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<\/p>\nSo, pay special attention to their answer because you might be surpriseSo, you met someone on a random dating site (like Tinder), via mutual friends, in a library or someplace else and now you’re preparing for your first date with them.<\/p>\n
Woohoo! I can imagine the level of excitement that’s overwhelming your mind and body because first dates are not like any other dates.<\/p>\n
Lord knows that first dates can be really awkward but at the same time, so exciting because everything’s new and the idea of learning some interesting things about that one special person is really appealing.<\/p>\n
You can’t wait for the moment to finally meet them but at the same time, you’re anxious and stressed about all those details that you need to pay attention to (especially if you’re an overthinker like myself).<\/p>\n
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You suddenly realize that you’ve got nothing to wear even though your wardrobe is full of everything (this is especially true for women\u2014speaking from experience).<\/p>\n
It’s a syndrome called \u2018wardrobe full of clothes but nothing to wear\u2019.<\/p>\n
You don’t want to appear too casual but you also don’t want to be dressed like someone who is attending a ball.<\/p>\n
So, after a few hours (in the best case scenario) of contemplating, trying and retrying clothes and seeking other people’s opinions, you finally find that one perfect outfit for your primeiro encontro<\/a>.<\/p>\n After that comes another annoying part that consists of all those details regarding your make-up and other elements (if you’re a woman), your type of beard (if you’re a man) and your hairstyle.<\/p>\n Again, you don’t want to overdo it but you also don’t want your date to think that you haven’t really made an effort.<\/p>\n And when you finally think that you’re ready (even though this was just a trial because your real date is in a few days), you realize that there is a bigger issue than your physical appearance and that is date ideas and more importantly, things to talk about on a first date.<\/p>\n As with clothes, you don’t want to overdo your first date conversation by asking too sensitive first date questions or ruining the moment with awkward ice-breakers.<\/p>\n Quer evitar a todo o custo potenciais sil\u00eancios embara\u00e7osos e manter a conversa em curso<\/a> because you know that you wouldn’t survive the amount of anxiety in the air while sitting next to a stranger and listening to the sound of silence.<\/p>\n Quer fazer as perguntas certas que lhe dir\u00e3o se partilham interesses comuns, que tipo de pessoa \u00e9 e tamb\u00e9m quer ter a certeza de que um segundo encontro acontece (claro, se gostar mesmo do rapaz\/rapariga).<\/p>\n You don’t want your conversation to be dull but you want to have an interesting conversation with your date so that they see how witty and inspiring you truly are!<\/p>\n To help you with all that, here is a list of interesting things to talk about on a first date and impress your date, aka potential partner. So, let’s see!<\/p>\n Ver tamb\u00e9m: Como confirmar um encontro: 9 dicas e exemplos de textos<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Coisas para falar num primeiro encontro<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n This is a great first date conversation starter because it reflects on the present and things they’ve done recently.<\/p>\n It will be an easy one for your date to answer and it will tell you about their current mood, their lifestyle and things that they’re focused on at the moment.<\/p>\n E o melhor de tudo \u00e9 que, depois de responderem, \u00e9 muito prov\u00e1vel que lhe fa\u00e7am a mesma pergunta.<\/p>\n Por isso, tem todo o tempo do mundo para se preparar com anteced\u00eancia e impression\u00e1-los com a sua atitude positiva!<\/p>\n Asking your date about the things they like most about living there is a good first date question and you can’t go wrong with it.<\/p>\n Esta pergunta revelar\u00e1 as suas prefer\u00eancias, actividades e estilo de vida.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, permitir\u00e1 saber se partilham a mesma perspetiva sobre o local onde vivem e se t\u00eam algumas actividades comuns que podem fazer juntos.<\/p>\n Por exemplo, se ele gosta de passar tempo num determinado s\u00edtio de que voc\u00ea tamb\u00e9m gosta, n\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de o informar, para que possam ter um segundo encontro<\/a> garantido.<\/p>\n De acordo com a minha experi\u00eancia pessoal, existem dois tipos de pessoas no mundo: os viciados em televis\u00e3o e os aventureiros.<\/p>\n A verdade \u00e9 que tamb\u00e9m h\u00e1 pessoas que se encontram algures no meio, mas j\u00e1 perceberam a ideia.<\/p>\n So, by asking this question, you’ll definitely know which type of people they belong to.<\/p>\n If they answer nowhere (or something similar that doesn’t really give you a specific answer) then you know their levels of adventure, excitement and ambition are really low.