{"id":61929,"date":"2020-04-22T12:38:39","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T12:38:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=61929"},"modified":"2022-06-08T16:49:36","modified_gmt":"2022-06-08T16:49:36","slug":"sinais-de-que-se-esta-a-viver-com-uma-lesbica-escondida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-que-se-esta-a-viver-com-uma-lesbica-escondida\/","title":{"rendered":"Esposa l\u00e9sbica: 10 sinais reveladores de que voc\u00ea est\u00e1 vivendo com uma l\u00e9sbica de arm\u00e1rio"},"content":{"rendered":"

Casaste-te com uma rapariga que parecia ser o teu par perfeito. Amava-a com todo o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e ela parecia estar realmente apaixonada por si tamb\u00e9m!<\/p>\n

But lately, you’ve started to seriously doubt her sexual orientation. So\u2026 What happened?<\/p>\n

Por muito embara\u00e7oso que seja pensar para si pr\u00f3prio ”My lesbian wife is in love with another woman… What do I do?’<\/em>‘, it’s a brutal reality many men face.<\/p>\n

Aconselho-o vivamente a continuar a ler e a descobrir todos os sinais reveladores que indicam que a sua mulher \u00e9 uma l\u00e9sbica escondida.<\/p>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

It sucks to think that only last year you were planning a beautiful ceremony with your future wife, and now, you’re struggling with thoughts like ”My wife’s a lesbian, how could I not see the signs?”<\/em><\/p>\n

Sometimes, people who identify as queers just aren’t ready to admit it to themselves, let alone anyone else.<\/p>\n

Para se assumir, \u00e9 preciso muita coragem e, como l\u00e9sbica no arm\u00e1rio, a sua mulher estava provavelmente a tentar perceber tudo.<\/p>\n

I’m sure it wasn’t her intention to hurt you by having a lesbian lover (who just happens to be her best friend) but a person’s sexuality is a very complex issue and some people just take longer to realize their true selves.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Porque \u00e9 que n\u00e3o consigo encontrar o amor? 10 problemas que o impedem de encontrar a pessoa certa<\/a><\/p>\n

Como lidar com a minha mulher l\u00e9sbica?<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Em primeiro lugar, \u00e9 preciso ter a certeza de que a sua mulher \u00e9 efetivamente membro de a comunidade LGBT<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Even if you’ve known her since high school, there are things people keep hidden until they’re ready to share them with the world.<\/p>\n

Por uma quest\u00e3o de transpar\u00eancia total, o meu primeiro namorado tamb\u00e9m acabou por ser gay.<\/p>\n

We\u2019d been together for quite some time and not until I saw suspicious things on his Facebook page and our sex life became an issue did I start seeing the signs.<\/p>\n

It’s confusing, painful, and draining. As much as you want to understand it and be okay with it, you’re just so mad and heartbroken, and I want you to know that’s perfectly okay.<\/p>\n

Nobody teaches you how to deal with these things. There’s no rulebook on how to deal with such intimate and complex issues.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mas o que importa \u00e9 que saiba que esta n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma decis\u00e3o que a sua mulher tomou para o magoar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Se a situa\u00e7\u00e3o em casa costumava ser ideal, acredite que era mesmo assim.<\/p>\n

People who hide their true sexual orientation are confused and ashamed, which propels them to live a life they so deeply want to be true. But it’s not.<\/p>\n

Toda a gente tem o direito de ser aut\u00eantica, por muito dif\u00edcil que seja aceit\u00e1-lo e abra\u00e7\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n

Se tem suspeitas de que a sua mulher pode ser homossexual, os sinais abaixo ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e3o a esclarecer a situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Whatever you find out, please be kind and respectful. As painful as this is for you, can you even imagine what it’s like for your wife?<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 10 diferen\u00e7as cruciais entre amor e paix\u00e3o<\/a><\/p>\n

10 sinais reveladores de que a sua mulher \u00e9 gay<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Estes sinais revelam a verdade sobre a sua mulher e ajudam-no a decidir o que fazer a seguir.<\/p>\n

Espero que isto lhe traga algum esclarecimento e paz, seja qual for o resultado.<\/p>\n

Instead of wondering why she didn’t tell you this before she married you, focus on helping her navigate this new reality.<\/p>\n

1. She’s the decision-maker in your relationship<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

While this all on its own isn’t a reason enough to panic, it’s still one of many elements a lesbian wife would possess.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 assertiva e tem uma mente forte? Toma todas as decis\u00f5es importantes?<\/p>\n

Be honest\u2026 who wears the pants in your relationship? If your wife’s indeed a closet lesbian, she probably tends to do things her way (or no way).<\/p>\n

She doesn’t easily let you have any control nor does she fully trust your judgment.<\/p>\n

