{"id":58987,"date":"2020-04-07T20:51:07","date_gmt":"2020-04-07T20:51:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=58987"},"modified":"2022-01-05T15:46:29","modified_gmt":"2022-01-05T15:46:29","slug":"como-saber-quando-terminar-uma-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-saber-quando-terminar-uma-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"Como saber quando acabar: 20 sinais de que deve terminar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 apenas a atravessar um per\u00edodo dif\u00edcil ou est\u00e1 na altura de acabar?<\/p>\n<p>How to know when it&#8217;s time to break up with your girlfriend or boyfriend and when there is no point in trying anymore?<\/p>\n<p>Estas s\u00e3o as perguntas que todos n\u00f3s j\u00e1 tivemos na cabe\u00e7a em algum momento da nossa vida.<\/p>\n<p>And if the question \u201cHow to know when to break up?\u201d is something that&#8217;s been bothering you lately, you have come to the right place because you&#8217;re about to read 20 sure-fire signs that you should put a stop to your romance, without any further ado.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">20 Bad Signs That It&#8217;s Time To End Your Relationship<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<h2>1. N\u00e3o v\u00ea futuro no casal<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59032\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-with-timepiece.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga com rel\u00f3gio como fundo a preto e branco\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\"><\/p>\n<p>One of the first bad signs that you ought to end your relationship is the fact that it isn\u2019t going anywhere, as much as you hate to admit it.<\/p>\n<p>You and your partner can\u2019t seem to agree about your life goals and this is not someone you see yourself growing old next to.<\/p>\n<p>This is especially the case if, for example, you want to start a family and have kids while they wouldn\u2019t mind dating for a couple more years and can\u2019t make you any promises regarding your future together.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll have to agree that these are some serious <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/6-factores-de-rutura-para-evitar-comecar-uma-nova-relacao\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">fator de desempate<\/a>s you won&#8217;t be able to surpass.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that every relationship has to last a lifetime but what\u2019s the point of being with someone you know you won\u2019t end up with?<\/p>\n<p>As coisas podem estar a correr bem neste momento, mas se sabe que o seu fim \u00e9 inevit\u00e1vel, porqu\u00ea perder mais tempo numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o que est\u00e1 condenada ao fracasso?<\/p>\n<p>Instead, end everything in time because you\u2019ll have to do it sooner or later.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Pensa nas outras pessoas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59036\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-long-sleeves.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de mangas compridas brancas com as m\u00e3os na cabe\u00e7a\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Como saber quando \u00e9 que se deve acabar? Bem, uma das respostas \u00e9: quando se come\u00e7a a pensar noutras pessoas.<\/p>\n<p>There is absolutely nothing wrong if you see a girl or a guy you find objectively attractive even though you\u2019re in a happy relationship.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you\u2019re not blind and you can\u2019t help but notice when someone is good-looking.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, quando se ama verdadeiramente a pessoa amada, nunca se vai avan\u00e7ar para ela.<\/p>\n<p>You may see the most beautiful woman or the most handsome man but you will forget all about them as soon as they\u2019re gone from your sight.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59128\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-siiting-beside-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem sentado ao lado de uma mulher com um homem a olhar de longe\" width=\"800\" height=\"524\"><\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, this is not what\u2019s happening with you. In fact, you keep thinking about other people in a romantic way.<\/p>\n<p>You continuously picture yourself next to someone who is not your partner and you can\u2019t help but imagine how your life would look next to another person.<\/p>\n<p>Not only that\u2014there is probably someone specific you can\u2019t get out of your mind.<\/p>\n<p>If this is something you can relate to, your relationship is already over; you\u2019re just still unaware of that fact.<\/p>\n<p>Even though you haven\u2019t done anything just yet and you haven\u2019t physically cheated on your significant other, having someone else in your thoughts is a reason enough to break up with them.<\/p>\n<h2>3. You aren\u2019t making any progress<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59037\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-leaning.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste encostada ao vidro com a m\u00e3o a tapar a cara\" width=\"800\" height=\"523\"><\/p>\n<p>A <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-diferencas-entre-uma-relacao-saudavel-e-toxica\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a> deve faz\u00ea-lo avan\u00e7ar e deve ser ben\u00e9fico para o seu bem-estar como pessoa.