<\/p>\n But if they give you a specific answer explaining where they would want to go and why, then you know that they have dreams and they’re an adventurist by nature.<\/p>\n If you see that spark in their eyes while describing their favorite place in the world, then you can be sure that they’re a unique and inspiring individual with their own dreams and wishes.<\/p>\n Diz-se que somos aqueles com quem convivemos. Por isso, descobrir com quem \u00e9 que o seu par passa a maior parte do tempo ser\u00e1 uma coisa valiosa a saber de certeza.<\/p>\n Se a pessoa com quem passam mais tempo \u00e9 um familiar, o melhor amigo ou outra pessoa, pode fazer uma pergunta de seguimento para descrever essa pessoa.<\/p>\n Learning about that one person will help you understand your date because there’s a reason why they spend so much time with them.<\/p>\n They probably have many things in common, so all you need to do is pay attention to the words coming out of your date’s mouth and you’ll figure it out real quick!<\/p>\n Em vez de perguntar ao seu par sobre o seu emprego atual, perguntar-lhe sobre o seu emprego de sonho \u00e9 uma alternativa melhor, porque englobar\u00e1 ambos.<\/p>\n If their current job is their dream job (even though the likelihood of that is not that high), they’ll tell you that.<\/p>\n Most importantly, you will learn what they’re into and what they’re passionate about and what kind of person they are.<\/p>\n H\u00e1 pessoas para quem um emprego de sonho seria estar sentado sem fazer nada, enquanto h\u00e1 tamb\u00e9m quem veja um emprego de sonho como uma oportunidade para criar, ajudar os outros, melhorar as coisas ou inventar algo novo.<\/p>\n You definitely want to avoid the first type of people and focus on the second one because you don’t want to end up being in a relationship with a couch potato who lacks ambition and motivation.<\/p>\n Ver tamb\u00e9m: 6 ideias fant\u00e1sticas para o primeiro encontro<\/a><\/p>\n Bucket lists are always so much fun! It’s really exciting to learn about your date’s wishes, dreams, fantasies and goals.<\/p>\n A partir de uma lista de desejos, pode aprender muito sobre a sua verdadeira personalidade e prioridades.<\/p>\n And you can also learn whether you share some things on your bucket list which means one thing\u2014doing it together one day (or at least fantasizing about doing that one thing from your bucket list together until it really happens).<\/p>\n Now, if your date doesn’t have a bucket list and they can’t remember a single thing they would want to do in life, then you know that you’re dealing with someone who is not that enthusiastic about life and its charms.<\/p>\n Esta \u00e9, sem d\u00favida, uma das melhores coisas para falar num primeiro encontro. Se quer que o seu par lhe diga algo realmente excitante e interessante sobre ele, ent\u00e3o deve fazer esta pergunta!<\/p>\n Esta \u00e9 uma forma indireta de lhes pedir que lhe digam algo invulgar sobre eles, algo que os torne \u00fanicos e que acentue a sua personalidade.<\/p>\n And it could be just about anything. From a specific taste in music or movies or their secret hobby to some big achievements that they don’t really brag about.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, tem de estar preparado para responder a esta pergunta, porque \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que lhe perguntem a mesma coisa!<\/p>\n \u00c9 dar um passeio, fazer piqueniques, correr, sentar-se num parque ou outra atividade?<\/p>\n Finding out about your date’s favorite thing to do outdoors will let you know which activity they prefer most.<\/p>\n If it’s jogging, then you know they’re probably living a healthy lifestyle and trying to be active as much as possible.<\/p>\n If you’re into the same thing, it’s a perfect opportunity to let them know, so that you can share your ideas regarding such a lifestyle which is another topic guaranteed to keep both of you entertained.<\/p>\n Considero sempre esta pergunta especialmente importante porque seria uma verdadeira chatice se duas pessoas tivessem dificuldade em chegar a acordo sobre que filme ou programa de televis\u00e3o ver quando chega a hora do Netflix e relaxar ou a que concerto ir.<\/p>\n Also, a person’s taste in music or movies says a lot about them as well.<\/p>\n If they’re a hopeless romantic, they’ll prefer romantic comedies or something of the sort and if they’re listening to some specific music genre you have never heard of, then you know they definitely don’t follow trends and pay more attention to nourishing their own tastes.<\/p>\n Em tempos de tecnologia avan\u00e7ada e redes sociais<\/a>, there isn’t a single person out there who hasn’t heard about the charms of this modern media.<\/p>\n Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, WhatsApp, Tumblr, Snapchat, etc.<\/p>\n Cada uma destas redes sociais \u00e9 \u00fanica e oferece experi\u00eancias diferentes.<\/p>\n Perguntar ao seu par qual \u00e9 a rede social em que ele passa mais tempo dir-lhe-\u00e1 onde o pode encontrar.