{"id":59088,"date":"2020-04-07T20:17:39","date_gmt":"2020-04-07T20:17:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=59088"},"modified":"2022-03-28T23:22:06","modified_gmt":"2022-03-28T23:22:06","slug":"como-ser-uma-esposa-melhor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-ser-uma-esposa-melhor\/","title":{"rendered":"Como ser uma esposa melhor: 20 dicas eficazes para melhorar o seu casamento"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tanto quanto \u00e9 bonito, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vida conjugal<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 dif\u00edcil. Ter um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">casamento bem sucedido<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> requer muito <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">trabalho \u00e1rduo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e isso requer muita energia.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No entanto, muitos <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">casais casados<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> pensam que o seu trabalho est\u00e1 feito no momento em que dizem os seus votos e n\u00e3o fazem absolutamente nada para ter um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">melhor casamento<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> passado algum tempo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ao fim de algum tempo, deixam de se esfor\u00e7ar e come\u00e7am a tomar o outro como garantido, o que pode ser fatal para qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59105 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-holding-hands-5.jpg\" alt=\"casal com alian\u00e7as de casamento de m\u00e3os dadas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-holding-hands-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-holding-hands-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-holding-hands-5-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The worst part is that once they notice how much harm they&#8217;ve done, it is usually too late to do anything about it and the only option they have to save their relationship is <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">aconselhamento matrimonial<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Apesar de obter <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">aconselhamento matrimonial<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> n\u00e3o \u00e9 motivo de vergonha e significa que tanto a senhora como o seu marido s\u00e3o suficientemente maduros para aceitar que precisam de ajuda para reconstruir o vosso <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">casamento saud\u00e1vel<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, pode ser evitada a tempo.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You both just have to ask yourself: \u201cHow to be a better wife and a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/15-qualidades-adoraveis-de-um-bom-marido\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">melhor <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">marido<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">?\u201dand here is how you can do your part of the job.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">20 pe\u00e7as de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Conselhos sobre rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Sobre como se tornar um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Melhor esposa<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59106 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/married-couple-hugging.jpg\" alt=\"homem de camisa branca a abra\u00e7ar uma mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/married-couple-hugging.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/married-couple-hugging-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/married-couple-hugging-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It doesn&#8217;t matter whether you&#8217;ll see this as a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">acordar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> call and the last chance to do something about your marriage or you&#8217;re just trying to figure out <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">como ser uma esposa melhor.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eis alguns h\u00e1bitos que pode adotar para <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/10-maneiras-fantasticas-de-melhorar-a-vida-amorosa\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">melhorar a sua vida amorosa<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e a rela\u00e7\u00e3o que tem com o seu marido.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quando-o-seu-marido-defende-outra-mulher\/\">12 coisas a fazer e a n\u00e3o fazer quando o seu marido defende outra mulher<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>1. Apoiar os seus sonhos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59118 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-couple.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a beijar homem na face\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-couple.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-couple-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-couple-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The thing you probably don\u2019t know about men is that they usually need a little push when it comes to their life progress.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por muito bem sucedido que seja o seu <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">marido<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e9 e apesar de agir como se conseguisse fazer tudo sozinho, a verdade \u00e9 que todos n\u00f3s precisamos de um pouco de encorajamento quando se trata das coisas que queremos alcan\u00e7ar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So please, don\u2019t make fun of this guy\u2019s dreams, even if some might sound foolish or childish to you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Em vez de o desencorajar, mostre ao seu marido que acredita nele e que tenciona estar ao seu lado em tudo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Men don\u2019t like being involved with girls who hold them back and don\u2019t have faith that they can do whatever they set their mind to.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eles querem estar casados com uma mulher que seja o vento para as suas asas e que os inspire a acreditar em si pr\u00f3prios.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>2. Ser amigo dele<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59119 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-holding-hands-1-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher e homem de m\u00e3os dadas e de p\u00e9 no campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-holding-hands-1-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-holding-hands-1-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-holding-hands-1-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re figuring out how to be a better wife, have in mind that your husband doesn\u2019t need you to be his lover only.