{"id":59087,"date":"2020-04-03T11:40:22","date_gmt":"2020-04-03T11:40:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=59087"},"modified":"2021-11-12T17:27:20","modified_gmt":"2021-11-12T17:27:20","slug":"mesmo-quando-se-e-solteiro-estas-coisas-sao-uma-porcaria","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/mesmo-quando-se-e-solteiro-estas-coisas-sao-uma-porcaria\/","title":{"rendered":"Mesmo quando fores solteira e fabulosa, estas 6 coisas v\u00e3o ser uma chatice"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>N\u00e3o \u00e9s solteiro porque ningu\u00e9m te quer ou porque n\u00e3o est\u00e1s destinado a ser amado. Em vez disso, \u00e9 solteiro por sua pr\u00f3pria escolha.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter whether you need some extra time to heal from a devastating heartbreak from the past, decided to take some time off from relationships, or simply don\u2019t feel ready for anything serious right now.<\/p>\n<p>The important thing is that you\u2019re making the best out of your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ser-solteiro-2\/\">vida de solteiro<\/a>. Most of the time, you\u2019re not even lonely.<\/p>\n<p>You know you don\u2019t need a man to complete you and you\u2019re using this time to get your life in order.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, por muito fabuloso que seja ser solteiro, h\u00e1 algumas coisas que s\u00e3o uma treta. Aqui est\u00e3o 6 delas.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Outras pessoas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-59091 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-of-friends-sitting-outside.jpg\" alt=\"um casal de amigos sentado no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-of-friends-sitting-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-of-friends-sitting-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-of-friends-sitting-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s face it. The biggest problem about being single is not the feelings and thoughts you have, it\u2019s the society around you.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is that, if you\u2019re in your twenties and have been single for a while, most people in your surroundings act like they feel sorry for you.<\/p>\n<p>They treat you like you\u2019re a second class citizen \u2013 that since you haven\u2019t been able to find a romantic partner, you\u2019re obviously not good enough for anything else either.<\/p>\n<p>Even your closest friends and family members think that you\u2019re miserable on your own.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re aware that they mean well, but after a while, them looking down on you just because of your relationship status becomes tiring.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-59092 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/group-of-friends-studying.jpg\" alt=\"grupo de amigos a estudar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/group-of-friends-studying.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/group-of-friends-studying-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/group-of-friends-studying-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In fact, you feel like they\u2019d rather see you in an unhealthy, toxic relationship than strong enough to go through life by yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Desta forma, de acordo com eles, cumpriria alguns padr\u00f5es sociais imagin\u00e1rios, mas, claro, ningu\u00e9m se importaria com o que sente.<\/p>\n<p>That is exactly why you shouldn\u2019t care about other people\u2019s opinion.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t need their pity and you certainly shouldn\u2019t feel like they\u2019re better than you just for being romantically involved.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Ter apenas a si pr\u00f3prio para confiar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-59093 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-on-wheat-field-during-daytime.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga num campo de trigo durante o dia\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-on-wheat-field-during-daytime.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-on-wheat-field-during-daytime-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-on-wheat-field-during-daytime-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re a strong, independent, and powerful woman who has the capacity to go through life by herself.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t need anyone pushing you forward, holding your hand through the hard times, or anyone resolving your problems.<\/p>\n<p>Isso \u00e9 algo de que nos devemos orgulhar muito. Acredita em mim, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 muitos que o consigam.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, para ser sincero, por vezes, o facto de n\u00e3o termos ningu\u00e9m em quem confiar, a n\u00e3o ser n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios, \u00e9 um pouco mau.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean that you are not capable of being your biggest support.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-59094 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/depresed-woman-with-hair-above-her-head.jpg\" alt=\"mulher deprimida com cabelo acima da cabe\u00e7a\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/depresed-woman-with-hair-above-her-head.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/depresed-woman-with-hair-above-her-head-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/depresed-woman-with-hair-above-her-head-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s just that it would be nice to have someone you can count on every once in a while. Of course, you have your friends, family, and even coworkers.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, you don\u2019t have a life partner \u2013 a man to be your teammate through thick and thin.<\/p>\n<p>Even though this is the last thing you would ever admit, the truth is that there are times when you wish to have a man who will be there to have your back. You don\u2019t need him to guide you or be your savior.<\/p>\n<p>Precisas de algu\u00e9m que passe pela vida ao teu lado, ombro a ombro.<\/p>\n<h2>3. N\u00e3o ter um acompanhante<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-59094 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/depresed-woman-with-hair-above-her-head.jpg\" alt=\"mulher deprimida com cabelo acima da cabe\u00e7a\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/depresed-woman-with-hair-above-her-head.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/depresed-woman-with-hair-above-her-head-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/depresed-woman-with-hair-above-her-head-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>E todos aqueles casamentos, festas de anivers\u00e1rio e outras celebra\u00e7\u00f5es a que tem de ir sempre sozinho? \u00c9 uma chatice n\u00e3o ter um acompanhante, certo?