{"id":61354,"date":"2020-04-21T21:28:55","date_gmt":"2020-04-21T21:28:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=61354"},"modified":"2022-02-28T11:35:11","modified_gmt":"2022-02-28T11:35:11","slug":"quantos-encontros-antes-de-a-relacao-se-tornar-oficial","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quantos-encontros-antes-de-a-relacao-se-tornar-oficial\/","title":{"rendered":"Quantos encontros antes de a rela\u00e7\u00e3o se tornar oficial?"},"content":{"rendered":"

H\u00e1 um determinado per\u00edodo de tempo que precisa de passar para se ter uma verdadeira \"conversa sobre a rela\u00e7\u00e3o\"?  <\/span><\/p>\n

Is there a magic number of dates that you need to have had to sit down with the person you’re dating and make it exclusive?<\/span><\/p>\n

A quest\u00e3o \u00e9: quantos encontros antes de a rela\u00e7\u00e3o atingir finalmente o n\u00edvel seguinte?<\/span><\/p>\n

\"duas<\/p>\n

O que precisa de saber \u00e9 que cada pessoa \u00e9 diferente, por isso cada pessoa precisa de um per\u00edodo de tempo diferente para estar realmente pronta para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Um vai querer que o vosso namoro se transforme em algo s\u00e9rio depois de apenas alguns <\/span>frases de engate foleiras<\/span><\/a>e outro ap\u00f3s alguns meses.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve met someone and your <\/span>o primeiro encontro correu bem<\/span><\/a>, you can\u2019t wait to have another. <\/span><\/p>\n

Espera-se o tempo necess\u00e1rio para ir ao segundo encontro. E depois outro, e outro. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

It’s perfectly normal to be eager to start something special with someone new in your love life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Podem at\u00e9 desenvolver uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o especial e uma qu\u00edmica logo ap\u00f3s os primeiros encontros. <\/span><\/p>\n

Deep down you want a serious and long-term relationship, but you continue to go on these \u201cnon-official\u201d dates that seem to lead nowhere.<\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, dating is not simple and usually, daters can\u2019t wait to turn their dating into an exclusive relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Mas, antes de come\u00e7arem a sonhar acordados com o vosso futuro juntos, precisam de ter a certeza de que o vosso namorado est\u00e1 pronto para se tornar o vosso par. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m precisa de saber se \u00e9 um bom partido para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria. <\/span>Mas como fazer isso? Bem, continue a ler. <\/span><\/p>\n

Definir o n\u00famero de datas<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

O que pode fazer \u00e9 estabelecer um n\u00famero de encontros em que dedicar\u00e1 o seu tempo a conhecer a pessoa com quem namora. <\/span><\/p>\n

For instance, you can set an 8-date rule \u2013 or 10, 12 \u2013 however many you want it to be. <\/span>Mas, nesses encontros, relaxem e aproveitem para se conhecerem melhor. <\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 necessidade de press\u00e3o. Olhe com os olhos, n\u00e3o com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o, e conhe\u00e7a realmente a pessoa com quem est\u00e1.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/span><\/p>\n

After just 8 dats, you will be able to see if there are grounds for a committed relationship or he\u2019s just wasting your time. <\/span><\/p>\n

O intervalo de tempo entre as datas \u00e9 importante. <\/span>You don’t have to see each other every day, but make time between each date and make every one of them fun and interesting!<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, every date doesn\u2019t need to be a big deal. Sometimes, just watching Netflix and eating popcorn makes for a great date.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Maybe you can even visit your \u201cfirst place\u201d where you met each other for the very first time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas seria perfeito se cada uma dessas datas fosse diferente da anterior.<\/span><\/p>\n

Re\u00fana alguns <\/span>ideias criativas para um terceiro encontro<\/span><\/a>por exemplo, para tornar o seu encontro memor\u00e1vel. <\/span><\/p>\n

Desta forma, pode apresentar o seu parceiro de namoro a diferentes situa\u00e7\u00f5es que encorajar\u00e3o diferentes t\u00f3picos e conversas.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

You both can share opinions about those different situations \u2013 these can be your deal breakers or deal makers! <\/span><\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 uma \u00f3ptima maneira de descobrir se e quando o seu par est\u00e1 pronto para a conversa sobre a rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

Durante o namoro, siga o fluxo das vossas conversas e analise o comportamento dele. <\/span><\/p>\n