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c9 claro que este homem vai gostar de ter uma mulher bomb\u00e1stica, mas precisa de mais do que isso para passar a vida ao seu lado.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your husband needs you to be his friend. When I say this, I\u2019m not claiming that you should try to replace his <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/true-love\/bff\/razoes-melhor-amigo-masculino\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">amigos rapazes<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ou que n\u00e3o deve esperar que ele ande com mais ningu\u00e9m para al\u00e9m de si.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When I mention the word friend, I\u2019m talking about much more than having coffee or watching football games with him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In fact, I\u2019m advising you to show him that you\u2019re one of those rare people who will always mean him well and a person who will never betray or backstab him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59120 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-sitting-on-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"casal sentado no sof\u00e1 ao lado de um c\u00e3o numa sala\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-sitting-on-sofa.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Show him that he can trust you, no matter what, and that you\u2019ll always be there to have his back, through thick and thin. Be his companion, advisor and his person.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most importantly\u2014make sure that your relationship is more than just romantic. You two aren\u2019t only spouses, you\u2019re family and you are bound to spend the rest of your lives together.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This means that even if your marriage ever comes to an end, you\u2019ll forever remain his friend.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nunca o abandonaria nem o trairia, mesmo que os dois deixassem de se amar como homem e mulher ou que a paix\u00e3o entre os dois se desvanecesse.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>3. Dar-lhe espa\u00e7o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59122 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-sitting-on-bridge.jpg\" alt=\"casal sentado numa ponte de madeira na floresta\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-sitting-on-bridge.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-sitting-on-bridge-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-sitting-on-bridge-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quando amamos um homem, o nosso primeiro impulso \u00e9 passar cada segundo do nosso tempo livre com ele.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is perfectly natural that you can\u2019t get enough of your husband and that you have the wish to constantly give him your undivided attention.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nevertheless, you have to accept the fact that most men don\u2019t function in the same way. You see, as much as a guy loves you, after a while, he won\u2019t be able to stand to look at you all the time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This doesn\u2019t mean that <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/fake-love\/cheating\/8-sinais-de-que-ele-esta-a-trair\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">he\u2019s cheating<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ou que se cansou do vosso casamento; ele s\u00f3 precisa de algum tempo longe de si.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59604 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-near-water.jpg\" alt=\"mulher abra\u00e7a homem por tr\u00e1s perto de \u00e1gua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-near-water.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-near-water-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-near-water-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And that is exactly what you should give him if you want to be a perfect wife\u2014the privacy and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/fake-love\/brokenhearted\/porque-e-que-os-homens-precisam-de-espaco-numa-relacao-e-como-lidar-com-isso\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">espa\u00e7o de que necessita<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you don\u2019t want your husband to get bored of you and if you don\u2019t want to chase him away by breathing down his neck all the time, don\u2019t suffocate him and don\u2019t limit his freedom.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No final do dia, podem sempre utilizar o tempo que passam separados para verem o vosso <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">melhores amigos<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or to enjoy some privacy. Either way, it&#8217;s a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vantajoso para todos<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>4. Elogi\u00e1-lo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59124 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-couple-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente a abra\u00e7ar homem sorridente durante o dia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-couple-smiling.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-couple-smiling-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-couple-smiling-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As mulheres n\u00e3o s\u00e3o as \u00fanicas que gostam que a sua cara-metade lhes diga como s\u00e3o bonitas e encantadoras. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mesmo que raramente o admitam, a verdade \u00e9 que os homens tamb\u00e9m gostam de ser elogiados.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don\u2019t have to bore your husband by telling him he\u2019s the most handsome guy alive every single day. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, don\u2019t forget to tell him something nice every now and then, just so he can see how lucky you are for having such a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-sinais-de-que-esta-a-namorar-um-homem-verdadeiramente-bom\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">homem bom<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> como ele ao teu lado.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be careful not to use phony compliments because he\u2019ll see right through you. Instead, focus on the things you really love and admire about him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Praise his looks and personality and especially do so when you notice that he\u2019s feeling low.