{"id":59378,"date":"2020-04-07T20:23:31","date_gmt":"2020-04-07T20:23:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=59378"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:42:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:42:43","slug":"fazer-com-que-a-tua-paixao-goste-de-ti-de-novo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/fazer-com-que-a-tua-paixao-goste-de-ti-de-novo\/","title":{"rendered":"Como fazer com que a tua paix\u00e3o volte a gostar de ti: 15 passos para o sucesso"},"content":{"rendered":"

You wouldn’t say that you’re completamente apaixonado<\/a> with this person, but you’re definitely into them and you would like to give it a shot.<\/p>\n

A quest\u00e3o \u00e9 como<\/em>, when you don’t have a clue about their feelings?<\/p>\n

Como fazer com que a sua paix\u00e3o goste de si sem parecer desesperada e carente?<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Deve utilizar as redes sociais para o fazer? Ou deve abord\u00e1-los pessoalmente?<\/p>\n

Deve ser direto ou pode apenas enviar-lhes sugest\u00f5es?<\/p>\n

If these are some of the questions going through your head and if you’re wondering how to get your crush to like you in no time at all, then read on for all the answers you need.<\/p>\n

15 Ways To Get Your Crush’s Attention<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

1. Cuide da sua apar\u00eancia<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Quando j\u00e1 se gosta de algu\u00e9m, a sua apar\u00eancia f\u00edsica vem em \u00faltimo lugar.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re way more interested in what type of person they are and in the way they treat you.<\/p>\n

However, before you meet someone for the first time, their looks are the first thing you\u2019re drawn to.<\/p>\n

A sua paix\u00e3o n\u00e3o \u00e9 exce\u00e7\u00e3o - ela tem de o encontrar fisicamente atraente<\/a> before they\u2019ll give you a real chance.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Your looks<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re wondering how to get your crush to notice you, the first thing you should take special care of is your looks.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you have to look like a top model with a perfect face and body, but if nothing else, you have to be pleasant to this person\u2019s eye.<\/p>\n

Of course, you shouldn\u2019t go under any aesthetic procedures or plastic surgeries to become someone you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

Instead, hit the gym to tone your body a little, and if you\u2019re a girl, wear makeup that suits you, while if you\u2019re a guy, try growing a beard.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Dress to impress<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

O passo seguinte \u00e9 pensar na forma como se veste.<\/p>\n

When I tell you to dress to impress, it doesn\u2019t mean that you should wear super classy outfits-just dress for the occasion.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not good at matching your clothes, stick to the basics and you shouldn\u2019t make a mistake.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re a girl, emphasize your attributes but do it as subtly as possible.<\/p>\n

After all, you don\u2019t want your crush to think that boobs are the only thing you have to offer.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Personal hygiene<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Listen carefully to this one because I can\u2019t underline it enough: always practice good personal hygiene.<\/p>\n

Tenha um cheiro irresist\u00edvel, tome banho regularmente, mude de roupa e certifique-se de que tem um h\u00e1lito fresco.<\/p>\n

Trust me-you could look like you\u2019ve just stepped out from the cover of a magazine, but if your personal hygiene is questionable, it will all be in vain.<\/p>\n

2. Trabalhar a sua autoestima<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you know a bunch of good looking people with amazing personalities who have absolutely no luck with the opposite sex. Why do you think that is?<\/p>\n

Quando os observamos, eles t\u00eam literalmente tudo o que algu\u00e9m procuraria num parceiro. <\/p>\n

However, if you look closely and pay more attention, you\u2019ll see that they\u2019re missing a certain X factor.<\/p>\n

Well, that factor you can\u2019t seem to define is called self-esteem. Lucky for you, confidence can be worked on.<\/p>\n

You see, here is the trick: you can\u2019t expect your crush to think of you as worthy of their attention if you don\u2019t see your own value.<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t expect them to see your qualities if you\u2019re unaware of them in the first place, and you certainly can\u2019t expect them to see you as a catch if you don\u2019t think that way about yourself.<\/p>\n

The truth is that you can\u2019t become confident overnight. But you can pretend to be.<\/p>\n

Por isso, para come\u00e7ar, finja a sua autoestima. Esque\u00e7a a sua inseguran\u00e7as<\/a> e riscar a possibilidade de falhar.<\/p>\n

Quando vires a tua paix\u00e3o, age como se fosses o dono da sala.<\/p>\n

Even if you\u2019re dying on the inside, pretend that you\u2019re certain of yourself-trust me, there is no bigger turn on than this.<\/p>\n

3. Elogie-os<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

The best way to initiate some kind of contact with the person you\u2019re into is to compliment them.<\/p>\n

