{"id":60691,"date":"2020-04-08T21:01:27","date_gmt":"2020-04-08T21:01:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=60691"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:30:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:30:53","slug":"regras-de-relacionamento-de-que-ninguem-fala","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/regras-de-relacionamento-de-que-ninguem-fala\/","title":{"rendered":"10 regras de relacionamento imperd\u00edveis de que ningu\u00e9m fala"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There are oh-so-many rules out there on how people should behave in relationships: Wait three days to call her, don\u2019t kiss him on your first date, and many, many others.<\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s very weird to me is that other, so much more important rules get overlooked. Every relationship is different, but there are some common sense rules you should follow at all times.<\/p>\n<p>Apresentamos-lhe uma lista dessas regras de ouro que nunca deve ignorar.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Aprender com o seu passado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60692\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-sitting-on-the-hill.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher sentada na colina\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-sitting-on-the-hill.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-sitting-on-the-hill-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-sitting-on-the-hill-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nPoder\u00e1 estar a pensar que as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es passadas devem ser esquecidas no momento em que entra numa nova. Isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 de todo verdade.<\/p>\n<p>While you shouldn\u2019t dwell on the past or talk too much about it with your partner, you should absolutely learn something from it.<\/p>\n<p>Cada rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 \u00fanica, mas h\u00e1 muitas coisas que pode aprender sobre si pr\u00f3prio que o podem ajudar a construir uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o mais feliz e saud\u00e1vel com algu\u00e9m novo.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Your partner can\u2019t read your mind<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60693\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-man-talking-to-angry-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem jovem a falar com uma mulher zangada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-man-talking-to-angry-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-man-talking-to-angry-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-man-talking-to-angry-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nEst\u00e1 a contar que o seu parceiro o conhe\u00e7a t\u00e3o bem que reconhe\u00e7a, em qualquer momento, o que precisa ou quer.<\/p>\n<p>No matter how much they love you and how much they want to please you, it\u2019s impossible for them to always know what you need at any time.<\/p>\n<p>Deve falar sempre sobre os seus sentimentos e dizer-lhes diretamente tudo o que quer ou precisa deles.<\/p>\n<p>Also, if something bothers you or you get angry at them for any reason, don\u2019t wait for them to figure it out on their own, simply tell them.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Ningu\u00e9m pode ser perfeito<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60694\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-couple-drinking-a-tea-together.jpg\" alt=\"casal feliz a beber um ch\u00e1 juntos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-couple-drinking-a-tea-together.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-couple-drinking-a-tea-together-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-couple-drinking-a-tea-together-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nNo one is perfect. There will always be some flaws in your partner\u2019s character.<\/p>\n<p>You have your own flaws, right? Accept that your partner won\u2019t always be able to do the right thing and prepare yourself to forgive them.<\/p>\n<p>Mostre-lhe que compreende que ele pode cometer um erro e aceite as suas desculpas. Claro, se o que ele fez for algo que possa perdoar.<\/p>\n<p>Also, make sure to forgive yourself and don\u2019t beat yourself up too much if you do something wrong.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Pensar bem antes de dizer e fazer as coisas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60695\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-girl-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga preocupada a pensar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-girl-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-girl-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-girl-thinking-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nWords can really be hurtful. Especially when you\u2019re fighting, make sure you don\u2019t say something that would offend your partner, especially if you don\u2019t mean it.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que o perdoem, as palavras ficar\u00e3o gravadas na sua mente para sempre.<\/p>\n<p>O que disser ou fizer pode ser muito dif\u00edcil de retirar, por isso pense bem antes de destruir a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h2>5. \u00c9 preciso muito tempo para conhecer verdadeiramente uma pessoa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60696\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-sitting-on-swingset-and-watching-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"casal sentado num baloi\u00e7o a ver o p\u00f4r do sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-sitting-on-swingset-and-watching-sunset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-sitting-on-swingset-and-watching-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-sitting-on-swingset-and-watching-sunset-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nYou might be thinking that being in a relationship for a couple of months or even a year means that you know your partner perfectly, but that\u2019s really not true.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e3o precisos anos para conhecer verdadeiramente uma pessoa.