{"id":60549,"date":"2020-04-12T21:28:16","date_gmt":"2020-04-12T21:28:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=60549"},"modified":"2022-01-19T22:39:24","modified_gmt":"2022-01-19T22:39:24","slug":"eles-voltam-sempre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/eles-voltam-sempre\/","title":{"rendered":"Eles voltam sempre (e aqui est\u00e3o todas as raz\u00f5es para isso)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando se trata do mundo dos encontros, acredito firmemente em duas coisas: Onde h\u00e1 vontade, h\u00e1 um caminho<\/em> e No final, acabam sempre por voltar.<\/em><\/p>\n

E posso dizer-vos que tenho mais do que uma raz\u00e3o para acreditar nisso.<\/p>\n

No final, parece que acabam sempre por voltar \u00e0 sua vida, \u00e0 sua caixa de correio ou \u00e0 sua mente.<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que eles voltam sempre? Deixem-me reformular a frase: Porque \u00e9 que eles voltam sempre quando j\u00e1 seguimos em frente?<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Tem a regra de n\u00e3o contacto<\/a> transform\u00e1-los em novas esp\u00e9cies?<\/p>\n

Para que, em vez de procurar outra pessoa, se esforcem por encontrar formas de voltar a entrar na sua vida, pelo menos para dar uma espreitadela (porque isso significa muito para eles).<\/p>\n

In the end, they always come back. It is a phenomenon as old as the world itself. And today, we’ll list all the reasons why this happens!<\/p>\n

The “Art” Of Taking You For Granted<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"fotografia<\/p>\n

The majority of ex boyfriends and ex girlfriends who eventually come back have mastered the “art” of taking you for granted beforehand.<\/p>\n

Em resumo, uma das principais raz\u00f5es pelas quais os ex se tornam ex e porque decidem voltar \u00e9 porque o tomaram como garantido.<\/p>\n

Coloquei propositadamente a palavra arte<\/em> entre aspas para acentuar o seu lado sarc\u00e1stico e o seu poder.<\/p>\n

But, I’m starting to think that maybe I should’ve written pandemic instead because its outbreak is very similar to (or maybe even surpasses) the Coronavirus disease.<\/p>\n

The stages of the “art” of taking you for granted are the following:<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"casal
\n   – They selfishly feed off your love and don\u2019t reciprocate or give anything in return<\/p>\n

   – They stop working for your love but continue to expect it<\/p>\n

   – You blindly give more and more thinking something will change<\/p>\n

   – They leave when they notice that you’re not involved anymore \/ as before.<\/p>\n

The outcomes of the “art” of tomar-te por garantido<\/a> s\u00e3o os seguintes:<\/strong><\/p>\n

   – You ending up with severe heartbreak thinking that you did something wrong<\/p>\n

   – You thinking about what you could have done different<\/p>\n

   – You healing and realizing they were never even worthy of being a part of your life<\/p>\n

   – Them coming back. <\/p>\n

A t\u00f3nica \u00e9 colocada em eles<\/em>. A chegar. Voltar.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

After they’ve depleted their source of unconditional love, they suddenly realize that it’s time to leave<\/a>.<\/p>\n

They don’t give a damn about how you feel, let alone about starting to make an effort instead of only expecting things from you.<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica coisa em que pensam \u00e9 em receber.<\/p>\n

E depois, voltam.<\/p>\n

After leaving you heartbroken and devastated, they decide that it’s time to come back to their source of unconditional love, check that it’s still there, or prove you that they’ve changed and if you only give them a chance, everything will be different?<\/p>\n

O seu aparecimento inesperado deixa-o com 100 perguntas sem uma \u00fanica resposta.<\/p>\n

Ou talvez a resposta possa ser encontrada na verdadeira raz\u00e3o do seu regresso?<\/p>\n

15 raz\u00f5es pelas quais eles sempre voltam (depois de partir seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o)<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

1. They know or (somehow magically) sense that you’ve moved on<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"duas<\/p>\n

I swear to God, if this hadn’t happened to me multiple times, there’s not a chance I would ever believe it.<\/p>\n

