{"id":61757,"date":"2020-04-14T19:36:54","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T19:36:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=61757"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:19:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:19:18","slug":"se-o-teu-tudo-nao-e-suficiente-entao-estas-a-desperdica-lo-com-o-homem-errado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-o-teu-tudo-nao-e-suficiente-entao-estas-a-desperdica-lo-com-o-homem-errado\/","title":{"rendered":"Se o seu tudo n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente, ent\u00e3o provavelmente est\u00e1 a desperdi\u00e7\u00e1-lo com o homem errado"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve poured yourself into your man and now your body is tired. You\u2019ve constantly sought out ways to make him happy and now <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor-proprio\/girl-power\/para-a-rapariga-com-uma-alma-cansada-e-tempo-de-te-salvares\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">a tua alma est\u00e1 cansada<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You feel drained because you\u2019ve given yourself entirely to him. You feel empty from inside and life has slowly lost its color.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve tried hard to make him love you, you\u2019ve done your best to make your relationship work, and that\u2019s made you feel like you aren&#8217;t good enough.<\/p>\n<p>Your feelings are selfless and he\u2019s only been selfish. You worry more about him than about yourself.<\/p>\n<p>He is all that&#8217;s important in your life. But unfortunately, you don&#8217;t get the same feeling from his side.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61767\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sideview-of-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de uma mulher a rezar fechando os olhos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p>You constantly feel that you don&#8217;t deserve him because everything you do is wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Tem de compreender que, se for amor verdadeiro, se ele for a sua alma g\u00e9mea, ent\u00e3o at\u00e9 as mais pequenas coisas que fizer ser\u00e3o adequadas para ele.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;ll appreciate your effort more than those gestures.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve been waiting for him to change far too long. You are somehow still sure that he loves you and that it will make him change for you \u2013 make him be a better person for you.<\/p>\n<p>He isn&#8217;t changing. He\u2019s only there because he knows that he can control you and you&#8217;ll do everything he asks you to do because you want to stay with him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61769\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/focus-photo-of-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"fotografia focada de uma mulher com o cabelo a cobrir metade do rosto em tons de cinzento\" width=\"800\" height=\"510\"><\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;ll use your love only to feed his own ego, which is already inflated. And you&#8217;ll be left with low self-esteem issues.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s become the center of your life and now everything is about him.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve lost your friends because of him. You\u2019ve even distanced yourself from your family. People who were always there for you. People who were your biggest support in life.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve distanced yourself from everyone who tried to tell you <em>that man isn&#8217;t for you<\/em>. Porque pensavas que eles s\u00f3 queriam separar-vos.<\/p>\n<p>Do you believe them now? Do you see that everything they\u2019ve been telling you about him all this time is true?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61771\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/arguing-man-and-woman-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher discutindo perto das cortinas cinzentas e beges\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve tried so hard to make his family accept you and to get them to like you. And they have. They see how kind and good a woman you are.<\/p>\n<p>Quantas vezes j\u00e1 fez planos para o fim de semana ou preparou um jantar rom\u00e2ntico, para depois ele a abandonar e sair com os amigos? Nunca lhe farias uma coisa dessas.<\/p>\n<p>Ele \u00e9 a \u00fanica pessoa com quem se pode abrir, mas nunca tem tempo para a ouvir. Quantas vezes j\u00e1 chorou at\u00e9 adormecer por causa das ac\u00e7\u00f5es dele?<\/p>\n<p>Ent\u00e3o, quantas vezes se maquilhou na manh\u00e3 seguinte e agiu como se nada tivesse acontecido?<\/p>\n<p>You are missing some great things that will be so much better for you. Maybe you are missing the one who&#8217;ll love you like he never did. Who will love and appreciate everything you do for him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61774\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-desk.jpg\" alt=\"mulher numa secret\u00e1ria a expor \u00f3culos e laptops\" width=\"800\" height=\"522\"><\/p>\n<p>Great things are waiting for you and all you have to do is to let go of him. Let go of that wrong man who\u2019s proven to you so many times that he isn&#8217;t your destiny.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A tua vida \u00e9 um livro e tu \u00e9s o \u00fanico autor. Encare esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o como uma das suas maiores li\u00e7\u00f5es de vida. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Name that lesson \u201cWhat love should never feel like\u201d and close that chapter.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Confia em mim que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-sinais-de-que-es-demasiado-boa-para-ele-ele-nao-te-merece\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u00e9s suficientemente bom<\/a>. Tu \u00e9s melhor do que isso. Ele \u00e9 um homem cego e nada do que fizeres o far\u00e1 ver o tipo de mulher que tem ao seu lado.<\/p>\n<p>Until he loses you. Then he&#8217;ll understand. Then he&#8217;ll regret it. Then he&#8217;ll wish to turn back time and undo all those lousy things he put you through.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61776\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-in-couch.jpg\" alt=\"homem triste no sof\u00e1, de camisola escura e com a m\u00e3o na testa\" width=\"800\" height=\"522\"><\/p>\n<p>Every second of your life is precious, so please stop wasting it on the wrong man. You&#8217;ll only lose yourself that way.<\/p>\n<p>And there is nothing worse than that. To lose yourself in love. To lose yourself for someone who didn&#8217;t deserve you in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s hard to pick yourself up after that. It&#8217;s hard to learn to love yourself again.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Fa\u00e7a a escolha certa. Parem de desperdi\u00e7ar o vosso precioso tempo. Por favor, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/comecar-de-novo-e-amarmo-nos-a-nos-proprios\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">escolha-se a si pr\u00f3prio por uma vez<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>You&#8217;ll see how beautiful life can be without him. His absence will bring back colors to your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61802\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/IF-YOUR-ALL-ISN\u2019T-ENOUGH-THEN-YOU\u2019RE-PROBABLY-WASTING-IT-ON-THE-WRONG-MAN-PINTEREST.jpg\" alt=\"SE O TEU TUDO N\u00c3O \u00c9 SUFICIENTE, ENT\u00c3O PROVAVELMENTE EST\u00c1S A DESPERDI\u00c7\u00c1-LO COM O HOMEM ERRADO PINTEREST\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve poured yourself into your man and now your body is tired. You\u2019ve constantly sought out ways to make him happy and now your soul is tired. You feel drained because you\u2019ve given yourself entirely to him. You feel empty from inside and life has slowly lost its color. You\u2019ve tried hard to make him&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-61757","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61757","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=61757"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61757\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=61757"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=61757"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=61757"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}