Everyone likes to be praised and if you\u2019re the one who can make your crush feel good about themselves, they\u2019ll definitely develop interest in you.<\/p>\n

However, instead of only focusing on this person\u2019s looks, stand out by complementing their personality and accomplishments.<\/p>\n

This especially applies if you\u2019re a man, trying to get a woman to like you.<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso ter consci\u00eancia de que dezenas de rapazes abordam esta rapariga a toda a hora e, provavelmente, tudo o que fazem \u00e9 dizer-lhe como ela \u00e9 bonita e atraente.<\/p>\n

Por isso, a forma de ser especial \u00e9 prestar mais aten\u00e7\u00e3o a outras coisas para al\u00e9m dos atributos f\u00edsicos dela.<\/p>\n

Trust me-she\u2019ll cherish it more than anything.<\/p>\n

4. Trabalhar o sentido de humor<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Como fazer com que a tua paix\u00e3o goste de ti?<\/p>\n

Well, one of the most efficient ways to work your way into someone\u2019s heart (and into their pants) is without doubt a good sense of humor.<\/p>\n

This is a social skill you can work on if you don\u2019t have natural talent.<\/p>\n

O in\u00edcio da conversa pode ser uma boa anedota, que far\u00e1 a sua cara-metade rir e animar\u00e1 o ambiente.<\/p>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

No entanto, tenha cuidado com o tipo de piadas que conta.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re trying to make a good first impression, avoid dark humor because not everyone is into it.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, evite piadas porcas - para al\u00e9m de serem inapropriadas e rudes, podem fazer com que a outra pessoa pense que s\u00f3 tem uma coisa em mente.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re prone to sarcasm, make sure you don\u2019t cross the line and become cynical.<\/p>\n

5. Partilhar um segredo<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

What\u2019s a better way to get someone to trust you and ultimately to fall for you than sharing a personal secret with them?<\/p>\n

Se queres que a tua paix\u00e3o se abra contigo, tens de mostre-lhes primeiro as suas vulnerabilidades<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, deve certificar-se de que se apresenta da melhor forma poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

However, don\u2019t rule out the possibility of exposing some of your flaws and imperfections either.<\/p>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

This way, when your crush sees that you\u2019re not perfect, they\u2019ll become more relaxed in your presence and they won\u2019t be afraid to reveal their true personality.<\/p>\n

Also, you\u2019ll show them that they\u2019re important to you and that you trust them, which is a big deal for everyone.<\/p>\n

This kind of experience can serve as a chance to bond with the person you\u2019re interested in on a much deeper level.<\/p>\n

6. Mostrar interesse pela sua vida<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re trying to figure out how to get your crush to like you, the next step is to show an interest in their life and to present yourself as a good listener and a good friend.<\/p>\n

No, you shouldn\u2019t be too nosy, nor should you openly stalk them to get some information-the point is to show them that you care enough.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t go straight to sensitive subjects. Instead, start by engaging in small talk and asking them about their daily routines, hobbies, career, melhores amigos<\/a> e outras coisas inofensivas.<\/p>\n

Once you see that you\u2019re both becoming more relaxed, proceed with some deeper topics.<\/p>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7a-lhes algumas perguntas pessoais e mostre interesse pelos seus medos, ambi\u00e7\u00f5es e sonhos mais loucos.<\/p>\n

Confie em mim - ser\u00e1 refrescante ter algu\u00e9m com quem possa falar sobre estas coisas.<\/p>\n

When it comes to love topics, at the beginning it will be enough to find out whether they\u2019re emotionally available (I\u2019m guessing you already know that they\u2019re single-otherwise you wouldn\u2019t keep hitting on them).<\/p>\n

If you start talking about your previous relationships, don\u2019t dig too much through the past and let them give you the amount of information they feel comfortable giving.<\/p>\n

7. Encontre os seus interesses comuns<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Muitas pessoas dir-lhe-\u00e3o que os opostos se atraem.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong-I\u2019m not going to argue with this notion: they do attract but they rarely last.<\/p>\n

Bear in mind that familiarity is the key to getting under someone\u2019s skin.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 cientificamente provado que \u00e9 mais prov\u00e1vel que as pessoas se apaixonem por algu\u00e9m que tenha interesses semelhantes aos seus.<\/p>\n

Therefore, it\u2019s your job to find the common interests you have with your crush.<\/p>\n

Investigue-os um pouco, descubra o que essa rapariga ou rapaz gosta e encontre algumas semelhan\u00e7as entre voc\u00eas os dois.<\/p>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Naturally, you won\u2019t admit that you\u2019ve been stalking them and you\u2019ll present everything you know as a huge coincidence.<\/p>\n