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>5. Respeit\u00e1-lo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59129 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-hugging-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a abra\u00e7ar mulher por tr\u00e1s perto de uma escada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-hugging-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-hugging-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-hugging-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se est\u00e1 a pensar em como ser uma esposa melhor, saiba que os verdadeiros homens apreciam o respeito acima de tudo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pode amar o seu marido e ser a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">melhor esposa<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> possible in all other fields but if you don\u2019t show him enough respect, he\u2019ll never consider you his perfect match.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should magically become a people pleaser and nod your head to everything he says.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re allowed to disagree with him and call him out on his actions; you just have to carefully pick the way to do so.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59615 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-holding-hands-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente e homem com rel\u00f3gio de m\u00e3os dadas ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-holding-hands-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-holding-hands-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-holding-hands-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No, you don\u2019t have to walk on eggshells around him. However, make sure you don\u2019t insult him or put him down.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O seu comportamento em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a ele \u00e9 especialmente importante em p\u00fablico. O <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00faltima coisa<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> o que o seu marido quer \u00e9 que o humilhe em frente dos vossos amigos comuns ou da fam\u00edlia dele.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before respecting him as your life partner, respect his opinions, freedom and desires and respect him as a man and as an individual. Trust me on one thing\u2014if he\u2019s the right guy, he\u2019ll treat you the same way in return.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>6. Don\u2019t hold grudges forever<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59143 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-on-bench-1.jpg\" alt=\"casal sentado num banco a olhar para a \u00e1gua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-on-bench-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-on-bench-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-on-bench-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Algumas mulheres t\u00eam o h\u00e1bito de guardar ressentimentos durante muito tempo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re one of those wives who has a harder time <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/se-continuas-a-perdoa-lo-apesar-de-ele-nao-estar-a-mudar-le-isto\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">perdoar o seu marido<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> pelos seus erros do passado, por favor, trabalhe nisso porque pode ser mais prejudicial para a sua <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">casamento saud\u00e1vel<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> do que se possa pensar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014it is perfectly normal that you get mad at him or that you have trouble forgiving him when he hurts you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No entanto, guardar rancor e deixar que o passado influencie o presente e o futuro n\u00e3o \u00e9 o caminho a seguir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you leave something behind you, don\u2019t use every opportunity to rub it in his face and don\u2019t bring it up every time you have the slightest disagreement.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Independentemente do que o seu marido tenha feito, depois de falarem sobre o assunto e depois de o perdoar pelas suas palavras ou ac\u00e7\u00f5es, esque\u00e7a esse acontecimento infeliz e siga em frente com a sua vida e o seu casamento.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>7. Que ele seja o homem<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59144 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"homem a beijar a testa de uma mulher ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I know you\u2019re a strong and capable woman who can go through life on her own perfectly fine, without anyone assisting her.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even though I\u2019m not asking you to reduce your inner power, one of the first traits of a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">boa esposa<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e9 que ela permite que o marido seja o homem da casa.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No, this doesn\u2019t include him ordering you around, nor does this type of arrangement make you submissive in any way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u00f3 tens de compreender que a maioria dos homens tem um ego fr\u00e1gil.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59619 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-kissing-woman-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem a beijar mulher morena na testa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-kissing-woman-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-kissing-woman-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-kissing-woman-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por mais que eles se finjam de dur\u00f5es e que seja preciso ter um cuidado redobrado para n\u00e3o lhes estragar a confian\u00e7a ou fazer com que <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/her\/alpha\/mulheres-alfa-que-intimidam-os-homens\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sentir-se intimidado<\/span> <\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pelas vossas capacidades.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You see, every man\u2019s dream is to be his better half\u2019s hero. Your husband wants to be big, strong and fearless in your eyes.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He wants to be your savior and protector, someone who has the ability to wipe away all of your problems and the person you go to when you need a hand. And it\u2019s your job to let him be all of this.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>8. Dizer-lhe o que precisas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59151 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-holding-hands-6.jpg\" alt=\"homem a beijar mulher na testa ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-holding-hands-6.