{"id":5990,"date":"2020-10-03T07:43:14","date_gmt":"2020-10-03T07:43:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5990"},"modified":"2022-01-19T11:19:47","modified_gmt":"2022-01-19T11:19:47","slug":"deixar-ir-estupidamente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/deixar-ir-estupidamente\/","title":{"rendered":"Foste est\u00fapido por a teres deixado ir"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sei que provavelmente est\u00e1s sentado sozinho no teu quarto, a pensar na coisa mais preciosa da tua vida que deixaste escapar. E sei que sentes remorsos.<\/p>\n<p>Por ser est\u00fapido, por n\u00e3o lhe dizer o quanto ela significa para si. Por n\u00e3o a ter tratado como ela merecia. Infelizmente, agora \u00e9 demasiado tarde.<\/p>\n<p>No momento em que a deixaste ir, ela queimou as pontes entre voc\u00eas os dois. Ela percebeu que nunca foste homem suficiente para lutar por ela.<\/p>\n<p>She realized that you were just one more coward who escapes when things get tough. And you don\u2019t need to put the blame on her.<\/p>\n<p>Because everything she says is true. Maybe you thought it wasn\u2019t the right moment for the two of you. <b><i>Sabes que mais? Que se lixe isso! <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Perfect people don\u2019t come in our lives when we wait for them. They come without an invitation, when we least expect them.<\/p>\n<p>E isso aconteceu com ela. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/o-homem-certo-na-altura-errada\/\">Ela era a rapariga certa na altura errada.<\/a> Pelo menos, pensavas assim.<\/p>\n<p>Agora, depois de todos estes anos que passaste sem ela, podes finalmente perceber que ela era a melhor das melhores.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121832\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/pensive-woman-outdoor-at-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa ao ar livre na praia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/pensive-woman-outdoor-at-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/pensive-woman-outdoor-at-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/pensive-woman-outdoor-at-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/pensive-woman-outdoor-at-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/pensive-woman-outdoor-at-the-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/pensive-woman-outdoor-at-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/pensive-woman-outdoor-at-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/pensive-woman-outdoor-at-the-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know you had many relationships just like her but you didn\u2019t find your soulmate in any of them. Because a soulmate is only one person.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why it is called that. Too bad you couldn\u2019t recognize her in time. <b><i>Tudo o que ela sempre quis de ti foi que lutasses por ela, n\u00e3o com ela.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ela queria ser importante para si. Queria que olhassem para ela como se estivessem a olhar para um Deus. Ela queria ser a vossa mulher, a m\u00e3e dos vossos filhos.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t even imagine how many sleepless nights she spent thinking about your future life.<\/p>\n<p>Ela sonhava que voc\u00eas se casavam e tinham filhos. Sonhou que chegavas a casa com um ramo de flores depois do trabalho e que ela cozinhava uma refei\u00e7\u00e3o deliciosa para voc\u00eas os dois.<\/p>\n<p>E voc\u00eas viveriam felizes para sempre. No meio de toda aquela confus\u00e3o, ela adormecia e continuava a sonhar consigo.<\/p>\n<p>Eras a \u00faltima coisa em que ela pensava \u00e0 noite e a primeira em que pensava quando acordava.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Ela era uma mulher para amar, mas tu eras demasiado cego para ver isso.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>You were occupied with your own stuff and didn\u2019t care about her feelings. If I were her, I wouldn\u2019t even have tried to save the relationship like she did.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121833\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/young-attractive-woman.jpg\" alt=\"mulher loira jovem e atraente no parque\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/young-attractive-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/young-attractive-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/young-attractive-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/young-attractive-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/young-attractive-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/young-attractive-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/young-attractive-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/young-attractive-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que o cora\u00e7\u00e3o dela estivesse partido em peda\u00e7os, ela dava-te sempre outra oportunidade. Mas como sempre, tu estragaste tudo. Por isso, vai-te lixar por fazeres dela a pessoa n\u00e3o am\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n<p>Sei que ela \u00e9 tudo o que tu nunca ser\u00e1s: forte, independente, bem sucedida, bonita e, acima de tudo, uma boa pessoa.<\/p>\n<p>E <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/rapariga-que-vale-a-pena-nao-esperar-ninguem\/\">as boas raparigas nunca esperam demasiado tempo<\/a> para o homem perfeito. Agora, h\u00e1 outro homem a abra\u00e7\u00e1-la em vez de ti. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/hurt-much-hurts\/\">Diz-me qual \u00e9 a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/hurt-much-hurts\/\"> D\u00f3i, n\u00e3o \u00e9?<\/a> Eu sei, mas foste tu que puseste um ponto final na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, por isso p\u00e1ra de chorar sobre leite derramado. <b><i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ela-perdoou-te-mas-nao-quer-ter-nada-a-ver-contigo\/\">Ela nunca mais ser\u00e1 tua<\/a>!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Nunca mais ter\u00e1s as m\u00e3os dela nas tuas. Nunca mais far\u00e1s amor com ela. Nunca mais lhe poder\u00e1s tocar.<\/p>\n<p>Agora, \u00e9 a tua vez de sonhar com ela, tal como ela sonhava contigo. E tal como o sonho dela nunca se tornou realidade, o teu ter\u00e1 o mesmo destino.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>O karma \u00e9 uma cabra, certo?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>E quando, ao fim de muitos anos, tirares as tuas fotografias antigas, sei que vais chorar porque vais ter consci\u00eancia de que deixaste ir um anjo que Deus te enviou.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>E isso, meu amigo, \u00e9 algo que nunca te perdoar\u00e1s!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/You-Were-Stupid-For-Letting-Her-Go-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Foste est\u00fapido por a teres deixado ir\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/You-Were-Stupid-For-Letting-Her-Go-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/You-Were-Stupid-For-Letting-Her-Go-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/You-Were-Stupid-For-Letting-Her-Go-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/You-Were-Stupid-For-Letting-Her-Go-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/You-Were-Stupid-For-Letting-Her-Go-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know that you are probably sitting alone in your room, thinking about the most precious thing in your life that you let go. And I know that you feel remorse. For being stupid, for not telling her how much she means to you. For not treating her like she deserved. Unfortunately, it is too&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":121831,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5990","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/You-Were-Stupid-For-Letting-Her-Go-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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