<\/p>\n<p>Deve empurr\u00e1-lo para a frente e inspir\u00e1-lo a tornar-se a melhor vers\u00e3o poss\u00edvel de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>However, you feel like you can\u2019t move an inch next to your partner. You feel like they\u2019re holding you back and as if your romance leaves you no room for progress.<\/p>\n<p>The same is happening with your entire relationship; it isn\u2019t going anywhere and you are both stuck in exactly the same places you were when you just started dating and there has been no improvement whatsoever.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing is going on and you haven\u2019t evolved as a couple.<\/p>\n<p>It is one thing if we\u2019re talking about a relationship that lasts only a few months because in that case, you should give it a little more time to see whether you and your partner will start moving forward.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if you feel trapped in a long term relationship that hasn\u2019t moved forward in years, it is a good sign that nothing will change in the future either.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Querer coisas diferentes<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59038\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-arguing.jpg\" alt=\"casal a discutir perto de cortinas bege e cinzentas\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Entre outros factores, para que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o seja bem sucedida, \u00e9 fundamental ser compat\u00edvel com a sua cara-metade.<\/p>\n<p>You two don\u2019t have to literally be the same people but you should definitely have similar desires, ambitions and goals.<\/p>\n<p>After all, this is someone you\u2019re planning your life next to and you can expect a lot of fighting in the future unless you two have similar worldviews on the important things in life.<\/p>\n<p>When you and your boyfriend want completely opposite things and have different attitudes in life but can\u2019t seem to find a middle ground, some serious problems will arise sooner or later.<\/p>\n<p>Neste cen\u00e1rio, por vezes \u00e9 melhor acabar com as coisas a tempo, antes que seja demasiado tarde. A dura realidade \u00e9 que nenhum de voc\u00eas vai mudar (nem deve) e \u00e9 imposs\u00edvel viver ao lado de uma pessoa que tem pouco em comum consigo.<\/p>\n<p>Opposites do attract\u2014that is why you and your significant other started your relationship but they rarely last and that is why you two can\u2019t manage to make your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/9-razoes-para-uma-relacao-nao-resultar-mesmo-que-os-seus-sentimentos-sejam-verdadeiros\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">trabalho de relacionamento<\/a> agora.<\/p>\n<h2>5. You\u2019ve stopped having sex<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59104\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-wife-sleeping-husband.jpg\" alt=\"mulher zangada a dormir com o marido em linho branco \" width=\"800\" height=\"520\"><\/p>\n<p>Por muito quente que seja a vossa a\u00e7\u00e3o debaixo dos len\u00e7\u00f3is, isso nunca \u00e9 suficiente para que a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o seja bem sucedida.<\/p>\n<p>Por outro lado, ironicamente, uma m\u00e1 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-regras-de-quarto-para-apimentar-a-sua-vida-sexual\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">vida sexual<\/a> (or when you can&#8217;t remember the last time you had sex) is more than a good reason for it to go downhill and eventually break down completely.<\/p>\n<p>And that is exactly what\u2019s been going on with you and your partner lately.<\/p>\n<p>Somehow, you two stopped having sex and even when you do sleep together, there is absolutely no passion involved and you feel like you\u2019re performing a task that needs to be done.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59039\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-bead.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher sentados na cama, ambos abra\u00e7ados a almofadas azuis\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 claro que, neste caso, deve tentar falar com a sua cara-metade antes de dar qualquer passo.<\/p>\n<p>Talvez estejam apenas a passar por uma fase m\u00e1 ou possam melhorar as coisas com um pouco de imagina\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, if the situation continues in this manner after you\u2019ve tried everything, it is more than clear that your chemistry is long gone.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t find you attractive anymore (or vice versa) and this lack of sex will bring problems to other parts of your relationship sooner or later.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Est\u00e1 sempre a lutar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59041\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-in-the-bench.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher sentados no banco a discutir\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p>Quer gostem de o admitir ou n\u00e3o, todos os casais discutem de vez em quando.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, se voc\u00ea e o seu parceiro discutem sobre cada pequena coisa e se toda a vossa comunica\u00e7\u00e3o se baseia em algum tipo de discuss\u00e3o, \u00e9 um bom sinal de que algo est\u00e1 errado na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Another red flag that the question \u201cHow to know when to break up?\u201d is appearing in your head with a reason is the fact that your arguments are not productive.