Estas s\u00e3o algumas das poss\u00edveis pistas que ele lhe mostrar\u00e1 se quiser ter uma conversa oficial sobre a rela\u00e7\u00e3o consigo:<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Ele elogia-te com frequ\u00eancia<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Have you ever had the feeling when someone is describing the person that they want to be with, that they\u2019re secretly describing you? <\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re still confused about your relationship status, go on a date that includes games where you can show your partner how great you are in some of them. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mantenha o controlo dos elogios e preste aten\u00e7\u00e3o aos seus pormenores. <\/span>Analise a forma como o seu parceiro o elogia: com um toque gentil, um olhar especial ou simplesmente dizendo-o e depois desviando o olhar.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Se a pessoa que namora o elogia frequentemente ou salienta as suas grandes qualidades, isso dever\u00e1 diminuir as suas preocupa\u00e7\u00f5es quanto ao estado da rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m pode ir tomar um caf\u00e9 e perguntar-lhe diretamente que tipo de parceiro<\/a> ele quer. <\/span><\/p>\n

What he is searching for in his love life. It\u2019s easy to tell if someone is into you if the person is quick and confident in his answer. <\/span>Veja se consegue encontrar as suas qualidades e valores<\/span>s nas suas respostas.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Ele inclui-te nos seus planos<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re questioning your dating partner and relationship status, suss out in your conversations if the person is planning things with or without you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por exemplo, talvez ele tenha um grande desejo de viajar para um determinado lugar e queira que v\u00e1 com ele. <\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe there\u2019s a huge job opportunity but he calls you first to talk with you about it. <\/span>Tamb\u00e9m pode ser algo muito pequeno e aleat\u00f3rio.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Por exemplo, o seu parceiro est\u00e1 todo entusiasmado com aquele novo filme que esperou tanto tempo para ver e quer que se junte a ele.<\/span><\/p>\n

Os planos dele s\u00e3o muito importantes porque mostram se ele gosta mesmo de si e se quer ter um futuro consigo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Because if he can\u2019t include you in some small plans like watching a movie or grabbing a coffee, how can he plan something bigger like a future with you?<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Ele apresenta-te \u00e0 fam\u00edlia e aos amigos dele<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/span><\/p>\n

Se for bem organizado, 8 encontros devem ser o tempo suficiente para se conhecerem um ao outro. <\/span><\/p>\n

Para al\u00e9m de falarem um sobre o outro e sobre as vossas qualidades, outra boa pista de que este rapaz quer ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria convosco <\/span><\/p>\n

e transformar a nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o em algo mais \u00e9 se ele a deixar conhecer os membros da sua fam\u00edlia.<\/span><\/p>\n

A fam\u00edlia \u00e9 sempre algo especial para todos, algo que todos prezamos e queremos proteger.<\/span><\/p>\n

So if he takes you to his home and introduces you to his family, it’s usually a sign that he wants you to be a part of his family.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Os<\/p>\n

It’s also a clue that he wants to keep you for a long time in his life!<\/span><\/p>\n

Outra boa pista para a tranquilizar s\u00e3o os amigos dele. Os amigos s\u00e3o a fam\u00edlia escolhida, certo?!<\/span><\/p>\n

If your partner is eager to have you meet his friends, it’s a totally good step in your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 definitivamente uma raz\u00e3o para parar de questionar <\/span>quantos encontros antes da conversa exclusiva<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Chegou o momento de come\u00e7ar a falar e de oficializar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Ele \u00e9 persistente<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/span><\/p>\n

Eu sei que persist\u00eancia \u00e9 uma palavra que se encontra sempre entre as dicas de encontros, <\/span><\/p>\n

but it\u2019s valuable advice if you have your heart set on a more serious and preferably long-term relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n

What\u2019s persistence exactly? <\/span>It\u2019s making an effort to be a part of someone\u2019s life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas, quando se trata de persist\u00eancia no namoro, isso traduz-se no facto de ele querer v\u00ea-la mesmo entre esses 8 ou mais encontros que marcaram inicialmente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Your partner can’t wait for your next date, always texting and calling you first.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Ele faz o que os verdadeiros homens fazem quando est\u00e3o apaixonados: mostra interesse e afeto, e faz um esfor\u00e7o real.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you’re not certain that you\u2019re giving him the same amount of attention and questioning <\/span>if you\u2019re showing him you are \u201cwarmed up\u201d enough for the next step together and he still wants to pursue you, <\/span>there’s your sign that he\u2019s into you and an official relationship might be on the horizon. <\/p>\n

Mas tenham cuidado. Demasiada aten\u00e7\u00e3o e persist\u00eancia de um dos dois pode fazer com que ambos sigam caminhos diferentes.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. A sua linguagem corporal \u00e9 importante<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

When you go on those 8 dates, pay attention to his body language signs and how he behaves when he\u2019s around you. <\/span><\/p>\n

If he\u2019s into you and wants to get official, it’s always written all over his face. <\/span>Try to read the signs when you’re with him. <\/span><\/p>\n

Preste aten\u00e7\u00e3o ao contacto visual, \u00e0 posi\u00e7\u00e3o do corpo quando ele fala consigo e \u00e0s express\u00f5es faciais.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Jovens<\/p>\n

