It’s <\/b>a <\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/b><\/a> between two people who can’t find common ground despite the strong feelings they share for each other. <\/b>They’re aware they can’t be together, but they also can’t walk away from each other…<\/p>\n It’s actually pretty simple; if you aren’t sure what <\/i>seu <\/i>estado de relacionamento<\/i><\/a> is at every moment, and if you don’t know where exactly you stand with your partner, you’re in a <\/i>rela\u00e7\u00e3o complicada<\/i>. Ponto final.<\/i><\/p>\n Quando uma pessoa est\u00e1 em <\/b>uma vida saud\u00e1vel e <\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o de sucesso<\/b><\/a>, they don’t have to bother about these things because they have a clear picture of their relationship at every moment. <\/b>E, se perguntas como esta come\u00e7arem a atorment\u00e1-los, simplesmente discutem o assunto com o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re in a relationship in which you\u2019re hesitant to call yourself a couple, I\u2019m afraid you fall into one of these categories that definitely indicate your relationship is complicated:<\/p>\n Seria \u00f3timo se houvesse um guia universal sobre como para construir uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de sucesso<\/a>Mas a realidade \u00e9 que n\u00e3o s\u00f3 n\u00e3o existe um guia, como tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o existem quaisquer regras. E, a circunst\u00e2ncia agravante \u00e9 que cada rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 diferente, tal como cada um de n\u00f3s \u00e9 diferente.<\/p>\n There\u2019s no right path. There\u2019s just a scarily big amount of small and narrow streets everywhere.<\/b><\/p>\n O amor \u00e9 confuso<\/i><\/a>… our feelings are messy. So, how on earth will relationships not be messy.<\/i><\/p>\n If you\u2019re in uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o on\/off<\/a>Como sabe, h\u00e1 uma s\u00e9rie de raz\u00f5es que levam as pessoas a separarem-se.<\/p>\n Pode dever-se a um conflito causado por caracter\u00edsticas pessoais diferentes (falta de compatibilidade), por um passado de vida, por estagna\u00e7\u00e3o ou ci\u00fame<\/a>, por exemplo.<\/p>\n One thing is for sure, though… The breakup is always followed by feelings of loneliness, missing the old habits, and lacking the comfort you had with your once significant other.<\/b><\/p>\n And, that\u2019s when things start to get complicated, and are usually followed by a reunion. That\u2019s where the roller coaster begins.<\/p>\n On\/off relationships are full of uncertainty, pain, and passion… It sounds like a good romance novel, doesn\u2019t it? However, this kind of relationship surely isn’t worth your efforts<\/a> e o seu precioso tempo.<\/p>\n No in\u00edcio, a ideia parece \u00f3ptima.<\/p>\n Gostam de se encontrar para um momento casual e sensual. Por que n\u00e3o?<\/p>\n Sem compromissos<\/b><\/a> parece um bom plano, mas, na realidade, n\u00e3o funciona. <\/b>One side is going to catch feelings sooner or later and the whole thing will turn into hell. Trust me, I\u2019ve seen it happen so many times.<\/i><\/p>\n Your sex lives may be great now but, pretty soon, a simple sentence like “We\u2019re just friends<\/a> and all of this between us is just a casual thing, right?” may sound heartbreaking to you.<\/p>\n You will stay neither friends nor lovers. You’ll end up hating each other and yourselves for engaging in such a type of relationship in the first place.<\/i><\/p>\n It\u2019s normal for human beings to feel other types of closeness after being physically close. <\/b>E, infelizmente, os amigos com benef\u00edcios<\/a> O termo pode muitas vezes significar fugir \u00e0s responsabilidades e agir de forma imprudente.<\/p>\n Antes de entrar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o deste tipo, \u00e9 preciso pensar nas consequ\u00eancias.<\/i><\/p>\n I know Mila Kunis looks like the coolest person on earth in that movie \u2018Amigos com benef\u00edcios<\/a>,\u2019 but even she catches feelings in the end. And, you don\u2019t want to be the one who\u2019s saying, “It\u2019s complicated<\/a>” or, way worse… you don’t want to be left heartbroken.<\/p>\n It\u2019s no secret that <\/i>rela\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/i><\/a> pode ser dif\u00edcil. Para ser bem sucedido, tem de se esfor\u00e7ar muito mais do que nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es normais.