{"id":60707,"date":"2020-04-08T21:47:09","date_gmt":"2020-04-08T21:47:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=60707"},"modified":"2022-01-21T12:42:12","modified_gmt":"2022-01-21T12:42:12","slug":"coisas-que-a-tua-ex-quer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/coisas-que-a-tua-ex-quer\/","title":{"rendered":"Porque \u00e9 que o teu ex voltou? 9 coisas que ele realmente quer de voc\u00ea"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Penso que esta \u00e9 uma hist\u00f3ria familiar a todas as raparigas: os ex namorados voltam \u00e0s nossas vidas. Logo quando encontr\u00e1mos a nossa paz interior depois da separa\u00e7\u00e3o, ele volta para nos chatear outra vez.<\/p>\n<p>Foi ele que decidiu ir-se embora e agora voltou e quer continuar como se nada tivesse acontecido.<\/p>\n<p>Talvez ainda o ame e sinta que ele \u00e9 a sua alma g\u00e9mea. Talvez o tenha ultrapassado e a \u00fanica coisa que agora sente por ele \u00e9 raiva ou desilus\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Either way, you are taken aback and you don&#8217;t know what to do or how to behave.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60709\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-sitting-on-bench.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada sentada num banco\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-sitting-on-bench.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-sitting-on-bench-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-sitting-on-bench-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/o-meu-ex-quer-me-de-volta\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Est\u00e1 confuso porque<\/span><\/a> you don&#8217;t know whether he is back because he loves you or if there is something else behind his new decision.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Infelizmente, tem todo o direito de duvidar da sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Por vezes, um ex regressa pelas raz\u00f5es erradas e pode voltar a mago\u00e1-lo, ainda mais do que da primeira vez.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Only you know how painful your healing was. Be careful, don&#8217;t let him fool you and break your heart twice.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>1. Ele quer provar que pode estar consigo sempre que quiser<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60710\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-with-hat-talking-with-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem com chap\u00e9u a falar com uma mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-with-hat-talking-with-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-with-hat-talking-with-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-with-hat-talking-with-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nHe thinks you love him more than life itself. He thinks that he can leave you whenever he wants and that you&#8217;ll always be there waiting for him.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever he does, he thinks you&#8217;ll be there to forgive him and welcome him back because your love is blind. He thinks that your love is unconditional and that you won&#8217;t stop loving him no matter what.<\/p>\n<p>Well, that&#8217;s only what he thinks. Show him that he is wrong. Show him that you love yourself more than you love him and that you won&#8217;t settle for less than you deserve.<\/p>\n<p>If he appears on your front door in the middle of the night, don&#8217;t let him in. Shut the door in his face. Shut all the doors to your heart from him.<\/p>\n<p>It will be hard but it&#8217;s necessary. Show him that no matter how much you love him, you won&#8217;t be always there for him, as an option. You deserve to be a priority.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Eras o seu plano de reserva<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60711\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-couple-talking-and-having-fun.jpg\" alt=\"jovem casal a conversar e a divertir-se\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-couple-talking-and-having-fun.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-couple-talking-and-having-fun-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-couple-talking-and-having-fun-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nHe met someone new while you were dating and that&#8217;s the real reason why he broke up with you. He wanted to date that other person but also he left some unfinished business between you two.<\/p>\n<p>Ele fez isso porque <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/11-sinais-dolorosos-de-que-nao-es-nada-mais-do-que-o-plano-de-reserva-dele\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ele queria voltar para si<\/span><\/a> if his relationship with the other woman failed. And now he is back and expects that you&#8217;ll give him another chance.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;ll try to fool you with some sweet words. He&#8217;ll be telling you how your love was the best thing that ever happened to him.<\/p>\n<p>Of course it is but he didn&#8217;t need some other woman to make him realize it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Trust me darling, the one who&#8217;ll behave like you are the only woman on the earth will come and he&#8217;ll be all you ever needed.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>3. He&#8217;s lonely<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60712\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-man-wearing-black-shirt.jpg\" alt=\"homem solit\u00e1rio com camisa preta\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-man-wearing-black-shirt.