{"id":61653,"date":"2020-04-14T19:34:18","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T19:34:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=61653"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:08:22","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:08:22","slug":"nao-te-atrevas-a-voltar-a-minha-vida-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-te-atrevas-a-voltar-a-minha-vida-2\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o te atrevas a voltar \u00e0 minha vida como se nunca tivesses desaparecido"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quem \u00e9 que tu pensas que \u00e9s? Quem te deu o direito de entrar e sair da minha vida, como se fosses o dono dela?<\/p>\n<p>Listen to me and listen carefully: you\u2019re the one who left me. The one who walked away from us.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re the one who <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-coisas-inteligentes-a-fazer-depois-de-ser-vitima-de-ghosting\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">me fantasiou<\/a>sem nunca me dar uma explica\u00e7\u00e3o adequada.<\/p>\n<p>Aquele que me deixou sem conclus\u00e3o e que me deixou a tentar encontrar algumas respostas sozinha.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re the one who vanished out of my life, without the decency to break up with me in person.<\/p>\n<p>Aquele que era demasiado cobarde para me enfrentar e que preferiu desaparecer, sem pensar nas consequ\u00eancias.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61661\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bearded-adult-man.jpg\" alt=\"homem adulto com barba a olhar para o exterior atrav\u00e9s de uma janela redonda\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p><strong>I didn\u2019t push you away from me, I didn\u2019t ask for a break and nor did I abandon you. Instead, I just let you go.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ent\u00e3o, o que \u00e9 que parece ser o problema agora?<\/strong> Now, when I\u2019m just one step away from full recovery?<\/p>\n<p>Devias ter vergonha de tentar reaparecer na minha vida.<\/p>\n<p>Como \u00e9 que podes olhar-me nos olhos e pedir-me que te deixe entrar de novo, depois de tudo o que fizeste?<\/p>\n<p>Sentiste que eu estava quase a esquecer-te, por isso decidiste estragar tudo para mim? Sentiste que me estavas a perder para sempre e voltaste para evitar que isso acontecesse?<\/p>\n<p>What do you want from me now? Haven\u2019t you hurt me enough?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61656\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-desperate-man.jpg\" alt=\"um homem desesperado a p\u00f4r a m\u00e3o na testa perto do porto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p><strong>Why don\u2019t you stick to your decisions? Be man enough and leave me alone. After all, that\u2019s exactly what you did the last time!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I hate to break it to you but unlike you, I have strength of character. Once upon a time, I told you that you wouldn\u2019t get any second chances with me.<\/p>\n<p>I know better than to allow you to break my heart once again. I\u2019m wiser than to trust a douchebag like you.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, I\u2019ll be the one who is standing behind her words. I swear\u2014<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/estavam-bem-mas-nao-te-quero-de-volta-na-minha-vida\/\">I\u2019m not letting you back into my life<\/a>, even if it\u2019s the last thing I do.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this has nothing to do with the emotions I might have for you. So, don\u2019t dare try to accuse me of never loving you enough just because I don\u2019t allow you to treat me like a piece of garbage.<\/p>\n<p>You see, I\u2019m not your second choice, your safety net or an <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/estou-oficialmente-cansado\/?utm_source=rss&amp;utm_medium=rss&amp;utm_campaign=im-officially-tired\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">reflex\u00e3o tardia<\/a>. I\u2019m not someone you can come to when everyone else abandons you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61657\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"homem sentado \u00e0 janela com uma imagem sombria das nuvens vistas atrav\u00e9s das janelas\" width=\"800\" height=\"514\"><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not a girl who will put her life on hold, patiently waiting for you to come back. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-vai-implorar-escolher-merecer\/\">N\u00e3o algu\u00e9m que te implore para a escolheres<\/a> e muito menos algu\u00e9m que te d\u00ea infinitas segundas oportunidades.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not the type of woman who will put up with your crap, as long as she has you by her side. Not someone who will allow you to treat her the way you want, just so you wouldn\u2019t leave her.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not a girl who will give you the green light to keep on hurting her. A girl who will always keep her door and arms wide open for you, despite the way you treat her.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not someone who will settle for breadcrumbs of your love and attention. Not someone you can play your little mind games with.<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly\u2014I\u2019m no longer the girl who loved you more than she loves herself. What a shock, right?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61660\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-sitting-on-walkway.jpg\" alt=\"homem sentado num passadi\u00e7o entre colunas amarelas e um edif\u00edcio de a\u00e7o cinzento\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Well, from now on, I\u2019m putting myself first. I\u2019m done wasting my time and energy on people who don\u2019t deserve it and on relationships that are doomed to fail.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sorry but I refuse to serve you as an ego booster, as proof that somewhere you\u2019re still loved and wanted.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Recuso-me a servir-te como um plano de reserva, como a pessoa a quem recorres quando tudo o resto se desmorona.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Let me tell you something: I\u2019m worth much more than your deceptions. I will not allow you to play with me or to drag me into an endless circle of break-ups and make-ups.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t give a damn about your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/nao-mais-palavras-doces-e-promessas-vazias-quero-honestidade-e-esforco\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">falsas promessas<\/a>, empty excuses and phoney apologies. You\u2019re too late!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61678\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Don\u2019t-You-Dare-Coming-Back-Into-My-Life-Like-You-Never-Disappeared-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"N\u00e3o te atrevas a voltar \u00e0 minha vida como se nunca tivesses desaparecido Pinterest\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Who do you think you are? Who gave you the right to march in and out of my life, like you own it? Listen to me and listen carefully: you\u2019re the one who left me. The one who walked away from us. You\u2019re the one who ghosted me, without ever giving me a proper explanation&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-61653","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61653","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=61653"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61653\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=61653"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=61653"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=61653"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}