Depois de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica, uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o normal \u00e9 estranha. <\/a><\/p>\r\nI had a hard time accepting normal love until I realized that all relationships aren\u2019t filled with screaming and fighting and making each other feel bad or even miserable.<\/p>\r\n
Mas as li\u00e7\u00f5es que aprendemos na vida chegam sempre tarde. Nunca chegam a tempo.<\/p>\r\n
You have to push a few good people away just like I did before you realize what you\u2019re doing. And you push them away not because you don\u2019t want them, but because you don\u2019t know how to handle them.<\/p>\r\n
You push good people away because you\u2019re afraid of that unknown feeling you get when somebody treats you the way you deserve.<\/p>\r\n
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You also push good people away because no matter how much you wish to see your old love in them, you\u2019re still scared that what you wish for might happen.<\/p>\r\n
Paradoxical and completely messy, but that\u2019s the aftermath of being with a toxic person.<\/p>\r\n
But, a toxic love isn\u2019t a valid reason for you to fear new love.<\/p>\r\n
It takes time to overcome what you\u2019ve been through and to purify your blood from all the toxins, and you\u2019ll probably be mad that it takes so long, but you\u2019ll also need to find patience.<\/p>\r\n
Because it will hurt, but it won\u2019t hurt forever. The past will torment and haunt you, but it won\u2019t last forever.<\/p>\r\n
And then you’ll learn to accept normal love. You’ll welcome somebody who\u2019ll choose to cherish you and see things from your perspective instead of crucifying you.<\/p>\r\n
You\u2019ll see that there wasn\u2019t an L out of love you thought you had with your toxic partner.<\/p>\r\n
You\u2019ll realize that you needed to go through hell so you could be ready for heaven. <\/b><\/p>\r\n
Precisaste de estar com uma pessoa t\u00f3xica para conheceres o valor daqueles que te tratam como mereces.<\/b><\/p>\r\n
And no matter how late the lessons you learned kicked in, you\u2019ll be thankful that they showed up at all. You\u2019ll thank God you didn\u2019t get what you wanted\u2014that he didn\u2019t fix what was broken.<\/p>\r\n
Porque, em vez de responder \u00e0s tuas preces, fez-te ver que mereces muito mais.<\/p>\r\n
Porque em vez de obter o que queria, obteve o que precisava.<\/p>\r\n\r\n
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