{"id":59927,"date":"2020-04-14T20:15:18","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T20:15:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=59927"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:15:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:15:00","slug":"como-fazer-com-que-alguem-goste-de-si","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-fazer-com-que-alguem-goste-de-si\/","title":{"rendered":"Como fazer algu\u00e9m gostar de si: 20 m\u00e9todos que funcionam mesmo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Como \u00e9 que se faz algu\u00e9m gostar de n\u00f3s? O que podes fazer para que algu\u00e9m se apaixone por ti?<\/p>\n

How can the person you\u2019re into, see all of your qualities? How can you open their eyes and make them realize you\u2019re the one for them?<\/p>\n

Well, I won\u2019t lie to you: accomplishing this isn\u2019t always easy.<\/p>\n

De facto, na maioria dos casos, conseguir que algu\u00e9m se apaixone por si requer muita energia e esfor\u00e7o.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

After all, you can\u2019t control how someone feels about you and convincing them that you\u2019re likeable and worthy of their attention takes time and patience.<\/p>\n

Luckily, you came to the right place because we\u2019re about to reveal to you the ultimate step-by-step guide towards your crush\u2019s heart.<\/p>\n

So, if you\u2019re wondering how to make someone like you back, just follow the following advice. I promise you, these psychological tricks work with anyone.<\/p>\n

20 maneiras infal\u00edveis de fazer algu\u00e9m se apaixonar por voc\u00ea<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

1. O exterior \u00e9 t\u00e3o importante como o interior<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re trying to make anyone like you, in the first place, you have to make sure to look your best.<\/p>\n

Lembre-se de que a primeira impress\u00e3o \u00e9 tudo e veja-a como a sua oportunidade de se tornar simp\u00e1tico para o seu interesse amoroso!<\/p>\n

This step doesn\u2019t have a lot to do with this particular person you\u2019re into.<\/p>\n

Whether it be that you\u2019re a girl or guy, it\u2019s much more connected with you becoming more appealing and attractive for the opposite sex.<\/p>\n

As much as people claim otherwise, the truth is that we\u2019re all drawn by someone\u2019s physical appearance at a first glance.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

No, this doesn\u2019t mean that you have to look perfect or that you should undergo some crazy aesthetic treatments or even plastic surgeries to get someone to like you.<\/p>\n

In fact, it will be enough to hit the gym and to bring your body in order. Make sure you have a neat hairdo, be careful about the way you dress, and don\u2019t forget to smell good at all times.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re a girl, don\u2019t be scared to wear the clothes that will point out your attributes, but be careful about not looking too cheap either.<\/p>\n

Sim, todos os homens ser\u00e3o atra\u00eddos pela sua rabo e mamas<\/a>, but if you\u2019re looking for something more serious, this shouldn\u2019t be the only thing you have to offer.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t put too much makeup on but use it to your advantage.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sim, a maioria dos homens dir\u00e1 que prefere as raparigas que n\u00e3o usam maquilhagem, mas a verdade \u00e9 que eles gostam do aspeto natural, em que se usa muita maquilhagem, mas nada parece demasiado artificial.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you\u2019re male, the best thing you can do for your appearance is to build some muscles. Another thing that works wonders is growing a beard.<\/p>\n

When it comes to your clothing, make sure you\u2019re always dressed for the occasion and not to look like you\u2019ve grabbed the first thing you got your hands on.<\/p>\n

Nobody expects you to wear a tuxedo, but don\u2019t go around walking in your sweatpants all the time either.<\/p>\n

2. Ser confiante<\/h2>\n

\"grupo<\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m consegue explicar isto, mas um facto comprovado \u00e9 que h\u00e1 uma coisa que toda a gente gosta mais do que tudo e que \u00e9 confian\u00e7a<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s quite simple: when you think that you\u2019re good enough and leave a good first impression, people around you accept that opinion and follow your lead, so they end up considering you pretty awesome as well.<\/p>\n

This is especially the case when it comes to dating and the way the opposite sex sees you. If you think that you\u2019re a good catch, the person you want to like you will be all over you too.<\/p>\n

