{"id":5909,"date":"2020-08-02T07:38:09","date_gmt":"2020-08-02T07:38:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5909"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:29:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:29:13","slug":"o-tipo-da-carta-nao-conseguia-decidir-o-que-queria","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-tipo-da-carta-nao-conseguia-decidir-o-que-queria\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para o homem que n\u00e3o conseguia decidir o que queria"},"content":{"rendered":"

Talvez nunca leiam esta carta, mas s\u00f3 queria dizer o que me vai na alma.<\/p>\n

Preciso de p\u00f4r as minhas emo\u00e7\u00f5es numa folha de papel e, depois de ler tudo, talvez seja suficientemente forte para encerrar este cap\u00edtulo da minha vida.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 quero que saibas que n\u00e3o \u00e9 f\u00e1cil para mim fazer isto e que, enquanto escrevo esta carta, tenho sentimentos contradit\u00f3rios a teu respeito no meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Alguns deles dizem-me que mereces uma segunda oportunidade mas, por outro lado, h\u00e1 aqueles sentimentos feios que se desenvolveram a partir de todas as coisas m\u00e1s que me fizeste.<\/p>\n

I want you to know one thing\u2014you were the man I loved the most but you hurt me.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Significaste o mundo para mim e vi em ti tudo aquilo com que sempre sonhei.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Sabias uma boa maneira de me conquistar. Sabias como entrar no meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. E estavas l\u00e1 mesmo antes de eu me aperceber.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 dif\u00edcil expulsar algu\u00e9m do nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/a> Quero dizer, havia uma raz\u00e3o para l\u00e1 estares.<\/p>\n

I must have felt something for you, right? But you didn\u2019t care about it. And honestly, I don\u2019t know if your purpose was to hurt me or you did that accidentally.<\/p>\n

I just know that after our breakup I am still broken. I can\u2019t shake this feeling of sorrow off. I am trying so hard to be the old me. The one who is always cheerful and the one who never gives up.<\/p>\n

Agora, estou a pensar se devia ter lutado mais por ti . <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Maybe you were calling me to help you but I didn\u2019t know to recognize your voice.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t see that you needed me. But when I think twice, it wasn\u2019t all my fault.<\/p>\n

If you need someone, you come and say it. You don\u2019t hurt people just to get their attention. I guess you chose the wrong way.<\/p>\n

I just want to tell you that I couldn\u2019t stand your moody behavior anymore.<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t stand that you said that you loved me one day and I would catch you with another girl the next one.<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t be in that magic circle anymore. I needed the truth from you.<\/p>\n

I needed you to admit either that you love me and want to stay with me or that you don\u2019t want me to be a part of your life anymore.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Mas nunca ouvi essas palavras a sa\u00edrem da tua boca.<\/p>\n

E depois, num piscar de olhos, apercebi-me Eu devia parar de esperar por ti.<\/a><\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Porque a tua indecis\u00e3o foi uma decis\u00e3o.<\/a><\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

A decision that you don\u2019t love me enough to provide me with all the love I need. You couldn\u2019t have loved me with the same amount of love and passion that I felt for you.<\/p>\n

Mas foi um cobarde em admiti-lo.<\/p>\n

Era mais f\u00e1cil enrolar-me no teu dedo mindinho e estar comigo quando te era conveniente.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Because that was something I always was\u2014your second choice, a girl you always crawled to when others abandoned you.<\/p>\n

Mas agora \u00e9 suficiente. Eu desisto de ti.<\/p>\n

Desisto do nosso amor e de tudo o que poder\u00edamos ter tido se estivesses um pouco mais disposto a tentar.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to fight for someone who doesn\u2019t fight for me. I don\u2019t need an almost relationship.<\/p>\n

Mere\u00e7o tudo ou n\u00e3o mere\u00e7o nada. E acho que experimentei a segunda hip\u00f3tese contigo.<\/p>\n

Por isso, ouve isto: Eu vou esperar por um gajo que sabe o que quer<\/i><\/b> .<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Vou esperar por algu\u00e9m que se dedique a uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o e n\u00e3o desapare\u00e7a durante 2 meses e depois apare\u00e7a de repente.<\/p>\n

I want someone who will always be there. Because that is what people in love do\u2014they can rely on each other.<\/p>\n

No final, quero que te lembres de uma coisa: nunca saias com outra rapariga se n\u00e3o estiveres disposto a dar tudo de ti<\/i><\/b> .<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let another one suffer like I did. Make sure that you can handle everything before you even start it. Or don\u2019t start it at all.<\/p>\n

Com zero amor,<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Aquele que era mais do que suficiente para ti<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Maybe you will never read this letter, but I just wanted to say what is on my mind. I need to put my emotions on a piece of paper and once I read it all, maybe I will be strong enough to close this chapter of my life. I just want you to know that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":102588,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5909","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Couldnt-Decide-What-He-Wanted.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5909","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5909"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5909\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/102588"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5909"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5909"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5909"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}