Se o seu parceiro sorri muito quando est\u00e1 consigo, se lhe toca gentilmente e quer segurar a sua m\u00e3o, se olha nos seus olhos quando fala consigo, <\/span><\/p>\n

you’ll soon need to prepare yourself for a serious relationship talk.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Ele preocupa-se contigo<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Embora os seus encontros possam n\u00e3o ser espectaculares ou sempre algo divertido e aventureiro, simplesmente ir e sentar-se num caf\u00e9 ou almo\u00e7ar juntos pode ser igualmente significativo.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas, atrav\u00e9s desses encontros, pode ver de perto se o rapaz gosta mesmo de si. <\/span><\/p>\n

Try to look at how much time he\u2019s willing to sacrifice for you or how many compromises he\u2019s willing to make because of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Se ele tentar estar sempre presente para si, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer, e tentar resolver o m\u00e1ximo de problemas que puder, ele quer mesmo ser a sua cara-metade. <\/span><\/p>\n

A person who is truly into you will show his care through actions, so you don’t have to worry if your relationship is going in the right direction.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. He Treats You Like You’re Already In Relationship<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

No final, uma coisa a que deve estar sempre atenta quando se questiona sobre o n\u00famero de encontros antes de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o se tornar oficial \u00e9 a forma como o seu parceiro a trata. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se ele lhe envia mensagens de texto com frequ\u00eancia para saber como est\u00e1, se adia os seus planos s\u00f3 para sair consigo e v\u00ea-la, <\/span><\/p>\n

and if he\u2019s comfortable enough to talk with you about his feelings, <\/span>planos e pensamentos, <\/span>it’s okay to prepare your speech to move your relationship to the next level.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Then the last few important things that you can’t forget to ask yourself: Are you happy when you are with the person you’re dating? <\/span><\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 a trat\u00e1-lo como gostaria de ser tratada? Est\u00e1 pronta para oficializar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o? <\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t forget that a relationship is about two people, so seek the answers within yourself too!<\/span><\/p>\n

Sinais de alerta<\/h2>\n

\"Pessoa<\/p>\n

Por mais encontros que marque para conhecer melhor o seu parceiro atrav\u00e9s do namoro, lembre-se que, com o tempo e os encontros, a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o muda e evolui. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas, tal como a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o muda, o seu parceiro tamb\u00e9m muda. <\/span>A vossa liga\u00e7\u00e3o pode melhorar com o tempo e, se assim for, a conversa sobre a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o oficial decorrer\u00e1 sem problemas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por outro lado, ele pode mudar e transformar-se numa pessoa completamente diferente durante o namoro.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Aqui est\u00e3o algumas das bandeiras vermelhas que o podem incomodar na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o oficial:<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 You two start to spend too much time just texting and not really seeing each other<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 He often cancels your plans<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 He forgets about your date<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 He doesn’t call you<\/span><\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

\u2022 He only wants to go out to the same places and isn\u2019t eager to try something new and different with you<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 He can\u2019t stop talking about his past relationships and ex<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 He doesn\u2019t compromise, you can only spend time together when it works for him<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 He stops trying to impress you <\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 He suddenly changes his behavior after your first date<\/span><\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

\u2022 You catch him using dating apps<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 He\u2019s not intriguing anymore<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 You’re the one who always reaches out first <\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 You don’t feel like he\u2019s into you anymore<\/span><\/p>\n

These red flags may seem disappointing, especially after a certain time when you\u2019ve already developed<\/span><\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

certain feelings for the person and he\u2019s rejected you or doesn’t feel the same. <\/span><\/p>\n

But, don’t feel downhearted. <\/span><\/p>\n

These can be also reasons and your answer that the guy is just not ready to have and be in a serious relationship, which is ultimately his business and problem \u2013 not yours.<\/span><\/p>\n

To Sum Up…<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

A confus\u00e3o sobre o n\u00famero de encontros que se deve ter antes de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o poder avan\u00e7ar para o n\u00edvel seguinte \u00e9 totalmente normal. <\/span><\/p>\n

When you are really into someone and you like the person, of course you’re eager to know your relationship status and what the future holds . <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas a verdade \u00e9 que isso depende da situa\u00e7\u00e3o e da pessoa com quem se est\u00e1 a namorar. <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s because we\u2019re talking about people \u2013 they have previous experiences and current expectations you know nothing about.<\/span><\/p>\n

For some, it\u2019s easy to take the relationship to the next level after just a month, but for others,  they just need a little more time. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"Duas<\/p>\n

Either way, it can’t hurt to try the 8-day dating rule. It will be fun and even challenging for you to get to know your partner better. <\/span><\/p>\n

Plus, it\u2019ll also prepare you for the conversation that you’re so eager to have!<\/span><\/p>\n

If it doesn’t turn out well and your dating partner changes in a negative way as your dates progress, don’t stress about it too much. <\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e1 muitos homens para namorar neste mundo e tu mereces algu\u00e9m que seja o melhor para ti. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"Quantos <\/span><\/p>\n

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