{"id":6035,"date":"2020-10-03T10:31:22","date_gmt":"2020-10-03T10:31:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6035"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:31:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:31:26","slug":"depois-de-ter-partido-alguem-em-quem-confiava","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/depois-de-ter-partido-alguem-em-quem-confiava\/","title":{"rendered":"As consequ\u00eancias de ser quebrado por algu\u00e9m em quem mais se confiava"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When you put your trust in someone, you do it in good faith. You trust people with all your heart thinking they\u2019ll never use that trust to hurt you. But, usually, people that break us are those who we\u2019d swore would never to do that.<\/p>\r\n<p>A pessoa que eu jurei que nunca me iria magoar, na verdade, partiu-me em peda\u00e7os. E como \u00e9 que se recupera de ser partido por algu\u00e9m que se amava e em quem se confiava mais?<\/p>\r\n<p>I tried to forget, but it didn\u2019t work. I tried to keep it off of my mind, doing whatever I could to keep myself busy, but it didn\u2019t help. Then I tried to understand, but I just couldn&#8217;t. I couldn\u2019t wrap my mind around it because I would\u2019ve never done it. I\u2019d never use someone\u2019s trust in a bad way when I know what that person has been through. I would never pour gasoline on the fire.<\/p>\r\n<p>I would never break somebody. I\u2019d never do something this brutal to someone because I know how much it hurts. I am not scared of going to hell because I doubt it gets worse than this.<\/p>\r\n<p>The thing that gets me the most is that I\u2019m not sure if I\u2019m ever going to be truly happy anymore. Because each time I smile, the thought of what happened to me starts knocking from the back of my mind. And I end up being completely powerless to it.<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-124343 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree.jpg\" alt=\"a mulher est\u00e1 encostada a uma \u00e1rvore\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Quando somos quebrados por algu\u00e9m em quem mais confiamos, transformamo-nos noutra pessoa.<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p>I am not half the person I used to be. I don\u2019t laugh half as much as I laughed before. I get anxious the moment somebody asks me something personal. I refuse to tell people how I feel.<\/p>\r\n<p>The thing is, I\u2019m ashamed. I don\u2019t want to tell anybody about what happened to me. I don\u2019t want anyone to know how naive I was or how I trusted the wrong person. I don\u2019t want anybody to know how weak I was.<\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Quando se \u00e9 quebrado por algu\u00e9m em quem se confia mais, tem-se medo de amar de novo.<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p>I am petrified to give my heart to somebody again. I\u2019m scared to open up. I don\u2019t want this kind of thing to happen again.<\/p>\r\n<p>I guard my heart and I push people away at the first sign of that butterfly awakening in my stomach. Because I know I wouldn\u2019t be able to survive another heartbreak.<\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Quando algu\u00e9m em quem mais confiamos nos quebra, esquecemos completamente a confian\u00e7a. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p>Who will show me that not everybody is the same? It\u2019s just too much of a risk to accept anyone\u2019s helping hand to prove me wrong. It\u2019s too much work to let myself love again. I did it once and it did me no good.<\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">A pior coisa de ser quebrado por algu\u00e9m em quem mais se confia \u00e9 a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de n\u00e3o ser digno que se mant\u00e9m na pele todos os dias.<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-124344 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-with-her-back-turned-1.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher de costas voltadas\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-with-her-back-turned-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-with-her-back-turned-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-with-her-back-turned-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-with-her-back-turned-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-with-her-back-turned-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-with-her-back-turned-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-with-her-back-turned-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-with-her-back-turned-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Quando nos quebramos, este sentimento de n\u00e3o sermos suficientemente bons continua a aumentar constantemente. Outrora, eu carregava a minha autoestima como a minha joia mais preciosa e agora n\u00e3o tenho mais nada dela.<\/p>\r\n<p>I keep thinking that I am not good enough because the person I trusted the most got the best of me. The person I trusted the most didn\u2019t see me as worthy, so he decided to break me. If I wasn\u2019t worthy to the one I loved, how am I supposed to be worthy to somebody else?<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Constantly looking over your shoulder, expecting the worst of people and being guarded sucks, but at least I don\u2019t have to worry about being let down or hurt again. Nobody gets to break me again because nobody has a chance to get to me. I\u2019m done letting people in.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>Eu acreditava que havia bondade em toda a gente. Acreditava que as pessoas que amo s\u00e3o boas. E agora que fui pisado tantas vezes, n\u00e3o tive outra escolha sen\u00e3o deixar ir aqueles que fizeram buracos no meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n<p>I don\u2019t buy those empty promises about how they won\u2019t hurt me. Because I know they will if I only give them a chance.<\/p>\r\n<p>I am not being angry and I\u2019m not throwing a tantrum. I\u2019m simply disappointed in myself. I just don\u2019t get how I could be so naive to give somebody the tools to break me and strongly believe he\u2019d never would.<\/p>\r\n<p><i> Maybe, I will allow myself to get back to the way I was before. Maybe, I will give life another chance. Maybe, I will decide to love and trust again, but that \u2018maybe\u2019 won\u2019t be coming soon. <\/i><\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-124342\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Aftermath-Of-Being-Broken-By-Someone-You-Trusted-The-Most-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"As consequ\u00eancias de ser quebrado por algu\u00e9m em quem mais se confiava\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Aftermath-Of-Being-Broken-By-Someone-You-Trusted-The-Most-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Aftermath-Of-Being-Broken-By-Someone-You-Trusted-The-Most-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Aftermath-Of-Being-Broken-By-Someone-You-Trusted-The-Most-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Aftermath-Of-Being-Broken-By-Someone-You-Trusted-The-Most-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you put your trust in someone, you do it in good faith. You trust people with all your heart thinking they\u2019ll never use that trust to hurt you. But, usually, people that break us are those who we\u2019d swore would never to do that. The person I swore would never hurt me actually broke&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":124341,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6035","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Aftermath-Of-Being-Broken-By-Someone-You-Trusted-The-Most-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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