<\/p>\n Se quiser manter-se atualizado com as suas hist\u00f3rias e publica\u00e7\u00f5es mais recentes, basta segui-los ou adicion\u00e1-los nessa rede social e divertir-se a conversar e a fazer parte da sua vida virtual.<\/p>\n Ver tamb\u00e9m: Como conquist\u00e1-lo no primeiro encontro, com base no seu signo do zod\u00edaco<\/a><\/p>\n A nossa fam\u00edlia \u00e9 uma parte importante da nossa vida e influenciou-nos muito para nos tornarmos na pessoa que somos hoje.<\/p>\n Pedir ao seu par que lhe fale da fam\u00edlia \u00e9 basicamente pedir-lhe que lhe fale do seu passado, da sua inf\u00e2ncia e das pessoas que o criaram.<\/p>\n O tipo de fam\u00edlia em que cresceram moldou os seus valores, a sua mentalidade e a sua perspetiva sobre determinadas coisas.<\/p>\n Assim, conhecer a sua fam\u00edlia ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a decifrar o tipo de pessoa que \u00e9, os valores que defende e muito mais.<\/p>\n This is another alternative to asking about their passions and the things they’re interested in.<\/p>\n Todos n\u00f3s passamos o nosso tempo livre de forma diferente. Alguns de n\u00f3s preferem ver Netflix at\u00e9 os olhos ficarem doridos, outros preferem estar com os amigos, ler um bom livro, etc.<\/p>\n If your date usually spends their free time hanging out with their friends and family and outdoors, chances are they’re an extrovert by nature.<\/p>\n E se normalmente passa o seu tempo livre a ler um livro, a jogar ou algo semelhante, ent\u00e3o pode ser um verdadeiro introvertido.<\/p>\n Both personalities have their own charms and if you’re the opposite of them this doesn’t mean that you won’t get along. After all, you know what they say: \u2018opposites attract\u2019.<\/p>\n Todos n\u00f3s temos prefer\u00eancias diferentes e ideias para um encontro perfeito<\/a>, so it would be really exciting to know your date’s perspective on that, right? You want to know whether they’re a romantic soul or the opposite of that.<\/p>\n So, if they describe their perfect date as one of the following: a walk on a beach at the time of a beautiful sunset, dinner with scented candles, on a desert island or another exotic place, then you can be sure that they’re the embodiment of a hopeless romantic.<\/p>\n E quem sabe, talvez a sua ideia de um encontro perfeito corresponda \u00e0 ideia deles, por isso, porque n\u00e3o experimentar no segundo encontro (se poss\u00edvel)?<\/p>\n Ah, those childhood memories… When I think of my own childhood memories, I have this mosaic of funny situations in my head because a child’s world is a source of unlimited fun and adventures.<\/p>\n Childhood memories are full of funny stories and some of them are so embarrassing or hilarious that you don’t want to share with just anyone, unless they insist, of course.<\/p>\n So, I bet you’re dying to hear your date’s favorite childhood memory so that you can continue sharing memories and probably die laughing.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, ao partilharem todas estas mem\u00f3rias da vossa inf\u00e2ncia, aprender\u00e3o muito um sobre o outro e estabelecer\u00e3o uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o a um n\u00edvel mais profundo.<\/p>\n This one’s a little bit of a tricky question (but of course, your date will not know that).<\/p>\n Ao perguntar-lhe sobre o seu melhor amigo, estar\u00e1 literalmente a pedir-lhe que fale sobre si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n Como? Porque a pessoa com quem mais convivem \u00e9 a pessoa que \u00e9 mais parecida com eles.<\/p>\n Afinal de contas, s\u00e3o os seus melhores amigos por uma raz\u00e3o. Eles apoiam a sua perspetiva das coisas e a sua personalidade, partilham tudo com eles e s\u00e3o uma parte importante da sua vida.<\/p>\n Por isso, preste aten\u00e7\u00e3o ao que dizem sobre o seu melhor amigo, porque a maior parte das coisas tamb\u00e9m se pode aplicar a si!<\/p>\n Ver tamb\u00e9m: A lista definitiva de conselhos para homens no primeiro encontro<\/a><\/p>\n \u00c9 sempre divertido falar sobre os problemas mais comuns porque, na maioria das vezes, s\u00e3o hilariantes e totalmente aleat\u00f3rios.<\/p>\n Other people’s pet peeves are usually those things that you never pay attention to (unless it\u2019s your pet peeve as well).<\/p>\n So, by finding out what’s that one thing (or a few things) that annoy your date, you will be prepared in the future not to do something they would find extremely annoying.<\/p>\n E posso garantir-vos que ambos se v\u00e3o rir \u00e0 gargalhada quando falarem sobre este assunto, por isso n\u00e3o o percam!<\/p>\n If your date has a pet (or pets), then you know for sure they’re an animal lover.<\/p>\n Now, this doesn’t mean that they’re not an animal lover if they don’t have any pets. You can conclude from the conversation and the type of their answer whether they like animals or not.<\/p>\n And if you yourself prefer specific pets like cats, finding out that you share this one thing with your date will mean a lot to you. After all, there’s a reason why people are often categorized as being a dog person or a cat person.