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 necess\u00e1rio que tenham passado por muitas coisas diferentes para se conhecerem verdadeiramente, por isso, deixe algum espa\u00e7o para elementos inesperados que possa descobrir sobre o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Don\u2019t discuss your relationship in too much detail with others<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60697\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-man-talking-to-woman-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"um jovem a falar com uma mulher na sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-man-talking-to-woman-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-man-talking-to-woman-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-man-talking-to-woman-in-the-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nTalking a bit about your relationship with your friends is fine and expected, but going into too much detail is downright breaking your partner\u2019s trust. No one likes being talked about that way.<\/p>\n<p>You wouldn\u2019t want your partner to discuss everything about you with his friends, right? It\u2019s uncomfortable and embarrassing.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 coisas que \u00e9 melhor manter entre si e o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Nunca deixes de mostrar que te preocupas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60698\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-in-love-cuddling-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"casal apaixonado a abra\u00e7ar-se na rua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-in-love-cuddling-on-the-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-in-love-cuddling-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-in-love-cuddling-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nAs time passes, it can be easy to start taking your partner for granted. Make sure you don\u2019t do this. Continue to do all the lovely things you were doing at the beginning of your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Always act like they are the most important person in your life and you\u2019d never allow yourself to lose them.<\/p>\n<p>Keep acting like you\u2019re trying to get them to fall for you \u2013 that\u2019s the only recipe to keep them forever.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Value your partner\u2019s (and your own) personal time<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60700\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/three-friends-having-fun-time.jpg\" alt=\"tr\u00eas amigos a divertirem-se\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/three-friends-having-fun-time.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/three-friends-having-fun-time-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/three-friends-having-fun-time-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nWhen you love someone, you want to spend a lot of time with them, that\u2019s a given. Make sure you don\u2019t overdo it.<\/p>\n<p>Even though you\u2019d like to be with them all the time, you need to let them have their life without you.<\/p>\n<p>They need to have time for their family, friends, and personal interests. The same goes for you. Just because you met someone amazing doesn\u2019t mean they have to be your whole life.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important to continue to maintain your other relationships and hobbies, and have time apart from your partner.<\/p>\n<h2>9. Don\u2019t underestimate the power of thoughtfulness<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60701\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-sitting-in-field.jpg\" alt=\"mulher atenta sentada num campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-sitting-in-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-sitting-in-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-sitting-in-field-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nIt\u2019s amazing having someone who listens to you \u2013 someone who always remembers the smallest things you mention and then uses them to surprise you.<\/p>\n<p>Encontre sempre uma forma de fazer com que o seu parceiro se sinta apreciado. Pequenas coisas podem ser muito importantes.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not only the grand gestures that are important in showing love. Being thoughtful every day is what counts the most.<\/p>\n<h2>10. Discutir pode ser muito saud\u00e1vel<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60702\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-distanced-from-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher zangada sentada na cama, afastada do homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-distanced-from-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-distanced-from-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-distanced-from-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Arguing is not the end of the relationship. One fight doesn\u2019t mean you guys have to split up.<\/p>\n<p>Ter discuss\u00f5es \u00e9 um passo muito importante para conhecer melhor o seu parceiro e construir uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de que ambos gostem.<\/p>\n<p>Make sure you don\u2019t hit under the belt when you fight, and always remember you\u2019re talking to the person you love and who loves you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s unhealthy to keep silent about the things that bother you, and arguing can really clear the energy between you and your partner.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60704\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/10-Must-Know-Relationship-Rules-Nobody-Talks-About-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"10 regras de relacionamento imperd\u00edveis de que ningu\u00e9m fala\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/10-Must-Know-Relationship-Rules-Nobody-Talks-About-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/10-Must-Know-Relationship-Rules-Nobody-Talks-About-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/10-Must-Know-Relationship-Rules-Nobody-Talks-About-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/10-Must-Know-Relationship-Rules-Nobody-Talks-About-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are oh-so-many rules out there on how people should behave in relationships: Wait three days to call her, don\u2019t kiss him on your first date, and many, many others. What\u2019s very weird to me is that other, so much more important rules get overlooked. Every relationship is different, but there are some common sense&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":60703,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-60691","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/10-Must-Know-Relationship-Rules-Nobody-Talks-About.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60691","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=60691"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60691\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/60703"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=60691"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=60691"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=60691"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}