{"id":5971,"date":"2017-10-02T14:33:11","date_gmt":"2017-10-02T14:33:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5971"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:58:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:58:43","slug":"carta-de-advertencia-futuro-ex-namorado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/carta-de-advertencia-futuro-ex-namorado\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta de aviso ao meu \"futuro\" ex-namorado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sei que ainda n\u00e3o nos conhecemos, mas quero usar esta carta para pedir desculpa antecipadamente. Quero dizer que estou arrependido. E espero que depois de leres isto, um dia compreendas.<\/span><\/p>\n

I know we will start something amazing and I know one of us is going to have to let go at some point. It\u2019s not pessimism, but it\u2019s my prior bad experiences that have led me to predict this will happen.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t ever think you weren\u2019t enough<\/a>. You were. But you met me when I wasn\u2019t enough, not even for myself. The last relationship made me tired, so tired of feeling. Now I am half of the women that I used to be. <\/span>E estou \u00e0 espera que me salves de mim.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

I know that\u2019s not fair. I know that I am the one who should be saving myself. I know I will hurt you because I don\u2019t have anything else left to give you. I<\/strong><\/em><\/span> know\u2026and I am sorry.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Merecias mais<\/a> than being my temporary superhero. But, that\u2019s what I need right now\u2014someone to save me from myself, to show me that love can be kind.<\/span><\/p>\n

Senti falta de todas as partes boas de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Senti falta de algu\u00e9m que tomasse conta de mim quando estou demasiado cansado para tomar conta de mim pr\u00f3prio. Senti falta de algu\u00e9m que me abra\u00e7asse com for\u00e7a e fizesse os meus problemas parecerem mais pequenos do que s\u00e3o. Sei que far\u00e1s isso por mim.<\/span><\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s not fair for you to pay for all the bad things that happened in my past relationships. I don\u2019t want to take it out on you. I don\u2019t want all my insecurities reflected on your skin<\/a>, but it will happen. Cause I don\u2019t know how to survive any other way.<\/span><\/p>\n

There is a slight chance you will tolerate and support me long enough and make me feel again. To make me pick myself back up again because you can’t do it for me. I have to be my own hero. There\u2019s no other way. \u00a0<\/span>Tenho de encontrar a forma de me manter sozinho para poder estar contigo. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Esse seria o meu maior desejo. Espero que se torne realidade. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

If it doesn\u2019t, please forgive me.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s not fair. <\/span><\/i>I know\u2026and I am sorry. <\/i><\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know we haven\u2019t met yet, but I want to use this letter to apologize in advance. I want to say I am sorry. And I hope after reading this, one day you will understand. I know we will start something amazing and I know one of us is going to have to let go…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":5974,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5971","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/camila-damasio-259515-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5971","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5971"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5971\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5974"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5971"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5971"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5971"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}