{"id":5910,"date":"2017-10-02T07:28:15","date_gmt":"2017-10-02T07:28:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5910"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:59:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:59:21","slug":"homem-espancado-ate-a-morte-emocional","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/homem-espancado-ate-a-morte-emocional\/","title":{"rendered":"Para o tipo que me bateu at\u00e9 \u00e0 morte emocional"},"content":{"rendered":"

Caro <\/span>\u201cSavior\u201d<\/span><\/i>,<\/span><\/p>\n

Who would have thought I will be thanking you after all you have done to me? Isn\u2019t life full of surprises? One moment you are dying inside and the other one you are finally free\u2014you are the happiest person alive.<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, my dear, thank you for giving me the gift of freedom. Thank you for giving me the gift of life. Thank you for making me realize I\u2019m much more than I thought.<\/span><\/p>\n

Obrigado por me teres espancado at\u00e9 \u00e0 morte emocional. S\u00f3 ent\u00e3o eu poderia ter nascido de novo. S\u00f3 ent\u00e3o, quando n\u00e3o tinha mais nada a perder, \u00e9 que me apercebi do que estava a perder.<\/span><\/p>\n

Thank you for making me see that I need a man by my side\u2014not you, not a dirty little cockroach, but um homem de verdade. <\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

Thank you for making me realize I can\u2019t sink much lower from where I am now. I\u2019ve hit rock bottom. That fall beat some sense back to me. That hit in the head was the best thing that has ever happened to me. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pela primeira vez, aquele jorro de sangue n\u00e3o foi em v\u00e3o. Pela primeira vez, cair inconsciente era um sonho bonito e n\u00e3o um pesadelo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Todas as vezes antes disso, quando me fazias cair inconsciente, eu sonhava contigo. Nunca quis acordar porque sabia que ia acordar ao teu lado. Porque eu sabia que o meu pesadelo nunca iria acabar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Desta vez foi diferente. Desta vez eu queria acordar e lutar. E foi o que fiz. <\/span><\/p>\n

I fought with everything I\u2019ve got. I thought that I didn\u2019t have it in me anymore. <\/span><\/p>\n

Durante um breve per\u00edodo de tempo, tirou-mo<\/a>\u2014along with my pride, self-respect, self-worth and independence. <\/span><\/p>\n

I thought I was nothing without you. I was scared of living my life without you. I thought you were the one who\u2019s going to help me. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca pensei que fosses tu que me estivesses a prender.<\/span><\/p>\n

Every second I spent with you was like trying to swim in a deep and vast cold ocean with no help on the horizon. I swam and I swam, but something was pulling me down\u2014it was you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Para<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o mais. Aquela noite horr\u00edvel foi a noite em que finalmente me libertei das tuas garras. De repente, vi a margem e consegui nadar at\u00e9 terra.<\/span><\/p>\n

It all began with a simple question that night. A question that turned into an explosion. You were yelling\u2014that was nothing new. I got used to your sharp notes when you screamed at me. It was like I was listening to the most beautiful notes anyone ever wrote.<\/span><\/p>\n

Then, it got rough. You\u2019ve pulled me down onto the floor like I was a piece of nothing. You dragged me by my hair with your fists full of it. Your cold heartless hands were wrapped around my neck. <\/span><\/p>\n

I was begging for you to kill me. No, you didn\u2019t. You kept me hanging on a thin line between death and life. Just to make me suffer. <\/span><\/p>\n

A \u00faltima coisa de que me lembro \u00e9 de uma pancada fria e forte na minha cabe\u00e7a. E foi isso. Pensei que estava finalmente morto. Mas em vez disso, tive um sonho.<\/span><\/p>\n

The most beautiful dream. The dream that finally set me free. The dream that said: \u201cGet it together!\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Obrigado por isso. Obrigado por ter ido um pouco mais longe do que queria. <\/span><\/p>\n

Esse pequeno passo extra que deste significou o mundo para mim.<\/span><\/p>\n

Libertou-me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Com os melhores cumprimentos,<\/span><\/p>\n

O seu ex-amante<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\"Para<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dear \u201cSavior\u201d, Who would have thought I will be thanking you after all you have done to me? Isn\u2019t life full of surprises? One moment you are dying inside and the other one you are finally free\u2014you are the happiest person alive. Well, my dear, thank you for giving me the gift of freedom. Thank…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":5911,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5910","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/jonatan-becerra-176647.jpg",800,530,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5910","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5910"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5910\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5911"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5910"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5910"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5910"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}