{"id":60450,"date":"2020-04-08T10:23:41","date_gmt":"2020-04-08T10:23:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=60450"},"modified":"2022-01-21T12:01:13","modified_gmt":"2022-01-21T12:01:13","slug":"deixa-lo-ir-e-manter-se","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/deixa-lo-ir-e-manter-se\/","title":{"rendered":"Deixe-o ir e guarde-se"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c9 dif\u00edcil, mas tens de o fazer. Vais ter de o deixar ir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I know that the pain of missing someone is sometimes harder than holding onto someone and getting hurt all over again. You\u2019ll have to do it anyway.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no point in holding onto things that keep hurting you. Things that destroy us are not love.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Therefore, you have to let it go to save the only person you can save \u2013 yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You have to protect your heart. What you\u2019re missing isn\u2019t him, it\u2019s just your memories of the good days and how it used to be.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-60467 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-a-white-long-sleeve-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com uma manga comprida branca\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-a-white-long-sleeve-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-a-white-long-sleeve-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-a-white-long-sleeve-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O momento em que come\u00e7amos a pensar em como as coisas costumavam ser \u00e9 muitas vezes o momento em que, involuntariamente, admitimos a nossa derrota.<\/p>\n<p>Reminiscing on the old days is one of the proofs that something in the relationship isn\u2019t right.<\/p>\n<p>We change, and as we get older, we\u2019re less naive. It\u2019s easier to spot toxic patterns when you\u2019re sober from infatuation.<\/p>\n<p>Why would you hold on to someone who\u2019s not worth it \u2013 someone who doesn\u2019t appreciate you or understand you?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por que raz\u00e3o se agarraria a algo que sabe, no fundo do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, que n\u00e3o \u00e9 a coisa certa para si?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes we\u2019re scared to admit that what we once called love isn\u2019t love after all.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-60468 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-coat.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de casaco preto\" width=\"800\" height=\"541\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-coat.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-coat-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-coat-768x519.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We risked all that we are and ended up losing ourselves for something that wasn\u2019t even real.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time for you to put the thing into perspective. Things that happened to you are not curses. They are not tragedies.<\/p>\n<p>Everything bad that happens to us is a learning experience. If we don\u2019t like where we are, we can move on from it. That includes him.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Progress is never a result of a perfect life. It\u2019s the result of failures, pain, and our willingness to learn from them.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>As coisas que lhe aconteceram s\u00e3o empurradas noutra dire\u00e7\u00e3o. Uma dire\u00e7\u00e3o melhor.<\/p>\n<p>Every so often, life puts an obstacle before us, just to remind where we\u2019re going.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-60470 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-her-hair-against-the-wind.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a segurar o cabelo contra o vento\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-her-hair-against-the-wind.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-her-hair-against-the-wind-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-her-hair-against-the-wind-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Olhe \u00e0 sua volta. \u00c9 isso que queres? Pensar sem parar no que aconteceria se, por uma vez, se defendesse?<\/p>\n<p>Give yourself a chance. You\u2019re a strong woman, even if that\u2019s not how you think of yourself now.<\/p>\n<p>Letting go is an act of courage. That hope you feel inside yourself that won\u2019t let you let go \u2013 save it for yourself.<\/p>\n<p><strong>P\u00e1ra de comprometer o teu valor. Deixa a d\u00favida de lado. Confie no seu instinto. Decida ouvir-se a si pr\u00f3prio e veja o que acontece.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Admitting the truth to ourselves is always the hardest thing. You have to admit you\u2019re the only person that can save you. And guess what? That means you\u2019re going to make it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-60473 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-girl-at-coffee-bar-looking-at-window.jpg\" alt=\"jovem rapariga no caf\u00e9 a olhar para a janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-girl-at-coffee-bar-looking-at-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-girl-at-coffee-bar-looking-at-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-girl-at-coffee-bar-looking-at-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A mesma paix\u00e3o e determina\u00e7\u00e3o que o levaram a lutar pela sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o ir\u00e3o agora transform\u00e1-lo na melhor vers\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prio. Deixe-se ser quem \u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Open your eyes and see that you\u2019re enough.<strong> Avoiding pain and unpleasant emotions isn\u2019t courage; facing them is.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Growing isn\u2019t comfortable because it\u2019s new. It\u2019s something you\u2019re yet to explore. It\u2019s not safe. It\u2019s saying no to fear and stepping into something that will better you.<\/p>\n<p>Stop looking for things you need in all the wrong places when you can find it all in yourself. You\u2019re the one you need.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-60474 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-sitting-by-the-lake.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga sentada junto ao lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-sitting-by-the-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-sitting-by-the-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-sitting-by-the-lake-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>When you find yourself, that\u2019s when the right person will come. You can\u2019t be completed when you\u2019re lost, and you can\u2019t complete others when there\u2019s no you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When standing proudly in who you are, that\u2019s when the right person can see you.<\/p>\n<p>Keep yourself, for that\u2019s the most precious thing you have. You\u2019re irreplaceable, unique, and good enough as you are.<\/p>\n<p>Nem num milh\u00e3o de anos haver\u00e1 algu\u00e9m como tu. Faz um favor ao mundo e valoriza-te a ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>Make sure nothing stands in your way. What\u2019s keeping you from having what you want is letting go.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-60478 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-raising-her-hands-outside-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a levantar as m\u00e3os no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-raising-her-hands-outside-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-raising-her-hands-outside-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-raising-her-hands-outside-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/este-nao-sera-a-chave-para-muitos-sins\/\">Deixando-o ir<\/a>. Abandonar as expectativas. Deixar a d\u00favida de lado.<\/p>\n<p>What brings you closer is deciding the only thing you\u2019re going to fight for is you. Because you deserve nothing less.<\/p>\n<p><strong>As dificuldades e a dor s\u00e3o chamadas de aten\u00e7\u00e3o. Comece agora, tire o melhor partido disso, e por favor:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\"<em><strong>Deixa-o ir; guarda-te.<\/strong><\/em>\u201d (<em>Shrijan Shreyaans<\/em>)<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-60463 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Let-Him-Go-And-Keep-Yourself-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Deixe-o ir e guarde-se \" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Let-Him-Go-And-Keep-Yourself-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Let-Him-Go-And-Keep-Yourself-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Let-Him-Go-And-Keep-Yourself-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Let-Him-Go-And-Keep-Yourself-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Let-Him-Go-And-Keep-Yourself-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Let-Him-Go-And-Keep-Yourself-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s hard, but you\u2019ll have to do it. You\u2019ll have to let him go. I know that the pain of missing someone is sometimes harder than holding onto someone and getting hurt all over again. You\u2019ll have to do it anyway. There\u2019s no point in holding onto things that keep hurting you. Things that destroy&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":60464,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-60450","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Let-Him-Go-And-Keep-Yourself.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60450","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=60450"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60450\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/60464"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=60450"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=60450"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=60450"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}