No entanto, o truque da auto-confian\u00e7a \u00e9 que ela n\u00e3o pode ser posta em pr\u00e1tica.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re struggling with insecurities and think of yourself as not enough, you won\u2019t be able to pretend that you\u2019re full of self-esteem.<\/p>\n

At least, you won\u2019t be able to do it for long. It\u2019s like most people have that sixth sense and sense the vibe you\u2019re sending, so sooner or later, they see right through your false pretenses.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

That\u2019s exactly why you have to be sure about your qualities before convincing the person of your interest that you\u2019re worthy of their attention.<\/p>\n

Easier said than done, I know. Nevertheless, I\u2019m begging you to at least try and work on your self-esteem.<\/p>\n

Em vez de se concentrar nos seus fracassos, orgulhe-se de cada pequena coisa que realiza durante o dia. Coloque-se em primeiro lugar e aprenda a satisfazer as suas necessidades.<\/p>\n

When it comes to your social skills, start with talking a little bit more loudly and don\u2019t be scared to say your opinion about every topic.<\/p>\n

Look everyone directly in the eyes while you\u2019re talking \u2013 that will show them that you stand behind your words.<\/p>\n

Basicamente, quando entrar na sala, reduza a sua timidez e aja como se fosse o dono da sala. Prometo-lhe que, desta forma, todos os olhares estar\u00e3o postos em si.<\/p>\n

3. Mostrar interesse<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que se faz para que algu\u00e9m goste de n\u00f3s?<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t expect the object of your affection to like you back unless they\u2019re aware that you\u2019re interested in them first, can you?<\/p>\n

\u00c9 exatamente por isso que tem de ser o \u00fanico a mostrar iniciativa, para obter algum feedback.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether it is that you’re male or female \u2013 just make that first move. No, you don\u2019t have to necessarily come clean about your feelings, but you have to initiate some kind of contact.<\/p>\n

If it\u2019s someone you haven\u2019t met in person, find an excuse to introduce yourself. Start by checking them out and smiling every time they pass by and after a while, just start saying hi.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Por exemplo, pode pedir algum tipo de ajuda, dependendo do local onde se encontra habitualmente.<\/p>\n

If you see them at the gym, pretend that you could use advice regarding a certain type of exercise. If it\u2019s a restaurant, ask them to recommend their favorite meal or just simply ask them what\u2019s the time.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 fundamental que a sua paix\u00e3o repare em si. Tem de se tornar vis\u00edvel e presente no radar dela antes de ela come\u00e7ar a consider\u00e1-lo como potencial interesse amoroso.<\/p>\n

No entanto, nem todos os an\u00fancios s\u00e3o bons. A \u00faltima coisa que deve fazer \u00e9 fazer figura de parvo, ser demasiado intrometido ou agir de forma rude para que essa pessoa lhe preste aten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

4. Estabelecer contactos regulares<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

The key to most people\u2019s hearts is familiarity. If this person we\u2019re talking about didn\u2019t fall for you at first sight, you have to become a part of their life in order to change that.<\/p>\n

E a melhor maneira de o fazer \u00e9 conseguir algum tipo de contacto regular.<\/p>\n

This is especially true if we\u2019re talking about someone shy who needs more time to relax and become comfortable enough around you to give you a chance.<\/p>\n

Of course, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should become boring and impose yourself on them. Just let them get used to your presence subtly and slowly, without pushing things too much.<\/p>\n

5. Ser caloroso e positivo<\/h2>\n

\"grupo<\/p>\n

Todos n\u00f3s temos algum tipo de energia que mostramos aos outros, por vezes sem sequer estarmos conscientes de o fazer.<\/p>\n

Ao mesmo tempo, subconscientemente, preferimos estar rodeados de pessoas que transmitem uma boa vibra\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Therefore, if you want to be the one who brightens your crush\u2019s day every time they see you, work on your optimism.<\/p>\n

Try your hardest to display positive emotions and don\u2019t allow them to see you when you\u2019re nervous and cranky.<\/p>\n