<\/p>\n<p>Discutem sem qualquer raz\u00e3o espec\u00edfica, apenas para se livrarem da energia negativa acumulada que sentem um pelo outro.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59110\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-lying-face-forward.jpg\" alt=\"mulher deitada de bru\u00e7os no ch\u00e3o \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, insultam-se e humilham-se mutuamente sempre que t\u00eam um desacordo.<\/p>\n<p>It is like you\u2019re incapable of having a healthy discussion where your opinions oppose without turning it into a bigger issue.<\/p>\n<p>The problem is also that you repeat your arguments. You don\u2019t learn from them and you never once resolve them.<\/p>\n<p>So, why do you keep staying in this kind of unhealthy environment? Why do you keep ruining your mental health by remaining next to someone you clearly can\u2019t get along with?<\/p>\n<h2>7. You can\u2019t forgive something from the past<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59042\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-inside.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher dentro de um edif\u00edcio \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>De acordo com os especialistas em namoro, a maioria dos casais termina a rela\u00e7\u00e3o por causa de algo que pensavam ter esquecido h\u00e1 muito tempo.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, you think you forgave and forgot about your significant other\u2019s infidelity, lying or abuse and you continue living with them for a certain period of time as if everything is behind you and in perfect order.<\/p>\n<p>Depois, passados alguns anos, do nada, os traumas do passado come\u00e7am a assombrar-nos.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59111\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pointing-fingers.jpg\" alt=\"apontar os dedos de um homem e de uma mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"504\"><\/p>\n<p>Repara que, na verdade, continua a guardar rancores e que o ressentimento o est\u00e1 a comer vivo.<\/p>\n<p>Detesto ter de te dizer isto, mas nunca perdoaste ou esqueceste as coisas que viveste.<\/p>\n<p>E provavelmente nunca o far\u00e1. Por isso, a \u00fanica hip\u00f3tese que tem \u00e9 afastar-se.<\/p>\n<p>Sabe que fez o seu melhor para ultrapassar este problema e para ter um cora\u00e7\u00e3o aberto, mas o seu ressentimento \u00e9 simplesmente mais forte do que a sua raz\u00e3o e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que possa fazer.<\/p>\n<h2>8. You feel like you\u2019re alone in the relationship<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59044\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-lying-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mulher deitada na cama a tapar a cara \" width=\"800\" height=\"511\"><\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o h\u00e1 como fixar um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-sinais-dolorosos-de-que-a-sua-relacao-e-unilateral\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o unilateral<\/a>. You\u2019re the only one trying, so what\u2019s the point of investing more of yourself in a relationship you\u2019re only interested in building?<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that you and your partner have put exactly the same amount of effort into your romance.<\/p>\n<p>There will be days when you\u2019ll be giving your entire self, while they won\u2019t try at all and vice versa. Nobody can measure or weigh the effort you\u2019re both putting in.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you feel like you\u2019re alone in this relationship, why don\u2019t you change your status and become officially single?<\/p>\n<h2>9. You\u2019re only together because of your history<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59045\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-her-head.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a segurar a cabe\u00e7a com dores\" width=\"800\" height=\"516\"><\/p>\n<p>Muitos casais mant\u00eam-se fi\u00e9is um ao outro devido ao seu passado m\u00fatuo.<\/p>\n<p>This is especially the case when you\u2019re still involved with your high school or college sweetheart; you two have been together for a lot of time, you\u2019re part of each other\u2019s families, you have a lot of mutual friends and you\u2019ve grown up together.<\/p>\n<p>Com o tempo, essa pessoa tornou-se a sua zona de conforto. Sabe o que esperar dela em cada momento e ela representa familiaridade e seguran\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>Even though this is all nice, it shouldn\u2019t be the only reason you stay next to someone.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel like you\u2019ve <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/ela-nao-deixou-de-te-amar-ela-cresceu-mais-do-que-tu\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">superou esta pessoa<\/a> and like your history together is the only thing that connects you, maybe it\u2019s time to part ways.<\/p>\n<p>Please, don\u2019t feel guilty for choosing your future and present over your past. Don\u2019t let your memories hold you back and prevent you from moving on with your life.<\/p>\n<h2>10. You stay because you don\u2019t want to hurt your partner<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59046\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-hand-on-head.jpg\" alt=\"homem triste com a m\u00e3o na cabe\u00e7a sentado perto de um corpo de \u00e1gua\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>A common reason why people stay in a relationship that doesn\u2019t make them happy is guilt.