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-holding-hands-6-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-holding-hands-6-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you ask any guy what he hates the most about the opposite sex, one of the first things he\u2019ll tell you is that he despises having to guess what his girlfriend wants and thinks.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m not talking about mind games or playing hard to get here\u2014I\u2019m talking about the fact that in most cases, men have a hard time fully understanding their significant others.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Therefore, don\u2019t expect your husband to be a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">leitor de mentes<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e a agir de acordo com os seus desejos, sem que nunca lhe d\u00ea uma pista sobre eles.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re angry, talk to him about it and tell him what\u2019s wrong, be honest about your expectations and call him out on his behavior if it bothers you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esta \u00e9 a \u00fanica forma de exigir que ele seja um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">melhor marido<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. On the other hand, if you give him the silent treatment and patiently wait for him to guess what you think and want, you won\u2019t get anywhere.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>9. Admirar o seu desempenho debaixo dos len\u00e7\u00f3is<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59152 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"homem a beijar a testa de uma mulher na cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-in-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A menos que seja uma das raras pessoas que se casou com o seu namorado do liceu, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que tenha tido pelo menos alguma experi\u00eancia antes de conhecer o seu marido.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And let\u2019s be honest\u2014just because you love him more than you loved any man before him, it doesn\u2019t mean he\u2019s the best lover you ever had.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No entanto, se quiser aumentar o seu ego e ter uma <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">melhor casamento<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you\u2019ll have to praise his performance under the sheets.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your man wants to feel like he\u2019s a beast in the bedroom and even though he knows he is not the only one who could ever satisfy you, he will enjoy hearing you say that.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Naturally, you\u2019ll give him directions on how to please you even more and you won\u2019t stay silent if he\u2019s doing something you don\u2019t like but even in this scenario, spill the truth with extra care.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>10. Surpreend\u00ea-lo no quarto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59154 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-drinking-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher a beber caf\u00e9 na cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-drinking-coffee.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-drinking-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-drinking-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the other hand, if you want to spice up your marriage life and want the answer to the question \u201cHow to be a better wife?\u201d,&nbsp; you can\u2019t expect all the effort to come from one side only.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re also the one who has to show initiative and try to improve all aspects of your marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Para come\u00e7ar, surpreenda o seu marido no quarto. Pode come\u00e7ar por esper\u00e1-lo nu quando ele chega a casa do trabalho ou comprar uma lingerie nova para o deixar completamente louco.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Trazer coisas novas <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/how-to-be-a-freak-in-the-sheets\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">debaixo dos vossos len\u00e7\u00f3is<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and don\u2019t be afraid to experiment. Make all of his wildest fantasies come true and show him that you\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes to see him happy.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>11. Don\u2019t criticize everything he does<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59166 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-standing-outdoor-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de p\u00e9 ao lado de um homem com um chap\u00e9u preto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-standing-outdoor-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-standing-outdoor-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-standing-outdoor-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Outra coisa que os homens desprezam \u00e9 a constante irrita\u00e7\u00e3o, que os faz sentir que nada do que fazem \u00e9 suficientemente bom.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sei que provavelmente quer que o seu marido seja o melhor homem poss\u00edvel e que quer ajud\u00e1-lo, indicando-lhe a dire\u00e7\u00e3o certa.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But criticizing his every word or move will only have a counterproductive effect and inspire him to do everything contrary to what you\u2019re telling him to do, just to annoy you even more.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por isso, se quiser evitar que este cen\u00e1rio aconte\u00e7a, ir atr\u00e1s dele, comentando negativamente tudo o que ele faz, \u00e9 a melhor op\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00faltima coisa<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> deve fazer.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Em vez disso, encontra uma forma mais adequada de apontar os seus erros.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most importantly\u2014don\u2019t forget to praise him when he does something good. Show him that you\u2019re proud of having such an amazing husband and that you appreciate everything about him.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>12. Cozinhar para ele<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59156 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-in-the-kitchen.jpg\" alt=\"casal na cozinha a sorrir\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-in-the-kitchen.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-in-the-kitchen-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-in-the-kitchen-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se seguiu os guias antigos para um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">casamento feliz<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cozinhar o almo\u00e7o e o jantar do seu marido todos os dias seria a pe\u00e7a n\u00famero um de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">conselhos sobre rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> you\u2019d find.