Naturally, you\u2019re a human being made out of flesh and blood and you can\u2019t have a smile on your face constantly.<\/p>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

There are days when you aren\u2019t happy and cheerful, but at this point, these are not the moments in which your crush should see you.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, fa\u00e7a com que o vejam como a pessoa mais positiva do mundo. Seja a pessoa que traz sempre a boa disposi\u00e7\u00e3o em vez de ser a pessoa que lhes escurece os dias.<\/p>\n

Trust me, by doing this, you\u2019ll make this person completely crazy over you.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll be the ones chasing you and trying to spend as much time as possible with this special person who makes them forget about their troubles.<\/p>\n

6. Mostrar sinais de linguagem corporal<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Since you\u2019re wondering how to make someone like you, it is more than clear that you have a problem approaching this person out of the blue and asking them out on a date.<\/p>\n

However, instead of seeing this lack of courage as a problem, remember that there are other effective ways for someone to notice that you\u2019re into them.<\/p>\n

A comunica\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o-verbal, como os sinais da linguagem corporal e as express\u00f5es faciais, \u00e9 por vezes ainda mais forte do que dizer as coisas em voz alta.<\/p>\n

Besides being fun and teasing, it provides you a certain safety net: If the person of your interest doesn\u2019t respond positively to your signals, you have the chance to back off with dignity and without actually being rejected if you just pretend that nothing was happening.<\/p>\n

Estabelecer contacto visual<\/p>\n

Sabe como se diz que os olhos s\u00e3o as janelas da alma? Bem, isso \u00e9 completamente verdade.<\/p>\n

Sim, ouviu bem. \u00c9 poss\u00edvel namoriscar com algu\u00e9m usando apenas os olhos.<\/p>\n

De facto, para muitas pessoas, este contacto visual quebrou o gelo.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

That is exactly why the first body language signal you\u2019ll send to your crush is deep eye contact. I don\u2019t care if you\u2019re shy, get the courage to stare at them in a seductive manner.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t look away if they start avoiding eye contact. Instead, continue looking at them and show them that you don\u2019t plan on giving up so easily.<\/p>\n

Especially don\u2019t do it if your crush starts playing your game and looks back at you. Play with your eyes and send them a clear message without having to actually say a word.<\/p>\n

Sorrir para eles<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have perfect teeth, so you avoid smiling? Well, let me tell you that you\u2019re making a huge mistake.<\/p>\n

O sorriso \u00e9 a linguagem universal do amor e a melhor maneira de atrair algu\u00e9m \u00e9 sorrir-lhe o mais poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

Tocar-lhes acidentalmente.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re figuring out how to make someone like you, accidentally and subtly touching them is one of the ways to do it.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Naturally, you won\u2019t act like a psychopath who invades other people\u2019s personal space or is too pushy.<\/p>\n

However, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you touching this person\u2019s hand while you\u2019re talking or putting yours on their shoulder or even knee.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re passing by them, make some kind of physical contact \u2013 at least touch their cheek.<\/p>\n

The most important thing about these accidental touches is the feedback you\u2019re getting. Is your crush comfortable with you acting this way or are they pulling away every time you approach?<\/p>\n

Remember that we all enjoy different levels of physical contact, no matter how much we like the other person. So please, respect other people\u2019s boundaries.<\/p>\n

Ficar de p\u00e9 ou sentar-se perto deles.<\/p>\n

Use every opportunity you can to stand or sit near your crush. This is especially the case when you\u2019re surrounded by other people; always make sure you\u2019re the one next to the person of your interest.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, quando os dois estiverem a comunicar, tenham os dedos dos p\u00e9s apontados para eles.<\/p>\n

7. Conhecer as pessoas<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

O passo seguinte \u00e9 dar o seu melhor para conhecer essa pessoa de quem gosta a s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not talking about finding out some basic info about them, I\u2019m talking about you putting effort into really getting to know them and the core of their personality.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m talking about finding out more about their fears, aspirations, hopes, and dreams. About asking some deep, personal questions that help you reveal every level of their being.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t engage in small talk only. The thing that will help you stand out is having the courage to dig deep down and reveal some important things about this person.<\/p>\n