<\/p>\n Belonging to a certain category means having specific characteristics when it comes to one’s personality!<\/p>\n Esta pergunta dir-lhe-\u00e1 se o seu par tem algumas paix\u00f5es que s\u00e3o talvez os seus passatempos ou talentos secretos<\/a> that you don’t know about.<\/p>\n Mais importante ainda, saber\u00e1 se o seu par \u00e9 movido pela paix\u00e3o, porque se diz que as pessoas apaixonadas s\u00e3o assim em todos os aspectos da sua vida (o que significa tamb\u00e9m na cama).<\/p>\n And I bet there’s nothing sexier than a homem apaixonado<\/a> ou um mulher apaixonada<\/a> que sabe o que quer e como se exprimir.<\/p>\n Estas pessoas s\u00e3o a maior fonte de inspira\u00e7\u00e3o, cria\u00e7\u00e3o e divers\u00e3o sem limites!<\/p>\n This is a legit way to find out about a person’s most valuable possessions without really asking them that directly, so you definitely don’t want to miss that one!<\/p>\n Perguntar ao seu par sobre as tr\u00eas coisas que levaria consigo para uma ilha deserta dir-lhe-\u00e1 quais s\u00e3o as tr\u00eas coisas mais importantes para ele.<\/p>\n These things are their priority and they literally wouldn’t survive without them, so they have to carry them everywhere where they go. So, pay special attention to their answer because you might be surprised!<\/p>\n We all have that one wish we want to make true but for some reason, we haven’t succeeded with it yet or it’s something that’s out of our power.<\/p>\n Esse desejo est\u00e1 normalmente ligado a um sonho n\u00e3o realizado, a uma prioridade ou paix\u00e3o e a algo que \u00e9 muito importante para n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n So, by asking your date about this one, you will know what their priority is\u2014something that they want so hard but haven’t achieved yet. Given that you’re meeting for the first time, avoid topics about your past relationships, money, religion, sexual experience and politics.<\/p>\n Don’t ask such questions because they would be too heavy (too much for the first meeting) and potentially awkward.<\/p>\n Por isso, de todas as dicas e ideias para o primeiro encontro acima referidas, eu acentuaria especialmente esta:<\/p>\n Don\u2019t try too hard to impress them because you\u2019re not at an audition and don’t ask too many questions at the time or in a mechanical manner as if they’re at a job interview.<\/p>\n Descontraia-se, divirta-se e aproveite cada segundo do seu primeiro encontro.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, preste aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 sua linguagem corporal e misture tudo com um pouco de provoca\u00e7\u00e3o e brincadeiras!<\/p>\n![\"mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-using-hair-brush-in-front-of-mirror.jpg\")
<\/p>\nEnt\u00e3o, de que falar no primeiro encontro?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n1. Como se sente hoje\/como foi o seu dia?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n2. O que \u00e9 que mais lhe agrada no facto de viver aqui?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n3. Se pudesses viajar para qualquer parte do mundo neste momento, para onde irias?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Com quem \u00e9 que passa mais tempo?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n5. What’s your dream job?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n6. What’s on your lista de desejos<\/a>?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n7. What’s something I would never guess about you?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n8. What’s your favorite thing to do outdoors?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n9. Quais s\u00e3o alguns dos teus programas de televis\u00e3o\/filmes\/can\u00e7\u00f5es\/podcasts preferidos?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n10. Em que rede social passa mais tempo e porqu\u00ea?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n11. Fale-me da sua fam\u00edlia<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n12. Como \u00e9 que normalmente passa o seu tempo livre?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n13. What\u2019s your idea of a perfect date?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n14. What’s your favorite childhood memory?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n15. What’s your best friend like?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n16. What\u2019s your biggest pet peeve?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n17. Tem animais de estima\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n18. Is there anything you\u2019re passionate about?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n19. Se tivesses de escolher tr\u00eas coisas para levar contigo para uma ilha deserta, quais seriam?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n20. Se tivesses um desejo, qual seria e porqu\u00ea?<\/h2>\n
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\nDica r\u00e1pida!<\/p>\nSeja genu\u00edno, seja voc\u00ea mesmo!<\/h2>\n
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