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">De facto, provavelmente dir-lhe-iam para <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">acordar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> todas as manh\u00e3s antes dele para preparar um almo\u00e7o caseiro que ele pudesse levar para o trabalho, em vez de ter de comprar sandes ou fast food todos os dias.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No entanto, os tempos mudaram e cada vez mais <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">casais casados<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> em direto <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">retirar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As much as you might want to do all of this, you probably have a career of your own or you&#8217;re a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">m\u00e3e que fica em casa<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> com muitas outras obriga\u00e7\u00f5es, pelo que \u00e9 literalmente imposs\u00edvel cozinhar refei\u00e7\u00f5es complicadas todos os dias.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the other hand, there really is some truth in the saying that the way to a man\u2019s heart is through his stomach. Therefore, your husband will surely appreciate it if you cook for him from time to time.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m not telling you to prepare food for him just because you\u2019re a woman; I\u2019m advising you to do so because he is the person you love.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>13. Mostrar interesse pela vida dele<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59179 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-sitting-on-dock.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher sentados numa doca junto \u00e0 \u00e1gua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-sitting-on-dock.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-sitting-on-dock-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-sitting-on-dock-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c9 perfeitamente natural que a senhora e o seu marido tenham gostos diferentes em termos de m\u00fasica, filmes e outras coisas. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After all, the two of you are not the same person and as much as you love each other, you can\u2019t have the same interests regarding everything.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No entanto, um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">boa esposa<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> will do her best to get involved in her husband\u2019s life. She will listen to him even when he\u2019s talking about things she couldn\u2019t care less about, such as sports or his work.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t change for his sake and don\u2019t pretend you like the things you don\u2019t give a damn about just to please him. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, it won\u2019t hurt you to, for example, keep him company while he\u2019s watching a football game or buy you two tickets for a concert of his favorite band, even if that is not the music you enjoy listening to.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By doing this, you\u2019re showing your husband that you care about everything he finds important. And what better proof of love does a man need?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>14. Fazer pequenas coisas por ele<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59160 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-lying-on-bed-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher de camisa branca deitados na cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-lying-on-bed-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-lying-on-bed-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-lying-on-bed-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Big emotions are shown through small gestures. Knowing this, it\u2019s clear why you should do <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pequenas coisas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> para o seu marido, para lhe mostrar o quanto ele \u00e9 importante para si.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m not saying that you should become his personal assistant or act like his servant; after all, you two are equal partners.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, you won\u2019t lose your crown if you do some errands on his behalf, if you fold his clothes, take care of his paperwork or do some other favors for him.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>15. Cuidar dele<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59170 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-with-blanket.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a partilhar o cobertor com o homem ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-with-blanket.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-with-blanket-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-with-blanket-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Embora raramente o admitam, a realidade \u00e9 que os homens gostam de ser tratados. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Acreditam que uma mulher os ama quando se preocupa com o seu bem-estar e quando tem em considera\u00e7\u00e3o as suas necessidades.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O seu marido n\u00e3o \u00e9 exce\u00e7\u00e3o; ele pode fingir ser um macho duro, mas provavelmente \u00e9 um grande beb\u00e9 que precisa que o mime.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por conseguinte, se quiser ser um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">boa esposa<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, show your man that you care if he\u2019s had enough sleep, if he\u2019s eaten well, if he\u2019s tired and if he needs any help.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, what is important here is not to turn into his mother because no man likes that either. Take care of him but don\u2019t forget that you\u2019re his wife and that you shouldn\u2019t use your marriage as a chance to raise him.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>16. Ser simp\u00e1tico com os seus amigos e familiares<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59420 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/people-standing-in-the-kitchen.jpg\" alt=\"quatro pessoas de p\u00e9 perto da mesa da cozinha\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/people-standing-in-the-kitchen.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/people-standing-in-the-kitchen-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/people-standing-in-the-kitchen-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your husband\u2019s <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">melhores amigos<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e a fam\u00edlia s\u00e3o as pessoas que ele ama. Os seus <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">entes queridos<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> fizeram parte da vida dele mesmo antes de voc\u00ea aparecer e nunca deve tentar afast\u00e1-lo deles.