Antes de mais, isto dar-lhe-\u00e1 a oportunidade de ver se esta \u00e9 a pessoa que quer verdadeiramente ao seu lado ou se tudo n\u00e3o passou de uma ilus\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Tem estado a idealiz\u00e1-los durante todo este tempo ou continua a gostar deles depois de os conhecer de verdade?<\/p>\n

Also, your potential partner will be more than thrilled once they figure out that you\u2019ve shown interest in their life.<\/p>\n

They will see that you\u2019re different than anyone else. You\u2019re not a typical modern dating product who is only interested in their body and looking for something temporary.<\/p>\n

Instead, you\u2019re interested in the entire package and pay attention to their heart, soul, and brains, which is pretty rare these days.<\/p>\n

8. Lembrar-se de algo sobre eles<\/h2>\n

\"banco<\/p>\n

There is no better way to say \u201cHey, like me back\u201d, then remembering small details about a person.<\/p>\n

At the same time, besides showing how much you care for the other person, this approach doesn\u2019t make you look desperate or clingy.<\/p>\n

In fact, everyone would be happy knowing that there\u2019s someone who remembered everything they told them.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Of course, you won\u2019t use the information you have just to show off, but there is no harm in casually mentioning that you remember the name of this person\u2019s first pet or the date of their mum\u2019s birthday.<\/p>\n

Just don\u2019t overreact unless you want to be characterized as a psycho.<\/p>\n

Mais importante ainda, utiliza apenas as informa\u00e7\u00f5es que obtiveste desta pessoa.<\/p>\n

I know you\u2019ve been probably stalking them a bit or asking your mutual friends about them, but they don\u2019t have to know that, so there is no point in showing them that you\u2019ve done your part of the research.<\/p>\n

9. Sublinhe os seus interesses comuns<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Sabe como fal\u00e1mos do conceito de familiaridade?<\/p>\n

How it\u2019s easier to fall for someone when it feels like they\u2019ve been a part of our life for ages and when we can be our true selves in front of this person.<\/p>\n

Well, one of the ways to achieve this familiarity is by emphasizing your and your crush\u2019s common interests and shared values.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 cientificamente provado que os opostos se atraem, mas as semelhan\u00e7as duram mais tempo. Por isso, se quiser conquistar essa pessoa por um per\u00edodo de tempo mais longo, tem de lhe mostrar como s\u00e3o compat\u00edveis.<\/p>\n

If it\u2019s necessary, for starters pretend to like some things you really don\u2019t. Don\u2019t get me wrong.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not suggesting for you to reinvent yourself or to be someone you essentially are not, but lying that you like your crush\u2019s favorite song when you actually never heard about it won\u2019t bring any harm.<\/p>\n

A melhor forma de real\u00e7ar o seu interesse comum n\u00e3o \u00e9 concordar com tudo o que essa pessoa lhe diz, porque essa abordagem \u00e9 demasiado \u00f3bvia e faz com que pare\u00e7a que tem personalidade e que tem de se espelhar nela, o que \u00e9 um enorme desinteresse.<\/p>\n

Instead, do a little bit of investigation of your own. Find out more about this person\u2019s taste in music, movies, books, art and other things and try learning about their general attitudes about life.<\/p>\n

Por isso, da pr\u00f3xima vez que se encontrarem, mencione casualmente algo de que eles gostem e apresente-o como a sua prefer\u00eancia.<\/p>\n

Trust me, your crush will be thrilled they\u2019ve found the chance to meet someone as similar to them as you are.<\/p>\n

10. Fazer-lhes elogios<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Who doesn\u2019t like compliments? Trust me, we all enjoy hearing them, even those of us who blush every time.<\/p>\n