For example, if you happen to find out that they\u2019re into a certain band or a type of music, casually mention how you enjoy listening to them or even ask them to tag along to a concert.<\/p>\n

Trust me-once they hear something like this, they\u2019ll think it\u2019s a sign of faith.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s more than obvious that you\u2019re their soulmate and a match made in heaven.<\/p>\n

Of course, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should pretend to be someone you\u2019re not just to impress your crush.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t change your basic interests to please them because the truth will be revealed sooner or later.<\/p>\n

8. Utilizar sinais de linguagem corporal<\/h2>\n

\"Grande<\/p>\n

Na maioria dos casos, a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o verbal fala mais alto do que as palavras.<\/p>\n

So, if you\u2019re trying to figure out how to get your crush to like you back, without you having to admit your feelings, using sinais de linguagem corporal<\/a> para seu benef\u00edcio \u00e9 o ideal para si.<\/p>\n

Para al\u00e9m de utilizar estes sinais n\u00e3o-verbais para demonstrar o seu interesse, tamb\u00e9m pode observar os mesmos sinais na sua paixoneta.<\/p>\n

If they\u2019re sending you similar signals, they\u2019re definitely into you and if they don\u2019t,you probably need to try a little bit harder.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Stay near them<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Antes de mais, aproveite todas as oportunidades que tiver para estar o mais pr\u00f3ximo poss\u00edvel da sua paix\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

No, you won\u2019t turn into a stalker who is constantly at their shoulder but if you two are in the same crowd, make sure you always sit next to each other, if you talk to them, whisper in their ear and if you stand near them, make sure your feet are pointed toward theirs.<\/p>\n

\u00c0 primeira vista, estes movimentos podem parecer completamente disparatados e sem sentido, mas acredite em mim - eles t\u00eam um objetivo mais profundo.<\/p>\n

If you use them, your crush will become accustomed to your presence and you\u2019ll have a better chance of making an actual first move on them.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Make eye contact<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Hear me out: in these types of situations, eye contact is everything and it\u2019s your job to initiate and maintain it.<\/p>\n

Os olhos s\u00e3o as janelas da alma: podem ajud\u00e1-lo a revelar os seus verdadeiros sentimentos e s\u00e3o uma \u00f3ptima forma de namoriscar.<\/p>\n

Comece por olhar de relance para a sua cara-metade e veja como ela reage.<\/p>\n

O passo seguinte \u00e9 olhar fixamente para eles (mas n\u00e3o de uma forma assustadora) e n\u00e3o desviar o olhar, mesmo quando eles o fazem.<\/p>\n

If your crush notices that you’re trying to make eye contact and returns the look-there is no doubt that they like you back.<\/p>\n

However, if they look away, it doesn\u2019t necessarily mean all of your chances are gone: maybe they\u2019re too shy for deep prolonged contacto visual<\/a> or they\u2019re teasing you on purpose.<\/p>\n

-<\/strong> Toque f\u00edsico acidental<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"As<\/p>\n

No que diz respeito a estes sinais de linguagem corporal, o \u00faltimo passo s\u00e3o os toques f\u00edsicos acidentais.<\/p>\n

This is the moment where you should be extra careful because you don\u2019t want to appear creepy and you have to respect the other person\u2019s personal space and boundaries, as much as you have the need to touch them.<\/p>\n

To begin with, it should be enough to try holding their hand while you\u2019re talking.<\/p>\n

\"Bra\u00e7os<\/p>\n

Pode colocar a sua m\u00e3o no ombro ou mesmo no joelho da pessoa, se tiver oportunidade.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, quando se cumprimentarem, beijem-no sempre na face e segurem-no nos bra\u00e7os um pouco mais do que o habitual.<\/p>\n

What matters here is for you to carefully observe your crush\u2019s feedback.<\/p>\n

If you see that they\u2019re not comfortable with what you\u2019re doing-step back immediately.<\/p>\n

9. N\u00e3o se meta na zona dos amigos<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Um dos maiores problemas com que se pode deparar ao descobrir como fazer com que a sua paixoneta goste de si \u00e9 acidentalmente acabar na zona dos amigos<\/a>.<\/p>\n

In order for you to get the person you\u2019re interested in to like you, you have no option but to hang out with them, but that can easily lead to you becoming good friends, which is something you clearly don\u2019t want.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you have to find a way to make your intentions clear.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be too pushy but show them that you\u2019re actually hitting on them all the time and that you aren\u2019t interested in becoming their best friend but rather their potential partner.<\/p>\n