<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a pain having to choose whether you\u2019ll go alone, look for a date months ahead just so you don\u2019t have to go through those series of boring questions regarding your love life, or ask a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/true-love\/bff\/razoes-melhor-amigo-masculino\/\">amigo<\/a> to tag along just so you don\u2019t look desperate.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Falta de intimidade f\u00edsica<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-59097 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-bed-at-home-alone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada na cama em casa sozinha\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-bed-at-home-alone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-bed-at-home-alone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-bed-at-home-alone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you say that you\u2019re tired of sleeping alone, most assume that you\u2019re just horny and that one raunchy night would solve all of your problems.<\/p>\n<p>Bem, o problema de ser solteiro \u00e9, na verdade, um pouco mais profundo do que um desejo carnal.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, what you miss is physical intimacy. Whether you like to admit it or not, it\u2019s not always easy going home to a cold, empty bed with nobody waiting for you.<\/p>\n<p>Not only that, you also can\u2019t remember the last time you kissed or hugged someone.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-59098 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-floor-in-bedroom.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada no ch\u00e3o do quarto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-floor-in-bedroom.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-floor-in-bedroom-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-floor-in-bedroom-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sente-se mais falta de abra\u00e7ar e acordar ao lado da pessoa amada do que qualquer outra coisa.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, you could be sleeping around to have the physical satisfaction, but that\u2019s simply not your cup of tea.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, mesmo assim, continuaria a sentir a aus\u00eancia de uma verdadeira liga\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica com outro ser humano.<\/p>\n<h2>5. N\u00e3o estar apaixonado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-59099 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-with-dark-hair-standing-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem com cabelo escuro \u00e0 porta\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-with-dark-hair-standing-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-with-dark-hair-standing-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-with-dark-hair-standing-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por muito que goste da sua vida de solteiro e esteja a aproveit\u00e1-la ao m\u00e1ximo, tem de admitir que o sentimento de estar apaixonado tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 muito bom.<\/p>\n<p>Lembra-se do bom tipo de nervosismo, o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/obrigada-por-me-lembrares-sempre-como-sao-as-borboletas\/\">borboletas<\/a> in your stomach, the sweating of your palms, and the sensation you get when you know you\u2019re about to see your crush?<\/p>\n<p>Well, sometimes you can\u2019t help but miss all those feelings. You miss liking a man, being attracted to him, and wanting him to become yours.<\/p>\n<p>However, just because nostalgia hits you from time to time, it doesn\u2019t mean that it should serve as an excuse to jump into a new relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Porque adivinha: estar infeliz no amor \u00e9 muito pior do que n\u00e3o estar apaixonado de todo.<\/p>\n<h2>6. O mercado dos encontros<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-59100 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-sitting-on-bricks-and-typing-a-sms.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga sentada em tijolos e a escrever uma sms\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-sitting-on-bricks-and-typing-a-sms.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-sitting-on-bricks-and-typing-a-sms-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-sitting-on-bricks-and-typing-a-sms-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Among other things that are a drag when you\u2019re single \u2013 even though you\u2019re killing it \u2013 is the dating market.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not that you\u2019re obsessed with the idea of finding a boyfriend, but you didn\u2019t shut your door to love forever either.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, de vez em quando, sai para alguns encontros. No entanto, regressa sempre mais desiludido do que antes.<\/p>\n<p>Everyone around you keeps setting you up on blind dates and men hit on you. But, not one has what you\u2019re looking for.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not that you\u2019re too picky. You just have <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/baixar-os-seus-padroes-nao-aumenta-as-suas-hipoteses-de-felicidade\/\">as suas normas<\/a> e recusam-se a contentar-se com menos, o que \u00e9 \u00f3timo.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, por vezes, o que se deseja \u00e9 n\u00e3o voltar a ter um encontro de merda.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-59089 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Even-When-You\u2019re-Single-And-Fabulous-These-6-Things-Will-Suck-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Mesmo quando fores solteira e fabulosa, estas 6 coisas v\u00e3o ser uma chatice\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Even-When-You\u2019re-Single-And-Fabulous-These-6-Things-Will-Suck-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Even-When-You\u2019re-Single-And-Fabulous-These-6-Things-Will-Suck-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Even-When-You\u2019re-Single-And-Fabulous-These-6-Things-Will-Suck-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Even-When-You\u2019re-Single-And-Fabulous-These-6-Things-Will-Suck-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Even-When-You\u2019re-Single-And-Fabulous-These-6-Things-Will-Suck-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Even-When-You\u2019re-Single-And-Fabulous-These-6-Things-Will-Suck-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019re not single because nobody wants you or because you\u2019re not meant to be loved. Instead, you\u2019re single by your own choice. It doesn\u2019t matter whether you need some extra time to heal from a devastating heartbreak from the past, decided to take some time off from relationships, or simply don\u2019t feel ready for anything&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":59090,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-59087","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-near-a-lake.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? 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