{"id":60480,"date":"2020-04-08T14:24:04","date_gmt":"2020-04-08T14:24:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=60480"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:31:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:31:58","slug":"sou-uma-mulher-brutalmente-suave-nao-vou-mudar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sou-uma-mulher-brutalmente-suave-nao-vou-mudar\/","title":{"rendered":"Eu sou uma mulher brutalmente suave (e n\u00e3o vou mudar por ningu\u00e9m)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sou uma mulher brutalmente suave<\/em>. (Nayyirah Waheed)<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s the thing you should know about me: I\u2019m not like any other girl you\u2019ve met before.<\/p>\n

I can promise you that. I\u2019m the woman who\u2019s been through it all.<\/p>\n

Houve momentos em que parecia que nunca mais me ia p\u00f4r de p\u00e9, mas aqui estou eu. Lutei e sobrevivi.<\/p>\n

The past didn\u2019t turn out how I imagined it would be, but that doesn\u2019t mean my future won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, I\u2019ve decided to let my past go so I can move forward – because I deserve it.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I deserve to be accepted and appreciated. That\u2019s why I\u2019ve decided to accept all the things that make me \u2013 me.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not perfect but I\u2019m a hell of a woman. Now I know my worth, I\u2019m sure that everyone who enters my life will know it too.<\/p>\n

I know how to love deeply; I understand better than anyone. I don\u2019t hold back my feelings. I\u2019m passionate yet considerate.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not afraid of being vulnerable and I\u2019m not afraid of calling you on your BS.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m excited about life even though I\u2019ve known pain. Not a thing can break my spirit. I always keep pushing forward.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

My beauty comes from my self-acceptance. There\u2019s nothing more beautiful than being yourself and I had to learn this the hard way. But it was worth it.<\/p>\n

O meu tipo de amor \u00e9 intemporal. Quase parece que pertence a um tempo mais antigo.<\/p>\n

A time without dating apps and virtual love. Instead, my kind of love is full of handwritten letters and holding hands when we\u2019re seventy.<\/p>\n

I love being protected and cared for. I love being passionate about the one I love. I\u2019m the most loyal person I know.<\/p>\n

My heart is tender, but my soul is brave. I\u2019m a gentle warrior. Fierce enough to protect and gentle enough to mend what\u2019s broken.<\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

I am a brutally soft woman. The rare kind. Sometimes I\u2019m messy and indulge too much but it reminds me how good it is to be a human and make mistakes.<\/p>\n

Cometer erros \u00e9 viver. Eu abra\u00e7o todas as partes da vida e todas as partes de mim. Tudo o que antes era inseguro, agora carrego com orgulho.<\/p>\n

Every scar is a reminder I chose myself after all. It\u2019s a reminder I didn\u2019t give up. And I never will. No matter what life throws at me, I will be prepared.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done going back to people who hurt me. I\u2019m done with people holding me back.<\/p>\n

I refuse to be someone\u2019s doormat. Someone they can use to please their selfish needs.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t accept my boundaries, you don\u2019t respect me. If you can\u2019t accept me as I am, our relationship won\u2019t make sense.<\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t see how beautiful my heart is, how pure my soul is, you don\u2019t deserve me.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m happy because I know what I want. I don\u2019t depend on anyone. If I choose to be with you, it\u2019s because I want you, not because I need you.<\/p>\n

And if we ever part ways, my world won\u2019t stop. I\u2019ve learned that every blessing comes in disguise.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve learned to always have hope and that hope is an underestimated thing. To have hope means to be unafraid.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what I am. Fearless. No one can destroy what they can\u2019t control.<\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Being brutally soft means being honest with yourself. It means accepting your vulnerability and your flaws and being proud of everything that\u2019s good in you.<\/p>\n

O objetivo de vida deste tipo de mulher \u00e9 mostrar a todos que a sua vida \u00e9 importante e significativa.<\/p>\n

Ela quer que eles se lembrem disso sempre que a virem. Ela quer ser um lembrete ambulante para todos os que se esquecem do seu valor.<\/p>\n

Love yourself, because you\u2019re important. You\u2019re someone\u2019s everything.<\/p>\n

You, a beautiful, untamable and kind woman \u2013 you\u2019re someone\u2019s saving grace.<\/p>\n

And you don\u2019t even know it. That\u2019s why you should always be yourself. Just in case.<\/p>\n

 \"Eu<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I am a brutally soft woman. (Nayyirah Waheed) Here\u2019s the thing you should know about me: I\u2019m not like any other girl you\u2019ve met before. I can promise you that. I\u2019m the woman who\u2019s been through it all. At moments it felt like I was never going to be back on my feet again but…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":60489,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-60480","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Am-A-Brutally-Soft-Woman-And-I-Won\u2019t-Change-For-Anyone.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60480","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=60480"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60480\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/60489"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=60480"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=60480"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=60480"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}