<\/p>\n<p>You have no doubt that you want out but you know that your decision would break your partner\u2019s heart.<\/p>\n<p>So you stay right where you are because you don\u2019t want to destroy them emotionally or hurt their feelings.<\/p>\n<p>Well, let me tell you that this is one of the worst things you can do. First and foremost, by doing this, you\u2019re torturing yourself.<\/p>\n<p>No matter how much you owe this person, you don\u2019t have the duty to be in this relationship if that is not something you want.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59114\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-her-head.jpg\" alt=\"mulher inclina a cabe\u00e7a para um homem de chap\u00e9u\" width=\"800\" height=\"548\"><\/p>\n<p>Secondly, you\u2019re hurting your partner even more by staying next to them, despite your desire to leave.<\/p>\n<p>How do you think they would feel if they ever found out that you wanted to break up with them but didn\u2019t have the courage to do so?<\/p>\n<p>Afinal, gostaria que o seu ente querido ficasse consigo por pena? Ou preferia que ele o deixasse?<\/p>\n<h2>11. Come\u00e7am a irritar-te<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59047\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-angry-at-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher zangada com um homem com um bon\u00e9 viking\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Quando amamos uma pessoa, tudo o que ela faz \u00e9 giro. Mas quando deixamos de a amar, todas as suas pequenas coisas come\u00e7am a irritar-nos.<\/p>\n<p>This is exactly what\u2019s going on with your relationship; it seems that you\u2019re even bothered by the way your significant other inhales and exhales air.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re irritated by the way they talk, eat and behave in every possible situation.<\/p>\n<p>Most of all\u2014you\u2019re annoyed by their presence and touch. You can\u2019t stand this person hugging or kissing you, nor can you put up with them sleeping next to you anymore.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59131\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-sitting-on-grassfield.jpg\" alt=\"casal sentado no relvado com cara de p\u00f3quer\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Sounds familiar, right? Well, it is a clear sign that it\u2019s time to consider a breakup.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, there is a possibility of this being just a phase. Maybe you\u2019re easily agitated in general and involuntarily direct all of your negative energy toward the person you love the most.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if you can\u2019t get rid of this feeling after some time has passed, it is a clear sign that it\u2019s time to consider breaking up.<\/p>\n<h2>12. Espera que eles mudem<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59048\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/boy-tied-with-rope.jpg\" alt=\"rapaz amarrado com uma corda com sombras dos estores de uma janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Have you ever gotten yourself into a relationship with a person whose personality traits and habits you don\u2019t like?<\/p>\n<p>Have you ever fallen in love with someone\u2019s potential instead of their true self? From day one, you expected them to change.<\/p>\n<p>Esperava que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/o-teu-amor-nao-pode-mudar-um-homem-ate-que-ele-proprio-decida-faze-lo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">o vosso amor<\/a> inspir\u00e1-los-ia a tornarem-se diferentes e melhores e a aperceberem-se finalmente dos seus erros. No entanto, essa mudan\u00e7a nunca chegou.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re both the same people you were at the beginning of your relationship and the truth is that those people are not compatible and can\u2019t function together.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t feel bad about this situation because it is one of the common reasons people part ways.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, get to terms with the fact that your significant other will never change for real (because they don&#8217;t want to do so in the first place) and if you can\u2019t accept their true personality, stop trying to modify them and end things in a healthy way.<\/p>\n<h2>13. Todos \u00e0 tua volta apoiam uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59049\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/5-women-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"5 mulheres sentadas e deitadas na cama com um ar triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"543\"><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re a mature adult who doesn\u2019t need anyone else\u2019s guidance through life.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t need people telling you what to do or who to date. Despite all of this, you know very well that your best friends and family members wish you all the best.<\/p>\n<p>E a verdade \u00e9 que, em muitos casos, eles conseguem ver a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica de forma mais clara e objetiva.<\/p>\n<p>Afinal de contas, as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es n\u00e3o est\u00e3o investidas na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e apercebem-se dos sinais de alerta antes de si.