E a sua paix\u00e3o n\u00e3o \u00e9 exce\u00e7\u00e3o. Por isso, fazer elogios simp\u00e1ticos \u00e0 pessoa que lhe interessa \u00e9 uma das formas mais certeiras de chegar ao cora\u00e7\u00e3o dela.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 que ouvir algu\u00e9m elogiar-nos e dizer-nos coisas boas aumenta o nosso ego. Sentimo-nos mais dignos e melhor connosco pr\u00f3prios em geral.<\/p>\n

When you compliment your crush, you\u2019re working on their self-esteem. And before you know it, they\u2019ll become hooked on the sensation you\u2019re giving them.<\/p>\n

Basically, you’ll make this person feel good in your presence. And who doesn\u2019t like being around someone who makes them feel like they\u2019re the best in the world?<\/p>\n

Of course, you won\u2019t follow them around, paying random compliments.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, diga-lhes de vez em quando algo simp\u00e1tico sobre a sua apar\u00eancia, sentido de humor ou intelig\u00eancia e isso ser\u00e1 mais do que suficiente.<\/p>\n

11. Estar dispon\u00edvel<\/h2>\n

\"homem,<\/p>\n

If you want a specific person to like you, they have to know that you\u2019re emotionally available.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t play games and pretend you have someone special to build some kind of imaginary competition for your crush. Instead, make it clear that you\u2019re single and ready to mingle.<\/p>\n

Also, don\u2019t be busy when they want to hang out. Ask them to hang out and accept their invitations.<\/p>\n

12. \u2026but not too desperate<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

However, don\u2019t be too desperate either. Nobody likes people who are too clingy and needy, especially not in this initial phase of your potential relationship.<\/p>\n

I know that you\u2019re crazy over this person and that you want to spend every second of your free time with them.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, if you’re calling and texting them all the time, you can just get the opposite effect and cause them to get tired of you before you\u2019ve even started dating.<\/p>\n

Besides, you don\u2019t want them to start taking you for granted. Don\u2019t allow them to think that you\u2019ll always be there for them, no matter how they behave and that they can have you whenever they feel like it.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

In this case, it\u2019s best to find some kind of balance. It\u2019s crucial to follow their reactions and be realistic about whether you\u2019re bothering them or they\u2019re enjoying your presence.<\/p>\n

Para come\u00e7ar, esteja perto deles e, depois, afaste-se inesperadamente. Fa\u00e7a com que se habituem \u00e0 sua presen\u00e7a e depois d\u00ea-lhes a oportunidade de sentirem a sua aus\u00eancia e de sentirem a sua falta.<\/p>\n

Yes, all of this sounds like game playing, but it\u2019s simply something you have to do if you\u2019re trying to figure out how to make someone like you.<\/p>\n

13. Ter um bom sentido de humor<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

One of the most effective ways to get into someone\u2019s pants and heart is to make them laugh. Everyone loves a good laugh and a sense of humor is always a plus.<\/p>\n

O truque aqui \u00e9 que o seu humor seja saud\u00e1vel. Tente descobrir que tipos de piadas essa pessoa gosta mais e lembre-se que algumas pessoas s\u00e3o insultadas mais facilmente do que outras.<\/p>\n

While you\u2019re getting to know each other, avoid dirty sexual jokes because that might offend them and make them think that you only have one thing on your mind.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be vulgar; use appropriate humor until you see what makes them laugh.<\/p>\n

Outra coisa a que deve prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 encontrar o equil\u00edbrio perfeito entre a brincadeira e a goza\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Tease them, but don\u2019t point out their flaws. You don\u2019t want them to get the impression that you\u2019re trying to put them down in any way.<\/p>\n

14. Ser honesto e genu\u00edno<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re talking about your perfect partner, honesty is one of the first personality traits you fall for, right? Nobody likes to be around people who constantly lie and your crush is no different.<\/p>\n

Therefore, it\u2019s your job to show them that you\u2019re honest and genuine.<\/p>\n

Make sure they see that you have good intentions and that you\u2019re not there to hurt their feelings and break their heart in the future.<\/p>\n