Depois de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o recente, fiquei confusa e incr\u00e9dula e s\u00f3 conseguia pensar: O que \u00e9 que eu fiz de errado?<\/p>\n

Back then I didn’t understand that it wasn’t me who was the problem, but my willingness to put up with everything they did to me.<\/p>\n

Passaram-se dias, semanas e meses at\u00e9 que finalmente me libertei da sua presen\u00e7a t\u00f3xica e decidi come\u00e7ar um novo cap\u00edtulo.<\/p>\n

Em vez de chorar enquanto via romances repetidos, decidi recuperar a minha for\u00e7a, sair com os meus amigos e come\u00e7ar a namorar de novo por prazer.<\/p>\n

It was right then, when I was laughing my ass off with a new guy I\u2019d just met, that I realized I had FINALLY, oficialmente mudou-se<\/a> e superou tudo isso!<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 n\u00e3o pensava no meu ex (nem sequer nos meus sonhos) e, para mim, tudo o que tinha acontecido antes era uma coisa do passado.<\/p>\n

Algumas semanas mais tarde, quando estava a receber a minha dose di\u00e1ria de redes sociais, HE texted me – my EX texted me!<\/strong> A primeira coisa que me veio \u00e0 cabe\u00e7a foi:<\/p>\n

How in the world does he know that I\u2019ve moved on (because I certainly don’t remember telling him that the last time <\/em>Eu falei com ele)? <\/em>How come didn’t he show up when I was in the middle of the healing process?<\/em><\/p>\n

And since my friends haven’t told him anything, the only logical conclusion that’s left is the following:<\/p>\n

Both women and men come back when they somehow magically sense that you’ve moved on.<\/p>\n

I’m pretty sure all exes have this “moving on” psychic radar built into their system. So, beware of that one!<\/p>\n

2. OR they’re testing the waters<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Outra raz\u00e3o pela qual regressam sempre \u00e9 o facto de estarem a testar as \u00e1guas. O que \u00e9 que isto significa, exatamente? Vou tentar demonstrar.<\/p>\n

The moment your ex decided to walk away, they certainly didn’t think about coming back to you ever – or at least any time soon.<\/p>\n

Enquanto sofria, eles continuaram a viver a sua vida como se nada tivesse acontecido. Mas n\u00e3o por muito tempo.<\/p>\n

Perhaps they had a dream about you, perhaps they secretly saw you somewhere in town (without you even knowing it), or maybe they saw a happy picture of you on social media (if you haven’t unfollowed them, of course).<\/p>\n

And that’s when they decided to test the waters. Curiosity is a powerful thing that can force us to do things we’ve never thought about doing before.<\/p>\n

\"pessoa<\/p>\n

All of a sudden, they want to know what’s happening in your life, whether you are still single, whether you’re happy or miserable.<\/p>\n

Querem saber se t\u00eam hip\u00f3teses de o recuperar.<\/p>\n

In the majority of cases, they don’t test the waters because they want to make sure that you’re doing just fine without them, but because they want to make sure you still NEED and WANT them.<\/p>\n

E depois de o descobrirem, continuam a viver a sua melhor vida.<\/p>\n

Muito foleiro, n\u00e3o \u00e9?<\/p>\n

3. Questionam se tomaram a decis\u00e3o correcta<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Penso que esta raz\u00e3o \u00e9 a mais irritante de todas. (Se concordas comigo, acena com a cabe\u00e7a).<\/p>\n

There’s nothing more annoying in the whole world than deciding to do something only to end up questioning the validity of your decision.<\/p>\n

Isto seria perfeitamente aceit\u00e1vel se se tratasse de comprar meias.<\/p>\n

So, you buy a pair of socks in a store and once you get home, you realize that maybe you shouldn’t have bought them because you don’t really like them, because you think the other sock’s looked better.<\/p>\n

This isn’t about socks, though. It’s about someone’s heart FFS!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Here’s my question to all those wondering whether they made the right decision after they chose to leave someone: Why didn’t you think of that before???<\/p>\n