<\/p>\n<p>Por conseguinte, se os seus familiares mais pr\u00f3ximos continuam a aconselh\u00e1-lo a obter um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-sinais-de-que-esta-a-entrar-numa-nova-relacao-demasiado-cedo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> and end this one, maybe they\u2019re right.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, this shouldn\u2019t be the only reason for you to break things off. However, if you\u2019re in doubt and aren\u2019t sure whether there are enough warning signs that you should walk away, take their opinions into consideration.<\/p>\n<h2>14. N\u00e3o tem comunica\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59051\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-apart.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher separados sentados num banco perto de um lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\"><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t have a good relationship without healthy communication. You and your partner shouldn\u2019t be just lovers\u2014you should be best friends as well.<\/p>\n<p>Esta deve ser a primeira pessoa a quem quer contar tudo, o seu confidente e conselheiro.<\/p>\n<p>Algu\u00e9m que sabes que te dir\u00e1 sempre a verdade, por mais dura que seja, mas que, ao mesmo tempo, nunca te julgar\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>Sadly, you and your partner stopped communicating in the healthiest ways. All you do is argue, you don\u2019t share secrets anymore and you would rather talk to anyone besides them.<\/p>\n<p>De facto, por vezes parece que deixaram de conversar completamente. Sim, falam de coisas sem import\u00e2ncia, do dia a dia, mas n\u00e3o h\u00e1 vest\u00edgios das conversas profundas e significativas que costumavam ter.<\/p>\n<p>O sil\u00eancio que o rodeia \u00e9 tudo menos agrad\u00e1vel ou reconfortante; \u00e9 inc\u00f3modo e cheio de tens\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h2>15. A confian\u00e7a foi quebrada<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59053\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/an-angry-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher zangada com metade da cara coberta de p\u00ealos focados\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Another warning sign that it\u2019s time to end your relationship is the lack of trust you\u2019re dealing with.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 prov\u00e1vel que algo tenha acontecido para que deixasse de confiar no seu parceiro ou vice-versa, mas a verdade \u00e9 que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o atual n\u00e3o est\u00e1 nem perto do romance que teve no passado.<\/p>\n<p>You see, your partner should be someone who would never betray you, the person you know you can always rely on and someone you know wouldn\u2019t abandon you just because you\u2019re going through some rough patch.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim que se sente ultimamente. Em vez disso, desperdi\u00e7a muito tempo e energia a verificar o que se passa com eles.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t get yourself to believe a word this person tells you and as much as you try, you don\u2019t consider them to be trustworthy.<\/p>\n<h2>16. You\u2019re in a relationship out of fear of being alone<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59056\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/upset-woman-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"mulher perturbada sentada na cama sozinha\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\"><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s face it\u2014you would ditch your current relationship if it weren\u2019t for one thing\u2014your fear of being alone.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t stand your single life and you feel lonely and deserted when you\u2019re not a part of a couple and that is the only reason why you haven\u2019t gotten out of this romance.<\/p>\n<p>Se for esse o caso, \u00e9 um sinal de aviso de que uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a melhor coisa a fazer neste momento.<\/p>\n<p>Lembre-se que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/ser-solteiro-e-melhor-do-que-estar-numa-relacao-quase-certa-em-qualquer-altura\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ser solteiro<\/a> in a healthy way beats being in a relationship that doesn\u2019t make you happy anytime.<\/p>\n<p>After all, there is nothing wrong with not having a romantic partner and it doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re alone in this world.<\/p>\n<p>Ainda tens o teu emprego, os teus amigos, a tua fam\u00edlia e, mais importante, ainda te tens a ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>Despite what you might think, you don\u2019t need someone to complete you or to give your life meaning. Trust me\u2014you\u2019ll be perfectly fine on your own.<\/p>\n<h2>17. Est\u00e1 sempre a separar-se e a voltar a juntar-se<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59058\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-beige-blazer.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de blazer bege a parar um homem de top cinzento\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>\u00c0 primeira vista, as rela\u00e7\u00f5es de namoro parecem excitantes e emocionantes.<\/p>\n<p>When you keep on breaking up and getting back together with someone, you see it as a clear sign that you two can\u2019t live without each other and that you\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/nao-podes-perder-o-homem-que-esta-destinado-a-ser-teu\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">destinados a acabar juntos<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Well, it\u2019s time to take off your rose-tinted glasses and see this practice as a red flag that this is not the person for you.