<\/i><\/p>\n Porqu\u00ea? A sua comunica\u00e7\u00e3o pode tornar-se cansativa. A vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o pode facilmente cair num <\/b>cio<\/b> and it’ll be impossible to <\/b>lidar com isso<\/b>… to get out of that <\/b>cio<\/b> e<\/b> salvar o teu amor<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n Por vezes, \u00e9 cansativo escrever ou falar sobre tudo o que aconteceu durante o dia, todos os dias. Em vez disso, queremos que eles estejam presentes quando tudo acontece.<\/p>\n They don\u2019t know your friends, you didn’t meet theirs either, and the fact is that friends represent a huge part of our lives.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t have the physical aspect of a relationship, and we can all agree that\u2019s pretty important.<\/b> Plus, you don\u2019t know when you\u2019re going to see each other, and it gets hard to live in uncertainty and anticipation.<\/p>\n Cada novo dia de vida em<\/i> a <\/i>rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/i> <\/a>torna-se mais dif\u00edcil.<\/i><\/p>\n Other than that, there are factors such as the financial burden or that there\u2019s no way for the relationship to progress. In that case, you should think about your future together realistically.<\/p>\n Vai funcionar ou n\u00e3o?<\/p>\n If you want it to work, both sides need to put immense effort into making it work, and also, they’ll need to take some risks. It’s possible to beat the distance… you only need to want it and fight for it enough.<\/p>\n This might sound strange, but think about it. Have you ever felt like your partner is hiding you or being unnecessarily secretive about your relationship? Like you’re amantes secretos<\/a>?<\/p>\n Nunca tiram fotografias consigo e, mesmo quando o fazem, nunca chegam ao seu <\/i>redes sociais<\/i> perfis. Nunca escrevem <\/i>legendas amorosas giras<\/i><\/a> ou marcar-te em publica\u00e7\u00f5es engra\u00e7adas. E, mesmo que queiras publicar uma fotografia tua, eles op\u00f5em-se fortemente.<\/i><\/p>\n If you\u2019re in a brand new relationship, that might be okay, but after some time, it tends to become suspicious. You feel like they don\u2019t appreciate you enough… like they are not proud to be yours.<\/p>\n It makes you feel like they’re having <\/b>segundas inten\u00e7\u00f5es <\/b><\/a>ou n\u00e3o o levar a s\u00e9rio.<\/b><\/p>\n To deal with it, you need to confront them and get to the bottom of their behavior. If their answers are vague and unsatisfying, that means they’re hiding something or they simply don’t care<\/a> suficiente.<\/b><\/p>\n A \u00faltima coisa que quer \u00e9 sentir-se como you’re just a hookup<\/a>. If you\u2019re into them and want uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura<\/a>, and they treat you like you’re something casual, then it’s complicated and totalmente indigno do vosso tempo<\/a>.<\/p>\n The ways you\u2019ll know you\u2019re just a hookup are when:<\/p>\n \u2022 They use excuses to not spend the night after you\u2019ve been together.<\/i><\/p>\n \u2022 They don’t take the time to get to know what you\u2019re like, what you love to do, your tastes or hobbies, etc.<\/i><\/p>\n \u2022 They don’t bother to answer your messages.<\/i><\/p>\n \u2022 They avoid meeting your friends and don\u2019t talk about you to theirs.<\/i><\/p>\n - They don\u2019t make any effort<\/a> para o fazer sentir especial.<\/i><\/p>\n \u2022 They never <\/i>mostrar afeto em p\u00fablico<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n I\u2019m sorry but if you\u2019re experiencing this, it probably means <\/b>o seu parceiro \u00e9 um <\/b>narcisista <\/b><\/a>ela\/he doesn’t love you<\/a>,<\/strong> or doesn\u2019t see you as a long-term partner. <\/b>On the other hand, it may also mean they’re just a member of the ‘non-monogamous relationships’ club.<\/p>\n This will probably sound awkward to you, but maybe it\u2019s complicated because you don\u2019t know what it feels like when it\u2019s not complicated<\/a>.<\/p>\n Maybe you\u2019ve been hurt before, and your defense mechanism is constantly telling you to watch out if something is off.<\/p>\n Analisa demasiado todas as situa\u00e7\u00f5es<\/b><\/a> because you have learned that things are not always what they appear to be. And, that\u2019s okay.