{"id":61189,"date":"2020-04-12T21:30:22","date_gmt":"2020-04-12T21:30:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=61189"},"modified":"2022-02-22T12:22:22","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T12:22:22","slug":"afasta-a","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/afasta-a\/","title":{"rendered":"Se a afastares, n\u00e3o te perguntes onde \u00e9 que ela foi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Her heart is huge and her love for you is tremendous. You keep pushing her further and further away. You think she\u2019ll be there when you decide you need her. She won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o importa quantas vezes ela decida escolher-te, o facto de n\u00e3o a escolheres vai afast\u00e1-la<\/strong>. She won\u2019t stand for that.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t have a place in her heart for people who decide to care for her only when it\u2019s convenient for them.<\/p>\n

She won\u2019t be able to put up with you having time for her when you feel like it and then choosing to ignore her when she\u2019s not the best option for you.<\/p>\n

She simply won\u2019t stand sharing all of herself with you and you running from her like she\u2019s the one doing something wrong.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Pode pensar que ela voltar\u00e1 para si, por mais que a afaste.<\/p>\n

You might believe that she\u2019ll be right there where you left her when you suddenly feel like being with her again. Trust me, she won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll wonder what happened. You\u2019ll think, at first, that she changed and did something so that the two of you drifted apart.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s not true and you know it. Day by day, you did things that not even her could ignore. She left you to protect herself.<\/p>\n

She didn\u2019t change. She simply decided she no longer wanted to deal with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ela tentou agarrar-se a ti com tudo o que tinha. Deu-te o benef\u00edcio da d\u00favida e continuou a pensar que, assim que derrubasse as tuas muralhas, tudo seria perfeito.<\/p>\n

Dia ap\u00f3s dia, provaste-lhe o qu\u00e3o errada ela estava em tentar. Ela era-te leal e tu deixaste-a t\u00e3o farta de tudo que ela decidiu ir-se embora.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 paraste para pensar como as coisas que fazes a afectam?<\/p>\n

O facto de n\u00e3o saber qual era o lugar dela na sua vida deixava-a cada dia mais entorpecida.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Foi uma morte emocional lenta: quanto mais ela se agarrava a si, mais indiferente se sentia.<\/p>\n

Some day, out of the blue, you\u2019ll send her a message. That day she\u2019ll finally have the strength to ignore it. You pushing her away has made her so much stronger.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t call her – she understood. You didn\u2019t text her – she understood. You made no place for her in your life – she understood.<\/p>\n

Now she\u2019s moved on and wants nothing to do with you and you need to understand that.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re still with her and starting to become aware of how little time you have left, know this:<\/p>\n

Por muito que ela o ame e por muita coragem e for\u00e7a que lhe seja necess\u00e1ria para se afastar de si, ela vai faz\u00ea-lo na mesma.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 porque o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 grande e ela j\u00e1 te perdoou no passado<\/a> doesn\u2019t mean she\u2019ll be there forever no matter how you act towards her.<\/p>\n

If you continue to push her a bit further each day, one day she\u2019ll be gone.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t accept her running to you whenever you need her and then ensure you are nowhere to be found if she needs you.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let her spend sleepless nights taking care of you and nurturing you when you\u2019re feeling low and then disappear when she\u2019s the one who needs healing.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t talk to her when you feel like it and then ignore her when something more fun happens in your life, with the expectation that she\u2019ll reappear whenever you want her to.<\/p>\n

If you pushed her away once and she came back, you should know to appreciate this. It\u2019s rare for anyone to do that, no matter the amount of love they feel for you.<\/p>\n

Agarre-a e nunca, nunca a deixe ir. Mostra o teu apre\u00e7o e carinho. She might just be the only one who\u2019ll come back for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She\u2019s a keeper. Make sure you\u2019re the one to keep her.<\/p>\n

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Her heart is huge and her love for you is tremendous. You keep pushing her further and further away. You think she\u2019ll be there when you decide you need her. She won\u2019t. No matter how many times she decides to choose you, you not choosing her will chase her away. She won\u2019t stand for that….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-61189","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61189","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=61189"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61189\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=61189"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=61189"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=61189"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}