You can’t have your cake and eat it, right?<\/p>\n

Por isso, reavaliar as suas decis\u00f5es quando algu\u00e9m j\u00e1 come\u00e7ou claramente a viver a sua pr\u00f3pria vida de novo \u00e9 foleiro, miser\u00e1vel e totalmente injusto.<\/p>\n

In addition, questioning one’s decisions is closely connected to regret.<\/p>\n

It’s when an individual begins to consider all the pros and cons of their decision due to a guilty conscience and the fact that they have probably made a mistake.<\/p>\n

But, let’s get something clear: Leaving someone is a choice, not a mistake!<\/p>\n

4. A sua consci\u00eancia est\u00e1 a corroer-se<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

If I’ve learned one thing during my life and from the experience of others, it’s the following:<\/p>\n

Conscience doesn’t know age. You could be an 80 year-old legit grandpa or grandma and still feel guilty about something you did in your twenties. Yup.<\/p>\n

They always come back because at some point they’ll start feeling guilty about something they said, dis, or thought about doing.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll start thinking about every bad thing they did or said to you when you were together.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll enter a phase called “labyrinth”. One moment they\u2019ll think about how they suck(ed) because they took you for granted and didn’t deserve you.<\/p>\n

The next moment they\u2019ll fool themselves that it’s nothing serious and not something they should worry about.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Mas, no fundo do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, eles pr\u00f3prios saber\u00e3o que a sua consci\u00eancia pesada<\/a> est\u00e1 a interferir com a sua vida quotidiana.<\/p>\n

Once they acknowledge this, they\u2019ll realize that they should do something about it.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll decide that they should reach out to you, ask you how you feel, and apologize for everything they did to you in the hope that they will finally be at peace with themselves.<\/p>\n

They always come back because you can’t continue living your life knowing that you ruined someone else’s. It’s the natural law of every human being.<\/p>\n

It’s something that prevents an individual from finding their own happiness because they know they ruined someone else’s.<\/p>\n

5. They’re single and desperate<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

This is when they wake up in the morning and realize they haven’t received a good morning text message from the one who used to love them.<\/p>\n

It’s when they come home drunk and realize they\u2019ve got no one to laugh with and share life’s funny circumstances with.<\/p>\n

It’s when they realize they’re single and desperate for love, affection, or just sex.<\/p>\n

The worst thing about breakups is the sudden realization that you’re all alone for the first time in a while.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Algumas pessoas lidam bem com isso, enquanto outras n\u00e3o conseguem deixar de pensar no ex (mesmo que tenham sido elas a iniciar a separa\u00e7\u00e3o).<\/p>\n

Still, this is not a valid excuse to start violating an ex’s privacy. Being desperate because you’re single is definitely not a valid excuse for anything, let alone booty calls or drunk calls.<\/p>\n

It takes a real man or woman to say what they really mean when they’re in a sober state.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso uma pessoa verdadeira para chegar a algu\u00e9m do seu passado quando o seu sangue n\u00e3o est\u00e1 saturado de \u00e1lcool.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 8 raz\u00f5es pelas quais os homens desaparecem e depois tentam voltar<\/a><\/p>\n

6. OU sentem genuinamente a sua falta<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ou talvez n\u00e3o se sintam sozinhas ou desesperadas, mas sintam genuinamente a sua falta.<\/p>\n

They can’t stop thinking about all the good memories of you two together, the way you talk, walk, think…<\/p>\n

Todas as coisas lhes fazem lembrar de si. Quando v\u00eaem algo com que costumava gozar, imaginam imediatamente as suas express\u00f5es faciais engra\u00e7adas.<\/p>\n

There’s a chance they\u2019ve kept all the gifts and things you gave them and now every time they look at them, they instantly evoke memories of you.<\/p>\n

Sometimes they come back because they truly, genuinely miss you. They can’t help thinking about you 24\/7 even though they’re trying to distract themselves.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

So, they decide to wait for a few days to see whether this “miss you” phase will end.<\/p>\n

