{"id":6044,"date":"2020-04-03T10:54:01","date_gmt":"2020-04-03T10:54:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6044"},"modified":"2022-01-17T23:42:27","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T23:42:27","slug":"apaixonar-se-rapariga-sobreviveu-a-abuso-emocional-saber","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/apaixonar-se-rapariga-sobreviveu-a-abuso-emocional-saber\/","title":{"rendered":"Antes de se apaixonar por uma rapariga que sobreviveu a abusos emocionais, saiba isto"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s get one thing straight\u2014love is an amazing thing! But some of us once fell so hard for a guy, that we were blind to see that he was taking advantage of us and kept hurting us purposely.<\/p>\n<p>The right one will never abuse his lady emotionally. In fact, he won\u2019t abuse her in any way.<\/p>\n<p>If he doesn\u2019t like something, he will try to talk, but if things don\u2019t function, he will rather leave her than do some harm.<\/p>\n<p>Mas a verdade \u00e9 que hoje em dia h\u00e1 muitas mulheres que foram v\u00edtimas de abusos emocionais e para todos os homens que querem namorar com uma rapariga assim, eis o que devem ter em mente.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ela precisa de ouvir que \u00e9 digna<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/couple-smiling-and-looking-at-each-other-outside.jpg\" alt=\"casal a sorrir e a olhar um para o outro no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/couple-smiling-and-looking-at-each-other-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/couple-smiling-and-looking-at-each-other-outside-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/couple-smiling-and-looking-at-each-other-outside-768x516.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se se puserem no lugar dela, compreender\u00e3o por que raz\u00e3o estou a falar disto.<\/p>\n<p>J\u00e1 se apaixonou pelo homem errado, aquele que tornou a sua vida miser\u00e1vel e que a fez acreditar que n\u00e3o era suficiente.<\/p>\n<p>And now, she doesn\u2019t want the same things to happen again. So, don\u2019t be too harsh on her.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00ea-lhe tempo para sarar e ensine-a a amar-se de novo.<\/p>\n<p>Tell her that she is beautiful and special just the way she is and that you don\u2019t want her to change unless she wants it.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ela \u00e9 extremamente cuidadosa&nbsp;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94069\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/side-view-of-smiling-couple-hugging-and-looking-each-other-outside.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de um casal sorridente que se abra\u00e7a e se olha no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/side-view-of-smiling-couple-hugging-and-looking-each-other-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/side-view-of-smiling-couple-hugging-and-looking-each-other-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/side-view-of-smiling-couple-hugging-and-looking-each-other-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando se passa algum tempo com um agressor, aprende-se a andar sobre cascas de ovos. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-a-rapariga-que-confundiu-abuso-com-amor\/\">Todas as raparigas v\u00edtimas de abusos emocionais<\/a> sabe disso.<\/p>\n<p>She knows that her man can be moody and that she is the one who will pay for all that in the end. That\u2019s why she will always be careful.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t let you walk into her life easily if you don\u2019t show to her how much you care about her.<\/p>\n<p>Isto \u00e9 normal e eu s\u00f3 espero que haja por a\u00ed alguns bons rapazes que saibam trat\u00e1-la com respeito. Porque \u00e9 isso que todas as mulheres merecem.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Por vezes, confunde-se&nbsp;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94070\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-comforting-his-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a confortar a sua mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-comforting-his-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-comforting-his-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-comforting-his-woman-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ter estado numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o abusiva deixou definitivamente algumas cicatrizes profundas.<\/p>\n<p>Just because of this, she will sometimes be confused about things that she wants or doesn\u2019t want.<\/p>\n<p>Ela passou pelo inferno e voltou, por isso precisa de algum tempo extra para perceber quem \u00e9 a sua prioridade e quem \u00e9 a sua op\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Once she finishes doing this, she will let you know. So if you really care about her, give her time to decide. And remember, big things just don\u2019t happen overnight!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ela \u00e9 extremamente emotiva<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94067\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-and-woman-lying-on-concrete-surface-and-looking-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher deitados numa superf\u00edcie de bet\u00e3o e a olharem um para o outro\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-and-woman-lying-on-concrete-surface-and-looking-each-other.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-and-woman-lying-on-concrete-surface-and-looking-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-and-woman-lying-on-concrete-surface-and-looking-each-other-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se conhece a sua hist\u00f3ria, tamb\u00e9m sabe que ela fez parte de algo dram\u00e1tico e mau. Por causa de todas estas coisas, ela \u00e9 mais emotiva do que as outras raparigas.