{"id":58852,"date":"2020-04-02T22:36:19","date_gmt":"2020-04-02T22:36:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=58852"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:45:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:45:17","slug":"pergunto-me-se-as-coisas-seriam-diferentes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/pergunto-me-se-as-coisas-seriam-diferentes\/","title":{"rendered":"Pergunto-me se as coisas seriam diferentes se nos encontr\u00e1ssemos de novo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Desde que nos separ\u00e1mos, esforcei-me ao m\u00e1ximo para n\u00e3o pensar no potencial que a nossa hist\u00f3ria de amor tinha.<\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7o o meu melhor para n\u00e3o pensar em tudo aquilo em que nos pod\u00edamos ter tornado e em tudo o que pod\u00edamos, dev\u00edamos e pod\u00edamos ter feito.<\/p>\n

However, I don\u2019t always succeed. There are moments when I can\u2019t help myself so I end up tripping on how happy we could be.<\/p>\n

E n\u00e3o \u00e9 s\u00f3 isso: Muitas vezes apanho-me a pensar no que aconteceria se os nossos caminhos se cruzassem mais uma vez.<\/p>\n

E se tiv\u00e9ssemos outra oportunidade de corrigir os nossos erros e de fazer as coisas bem?<\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Desperdi\u00e7ar\u00edamos a oportunidade? Ou aproveit\u00e1-la-\u00edamos da melhor forma, gratos por a vida nos ter dado outra oportunidade de sermos felizes ao lado um do outro?<\/p>\n

As much as I try to avoid having this meaningless conversation with myself, there are times when I can\u2019t help but wonder: est\u00e1vamos errados ou o momento estava errado?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ser\u00edamos n\u00f3s demasiado imaturos para lidar com a magnitude do amor que nos foi enviado ou ser\u00edamos n\u00f3s apenas n\u00e3o \u00e9 para ser<\/a> desde o in\u00edcio?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Talvez o tiv\u00e9ssemos conseguido se nos tiv\u00e9ssemos conhecido em circunst\u00e2ncias de vida diferentes.<\/p>\n

Talvez tudo tivesse corrido de forma diferente se o momento tivesse sido o correto: se f\u00f4ssemos mais velhos e tiv\u00e9ssemos a experi\u00eancia que temos agora.<\/p>\n

Talvez tudo fosse diferente se nos encontr\u00e1ssemos agora, depois de todo este tempo<\/strong>. Acham que ter\u00edamos alguma hip\u00f3tese?<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

After all, we\u2019re wiser, smarter, and more mature than we used to be, so I assume that we wouldn\u2019t let each other go so easily.<\/p>\n

Back then, we didn\u2019t appreciate each other and were convinced that we would find another romance just like ours right around the corner.<\/p>\n

We didn\u2019t know that what we had was more than special\u2013that it was a once in a lifetime kind of love and that we\u2019d spend all our time afterward looking for each other in everyone we encountered.<\/p>\n

Pens\u00e1mos que o amor era suficiente para que tudo fosse perfeito.<\/p>\n

Pens\u00e1mos que as borboletas durariam para sempre e que era o fim quando desapareciam.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I guess we were too immature to be aware of real life: we didn\u2019t know that amor verdadeiro<\/a> needs fighting and building and that it\u2019s much more than being crazy about each other all the time.<\/p>\n

Talvez estiv\u00e9ssemos destinados a seguir caminhos separados antes de nos voltarmos a encontrar. Crescer individualmente antes de podermos crescer juntos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Maybe we had to spend some time apart, to find ourselves before finding each other. Maybe we had to part ways in order to cross one another\u2019s paths as better and improved versions of the immature kids we once were.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 poss\u00edvel que Deus nos tenha separado durante algum tempo porque era a \u00fanica maneira de nos unir para sempre no futuro?<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Que Ele nos fez passar por todas estas dificuldades para que aprend\u00eassemos a apreciar-nos uns aos outros, de uma forma que nunca t\u00ednhamos feito antes?<\/p>\n

Talvez fosse suposto conhecermos todos aqueles pessoas erradas<\/a> s\u00f3 para perceber que \u00e9ramos os \u00fanicos certos um para o outro desde o in\u00edcio.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Talvez eu devesse ter tentado amar todos esses homens s\u00f3 para ver que tu \u00e9s o \u00fanico no meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Talvez devesses ter dormido com todas aquelas mulheres s\u00f3 para ver que eu n\u00e3o estava em lado nenhum.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Maybe we should have felt each other\u2019s absence because it\u2019s the only way to appreciate our presence.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Ou estou apenas a inventar coisas? Estarei a imaginar tudo e a transformar a nossa hist\u00f3ria de amor num conto de fadas sem fim, s\u00f3 para me confortar?<\/p>\n

Estarei apenas a mentir a mim pr\u00f3prio? Estarei a fugir da verdade e a recusar-me a aceitar que j\u00e1 acab\u00e1mos h\u00e1 muito tempo, que o nosso momento j\u00e1 passou e que o passado nunca mais vai voltar?<\/p>\n

Have I been delusional for all these years? Or I am holding on to all of this because deep down, something is telling me it\u2019s the real deal?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Either way, I do know one thing: whether this is just false hope or my intuition, it\u2019s the only thing keeping me sane and emotionally alive.<\/p>\n

\"Pergunto-me<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ever since we parted ways, I\u2019ve really tried my hardest not to think about the potential our love story had. I do my best not to think of everything we could have become and all the could haves, should haves, and might haves. However, I don\u2019t always succeed. There are moments when I can\u2019t help…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":58856,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-58852","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Wonder-If-Things-Would-Be-Different-If-We-Met-Again.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/58852","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=58852"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/58852\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/58856"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=58852"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=58852"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=58852"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}