But, that usually doesn’t happen, so the urge to text you or call you starts to grow stronger.<\/p>\n

Quando finalmente ganham coragem para o contactar, normalmente iniciam a conversa com algo do g\u00e9nero: Ol\u00e1, <\/em>I’ve been thinking about you a lot…<\/em><\/p>\n

E a primeira coisa que provavelmente lhe vem \u00e0 cabe\u00e7a \u00e9: Tretas!<\/em> To them, their message is perfectly normal, but to you it’s one of the most confusing things you’ve ever heard.<\/p>\n

It’s hard to believe that a person who walked away from you will all of a sudden change their game.<\/p>\n

It’s hard to believe that they would ever tell you that they missed you, but sometimes it\u2019s the truth!<\/p>\n

7. OU querem ver se tens saudades deles tanto quanto eles t\u00eam de ti<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Or perhaps they just want to see if you miss them the way they miss you. These types of people are insecure about the whole “missing you” thing and that’s why they first need the green light from you.<\/p>\n

They first want to make sure you miss them the way they miss you and until they know, they won’t react.<\/p>\n

I guess you’re now wondering why would someone do that?<\/p>\n

Bem, h\u00e1 algumas raz\u00f5es:<\/p>\n

   -Eles sentem mesmo a tua falta e querem que tu sintas a falta deles tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

   -Querem ver se ainda t\u00eam hip\u00f3teses.<\/p>\n

   -They have no intention of doing anything about it, but they’re just curious.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sometimes it’s really hard to differentiate between these three, but there are some things that might help you. Pay attention to the way they text you or talk to you.<\/p>\n

Fazem-lhe muitas perguntas pessoais (especialmente sobre a sua vida amorosa)?<\/p>\n

Mencionam algo sobre a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o passada e recordam-vos os grandes momentos que passaram juntos?<\/p>\n

If yes, then you know they’re trying to figure out whether you still care about them (because they definitely care about you).<\/p>\n

They’re probably waiting for the green light from you because they’re too afraid to express their feelings for you.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Como fazer com que o seu ex sinta a sua falta: 10 maneiras f\u00e1ceis de o fazer<\/a><\/p>\n

8. They realize that the grass isn’t greener on the other side<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Multiple times I\u2019ve witnessed partners leaving because they’re convinced there’s something better out there.<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 o chamado ‘Grass is Greener’ syndrome<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It’s when you think that there is something better out there to what you already have.<\/p>\n

It’s when you fear that you’re missing something. This syndrome is omnipresent in almost every section of our lives and it’s really toxic.<\/p>\n

So, when they decided to leave their partner, they were thrilled and excited about entering the world of “better”.<\/p>\n

Estavam optimistas quanto \u00e0 possibilidade de encontrar algu\u00e9m perfeito ou melhor do que o seu anterior parceiro.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

And then, they realized that the grass isn’t greener on the other side after all. They realized that every single person they met had their own flaws and that no one is perfect.<\/p>\n

So, the pursuit of perfection (the greener grass) results in disappointment and that’s when they decide to come back.<\/p>\n

De repente, tomam consci\u00eancia do que j\u00e1 tinham e come\u00e7am a choramingar como beb\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

No final, acabam sempre por voltar. Regressam quando se apercebem que, durante todo este tempo, estavam a tomar o seu parceiro como garantido.<\/p>\n

Quando se aperceberem que a relva \u00e9 igual em todo o lado e que s\u00f3 t\u00eam de abrir os olhos e v\u00ea-la.<\/p>\n

9. They’re testing your boundaries<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Sometimes they come back just to test your boundaries. They’re curious about how you’ll react to their presence out of blue.<\/p>\n

They want to know whether you’ll still dance to their tune or whether you’ll be interested in welcoming them back.<\/p>\n

Whatever the reason, testing someone’s boundaries is always a tricky thing (not to say dangerous).<\/p>\n

It’s about being an intruder on someone who probably got over them a long time ago. It’s about shamelessly teasing the other person only to see how far they will go.<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que algu\u00e9m faria isso?<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Because they’re bored, because they can’t accept the fact that the other person moved on, because they want to reunite?<\/p>\n

