{"id":6028,"date":"2017-10-03T10:11:54","date_gmt":"2017-10-03T10:11:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6028"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:28:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:28:54","slug":"foi-por-isto-que-me-fui-embora","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/foi-por-isto-que-me-fui-embora\/","title":{"rendered":"Foi por isto que me fui embora"},"content":{"rendered":"

You know why I left. You may pretend you don\u2019t to make it easier. And you’ve known, all along, I was going to leave. That decision wasn\u2019t made all of a sudden. It took me a long time to take this life-changing step.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now, I\u2019m glad I did.<\/span><\/p>\n

It took a lot of sacrifice and courage but somewhere along the line, I found it. Or, maybe you just destroyed me so much that I didn\u2019t care what was going to happen. I only wanted to get out as soon as possible. I wanted to leave. <\/span><\/p>\n

I left because you didn\u2019t try hard enough.\u00a0<\/i><\/b>Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma rua de sentido \u00fanico.<\/a> You cannot be in a relationship with someone and think that\u2019s it. You\u2019ve done your part. The rest just goes with the flow. It\u2019s going to be ok. That is not true. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s never going to be ok if you don\u2019t try\u2014if you don\u2019t care. I can\u2019t be the only one who gives a damn. I can\u2019t be the only one who is investing everything I\u2019ve got to make it work. That\u2019s why I left. I was fed up with everything.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fui-me embora porque me fizeste sentir como um nada in\u00fatil.<\/i><\/b> I busted my ass off to make something out of my life\u2014out of our lives. I worked 2 to 3 jobs a day. I tried so hard because I cared. <\/span><\/p>\n

But you were the anchor that was pulling me down to the bottom of the ocean. I felt worthless because you didn\u2019t move a finger to help me\u2014to help us. <\/span><\/p>\n

The only thing you knew how to do\u2014and you did it perfectly\u2014was sitting on the couch and waiting for me to come back from work, asking what\u2019s for lunch. Pardon my French, but FU.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Foi<\/p>\n

Sa\u00ed porque estava farto de falsas promessas e palavras vazias.<\/i><\/b> I was done listening to your excuses for everything. I refused to believe that you are out of luck\u2014that you couldn\u2019t catch a break. <\/span><\/p>\n

Recusei-me a acreditar nisso, porque sei que todos n\u00f3s somos os alfaiates da nossa pr\u00f3pria felicidade. Sei-o porque tudo o que me aconteceu foi fruto do meu trabalho \u00e1rduo e da minha teimosia em alcan\u00e7ar o que quero. <\/span><\/p>\n

I tailored my life as best as I could with one flaw in it\u2014you.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

My dear, you can\u2019t sit around the house and wait for good things to fall from the sky. You have to at least try. Try anything. Try something.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Fui-me embora porque me fizeste passar por parvo. <\/i><\/b>For 4 years, you\u2019ve been dragging me along. For 4 years, you\u2019ve been promising to move mountains for me. You didn\u2019t move mountains. You didn\u2019t even move a tiny rock. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mentiu-me. Mentiu-me este tempo todo. E eu fui est\u00fapido por acreditar em ti. <\/a>I was stupid for giving you chances to prove yourself. And you counted on that. You took advantage of that\u2014of me. You knew I\u2019ll fight for you\u2014I\u2019ll fight for us. You knew I would never give up on us. <\/span><\/p>\n

Acontece que, desta vez, deu uma dentada que foi mais do que podia mastigar. Deu um passo em falso. Calculaste mal as coisas. Fizeste asneira.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Fui-me embora porque me fizeste sentir miser\u00e1vel. <\/i><\/b>Fui-me embora porque era o \u00fanico a fazer todo o trabalho. Fui-me embora porque me deixavas triste. Fui-me embora porque me magoaste.<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

Fui-me embora porque era em mim que descarregavas tudo. Era eu que aguentava os teus insultos e o teu mau humor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Fui eu que sofri sempre que estiveste na tua pr\u00f3pria dimens\u00e3o, completamente desligado do mundo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Fui-me embora porque percebi que me amo a mim pr\u00f3prio. <\/span><\/i><\/a><\/p>\n

Fui-me embora porque percebi que a minha vida n\u00e3o vale a dor e o sofrimento que me causaste.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Fui-me embora porque me apercebi que mere\u00e7o tudo.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

E n\u00e3o me deu nada. \u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Adeus.<\/span><\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You know why I left. You may pretend you don\u2019t to make it easier. And you’ve known, all along, I was going to leave. That decision wasn\u2019t made all of a sudden. It took me a long time to take this life-changing step. Now, I\u2019m glad I did. It took a lot of sacrifice and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":6032,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6028","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/brooke-cagle-336470.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6028","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6028"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6028\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6032"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6028"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6028"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6028"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}