\"Bra\u00e7o<\/p>\n

Por exemplo, evite ser o seu ombro para chorar quando se trata de outras pessoas.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let them talk to you about their dates and don\u2019t give them advice on how to go back to their ex-because this is what friends do.<\/p>\n

Be friendly, but use every chance you get to tease them. Most importantly-don\u2019t forget to flirt!<\/p>\n

10. Show them that they can count on you\u2026<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Possivelmente, a melhor qualidade para fazer de si um namorado ou namorada \u00e9 a fiabilidade.<\/p>\n

Everyone likes having a partner they can count on and who has their back, so you need to show your crush you\u2019re the person for the job.<\/p>\n

Cuide deles e seja a primeira pessoa a quem telefonam quando precisam de um conselho ou de uma opini\u00e3o sobre algo.<\/p>\n

Show them that you\u2019re there for them, be consistent and make them understand that you\u2019re not leaving their side, no matter what happens.<\/p>\n

11. …but don\u2019t be too available<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

However, don\u2019t let your crush take advantage of you, which is exactly the effect you\u2019ll have if you become too available.<\/p>\n

Show them that you\u2019re there but that you have a life of your own as well.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be the one calling and texting all the time, as if you have no one else to talk to.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give them the impression that you\u2019re ready to put your life on hold until they have the decency to choose you.<\/p>\n

Basicamente, tenha cuidado para n\u00e3o se tornar o cachorrinho deles e a pessoa a quem chamam apenas quando precisam de um favor.<\/p>\n

12. Fazer algo para os impressionar<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Se quiser destacar-se da multid\u00e3o, a melhor maneira de o fazer \u00e9 impressionar a sua paix\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n

However, when it comes to this step, you have to be aware that not all people are impressed by the same things, so you have to find something that fascinates this person you\u2019re into.<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que pode fazer com que a tua paix\u00e3o se apaixone por ti? Que tipo de pessoa \u00e9 que ela \u00e9 e o que \u00e9 que a far\u00e1 perder a cabe\u00e7a?<\/p>\n

\u00c9 a forma como resolve um determinado problema que eles t\u00eam? \u00c9 o facto de conseguir bilhetes para o seu espet\u00e1culo favorito?<\/p>\n

Ou ser\u00e1 que se est\u00e1 a lembrar de pequenas coisas sobre eles que mencionaram casualmente h\u00e1 algum tempo atr\u00e1s?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s your job to find out and to use it to your advantage.<\/p>\n

13. Passar tempo com eles<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

As I already mentioned, familiarity is usually the key to someone\u2019s heart.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you have to become a part of your crush\u2019s life if you want to get them to like you back.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be boring but make sure you have regular contact and communication.<\/p>\n

Inicie conversas e deixe-os habituarem-se \u00e0 sua presen\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

No entanto, ao fim de algum tempo, pare de telefonar e enviar mensagens e tente afastar-se um pouco.<\/p>\n

Make them miss you and feel your absence, so they\u2019ll get scared of losing you and understand that they want you by their side.<\/p>\n

Yes, this may seem like you\u2019re playing mind games but sometimes, you simply have to do it if you want to achieve your goals.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t manipulate them-just make a perfect balance and from time to time, let them chase you.<\/p>\n

14. Enviar uma vibra\u00e7\u00e3o positiva<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Just like the rest of us, you also have moments when you don\u2019t feel like your best self.<\/p>\n

There are times when you\u2019re negative, nervous, and insecure and that is perfectly normal-after all, you\u2019re just a human being.<\/p>\n

However, while you\u2019re hitting on someone, these are not the sides of your personality you should display very often.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it-nobody likes to be around naggy, bitter people who\u2019ll kill their mood.<\/p>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you have to try hard to be fun whenever you\u2019re around your crush.<\/p>\n

Enviar uma mensagem positiva vibra\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>, come up with interesting activities, be optimistic, smile as much as you can, and don\u2019t forget to laugh at their jokes.<\/p>\n

Be the person who will brighten up their day-that\u2019s something your crush will appreciate.<\/p>\n

15. Convid\u00e1-los para um primeiro encontro<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Finalmente, se nada mais funcionar, pare de pensar como fazer com que a sua paix\u00e3o goste de si e simplesmente convid\u00e1-los a sair<\/a>.<\/p>\n

No entanto, deixe claro que se trata de um primeiro encontro e n\u00e3o de um encontro amig\u00e1vel e que tem esperan\u00e7a de se tornar o seu potencial parceiro.<\/p>\n

Bear in mind that a lot of people don\u2019t get the hints and that your crush might be one of them.<\/p>\n

Seja suficientemente corajoso para dar o primeiro passo - o que \u00e9 que tem a perder?<\/p>\n

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