{"id":59067,"date":"2020-04-03T10:47:32","date_gmt":"2020-04-03T10:47:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=59067"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:39:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:39:27","slug":"para-todas-as-raparigas-que-nao-conseguem-decidir-entre-o-coracao-e-a-mente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-todas-as-raparigas-que-nao-conseguem-decidir-entre-o-coracao-e-a-mente\/","title":{"rendered":"Para todas as raparigas que n\u00e3o conseguem decidir entre o que o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o quer e o que a sua mente diz"},"content":{"rendered":"

Desde que se lembra, a sua mente e o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o conseguiram encontrar o meio-termo.<\/p>\n

The two could never reach a compromise and you were left in the middle to try and get them on the same page. Well, you\u2019re not the only one.<\/p>\n

Desde o in\u00edcio do mundo, as pessoas t\u00eam-se debatido com o mesmo dilema: Devem fazer o que \u00e9 correto ou devem ver at\u00e9 onde as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es os levam?<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been asking yourself this question the most in terms of romantic love.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quem deve escolher para ser o seu parceiro de vida<\/a>? Should you be with the man who gives you butterflies or with the one you\u2019re compatible with? Is amar o suficiente<\/a> e vale a pena todo o trabalho, mesmo quando nos d\u00e1 imensas dores de cabe\u00e7a?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Para ser sincero, nunca ningu\u00e9m encontrou uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o perfeita. Some will advise you to go after your heart\u2019s desires, to forget about the rules and to follow your gut<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

They will tell you that it\u2019s the only way not to regret your decisions because even if they\u2019re wrong, at least you\u2019ll always have the satisfaction that at one point, you were brave enough to do what you truly wanted.<\/p>\n

Sounds quite romantic, doesn\u2019t it? From one point of view, this really is the right attitude; after all, you only have one life and you certainly shouldn\u2019t waste it by killing your desires and shutting off your emotions.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, that\u2019s what happens in the movies and novels all the time, right?<\/p>\n

The characters go against all possible laws of logic and society and blindly follow their heart\u2019s desires, even if their lives depended on not doing so.<\/p>\n

Acabam sempre por viver felizes para sempre, mas a vida real \u00e9 muito diferente de um conto de fadas.<\/p>\n

O que acontece quando as consequ\u00eancias das suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es lhe batem \u00e0 porta?<\/p>\n

What happens when it turns out that your choices weren\u2019t good for you and when they leave painful traces on your life and future?<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why some people will tell you to always be realistic; after all, that\u2019s the only chance you have to prevent the pain.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

God gave us our reasoning for a reason\u2014to know better than just going after our instincts, to have the capacity to determine what\u2019s right and wrong and to make wise and smart choices.<\/p>\n

So, what\u2019s the answer to this everlasting question: Como \u00e9 que se pode deixar de estar t\u00e3o dividido entre o que a mente diz e o que o cora\u00e7\u00e3o quer?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bem, a chave est\u00e1 no equil\u00edbrio<\/strong>. Yes, you heard it right; you\u2019re the one who has to find a compromise between these two things and decide when it\u2019s time to listen to each of them.<\/p>\n

A sua experi\u00eancia ensinar-lhe-\u00e1 que nenhuma destas duas pr\u00e1ticas \u00e9 perfeita.<\/p>\n

Por muito que queiras, you can\u2019t go through life doing whatever you want to in the moment and you can\u2019t blindly follow your desires<\/strong> unless you\u2019re ready to face severe consequences which will come sooner or later.<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, reprimir as emo\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a> e transformar-se num rob\u00f4 sem sentido tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o \u00e9 a melhor coisa a fazer. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Yes, in this case, you might have a bigger chance of saving yourself from a lot of pain but on the other hand, you\u2019re likely to end up breaking your own heart and condemning yourself to a loveless life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Deixem-me contar-vos um pequeno segredo sobre o amor rom\u00e2ntico: It\u2019s not the real deal as long as your mind and heart are fighting about it<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

De facto, quando conhecer algu\u00e9m que est\u00e1 destinado a ser, tanto o seu c\u00e9rebro como as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es estar\u00e3o na mesma p\u00e1gina.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Veja, quando encontrares o homem perfeito, vais am\u00e1-lo com todo o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e mente<\/strong> e, ao mesmo tempo, saber\u00e1s que ele \u00e9 a pessoa certa para ti.<\/p>\n

When this happens, there will be no more dilemmas or doubts; all the pieces of the puzzle called your life will fall into perfect order and you\u2019ll see what true balance really means.<\/p>\n

For the first time ever, you won\u2019t be afraid. You\u2019ll stop wandering between your reasoning and emotions and you\u2019ll stop wondering if you chose wisely.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s how you\u2019ll know that you\u2019ve found both your soulmate and your forever person\u2014all in one.<\/p>\n

\"Para<\/p>\n

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For as long as you can remember, your mind and heart were unable to find the middle ground. The two could never reach a compromise and you were left in the middle to try and get them on the same page. Well, you\u2019re not the only one. Ever since the beginning of the world, people…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":59076,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-59067","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/To-Every-Girl-Who-Can\u2019t-Decide-Between-What-Her-Heart-Wants-And-What-Her-Mind-Says.jpg",800,530,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59067","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=59067"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59067\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/59076"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=59067"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=59067"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=59067"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}