Or they’re doing it just because they can. They’re testing your boundaries because they enjoy observing your reactions to their initiations.<\/p>\n

They’re testing you to see whether you’re the same person who would do anything for them no matter what.<\/p>\n

Well, are you? Hmm…<\/p>\n

10. They’re jealous<\/h2>\n

\"telem\u00f3vel<\/p>\n

In today’s modern world, it has never been easier to become jealous of someone you want to forget or you still have feelings for.<\/p>\n

Basta olhar para o Facebook, o Instagram ou o Snapchat. Eles voltam sempre<\/a> quando v\u00eaem que podes ser feliz com outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

That the person you’re laughing within a picture might be someone new in your life (someone better than them?).<\/p>\n

Esta s\u00edndrome de inveja das redes sociais aconteceu recentemente a um amigo meu.<\/p>\n

She posted a picture with her new friend (and boy, he’s good looking) and the next day her ex texted her. Yup!<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Ele estava curioso sobre a sua vida amorosa e estava a tentar perceber se ela ainda era solteira.<\/p>\n

It was an out of blue check-in she definitely didn’t expect any time soon.<\/p>\n

They always come back when they’re jealous. When they realize that you’re no longer waiting for them to return but building your own ship and cruising.<\/p>\n

Quando percebem que algu\u00e9m pode estar a tratar-vos como merecem!<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Como deixar o seu ex com ci\u00fames: 13 maneiras infal\u00edveis de ter sucesso<\/a><\/p>\n

11. Elas querem a persegui\u00e7\u00e3o (especificamente reservada aos homens)<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Outra coisa em que acredito firmemente \u00e9 o seguinte: Os homens adoram a persegui\u00e7\u00e3o! Vivem para a persegui\u00e7\u00e3o, elogiam a persegui\u00e7\u00e3o, morrem para a persegui\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

The moment they’re born, this chase button activates and it becomes a part of every aspect of their life.<\/p>\n

To help you understand this phenomenon better here’s my humble explanation: So, let’s say you meet a guy in a bar.<\/p>\n

He’s attractive, handsome, a good looking guy, right? Also, his personality is addictive and you can’t help yourself but fall for him immediately.<\/p>\n

But, of course, you won’t let him know this the second you meet him. Instead, you will let him chase you because that’s exactly what he wants, right?<\/p>\n

Aos homens: A persegui\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 o amor, a persegui\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a vida!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"silhueta<\/p>\n

E quando finalmente mostrar alguns sinais de que tamb\u00e9m gosta dele, ele sentir-se-\u00e1 completo e realizado.<\/p>\n

Why? Because he\u2019s succeeded in winning you which is the ultimate goal of the chase.<\/p>\n

Now, let’s say you’re in a relationship with this guy for some time. You slowly, but surely start forming your relationship routine and things are no longer as exciting as before.<\/p>\n

And that’s when he decides to leave. And then, after some time, when you’re no longer his, he COMES BACK!<\/p>\n

Why? Because now he’s got another opportunity to chase you!<\/p>\n

Quando o vemos explicado desta forma, parece hilariante, certo?<\/p>\n

But, it’s the truth. Believe it or not, many men come back just because their chase button is telling them to do so.<\/p>\n

E esta \u00e9 a minha mensagem para eles: Chase her even when she’s already yours!<\/a><\/p>\n

12. They’re pressured by their friends and family<\/h2>\n

\"homens<\/p>\n

I always say that when you meet someone’s friends and family, you somehow end up in a relationship with them too.<\/p>\n

After all, friends and family are an important part of everyone’s life and they can be very influential when it comes to making decisions.<\/p>\n

They can be influential to the extent of pressuring them to reunite with their ex – you. I will repeat again: Why?<\/p>\n

Because they probably like you a lot and they think you’re the only person that is truly good for him\/her.<\/p>\n

Perhaps they\u2019ve realized their mistake and now they’re trying to convince them to go back to you. The pressure doesn’t stop.<\/p>\n