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In fact, you will make him the happiest man in the world if you\u2019re on good terms with the ones he loves.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even if you don\u2019t have much sympathy for these people and if you would never choose them to be a part of your life if it weren\u2019t for your significant other.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esfor\u00e7ar-se por tratar os seus <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">entes queridos<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> t\u00e3o bem quanto poss\u00edvel, simplesmente porque s\u00e3o importantes para ele.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Claro que isto s\u00f3 se aplica na situa\u00e7\u00e3o em que todos eles o tratam da forma que merece.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ningu\u00e9m te est\u00e1 a dizer que tens de andar com os seus <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">melhor amigo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or that you have to accept his parents like they\u2019re your own but even if you can\u2019t get along.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You have to respect all of these people and your husband\u2019s feelings toward them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>17. Don\u2019t try to change him<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59171 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-in-water.jpg\" alt=\"homem a abra\u00e7ar mulher a rir na \u00e1gua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-in-water.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-in-water-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-in-water-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O seu marido n\u00e3o est\u00e1 nem perto da perfei\u00e7\u00e3o. No entanto, tu tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o o \u00e9s.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fim do dia<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, this isn\u2019t relevant; what matters is that you two are imperfectly perfect together.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So please, don\u2019t put any effort into turning your spouse into something he\u2019s not.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Uma coisa \u00e9 empurr\u00e1-lo para se tornar a melhor vers\u00e3o poss\u00edvel de si pr\u00f3prio, mas \u00e9 completamente diferente se quiser <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/as-raparigas-tentam-mudar-os-homens-as-mulheres-apenas-mudam-de-direcao\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mudan\u00e7a<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> a ess\u00eancia de quem ele \u00e9.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Afinal de contas, sabe por quem se apaixonou e \u00e9 injusto se quiser fazer algumas modifica\u00e7\u00f5es cruciais em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 sua personalidade (ou apar\u00eancia) agora que est\u00e3o casados.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t expect your love to change this man and if you really care for him and want him to feel good about himself, accept him for who he really is, together with all of his flaws.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>18. Investir no autocuidado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-59173\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pexels-photo-3617550-1024x682.jpeg\" alt=\"homem de camisa branca e mulher de vestido branco abra\u00e7ados\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pexels-photo-3617550-1024x682.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pexels-photo-3617550-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pexels-photo-3617550-768x512.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pexels-photo-3617550-1536x1024.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pexels-photo-3617550-1600x1066.jpeg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pexels-photo-3617550.jpeg 1880w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you\u2019re trying to figure out <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">como tornar-se uma esposa melhor<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you\u2019re probably mostly focused on the things you can do about your husband.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No entanto, o que tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 crucial \u00e9 o seu pr\u00f3prio auto-aperfei\u00e7oamento, no qual se deve concentrar.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cuidar do seu marido \u00e9 apenas uma parte do processo e <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/6-strong-self-care-tips-women-survived-emotional-abuse\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">autocuidado<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e9 a outra. Isto significa que deve fazer um esfor\u00e7o para estar sempre no seu melhor.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Claro que ningu\u00e9m lhe pode pedir para usar um vestido e maquilhagem completa todos os segundos de cada dia.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After all, that would be impossible since this is the man you\u2019re living with and not just the guy you go out on <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">noites de namoro<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> com.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No entanto, o que pode fazer \u00e9 ter considera\u00e7\u00f5es especiais relativamente \u00e0 sua higiene pessoal. Pode ter o cabelo limpo e bem arranjado, depilar o corpo regularmente e cheirar bem em todas as ocasi\u00f5es.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59175 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-in-park.jpg\" alt=\"homem de p\u00e9 atr\u00e1s de uma mulher sorridente num baloi\u00e7o\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-in-park.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-in-park-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-in-park-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Just because you\u2019re married, it doesn\u2019t mean that you should let loose and forget about your appearance. Your job is not done; you have to keep on seducing this man for as long as you two are together.