Naturally, in the beginning, you\u2019ll want to present yourself in the best possible light. You won\u2019t talk about your biggest flaws right away and there is nothing wrong with that.<\/p>\n

However, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should pretend to be someone you\u2019re not just to win this person over.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t hide your true colors and don\u2019t invent a whole new personality to be more appealing to this person, because your real self will come out on the surface sooner or later.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, diga sempre a verdade, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n

Obviously, there is a huge difference between telling a little white lie \u2013 for instance, convincing someone that this new shirt they just bought looks awesome on them when you actually don\u2019t like it at all \u2013 and hiding something important about yourself.<\/p>\n

Be as honest as possible about your past, but don\u2019t reveal all of your worst sides right away. The most important thing is to stand behind your words and never allow them to catch you lying.<\/p>\n

15. Show them you\u2019re reliable and trustworthy<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Another quality everyone, including this guy or a girl you\u2019re into, is definitely looking for is having someone who will always be there for them.<\/p>\n

E \u00e9 exatamente isso que tem de lhes mostrar: que podem confiar em si e contar consigo.<\/p>\n

Being a trustworthy person means that you\u2019re able to keep a secret and you don\u2019t have a habit of making false promises.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re reliable, your crush can count on you at all times. Of course, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should allow them to take advantage of your kindness and call you only when they need you.<\/p>\n

However, if you act like someone who won\u2019t back out on them in case of emergency, someone who will give them a hand when they need it the most, trust me, it is a huge plus and a way into their heart.<\/p>\n

16. Pedir conselhos<\/h2>\n

\"atr\u00e1s<\/p>\n

O pr\u00f3ximo passo para fazer com que algu\u00e9m goste de si \u00e9 mostrar-lhe que o considera s\u00e1bio, esperto e inteligente.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 mostrar-lhes que apreciamos a sua opini\u00e3o e atitude e que consideramos importantes os seus pontos de vista sobre a vida.<\/p>\n

Se queres conseguir isso, pede conselhos \u00e0 tua paix\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

But don\u2019t just stop at asking for their help with some irrelevant things such as your choice of outfit, show them that you trust their guidance when it comes to bigger issues too, such as a problem you might have at work, a disagreement you had with your friend or even a family emergency.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Para al\u00e9m de fazer com que se sintam bem por o ajudarem e de, indiretamente, lhes fazer um elogio ao pedir-lhes conselhos, esta abordagem tamb\u00e9m far\u00e1 com que a sua cara-metade veja como s\u00e3o importantes para si.<\/p>\n

Out of all the people in the world, they\u2019re the ones you came to and that must mean something.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you disagree with their opinion about something, don\u2019t hesitate to tell them that.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t argue, just show the strength of your character and let them know that you\u2019re not a people-pleaser who will nod their head to everything they say, just because you like them.<\/p>\n

17. Contar-lhes um segredo<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Outra forma de estabelecer uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o mais profunda com esta pessoa especial \u00e9 revelar algo sobre si.<\/p>\n

Just tell them a secret \u2013 something that only your best friends and family members know. In this way, you\u2019re letting them know that they have an important place in your life.<\/p>\n

By doing this, you\u2019ll inspire your crush to open up as well and you might see them in a whole new light.<\/p>\n

Once they realize that you trust them enough to expose your vulnerabilities and to share your intimacy with them, they\u2019ll realize they can tell you more about themselves as well.<\/p>\n

Assim, para al\u00e9m de criar uma forte liga\u00e7\u00e3o entre os dois, isto tamb\u00e9m o ajudar\u00e1 a aprender coisas novas sobre o objeto do seu interesse.<\/p>\n

Lembre-se apenas de n\u00e3o julgar, independentemente do que lhe digam. Aprecie o facto de o verem como um consolador e ou\u00e7a o que t\u00eam para dizer.<\/p>\n

18. Ser amig\u00e1vel<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Um dos maiores receios da maioria das pessoas que est\u00e3o a tentar conquistar algu\u00e9m especial \u00e9 acabar na friendzone.<\/p>\n