<\/b><\/p>\n It takes time to heal and trust yourself and other people again. You learned that it takes more than a simple ‘<\/i>Eu amo-te<\/i><\/a>‘ for making things work.<\/i><\/p>\n No fim de contas, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio ter um projeto simples e rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a> consigo pr\u00f3prio, para poder fazer o mesmo com outra pessoa. \u00c9 preciso esclarecer e definir o estado da rela\u00e7\u00e3o consigo pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n You love each other, you care about each other, you text all day long. You feel supported and comfortable, but both of you can’t shake off the feeling that something big is missing.<\/p>\n Sometimes, it feels like they\u2019re your <\/b>melhor amigo<\/b> rather than your lover. It\u2019s like there\u2019s something left unsaid or undone.<\/b><\/p>\n Neither of you ever said you\u2019re a couple.<\/b> You just happened to be there for each other when you needed it, and now it just is what it is \u2014 some form of undefined partnership with no certain objective.<\/i><\/p>\n E a aus\u00eancia de objetivo significa uma falta de verdadeiro interesse, o que, al\u00e9m disso, conduz a muitas complica\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n Por isso, antes que tudo se transforme numa confus\u00e3o e se torne uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de situa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>Desejamos boa sorte um ao outro e seguimos em frente.<\/p>\n Here comes the epitome of complicated. Maybe they’re your best friend\u2019s ex, maybe they’re married, or maybe you just know they’re not good for you.<\/p>\n You both know you shouldn\u2019t be doing it, but it just feels so good.<\/i><\/p>\n Try asking yourself whether you\u2019re really in love or if you\u2019re maybe subconsciously a thrill-seeker. You probably already know the answer.<\/b><\/p>\n Depois de tudo isto, podemos concluir que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o complicada \u00e9 apenas um termo que utilizamos para exprimir problemas muito mais complexos. Vai para al\u00e9m do estado da rela\u00e7\u00e3o no Facebook.<\/p>\n If you are in this kind of relationship or if you\u2019re entering one for the first time, remember that your own gut feeling will provide you with the best <\/b>conselhos sobre rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a> deve ser sempre seguro para ambas as partes. Devem existir fortes n\u00edveis de compreens\u00e3o, respeito e empenhamento. Se a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o tiver nenhum destes aspectos, se as coisas se complicarem constantemente entre si e o seu parceiro, a \u00fanica op\u00e7\u00e3o que tem \u00e9 acabar com ela.<\/p>\n But, first, you need to end it in your head. That is, you need to think it all through. Sort out your thoughts and choose a path you’ll go.<\/b><\/p>\n Quando se trata de ordenar as coisas no cora\u00e7\u00e3o, isso ser\u00e1 mais complicado. No entanto, quando se coloca <\/i>o amor-pr\u00f3prio<\/i><\/a> and the love you feel for someone who doesn’t deserve it at all on scales, the first one will always prevail.<\/i><\/p>\n Seja direto e aberto com o seu parceiro. <\/b>Diga-lhes tudo o que esteve a guardar dentro de si durante todo este tempo. Para que possa encerrar o assunto para seguir em frente<\/a> de uma forma correcta.<\/p>\n It’ll be hard and heartbreaking, that’s for sure. But, with the help of time and a well-organized support system, you’ll manage to get through it and move forward with your life.<\/p>\n On the other hand, if you want to fight for your love and think it’s really worth it, you should stay and work on saving your relationship.<\/p>\n A primeira coisa a fazer \u00e9 encontrar a raiz dessa cumplicidade. Encontrar e reconhecer todas as suas<\/b> problemas de relacionamento<\/b><\/a> e lidar lentamente com cada um deles.<\/b><\/p>\n Ambas as partes t\u00eam de admitir os seus erros e assumir toda a responsabilidade pelos mesmos. <\/b>Al\u00e9m disso, ambos os parceiros devem esfor\u00e7ar-se por melhorar a sua comunica\u00e7\u00e3o e criar um n\u00edvel de confian\u00e7a mais forte entre si.<\/p>\n If you both think it’s needed, you can also seek professional help.<\/i><\/p>\n A \u00fanica forma de a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o sair desse marasmo de cumplicidade \u00e9 se ambos se dedicarem completamente a resolver e a fazer com que as coisas funcionem entre voc\u00eas.