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t care who is responsible for these behavior patterns\u2014<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relacao-toxica\/\">a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 t\u00f3xica<\/a> e isso est\u00e1 a arruinar a sua sa\u00fade mental e emocional.<\/p>\n<p>What exactly don\u2019t you understand? If you and your partner could function together and if you had the ability to build a good relationship, you wouldn\u2019t have been parting way every few weeks or months.<\/p>\n<p>It is more than obvious that things aren\u2019t working, never did and, sadly, never will.<\/p>\n<p>Break this relationship off once for all and give yourself space to find a new relationship that won\u2019t bring along all of this drama.<\/p>\n<h2>18. H\u00e1 mais contras do que pr\u00f3s<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59061\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-crying-in-front-of-the-mirror.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a chorar em frente ao espelho com a luz do candeeiro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p>O amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 um neg\u00f3cio. No entanto, h\u00e1 alturas em que temos de seguir a nossa raz\u00e3o e n\u00e3o apenas o nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 alturas em que n\u00e3o temos outra op\u00e7\u00e3o sen\u00e3o pesar as coisas e decidir qual \u00e9 o passo certo a dar.<\/p>\n<p>And that is exactly what you did\u2014you asked yourself how to know when to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/textos-de-despedida\/\">romper<\/a>Se o seu relacionamento \u00e9 um relacionamento de confian\u00e7a, escreveu todas as vantagens e desvantagens da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o numa folha de papel.<\/p>\n<p>Enumerou todos os momentos felizes e todos os momentos tristes e chegou \u00e0 conclus\u00e3o de que h\u00e1 muito mais contras do que pr\u00f3s.<\/p>\n<p>So, what more evidence do you need? Aren&#8217;t all those dealbreakers reason enough to leave your partner and to stop torturing yourself and ruining your emotional health?<\/p>\n<h2>19. You aren\u2019t happy<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59064\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-on-the-railing.jpg\" alt=\"mulher apoiada no corrim\u00e3o em lingerie\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Your romantic relationship should make you happy\u2014there is no arguing with that.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, it shouldn\u2019t be the only source of your happiness but it should bring joy and satisfaction to your life.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s the entire point of having a partner, right? To make your life a little bit better because you can be perfectly unhappy on your own.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that there should be rainbows and unicorns all the time and that healthy relationships don\u2019t have situations in which both of the people involved are sad or feel bad but if your relationship is making you miserable most of the time, it is not the real deal.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o perca mais o seu tempo com uma pessoa e uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o que o fazem sentir-se nervoso, negativo, pessimista ou <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-regras-de-relacionamento-a-seguir-se-quiser-ter-uma-vida-amorosa-feliz\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">insatisfeito com a sua vida amorosa<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>20. You don\u2019t love each other anymore<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59065\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-in-the-rocks.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada nas rochas junto a um corpo de \u00e1gua encostada a um muro\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Embora o amor n\u00e3o seja suficiente para fazer uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o funcionar, \u00e9 uma das condi\u00e7\u00f5es mais importantes para um romance bem sucedido.<\/p>\n<p>You can have the best relationship ever on paper but if you and your partner stopped loving each other (or if one of you doesn\u2019t have any emotions left), I\u2019m sorry but there is probably nothing you can do.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter who <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/654288652092514089\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">deixou de amar<\/a> whom; either way, don\u2019t settle for being in a loveless relationship. Instead, pick yourself back up, walk away and focus on healing your broken heart.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59070\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Know-When-To-Break-Up_-20-Signs-You-Should-End-Your-Relationship-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Como saber quando acabar_ 20 sinais de que deve terminar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o Pinterest\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Is your relationship just going through a rough patch or is it time to break up? How to know when it&#8217;s time to break up with your girlfriend or boyfriend and when there is no point in trying anymore? 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