{"id":62022,"date":"2020-04-13T12:07:24","date_gmt":"2020-04-13T12:07:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=62022"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:44:29","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:44:29","slug":"escolher-sempre-perder-um-homem-em-vez-de-perder-a-cabeca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/escolher-sempre-perder-um-homem-em-vez-de-perder-a-cabeca\/","title":{"rendered":"Prefira sempre perder um homem a perder a cabe\u00e7a"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ll be honest with you here: Love is important. Whether someone likes to admit this or not, it\u2019s nice having a man whom you care for and who cares for you back.<\/p>\n<p>It won\u2019t magically put your life in perfect order, but a healthy romantic relationship will make you happier \u2013 there is no doubt about that.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, <strong>sabes o que \u00e9 ainda mais importante? A rela\u00e7\u00e3o que tens contigo mesmo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-62669 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-showing-peace-sign.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente mostrando o sinal da paz\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-showing-peace-sign.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-showing-peace-sign-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-showing-peace-sign-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 a rela\u00e7\u00e3o que simplesmente tem de ser saud\u00e1vel, bem sucedida e gratificante se quisermos sequer pensar em romance.<\/p>\n<p>Ent\u00e3o, porque \u00e9 que continua a p\u00f4r o seu homem \u00e0 frente de si pr\u00f3pria e durante quanto tempo tenciona continuar a faz\u00ea-lo?<\/p>\n<p>Sei que te consideras <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/things-define-tough-girl\/\">duro<\/a>. You\u2019re strong and, at first glance, it appears that you\u2019re handling this awful situation you got yourself dragged into surprisingly well.<\/p>\n<p>De alguma forma, consegue-se lidar com todas as separa\u00e7\u00f5es e reconcilia\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>You keep your head above the surface despite all the insults, arguments, and toxicity. But let\u2019s be real.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t go on like this forever. Sooner or later, you\u2019ll see the damage all of this is leaving on you and you\u2019ll start feeling the consequences of this hell you\u2019re going through.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-62030 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-looking-at-her-self-in-mirror-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher sorridente a olhar-se ao espelho em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-looking-at-her-self-in-mirror-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-looking-at-her-self-in-mirror-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-looking-at-her-self-in-mirror-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So, ask yourself if it\u2019s really worth it. <strong>Vale a pena perder a cabe\u00e7a com um homem?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You see, there will be plenty of men in your life, even though you probably don\u2019t think that way now.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mais cedo ou mais tarde, vai esquecer esse homem e come\u00e7ar a amar algu\u00e9m novo com a mesma intensidade com que o amava.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>No entanto, nunca se pode substituir a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/strong> Time will do its trick and heal your broken heart. Sooner or later, you\u2019ll stop missing this guy.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But you can\u2019t find a new woman to live your life, once you lose yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Prometo-vos uma coisa:<strong> You can make it without anyone, including this guy. But you can\u2019t make it without yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-62028 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-blond-smiling-woman.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de uma mulher loura e sorridente\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-blond-smiling-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-blond-smiling-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-blond-smiling-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Lembre-se que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor-proprio\/girl-power\/date-a-girl-who-wants-you-but-doesnt-need-you\/\">you don\u2019t need him<\/a> \u2013 you chose to give him a place in your heart \u2013 but you do need yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Sobreviver\u00e1 mesmo que o deixe ir, mesmo que as coisas n\u00e3o pare\u00e7am assim neste momento.<\/p>\n<p>Sei que neste momento queres manter este homem ao teu lado.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes just for him to remain in your life.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, em vez de fazer isso, para variar, concentre-se em manter-se s\u00e3o. Concentre-se em preservar a sua sa\u00fade mental e emocional.<\/p>\n<p>Concentre-se em fazer-se feliz e veja a sua paz interior como a prioridade n\u00famero um.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-62029 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-young-smiling-woman-with-curly-hair.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de uma jovem mulher sorridente com cabelo encaracolado\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-young-smiling-woman-with-curly-hair.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-young-smiling-woman-with-curly-hair-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-young-smiling-woman-with-curly-hair-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por favor,<strong> ser suficientemente inteligente para escolher perder um homem em vez de perder a cabe\u00e7a. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Trust me, nobody \u2013 and especially not someone who doesn\u2019t appreciate you \u2013 is worth you going crazy over him.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 exatamente assim que as coisas v\u00e3o continuar se ficarem presas neste c\u00edrculo sem fim.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s what will happen if you stay in this toxic relationship, full of emotional abuse, gaslighting, and constant fights.<\/p>\n<p>Tu sabes,<strong> if it happens, he won\u2019t stick around to help you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t be there to give you a hand or pull you out of your darkness.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-62033 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-lying-on-bed-oppoite-of-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"casal deitado na cama em frente um do outro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-lying-on-bed-oppoite-of-each-other.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-lying-on-bed-oppoite-of-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-lying-on-bed-oppoite-of-each-other-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t put an effort into fixing your heart, even though he\u2019s the one who broke it.<\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t be there to glue you back together, even though he\u2019s the one who crushed you.<\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t have your back to catch you when you start falling.<\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t stand by your side to help you heal, even though he is the one who destroyed you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>He won\u2019t be there to bring you back to life, even though he\u2019s the one who spiritually killed you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Before you know it, this man will be gone and you\u2019ll be left all alone to fight with your demons and traumas.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-62034 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/depressed-young-woman-at-home-1.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher deprimida em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/depressed-young-woman-at-home-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/depressed-young-woman-at-home-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/depressed-young-woman-at-home-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t just lose precious years of your life, you\u2019ll also have to deal with depression, insecurities, and anxiety, which is much worse.<\/p>\n<p>Sooner than you might think, you\u2019ll look around and see that the girl you used to be is nowhere to be found.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll be replaced by a negative and bitter woman who\u2019ll need ages to fully recover from everything she\u2019s been through.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por favor, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor-proprio\/girl-power\/para-a-rapariga-com-uma-alma-cansada-e-tempo-de-te-salvares\/\">salvar a si pr\u00f3prio<\/a> on time. Ditch his sorry ass and pull yourself out of this misery before it\u2019s too late to be sorry.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-62040 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Always-Choose-Losing-Man-Over-Losing-Your-Mind-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Prefira sempre perder um homem a perder a cabe\u00e7a\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Always-Choose-Losing-Man-Over-Losing-Your-Mind-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Always-Choose-Losing-Man-Over-Losing-Your-Mind-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Always-Choose-Losing-Man-Over-Losing-Your-Mind-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Always-Choose-Losing-Man-Over-Losing-Your-Mind-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Always-Choose-Losing-Man-Over-Losing-Your-Mind-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Always-Choose-Losing-Man-Over-Losing-Your-Mind-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ll be honest with you here: Love is important. Whether someone likes to admit this or not, it\u2019s nice having a man whom you care for and who cares for you back. It won\u2019t magically put your life in perfect order, but a healthy romantic relationship will make you happier \u2013 there is no doubt&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":62026,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-62022","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Always-Choose-Losing-A-Man-Over-Losing-Your-Mind.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/62022","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=62022"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/62022\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/62026"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=62022"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=62022"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=62022"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}