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The same goes for your personality\u2014it is also something you need to work on constantly if you want a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">casamento bem sucedido<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Leia, informe-se e esforce-se por se tornar uma mulher melhor antes de ser uma <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">melhor esposa<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most importantly\u2014make sure you are a happy woman because that is the only way to become a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">esposa feliz<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As much as we would all like to be happy and cheerful all the time, sadly, that is utterly impossible. You, like everyone else, have periods when you\u2019re nervous, cranky and feel low.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nevertheless, you can\u2019t spread negative energy if you want to be a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">boa esposa<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ao seu c\u00f4njuge.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Trust me\u2014your pessimism and bad mood he comes home to after a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dia longo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> s\u00e3o as primeiras coisas que podem afugentar este homem.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>19. Ser rom\u00e2ntico<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59176 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-having-picnic.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher sentados num tecido azul ao lado de um cesto de piquenique\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-having-picnic.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-having-picnic-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-having-picnic-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se quiser um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with your spouse, don&#8217;t wait for a special occasion such as <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Valentine&#8217;s Day<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or your husband&#8217;s birthday to surprise him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Apesar de terem uma vida muito ocupada, n\u00e3o deixem de sair <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">noites de namoro<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e passar algum tempo de qualidade a s\u00f3s.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don&#8217;t have to throw huge romantic gestures every day but at least once in a while, surprise him by, for example, getting a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">bab\u00e1<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e lev\u00e1-lo para um jantar rom\u00e2ntico.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mostra-lhe que o amas da mesma forma <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Valentine&#8217;s Day<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, o seu <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/carta-de-aniversario-para-o-meu-marido-obrigado-por-seres-tu\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">anivers\u00e1rio<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e todos os outros dias do ano.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>20. Ama-o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59177 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-standing-on-beach.jpg\" alt=\"mulher e homem de p\u00e9 na praia e a beijarem-se\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-standing-on-beach.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-standing-on-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-standing-on-beach-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Finally, the answer to the question \u2018<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Como posso ser uma esposa melhor<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e melhorar a minha <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vida conjugal<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">?\u2019 is actually pretty simple.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Acima de tudo, se queres ser o <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/22-sinais-material-de-esposa-perfeita-segundo-os-homens\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">melhor esposa<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> sempre<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, adoro o vosso <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">marido<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> com todo o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e certifica-te de que ele sente a profundidade das tuas emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t hold back any parts of yourself and show him how committed and dedicated you are to your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">casamento feliz<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Show him that you\u2019re still <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/ela-nao-e-carente-esta-apenas-loucamente-apaixonada-por-ti\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">loucamente apaixonada por ele<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e que o vosso amor por ele \u00e9 incondicional e intermin\u00e1vel.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Prove to him that there is nothing you wouldn\u2019t do for his sake and that you\u2019re ready to fight for your relationship until your last breath.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014no matter how big it is, love is never enough. However, at the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fim do dia<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00e9 fundamental e, sem ela, tudo o resto \u00e9 em v\u00e3o e um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> n\u00e3o \u00e9 poss\u00edvel.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-59406 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Be-A-Better-Wife-20-Effective-Tips-To-Improve-Your-Marriage-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Como ser uma esposa melhor 20 dicas eficazes para melhorar o seu casamento Pinterest\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Be-A-Better-Wife-20-Effective-Tips-To-Improve-Your-Marriage-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Be-A-Better-Wife-20-Effective-Tips-To-Improve-Your-Marriage-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Be-A-Better-Wife-20-Effective-Tips-To-Improve-Your-Marriage-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Be-A-Better-Wife-20-Effective-Tips-To-Improve-Your-Marriage-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As much as it is beautiful, married life is also tough. Having a successful marriage requires a lot of hard work and it takes a lot of energy. However, many married couples think that their job is done the moment they say their vows and they do absolutely nothing to have a better marriage and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":59102,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-59088","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Be-A-Better-Wife-20-Effective-Tips-To-Improve-Your-Marriage.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. 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