e7a a chegar tarde a casa e voc\u00ea come\u00e7a a duvidar ainda mais de que ele n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a ser fiel a si.<\/p>\n But somehow, you\u2019ll choose to ignore all of the signs and to mute your intuition because you don\u2019t want to argue with him. You want to believe that he loves you the same way you love him.<\/p>\n Your self-esteem is compromised by everything you let your partner do for you. You don\u2019t see yourself the way you used to. Now, the feeling of not being good enough is always with you.<\/p>\n You\u2019ve become totally dependent on your partner because you are not sure that you\u2019ll do anything well by yourself.<\/p>\n Your self-love is also compromised by lots of new changes. You don\u2019t feel comfortable in your own skin anymore.<\/p>\n Estes novos sentimentos s\u00e3o desagrad\u00e1veis para si e pode levar meses at\u00e9 voltar a apaixonar-se por si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n You are in a relationship, not in a prison. So, why don\u2019t you continue to hang out with your friends? Remember, they #were there for you before your boyfriend.<\/strong><\/p>\n People grow up and drift apart – that\u2019s normal. But if you are able to keep your friendships you really should.<\/p>\n Deves estar grato aos teus amigos por tudo o que passaram juntos, por todas as belas mem\u00f3rias de inf\u00e2ncia que criaram juntos.<\/p>\n Lembra-se de como estava cheio de sonhos e paix\u00f5es para o futuro? Agora que<\/p>\n has all changed. You\u2019ve put it all on hold because you want him to succeed first. You can wait a few years.<\/p>\n Pergunte a si pr\u00f3prio: o jovem de 16 anos estaria satisfeito consigo agora? Se a resposta for N\u00c3O, ent\u00e3o, por favor, comece a mudar o seu comportamento.<\/p>\n Tens de trabalhar para tornar os teus sonhos realidade. Deve-o a si pr\u00f3pria. Deve-o \u00e0quela menina que estudou muito porque queria terminar a escola e tornar-se uma mulher de sucesso.<\/p>\n It\u2019s your choice but remember how long you have waited for a good opportunity like this. If it really is true love, a long-distance relationship shouldn\u2019t be a threat.<\/p>\n O velho tu aceitaria de bom grado a fant\u00e1stica oportunidade, sem pensar duas vezes.<\/p>\n As we\u2019ve already said, you\u2019ll do whatever you can to avoid conflict. Most of the time you just shut up and let him say what he wants.<\/p>\n Every time you have an argument with your man, you immediately start crying. All you can think about is how he\u2019ll leave you.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t want to argue with him because you are com medo de como o combate vai acabar<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n When you are hanging out with your besties, don\u2019t talk about your man all the time. They\u2019ll think that you are too clingy and that you can\u2019t be without him for even a minute.<\/p>\n It will seem like you don\u2019t have any other things in life except him. And that\u2019s not true.<\/p>\n You still have many interesting things in your life to talk about with your friends, you\u2019ve just forgotten about all of them because you\u2019ve put your SO at the center of your universe.<\/p>\n1. You ALWAYS put your partner\u2019s needs ahead of yours<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n2. Procura a aprova\u00e7\u00e3o do seu homem para tudo o que quer fazer<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n3. Trai a sua moral por causa dele<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Mant\u00e9m-se calado sobre o que sente<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n5. Ignora a sua intui\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n6. A tua confian\u00e7a est\u00e1 abalada<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n7. Esqueces-te dos teus velhos amigos<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n8. Coloca os seus sonhos e objectivos em espera<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n9. Deixas passar oportunidades de emprego para ele<\/h2>\n
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\nYou\u2019ve finally gotten a good job offer but decided that you won\u2019t accept it because you\u2019ll be miles away from your significant other.<\/p>\n10. You can\u2019t stand it when you argue with your man<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n11. Est\u00e1s sempre a falar dele e da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nPara terminar<\/h2>\n
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\nSe se identifica com algum destes sinais, ent\u00e3o esta \u00e9 a sua chamada de aten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n
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