<\/p>\n<p>Talvez a possa magoar a forma como diz algo com a sua voz alta.<\/p>\n<p>Or she might be offended if you don\u2019t call her when you said you will.<\/p>\n<p>Pequenas coisas como essas podem fazer ou estragar o dia dela. Por isso, se quer ficar com ela, tenha cuidado com essas pequenas coisas porque s\u00e3o as que mais contam.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ela \u00e9 uma guerreira<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94071\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Portrait-of-a-beautiful-brunette-woman-in-autumn-park.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de uma bela mulher morena num parque de outono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Portrait-of-a-beautiful-brunette-woman-in-autumn-park.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Portrait-of-a-beautiful-brunette-woman-in-autumn-park-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Portrait-of-a-beautiful-brunette-woman-in-autumn-park-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ela passou por tantas coisas que a tornaram mais forte. Ela n\u00e3o \u00e9 a mesma rapariga que era no ano passado.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t text you every day just to remind you that she exists.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t want to be a victim anymore and she will do everything in her power for history not to repeat itself.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ela quer que desta vez seja diferente&nbsp;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94073\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/smiling-couple-looking-at-each-other-while-sitting-on-table.jpg\" alt=\"casal sorridente a olhar um para o outro sentado numa mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/smiling-couple-looking-at-each-other-while-sitting-on-table.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/smiling-couple-looking-at-each-other-while-sitting-on-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/smiling-couple-looking-at-each-other-while-sitting-on-table-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uma rapariga como esta passou por um inferno, por isso quer que as coisas sejam diferentes desta vez.<\/p>\n<p>She wants everything that she couldn\u2019t have in the previous relationship and she won\u2019t settle for anything less than she deserves.<\/p>\n<p>A sua hist\u00f3ria foi cheia de dor, mas se ela encontrar um homem em quem possa acreditar e que a fa\u00e7a feliz de novo, ficar\u00e1 definitivamente com ele. No final, ela queria isso para toda a sua vida.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ela quer que a aceites tal como ela \u00e9&nbsp;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94072\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/happy-couple-looking-at-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"casal feliz a olhar um para o outro\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/happy-couple-looking-at-each-other.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/happy-couple-looking-at-each-other-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/happy-couple-looking-at-each-other-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ela est\u00e1 ciente do facto de que, por vezes, \u00e9 uma confus\u00e3o e que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 problema em ir embora. Mas, no fundo, ela adoraria que ficasse e lutasse por ela.<\/p>\n<p>Ela s\u00f3 quer um homem de verdade que a aceite com todas as suas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es porque elas fizeram dela a mulher que \u00e9 hoje!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m:&nbsp;<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/carta-homem-vitima-de-abuso-emocional\/\">Uma carta para o homem que abusou de mim emocionalmente<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94065\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Before-Falling-In-Love-With-A-Girl-Who-Survived-Emotional-Abuse-Know-This-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Antes de se apaixonar por uma rapariga que sobreviveu a abusos emocionais, saiba isto\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Before-Falling-In-Love-With-A-Girl-Who-Survived-Emotional-Abuse-Know-This-Pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Before-Falling-In-Love-With-A-Girl-Who-Survived-Emotional-Abuse-Know-This-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Before-Falling-In-Love-With-A-Girl-Who-Survived-Emotional-Abuse-Know-This-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s get one thing straight\u2014love is an amazing thing! But some of us once fell so hard for a guy, that we were blind to see that he was taking advantage of us and kept hurting us purposely. The right one will never abuse his lady emotionally. In fact, he won\u2019t abuse her in any&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":94064,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6044","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse &amp; trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Before-Falling-In-Love-With-A-Girl-Who-Survived-Emotional-Abuse-Know-This.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse &amp; trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse &amp; trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6044","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6044"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6044\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/94064"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6044"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6044"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6044"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}