According to a lot of people, once you enter this dark territory, there is no way out \u2013 you\u2019re stuck there forever and nothing you do can get you out of this Bermuda triangle.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, how can you expect to get under someone\u2019s skin if you don\u2019t become friends first?<\/p>\n

And I’m not talking about a situation when you directly approach someone you find attractive and ask them out right away.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m talking about the process of making them like you, in which friendship cannot be avoided.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, o que \u00e9 que se deve fazer exatamente? Como \u00e9 que se pode tornar amigo da sua paix\u00e3o sem ficar preso na friendzone?<\/p>\n

\"pessoas<\/p>\n

Bem, a chave aqui est\u00e1 em encontrar um equil\u00edbrio.<\/p>\n

Act friendly but don’t become best friends. And never forget to flirt!<\/p>\n

Make sure they\u2019re perfectly aware of your final goal and intentions. Otherwise, you\u2019ll be leading them on and might even get accused of pretending to be their friend just to end up using them.<\/p>\n

The number one rule is to avoid love life topics. Don\u2019t get me wrong, you should certainly talk about your romantic histories, preferences, and standards when it comes to the opposite sex.<\/p>\n

However, don\u2019t put yourself in the situation where you\u2019ll sit quietly while your crush is talking about a guy or a girl they\u2019re currently interested in.<\/p>\n

Nobody expects you two to be faithful to each other. After all, you haven\u2019t started dating yet.<\/p>\n

But if you are comfortable enough to talk about other people you\u2019re seeing, you\u2019re without doubt in the friendzone.<\/p>\n

19. Fazer algo por eles<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Se queres que algu\u00e9m goste de ti, come\u00e7a a fazer pequenos favores e a cuidar dessa pessoa.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t become their personal butler, but there is nothing wrong with being at this person\u2019s service every now and then.<\/p>\n

Por exemplo, ajude-o nas tarefas dom\u00e9sticas, ajude-o a cozinhar ou quando tiver um pneu furado.<\/p>\n

Be the first person they call while they\u2019re in some kind of emergency, but don\u2019t allow yourself to become only that.<\/p>\n

Basically, take care of them and their needs, but don’t exaggerate. Don’t act like their parent, but as their potential love interest.<\/p>\n

20. Convid\u00e1-los a sair<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be clear about one thing.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re trying to figure out how to make someone like you and are going through this entire process because you don\u2019t want to straightforwardly ask them out, am I right?<\/p>\n

You might be afraid of rejection or you don\u2019t have enough experience with the opposite sex.<\/p>\n

De qualquer forma, \u00e9 algo que quer evitar, pelo que optou por esta abordagem mais subtil.<\/p>\n

No entanto, convidar a sua paix\u00e3o para sair e dar um passo concreto no sentido de acabarem juntos tem de acontecer mais cedo ou mais tarde.<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s time to do it once you accomplish all of the steps mentioned above.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry, you\u2019ve done enough and managed to get under their skin, so now is the perfect moment to ask them on a first date.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve gotten to know this person, so it probably won\u2019t be a problem for you to figure out where to take them.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

O mais importante aqui \u00e9 ser espec\u00edfico. N\u00e3o se trata de um encontro amig\u00e1vel ou de uma reuni\u00e3o de grupo.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re inviting them out on a proper romantic first date.<\/p>\n

Also, be concrete and suggest an activity right away instead of leaving things vague. Adjust to your crush\u2019s interests and schedule.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not going to lie -you may do everything right yet there is always a chance for them to turn you down.<\/p>\n

Maybe they misinterpreted your intentions, maybe they\u2019re into someone else, decided to stay away from the dating market for a while, or simply don\u2019t like you.<\/p>\n

If this happens, you have to accept it with dignity. Don\u2019t take it personally and remember it\u2019s their right not to fall for you.<\/p>\n

Instead of falling into despair, be proud of yourself for trying to do your best. After all, how will you know if they like you or not if you haven’t given it a shot?<\/p>\n

Retire-se graciosamente e concentre-se em curar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido.<\/p>\n

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