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-man-wearing-black-shirt-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-man-wearing-black-shirt-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nAll of his friends are busy with their jobs and their significant others, and he soon realizes that you were the only one who always had time for him; that\u2019s why he decides to come back to you.<\/p>\n<p>Be careful, he hasn\u2019t come back because he realized that he loves you, the only reason for it is that he doesn&#8217;t like the feeling of loneliness and he knows that you were the only one who was always there for him.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;ll probably tell you that you are the only person who understands him or can make him happy but don&#8217;t fall for that. That loneliness is his fault and now let him deal with it.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Sente falta da intimidade f\u00edsica<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60713\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-couple-kissing-passionate.jpg\" alt=\"jovem casal a beijar-se apaixonadamente\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-couple-kissing-passionate.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-couple-kissing-passionate-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-couple-kissing-passionate-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nEven though he isn&#8217;t in love with you anymore, he misses the intimate side of the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t mean he only wants to have sex with you but <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/15-signs-youre-on-your-ex-mind\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ele sente falta dos seus abra\u00e7os noturnos<\/span><\/a>Ele sente falta dos seus beijos de boa noite e de bom dia. Ele tem saudades de deitar a cabe\u00e7a no teu colo enquanto joga.<\/p>\n<p>At\u00e9 sente falta de andar de m\u00e3os dadas em p\u00fablico, que era o que ele mais detestava quando namoravam.<\/p>\n<p>Fizeste-o sentir-se especial e mais ningu\u00e9m o pode fazer sentir assim; \u00e9 disso que ele sente mais falta.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Os seus amigos e familiares disseram-lhe que tinha perdido um guardi\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60714\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"homem triste a olhar para a rua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-on-the-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nDurante o namoro, ganhou a confian\u00e7a e o respeito da fam\u00edlia e dos amigos dele. Acreditava que iam ficar juntos para sempre e tratava-os como se fossem a sua pr\u00f3pria fam\u00edlia.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you are still in touch with some of his friends and family members and they are still on your side because they know that he won&#8217;t find a woman like you.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e3o as pessoas de quem mais gosta e em quem mais confia e as suas opini\u00f5es s\u00e3o muito importantes para ele.<\/p>\n<p>He may come back only because they have pressured him to do that and he may be confused with all of it. Don&#8217;t let that happen. You will be in a relationship with him, not them.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn&#8217;t love you and it&#8217;s not going to change.<\/p>\n<p>Lembre-se, nada vale a pena se nenhum dos dois for feliz numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h2>6. O sentimento de culpa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60715\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-woman-with-green-eyes-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita com olhos verdes a pensar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-woman-with-green-eyes-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-woman-with-green-eyes-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-woman-with-green-eyes-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nI know you are hurting but be brave; it\u2019s a part of the healing process. Maybe it&#8217;ll take a little longer than you expected but hang in there.<\/p>\n<p>Do whatever you feel that you need to do. Cry, don\u2019t leave the house for days but please, never claim the role of a victim. Don&#8217;t use guilt to manipulate him into coming back to you.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t send him messages about how you are thinking about hurting yourself because of the break-up.<\/p>\n<p><strong>He may come back but he&#8217;ll leave as soon as he understands what kind of game you are playing. Nobody likes to be manipulated.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>7. Ele v\u00ea que seguiste em frente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60716\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-woman-with-glasses-holding-a-cup.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita com \u00f3culos a segurar uma ch\u00e1vena\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-woman-with-glasses-holding-a-cup.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-woman-with-glasses-holding-a-cup-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-woman-with-glasses-holding-a-cup-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nEle seguiu em frente assim que acabou contigo, e tu tens todo o direito de fazer o mesmo. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-coisas-mas-que-vao-acontecer-se-seguir-em-frente-demasiado-depressa\/\">Dar a si pr\u00f3prio tempo para sarar e seguir em frente<\/a> como se nada tivesse acontecido.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;ll be surprised when he sees you happy again, when he understands that you can enjoy life without him.<\/p>\n<p>He thought that you\u2019d never move on because you&#8217;ll love him and wait for him forever. And that&#8217;s why he can&#8217;t stand the fact that you have moved on.<\/p>\n<p>Now he has started to want you more than ever before. Men like strong women and most of all, they like what they can&#8217;t have. And you moving on means that he can&#8217;t have you anymore.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;ll try to win you over again but <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/as-mulheres-fortes-nao-dao-segundas-oportunidades\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ter cuidado ao dar-lhe uma segunda oportunidade.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>He is not doing it because he loves you, he is only doing it because he sees that you can live without him and because he likes the &#8216;new&#8217; you.<\/p>\n<h2>8. You&#8217;re dating someone new<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60717\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-couple-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"casal feliz na praia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-couple-on-the-beach.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-couple-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-couple-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nThis is something that drives men absolutely crazy every time after a break-up. He can&#8217;t stand to see you with another man.<\/p>\n<p>He left you but he didn\u2019t think that you would be able to fall in love again.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver como est\u00e1 feliz com um novo rapaz, e essas pequenas fa\u00edscas nos seus olhos quando ele est\u00e1 a falar consigo, est\u00e1 a matar lentamente o seu ex.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ele fica imediatamente nost\u00e1lgico e lembra-se de como tu olhavas para ele da mesma maneira e de como esse rapaz est\u00e1 realmente feliz por ter algu\u00e9m a olhar para ele com tanto amor.<\/p>\n<h2>9. Ele sente falta do teu amor desinteressado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60718\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-hugging-man-in-the-bedroom.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a abra\u00e7ar homem no quarto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-hugging-man-in-the-bedroom.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-hugging-man-in-the-bedroom-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-hugging-man-in-the-bedroom-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nRegressou porque sabe do vosso amor, do seu altru\u00edsmo e da sua incondicionalidade. Ele est\u00e1 agora consciente de todos os vossos afectos para com ele.<\/p>\n<p>Talvez ele tenha tentado namorar depois da vossa separa\u00e7\u00e3o, mas isso s\u00f3 o fez perceber que nunca ningu\u00e9m o amaria como tu o amaste.<\/p>\n<p>Ele sente falta de algu\u00e9m que estava l\u00e1 para ele a meio da noite. Que o apoiava em todos os seus planos irrealistas. Que o amava independentemente de tudo.<\/p>\n<p>Agora que te perdeu, perdeu tudo isso e isso f\u00ea-lo perceber que \u00e9s uma rapariga \u00fanica na vida.<\/p>\n<p>Deixa que a dor te ensine uma li\u00e7\u00e3o. Lembra-te de quem te magoou. Deixa que a dor te mude <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/nao-se-pode-nascer-forte\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">e tornar-vos mais fortes.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Conhece sempre o teu valor. Concentre-se apenas no futuro e deixe-o no passado. Voc\u00ea \u00e9 o centro do seu mundo e a rela\u00e7\u00e3o consigo mesma \u00e9 a mais importante da sua vida.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ele teve de te perder para perceber o quanto tu vales. Agora, ele que se arrependa toda a vida porque foi suficientemente est\u00fapido para deixar uma mulher \u00fanica como tu.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60723\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Why-Did-Your-Ex-Come-Back-9-Things-He-Actually-Wants-From-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Por que seu ex voltou 9 coisas que ele realmente quer de voc\u00ea\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Why-Did-Your-Ex-Come-Back-9-Things-He-Actually-Wants-From-You-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Why-Did-Your-Ex-Come-Back-9-Things-He-Actually-Wants-From-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Why-Did-Your-Ex-Come-Back-9-Things-He-Actually-Wants-From-You-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Why-Did-Your-Ex-Come-Back-9-Things-He-Actually-Wants-From-You-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I think this is a familiar story to all girls; exes coming back into our lives. Right when you have found your inner peace after the break-up, he comes back to mess with you again. He was the one who decided to leave and now he has come back and wants to continue as though&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":60721,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-60707","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Why-Did-Your-Ex-Come-Back-9-Things-He-Actually-Wants-From-You.jpg",800,540,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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