Em \u00faltima an\u00e1lise, ela simplesmente n\u00e3o aceita um n\u00e3o como resposta e, muitas vezes, perguntamo-nos qual \u00e9 o nosso papel no nosso casamento.<\/p>\n

If this is so, keep reading, as you’ll likely recognize yourself in plenty more of these signs.<\/p>\n

2. She doesn’t care about being girly<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Your wife probably isn’t one to take up the bathroom for two hours while getting all dolled up for a night out.<\/p>\n

She’s much more chill. At home, she usually wears comfy sweats and when you go out, she takes ten minutes to get ready.<\/p>\n

She’s a girl, but she doesn’t really act girly at all. Most of the girls you know are obsessed with their looks, but not her.<\/p>\n

Mesmo no liceu, nunca se incomodou com essas coisas femininas, nunca foi o seu estilo.<\/p>\n

E quando pensamos nisso, esse foi o nosso primeiro sinal (mas na altura, era a coisa mais distante da nossa mente).<\/p>\n

I hope as you’re reading this now, things are finally starting to make sense and you see that this is something your wife has been carrying for a long, long time.<\/p>\n

3. Gosta de usar o cabelo curto e desarrumado<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Again, all by itself, it’s not a major concern, but mixed with all the other signs, you’ve got a reason to be alarmed.<\/p>\n

A sua mulher nunca foi f\u00e3 de cabelos compridos. Ela nunca o teve nem lhe apetece mant\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n

It’s too much of a hassle. Short hair is her thing!<\/p>\n

O estilo Bieber sempre foi muito popular entre os gays.<\/p>\n

If your wife has sported this do at any point in your marriage (maybe even now?) I’m sorry to say, but it\u2019s very likely she\u2019s not straight, as much as you want her to be.<\/p>\n

But hey, it’s better to see the signs now, before things go too far and everything becomes even more complex.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Como superar algu\u00e9m: O guia definitivo para seguir em frente<\/a><\/p>\n

4. A linguagem corporal dela \u00e9 um sinal de que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada a fazer<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

A person’s body language will tell you more about them than words ever will.<\/p>\n

Even before you got married, she was never one to be delicate and gentle. She sat the way she wanted to and ate with no shame about who’s looking.<\/p>\n

She doesn’t politely cross her legs when you’re out and she’s always been a bit masculine when it comes to her movements.<\/p>\n

O problema \u00e9 que era isso que o atra\u00eda para ela.<\/p>\n

Adoravas que ela fosse como um dos rapazes, dando-te um murro no bra\u00e7o em tom de brincadeira e preferindo temas de rapaz a tudo o que fosse feminino.<\/p>\n

Isso significava que podias falar com ela sobre todas as coisas de que gostavas.<\/p>\n

But now, you’re starting to see that these were all huge red flags you’re only now starting to see for what they really are.<\/p>\n

5. She’s not into chick flicks<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Mais uma vez, adoravas isto nela! Todas as outras raparigas com quem sa\u00eda costumavam obrig\u00e1-lo a assistir aos filmes mais insuportavelmente pirosos que o faziam encolher-se. Mas a tua mulher n\u00e3o!<\/p>\n

She dislikes them even more than you do (if possible). She can’t stand watching all those unrealistic romantic movie moments in the rain and seeing people embrace each other despite all odds.<\/p>\n

She’s much more into action thrillers and laugh-out-loud comedies.<\/p>\n

While this made for really fun date nights for you, it’s also a sign that you should worry about who you married.<\/p>\n

It might be fun in this regard, but it’s time to burst your bubble and come back to reality.<\/p>\n

If you can’t even make her watch one moderately cheesy movie on Netflix, isn’t it time to start questioning things?<\/p>\n

6. She can’t stand the thought of having a mani-pedi<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Lesbians aren’t as interested in having nail art as straight people are.<\/p>\n

They just don’t give a shit about having decorated, long nails. It’s annoying and unnecessary.<\/p>\n

She may have fooled you by saying that she can’t have long nails (as much as she ”wants to”) because they’re inconvenient for her work, the truth is something completely different.<\/p>\n

Short nails are much more suitable for lesbians (you can imagine why) and they simply aren’t as bothered with having the most artistic nails (especially not on their feet). Who has time for that?<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Romance na faculdade: 17 dicas para fazer dar certo<\/a><\/p>\n

7. She’s always been one of the boys<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Upon seeing all these signs, I bet you’re wondering how the hell you didn’t connect the dots before, right?<\/p>\n

Bem, por vezes \u00e9 preciso algum tempo at\u00e9 que se queira realmente ver os sinais.<\/p>\n

Chances are, you’ve probably wondered about these things before, but you just never allowed yourself to give it any serious thought.<\/p>\n