They always come back. And, sometimes it’s because their friends and family are telling them to do so.<\/p>\n

O seu pessoal ajuda-os a perceber que cometeram um erro e que devem pedir desculpa e procurar o perd\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

And, sometimes that’s exactly what they need. A little push from the people closest to them to realize the mistake of letting you go.<\/p>\n

13. They’re sexualmente frustrado<\/a> and you’re the only one who can put them out of their misery<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

With you, they enjoyed steamy activities more than anything. When they left, they were hoping to find the same passion and the same fulfillment with others. But, they didn’t.<\/p>\n

Whomever they slept with, they couldn’t reach the same level of compatibility and fulfillment as they did with you and now they’ve become sexually frustrated.<\/p>\n

Now they\u2019ve realized that you’re the only one who can put them out of their misery. Yup.<\/p>\n

Querem sentir a mesma alegria que sentiam quando estavam consigo.<\/p>\n

And that’s why they decide to text you, to call you, or to knock on your door hoping you’ll be happy to see them.<\/p>\n

In other words, hoping that you’ll be eager to sleep with them like old times.<\/p>\n

If you’re feeling the same way about them, then there’s nothing to lose. But, if you’re still emotionally attached to them, then you should be cautious about getting physical with them.<\/p>\n

14. Arrependem-se de ter acabado contigo<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Ah, regrets… I like to compare the feeling of regret with buying shoes.<\/p>\n

It’s when you go to the store and you see a perfect pair of shoes but for some reason, you don’t buy them. They’re either too expensive or you think you’ll eventually find better elsewhere.<\/p>\n

Then you go home and contemplate the shoes you didn’t buy. So, you return to the store with the intention of finally buying them only to realize that they’re gone.<\/p>\n

Algu\u00e9m j\u00e1 os comprou enquanto voc\u00ea estava a pensar em compr\u00e1-los.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Um cen\u00e1rio semelhante passa-se na cabe\u00e7a deles quando se arrependem de ter acabado consigo.<\/p>\n

They become aware of the fact that they won’t find someone better elsewhere. And that they might be too late if you’re already happy with someone else.<\/p>\n

Arrependem-se de n\u00e3o o terem tratado como merecia, de n\u00e3o o terem amado como voc\u00ea os amou.<\/p>\n

They finally realize that they were selfish, ignorant, and egocentric, blah blah…They realize that they were only focused on their own happiness.<\/p>\n

And now they want to make things right and make up for everything they’ve done wrong.<\/p>\n

15. They know you’ll take them back (OR will you?)<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

And sometimes they come back just because they know you’ll take them back. They never truly left you.<\/p>\n

No momento em que decidiram deixar-te, sabiam que um dia iriam querer voltar.<\/p>\n

They took you for granted because they were convinced that they could come back into your life whenever it’s convenient.<\/p>\n

One of my favorite sentences I’ve ever written is this one: Don’t let them wait just because you know they will!<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

In other words, don’t treat someone like shit just because you know they will tolerate it. There will come a day when they WON’T and it will be too late. But, as always:<\/p>\n

It’s up to you to decide whether you should take them back or let them go!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"fotografia<\/p>\n

Eles voltam sempre, mas ser\u00e1 que os devemos aceitar sempre?<\/p>\n

They say that it’s much easier to deal with heartbreak the second time it happens. But, this is still not a valid reason to welcome them back into your life, right?<\/p>\n

A decis\u00e3o de aceitar ou n\u00e3o o seu ex de volta \u00e9 exclusivamente sua. S\u00f3 tu sabes como te sentes em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a ele ou sem ele.<\/p>\n

Mas lembre-se de uma coisa: se o seu ex vai voltar, tem de ser por vontade pr\u00f3pria!<\/p>\n

Nunca se deve for\u00e7\u00e1-los a faz\u00ea-lo, muito menos implorar. Eles t\u00eam de o fazer porque querem e n\u00e3o porque<\/p>\n

TEM de o fazer e tem de ser pelas raz\u00f5es certas.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 20 sinais claros de que o teu ex vai acabar por voltar<\/a><\/p>\n

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