{"id":59785,"date":"2020-04-06T15:48:12","date_gmt":"2020-04-06T15:48:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=59785"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:10:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:10:17","slug":"grato-por-me-deixarem-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/grato-por-me-deixarem-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"Eu nunca pensei que seria grato a ti por me deixares ir"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Who would\u2019ve thought I\u2019d feel this thankful for you and the way you let me go? After all the sleepless nights and tears, it almost seemed impossible, but here we are.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter, now I see the reason why it had to happen. Thank you!<\/p>\n<p>Obrigado por me tornares forte. Quando te foste embora, eu estava destro\u00e7ada e em peda\u00e7os. N\u00e3o tinha confian\u00e7a e pensava que era in\u00fatil e indigna.<\/p>\n<p>Nada nem ningu\u00e9m me podia ajudar. Por isso, ajudei-me a mim pr\u00f3prio. Deixei de dar poder \u00e0s outras pessoas sobre mim. Aprendi como \u00e9 pensar em mim como sendo suficiente.<\/p>\n<p>When you know you\u2019re enough \u2013 nothing can move you. You\u2019re determined and capable of accepting all your parts &#8211; your tough side, and your soft side.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59787\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-meditates-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem medita na praia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-meditates-on-the-beach.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-meditates-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-meditates-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>I stopped seeing myself as someone who should be perfect and instead, I let myself just be what I am \u2013 and the world didn\u2019t stop.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Now I know what it means to stand up for yourself. I\u2019m not as naive as I was before. I learned that people can say they love you and lie to your face, say they care for you and then leave you.<\/p>\n<p>Senti-me envergonhado, mas agora sei que pode acontecer a qualquer pessoa; foste tu, n\u00e3o eu. Ningu\u00e9m deve sentir-se envergonhado por ser aberto e confiante.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for letting me go because I never really wanted someone who wouldn\u2019t fight for me. Every day, I\u2019m grateful for not being stuck in an unloving and fake relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Who wants a half-assed love anyway?! Not me!I\u2019d rather be by myself and sleep peacefully knowing I hadn\u2019t strung anyone along. I wasn\u2019t the selfish and attention-seeking one. I wasn\u2019t lying to feed my ego.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59789\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-eyes-closed.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita sentada no sof\u00e1 com os olhos fechados\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-eyes-closed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-eyes-closed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-eyes-closed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>You taught me that nothing is irreparable \u2013 I can make a mistake and then go back again and turn it into something valuable. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Cometer um erro n\u00e3o \u00e9 o fim do mundo, mesmo que pare\u00e7a.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You taught me that no matter how good, beautiful, smart, funny, or loving I am \u2013 for some, it won\u2019t be good enough. Now I don\u2019t care \u2013 I look good for myself and I enjoy being good, funny, and smart and that\u2019s all that matters.<\/p>\n<p>Through you, I learned it\u2019s impossible to change another person. The best you can do is love them and sometimes love isn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n<p>After being manipulated and lied to, I didn\u2019t give up. I pushed through the hardest times all by myself.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59791\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-in-the-bedroom.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada na cama, no quarto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-in-the-bedroom.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-in-the-bedroom-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-in-the-bedroom-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sem ti, percebi o que quero da minha vida e de que tipo de amor preciso. Foi como uma epifania.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Deixei finalmente de desperdi\u00e7ar a minha energia em coisas in\u00fateis e com as pessoas erradas. Em vez disso, comecei a fazer coisas que me faziam sentir feliz e vivo.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s a life ahead of me and I\u2019m thankful because now I know how to spot people like you. It\u2019s definitely one of the most useful things I know.<\/p>\n<p>Fizeste-me ver como sou precioso e raro.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for letting me go because now I can find someone that\u2019s perfect for me because I know what I\u2019m looking for.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59793\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-in-red-hoodie-relaxing.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem com capuz vermelho a relaxar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-in-red-hoodie-relaxing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-in-red-hoodie-relaxing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-in-red-hoodie-relaxing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mostraste-me a import\u00e2ncia de lutar pelo amor sem nunca o fazer. Prometi a mim pr\u00f3prio que nunca faria ningu\u00e9m sentir-se t\u00e3o pouco importante.<\/p>\n<p>Quando me deixaste ir, deste-me uma oportunidade; uma oportunidade de melhorar tudo na minha vida. Uma hip\u00f3tese de amor verdadeiro e de estar com algu\u00e9m que me aceite como sou.<\/p>\n<p>Mas a coisa mais importante que me deu foi a oportunidade de me voltar a apaixonar por mim pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If it wasn\u2019t for you, I would never have said to myself \u201cyou\u2019re enough\u201d and learned to love myself as I am.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59797\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Never-Thought-I\u2019d-Be-Grateful-To-You-For-Letting-Me-Go-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Eu nunca pensei que seria grato a ti por me deixares ir\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Never-Thought-I\u2019d-Be-Grateful-To-You-For-Letting-Me-Go-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Never-Thought-I\u2019d-Be-Grateful-To-You-For-Letting-Me-Go-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Never-Thought-I\u2019d-Be-Grateful-To-You-For-Letting-Me-Go-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Never-Thought-I\u2019d-Be-Grateful-To-You-For-Letting-Me-Go-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Who would\u2019ve thought I\u2019d feel this thankful for you and the way you let me go? After all the sleepless nights and tears, it almost seemed impossible, but here we are. It doesn\u2019t matter, now I see the reason why it had to happen. Thank you! Thank you for making me strong. When you left,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":59794,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-59785","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Never-Thought-I\u2019d-Be-Grateful-To-You-For-Letting-Me-Go.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59785","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=59785"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59785\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/59794"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=59785"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=59785"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=59785"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}