{"id":61017,"date":"2020-04-09T18:28:07","date_gmt":"2020-04-09T18:28:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=61017"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:22:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:22:42","slug":"foste-deixado-para-tras","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/foste-deixado-para-tras\/","title":{"rendered":"No final, foste tu que ficaste para tr\u00e1s, n\u00e3o eu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tenho de ser sincero. Amei-te como nunca amei ningu\u00e9m antes. No in\u00edcio da nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, fazias-me a rapariga mais feliz do mundo, fazias-me sentir uma rainha.<\/p>\n<p>Estiveste sempre presente para mim. Arranjaste maneira de me surpreender todos os dias com algo novo. Respeitaste-me e satisfizeste todas as minhas necessidades.<\/p>\n<p>Tinhas tanto <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/alcunhas-giras-para-a-namorada\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">muitas alcunhas giras<\/span><\/a> for me&#8230; Do you remember? Babelicious, Queenie, Baby Boo, Cute Mama&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>You were always complimenting me. You always talked about how beautiful I am, how you\u2019d never seen more beautiful, radiant eyes&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>At\u00e9 elogiaste o meu nariz que, para ser sincero, n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim t\u00e3o bonito.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61019\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/silhouette-of-a-sad-woman-in-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"silhueta de uma mulher triste ao p\u00f4r do sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/silhouette-of-a-sad-woman-in-sunset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/silhouette-of-a-sad-woman-in-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/silhouette-of-a-sad-woman-in-sunset-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why I only had one nickname for you, Mr. Smarty Pants. Because you knew it all. And we always laughed at that.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Raios, fizeste-me apaixonar por ti t\u00e3o profundamente. E depois deixaste-me porque a encontraste. A tua nova Queenie.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And I still can&#8217;t understand what your intention was.<\/p>\n<p>o emotionally destroy me? To make me think that true love doesn&#8217;t exist?<\/p>\n<p>Well, I\u2019m going to disappoint you. You failed if that was your intention. I still believe in true love. And I know that it&#8217;ll happen to me one day.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61021\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-walking-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem a caminhar na natureza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-walking-in-nature.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-walking-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-walking-in-nature-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Na verdade, tenho de vos agradecer por tudo o que me fizeram. Aprendi uma li\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Now I know that the most important relationship I&#8217;ll have in life is the one I have with myself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Maybe I&#8217;ve learned it the hard way, but I have and it has helped me to save myself and to find my purpose. To find out what the most important things in life are.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that my time is precious and I shouldn&#8217;t waste it on men like you. That I shouldn&#8217;t waste it on the wrong men and cowards.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019ve learned that the most important love is self-love<\/strong>. Que tenho de gostar de mim para me sentir confort\u00e1vel na minha pele.<\/p>\n<p>That I shouldn&#8217;t blindly love anyone else ever again. That I shouldn&#8217;t put anyone except myself at the center of my world.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61023\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/calm-happy-woman-in-wind.jpg\" alt=\"mulher calma e feliz ao vento\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/calm-happy-woman-in-wind.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/calm-happy-woman-in-wind-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/calm-happy-woman-in-wind-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that I shouldn&#8217;t pour too much of myself into a relationship the wayI did with you. And after you left me, I was empty inside. I was lost.<\/p>\n<p>Por outro lado, tamb\u00e9m me tornou mais forte. Curei-me. Segui em frente. Continuei com a minha vida e agora estou exatamente onde quero estar.<\/p>\n<p>Eu sou <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/7-coisas-que-precisa-de-saber-sobre-uma-mulher-forte-e-independente\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">uma mulher independente<\/span><\/a> who follows her dreams. I don&#8217;t depend on anyone. I don&#8217;t care who likes me and who doesn&#8217;t. All that\u2019s important is that I like myself and everything I do.<\/p>\n<p>I have all I\u2019ve ever wanted, all we ever dreamed about and it feels awesome. You know why?<\/p>\n<p>Porque eu fiz tudo sozinho. E fi-lo quando estava no ponto mais baixo da minha vida.<\/p>\n<p>Perdi-te, mas essa perda trouxe-me muitas coisas boas. E algumas das li\u00e7\u00f5es mais importantes da minha vida.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-young-blonde-woman.jpg\" alt=\"mulher loira jovem e feliz\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-young-blonde-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-young-blonde-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-young-blonde-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Afinal de contas, posso dizer que fui eu que sa\u00ed a ganhar da nossa separa\u00e7\u00e3o e tu foste o perdedor. Perdeste uma rapariga que nunca te teria tra\u00eddo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> Perdeste uma rapariga que te teria amado incondicionalmente at\u00e9 ao fim da sua vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>All this changed me a lot. But it changed me into someone better and stronger. I am a fierce woman now. And there is nothing in this world I couldn&#8217;t cope with anymore.<\/p>\n<p>E tu? Depois de todo este tempo, ainda est\u00e1 no mesmo s\u00edtio.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve found someone else but after some time, after you get bored, you&#8217;ll leave her as well.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61026\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-young-man-by-window.jpg\" alt=\"jovem triste junto \u00e0 janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-young-man-by-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-young-man-by-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-young-man-by-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You are still an immature boy who doesn&#8217;t know what he wants from life.<\/p>\n<p>A boy who doesn&#8217;t know that you shouldn&#8217;t play with other people&#8217;s feelings because you will hurt them.<\/p>\n<p>Continuas a ser o mesmo homem que gosta de perseguir as mulheres e de as tratar como trof\u00e9us.<\/p>\n<p><strong>And you&#8217;ll never change. That&#8217;s why I feel sorry for you. You&#8217;ll never be able to understand what life\u2019s true values are.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/saberei-que-o-meu-coracao-esta-curado-quando-te-perdoar-por-tudo-o-que-me-fizeste\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eu perdoei-te<\/span><\/a> and left you in my past. But you were a big part of my life and that&#8217;s why I don&#8217;t ever want to forget you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61029\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/In-The-End-You-Were-The-One-Who-Was-Left-Behind-Not-Me-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"No final, foste tu que ficaste para tr\u00e1s, n\u00e3o eu\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/In-The-End-You-Were-The-One-Who-Was-Left-Behind-Not-Me-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/In-The-End-You-Were-The-One-Who-Was-Left-Behind-Not-Me-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/In-The-End-You-Were-The-One-Who-Was-Left-Behind-Not-Me-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/In-The-End-You-Were-The-One-Who-Was-Left-Behind-Not-Me-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have to be honest. I loved you like I never loved anyone before. At the beginning of our relationship you made me the happiest girl alive, you made me feel like a queen. You were always there for me. You found a way to surprise me every single day with something new. You respected&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":61032,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-61017","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/In-The-End-You-Were-The-One-Who-Was-Left-Behind-Not-Me.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61017","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=61017"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61017\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/61032"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=61017"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=61017"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=61017"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}