Mas sim, a sua mulher sempre foi um dos rapazes. Nunca foi a pessoa mais feminina, o seu riso era sempre alto e estranho, e nunca se preocupou em vestir-se bem.<\/p>\n

Ela sempre se sentiu mais \u00e0 vontade a conviver com um grupo de homens, o que era uma lufada de ar fresco quando namoravam.<\/p>\n

But now, it’s all starting to become way too real.<\/p>\n

8. Ela contou-te que fez experi\u00eancias na faculdade<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Mas toda a gente faz isso, certo? Al\u00e9m disso, s\u00f3 de pensar que ela se est\u00e1 a divertir com outra mulher, ficaste cheio de tes\u00e3o!<\/p>\n

Era t\u00e3o excitante imaginar a sua mulher a beijar outras raparigas. Nunca tinha pensado nisso como um sinal de alguma coisa.<\/p>\n

Mas agora, ao percorrer o caminho da mem\u00f3ria, v\u00ea que estava tudo mesmo \u00e0 sua frente. S\u00f3 queria ignor\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 a tua rapariga, a tua rocha, e a tua parceira no crime. E ela n\u00e3o \u00e9 quem tu pensavas que era.<\/p>\n

Mas porque \u00e9 que ela casaria contigo se soubesse que era gay?<\/p>\n

That’s the thing. She didn’t really know it. People experiment and over time, they start realizing who they really are.<\/p>\n

A sua mulher apenas demorou um pouco mais a permitir-se viver o seu \"eu\" aut\u00eantico.<\/p>\n

9. Adora ser sedutora com outras mulheres<\/h2>\n

\"Duas<\/p>\n

Mas pensaste que todas as raparigas eram assim. Deve ser algum tipo de c\u00f3digo feminino, certo?<\/p>\n

Mulheres a apoiar mulheres, e adorava que a sua mulher fosse a favor do poder feminino.<\/p>\n

Ela olhava frequentemente para outras raparigas nas discotecas (t\u00e3o boa, n\u00e3o \u00e9?).<\/p>\n

Ela sempre elogia as suas amigas<\/a> on their looks (she’s such a good friend).<\/p>\n

She never notices hot guys walking by, but there isn’t a hot girl that doesn’t catch her attention (and you often join her!)<\/p>\n

All those things that made you think you had the coolest, most understanding, girl-empowering wife are actually signs of a deeply hidden secret she simply wasn’t ready to dig out.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 12 raz\u00f5es pelas quais o seu segundo amor \u00e9 o maior de todos<\/a><\/p>\n

10. A sua vida sexual tornou-se obsoleta<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

And now you know why, right? If anything, at least you know it’s not you!<\/p>\n

I know this doesn’t make you feel better, but it’s better to be faced with the truth than to keep hoping it’ll work out (which it really won’t).<\/p>\n

Your wife is a lesbian. This is going to take some serious getting used to, so don’t feel bad for needing time to gather your thoughts.<\/p>\n

Escolha a melhor altura para falar com a sua mulher e tente ser respeitoso ao pedir-lhe respostas.<\/p>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Talvez j\u00e1 tenha percebido tudo, mas talvez ela ainda precise de tempo para se confrontar com a sua realidade.<\/p>\n

She’s the one who married someone outside her sexual orientation. If you’re in pain, she’s probably devastated.<\/p>\n

It’s up to you what happens next. Be kind and gentle, and give her the time and respect she deserves.<\/p>\n

She may be gay, but that doesn’t change the fact that she’s got nothing but love for you.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 15 principais sinais de atra\u00e7\u00e3o de mulher para mulher<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

O rescaldo<\/h2>\n

\"Costas<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o existe uma boa altura para descobrir que o seu parceiro \u00e9 homossexual. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 uma forma certa ou errada de se sentir em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a isto.<\/p>\n

There’s just the brutal reality and coping with this unimaginable situation.<\/p>\n

A sua mulher continua a ser a sua mulher. Pode n\u00e3o estar apaixonada por si romanticamente, mas continua a am\u00e1-lo profundamente.<\/p>\n

Lembre-se disso antes de fazer ou dizer algo de que se possa arrepender.<\/p>\n

You love this person and there’s a reason why you married her. Give her a chance to tell you her side of the story, and at her own pace.<\/p>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

One day, you’ll be glad you did it the right way.<\/p>\n

Neste momento, d\u00f3i imenso e a sua vida parece uma farsa.<\/p>\n

But sometime down the line, I promise things will look up again, and eventually, you’ll find your happily-ever-after.<\/p>\n

Depois de cada tempestade, h\u00e1 um arco-\u00edris! (E na sua situa\u00e7\u00e3o, em mais do que um sentido).<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Uma cole\u00e7\u00e3o de cita\u00e7\u00f5es sobre separa\u00e7\u00f5es para curar um cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/a><\/p>\n

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