<\/p>\n It’s not enough just to clear that complicity… you also need to work on strengthening your bond and making your relationship healthy.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n I also had to share with you these touching complicated relationship quotes I found online because each one of them describes the heartbreaking struggle so well…<\/p>\n 1. “<\/b>Love isn\u2019t complicated<\/b><\/a>; people are.”<\/b><\/p>\n 2. “Somehow, you are both the best and the worst thing that has happened to me.”<\/p>\n 3. “A no-effort relationship is<\/i> uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o condenada<\/i><\/a>, not a great relationship. It takes work to communicate accurately, and it takes work to expose and resolve conflicting hopes and beliefs. It doesn\u2019t mean there is no \u2018they lived happily ever after,\u2019 but it\u2019s more like \u2018they worked <\/i>felizes para sempre<\/i><\/a>.” \u2013 Carol S. Dweck<\/i><\/p>\n 4. “It hurts having you close, but it would hurt even more not having you at all.”<\/p>\n 5. “You and I will always be unfinished business.”<\/p>\n 6. “We\u2019re more than friends, but less than a couple.”<\/b><\/p>\n 7. “People make love complicated because they do not get love the way they want to be, ever. I would rather have loved than never to have experienced this complicated and happy feeling.”<\/p>\n 8. “My relationship with him was defined by these complex emotions: this mixture of gratitude and resentment.” \u2013 Otsuichi<\/i><\/p>\n 9. “The only complicated things worth fighting for will change the world in some way and\/or make you lots of money, and a <\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o complicada<\/b> will only keep you from doing either.” \u2013 Ingrid Weir<\/b><\/p>\n 10. “I am sick and tired of all these things, you see… the problem is loving you is so complicated. You want to know what the problem with love is? No one actually knows what it really is.”<\/p>\n \u2b50I saved the best for last, of course:<\/p>\n 11. “You deserve to be with somebody who makes you happy… somebody who doesn\u2019t complicate your life… somebody who won\u2019t hurt you.”<\/i><\/p>\n O cen\u00e1rio de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o complicada s\u00f3 tem duas op\u00e7\u00f5es; to stay and fight for your love even though you know it’ll be hard, or to leave, turn your back on it for good, and dig it into the past forever.<\/i><\/p>\n And, the only place you’ll find the right answer for your situation is… your heart. <\/b><\/i><\/b><\/p>\n If you already tried and saw that you can’t be away from each other, maybe it’s because you aren’t meant to be apart. In that case, it’s worth the struggle and the fight.<\/i><\/p>\n However, if they’re not willing to put your relationship first, then <\/b>you\u2019re better off without them<\/b><\/a>. <\/b>Move forward and find someone who\u2019s going to make you feel great and appreciated… someone who’s going to make you feel the way you deserve.<\/p>\nComo \u00e9 que sabe se a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 complicada?<\/h2>\n
1. Rela\u00e7\u00e3o de novo, de novo e de novo<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n2. Amigos com benef\u00edcios<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n3. Rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Rela\u00e7\u00f5es secretas<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n5. It feels like you\u2019re nothing more than a hookup<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n6. Nunca teve uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel antes<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n7. O amor existe, mas falta algo mais<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n8. Rela\u00e7\u00e3o proibida<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nComo \u00e9 que se termina uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o complicada?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nComo \u00e9 que se resolve uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o complicada?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nCita\u00e7\u00f5es de relacionamentos complicados<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nTo Leave Or To Stay, That’s The Question<\/h2>\n
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