You really hoped that he’d realize that no one will ever love him the way you did and that would make him change and appreciate you more.<\/p>\n
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You hoped that for your anniversary he’d get you something special, maybe even an engagement ring. But that didn’t happen.<\/p>\n
He didn’t get you anything because he forgot.He has failed you again. You’ve even stopped counting how many times he failed you.<\/p>\n
Life can be so unfair sometimes. A person whom you love completely and for whom you would give your life doesn’t give a damn about you.<\/strong><\/p>\n Leaving him may seem like the hardest thing for you to do right now, but you’ll realize one day that it was the best decision you ever made.<\/p>\n Here is how you’ll finally leave a man like that and leave him in the past once and for all.<\/p>\n The most important thing is that you have to be true to yourself. Admitting that he doesn’t deserve you is the first and the hardest step.<\/p>\n Tens de ter consci\u00eancia de como \u00e9s corajosa. Podes deix\u00e1-lo. Podes continuar com a tua vida. Um dia, you’ll meet someone who will treat you the way you deserve.<\/a><\/p>\n His behavior has affected your self-esteem. He\u2019s made you believe that you don’t deserve to be treated respectfully and that you don’t deserve love at all.<\/p>\n Now it’s time to improve your self-esteem. You have to know that you are worthy of everything and that every other man would be more than happy to have a girl like you.<\/p>\n A pessoa no espelho \u00e9 a sua melhor amiga. Fala com ela. Elogia-a. <\/strong><\/p>\n Comment on her looks and give her fashion advice whenever she’s getting ready to go out.<\/strong><\/p>\n Diz-lhe como ela \u00e9 bonita. E quando ela chorar por causa dele, diga-lhe que nenhum homem \u00e9 digno das suas l\u00e1grimas e que certamente n\u00e3o vale a pena estragar o r\u00edmel dela.<\/strong><\/p>\n You have to be alone with your thoughts. You are aware that he doesn’t deserve you and you know that you should leave him.<\/p>\n But that’s easier said than done, right?<\/p>\n Don’t listen to other people and their advice. You shouldn’t even listen to your friends and family.<\/p>\n It’s your life and you are the only one who can make the decision.<\/p>\n Tire uns dias de folga do seu trabalho e v\u00e1 para um s\u00edtio onde possa estar completamente sozinho.<\/p>\n Um s\u00edtio onde se pode pensar em tudo.<\/p>\n Bring all the photos you have of you two. Turn off your phone and don’t answer it for anyone.<\/p>\n Lembre-se, este \u00e9 o seu tempo a s\u00f3s, o tempo para tomar a decis\u00e3o final.<\/p>\n Olha para o passado. Quantas vezes chorou at\u00e9 adormecer por causa dele?<\/p>\n Quantas vezes \u00e9 que ele estragou a sua noite porque tinha de namoriscar com outras raparigas?<\/p>\n Alguma vez fez alguma loucura s\u00f3 para te mostrar o quanto te ama? Alguma vez mostrou que tu \u00e9s a sua prioridade?<\/p>\n Pensem em todas estas coisas. Ponderem as coisas boas e as coisas m\u00e1s da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/strong><\/p>\n Tomar a decis\u00e3o final. Escolha amar a si mesmo novamente.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Now that you’re done with thinking about the past, take a look at your future.<\/p>\n Imagina como seria bom se pudesses finalmente fazer todas as coisas que ele te proibiu de fazer.<\/p>\n To wear all those dresses he didn’t like to see on you because he thought you were wearing them to seduce other men.<\/p>\n You’re an intelligent and successful woman. Focus on your job. Work on yourself. Go out with your friends.<\/p>\n Travel – because it was your favorite thing to do, but he wasn’t a fan of traveling so you didn’t do it while you were dating.<\/p>\n Think about all those things you\u2019ve always wanted to do but he didn’t like them or didn’t allow you to do them.<\/p>\n Once you\u2019ve broken up with him, you’ll be able to enjoy all those things.<\/p>\n This doesn’t mean that you’ll break with him via this letter. No. When the time comes, you’ll break with him in person.<\/p>\n Writing a letter will help you to write down everything you\u2019ve felt over the years and everything he\u2019s made you feel with his actions.<\/p>\n Pode escrever o que achar que a vai ajudar a sentir-se melhor. Escreva tudo o que tinha medo de lhe dizer porque receava que ele a deixasse.<\/p>\n Escreva o qu\u00e3o triste ele a fazia sentir cada vez que se esquecia do seu anivers\u00e1rio ou do seu anivers\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n How awful you felt every time your friends sent you a text telling you that they\u2019d seen him with some girls at a club.<\/p>\n Write down your deepest feelings. Write that you still love him, but that you’ve made the decision to love yourself more.<\/p>\n E que o amor que sente por ele j\u00e1 n\u00e3o a impedir\u00e1 de alcan\u00e7ar os seus sonhos e objectivos na vida.<\/p>\n A maior parte das pessoas diria que deve devolver-lhe as coisas dele, bem como as coisas que ele lhe deu.<\/p>\n But I say that you don’t have to take care of his stuff – just like he never cared about you.<\/p>\n Getting rid of those things will be particularly difficult for you because that’s when you’ll understand that your relationship has come to an end.<\/p>\n However, it’s something that you must do in order to properly move on with your life.<\/p>\n Otherwise, his stuff will only be a reminder of him and the past, and it\u2019ll be painful every time you see something that belongs to him.<\/p>\n Ponha essas coisas numa caixa e deite-as fora ou, melhor ainda, queime-as. Fa\u00e7a o que lhe der mais prazer.<\/p>\n You\u2019ve realized that he is wrong for you and that he doesn’t deserve you. I know that you want to break up with him and move on as soon as possible.<\/p>\n There is no need to rush, though. You’ll move on but you need to give yourself time to heal properly first.<\/p>\n You need time to think about everything so that you don’t let any man treat you less than you deserve ever again.<\/p>\n Don’t let other people’s opinions confuse you and make you break up with him before you’re ready to do it.<\/p>\n You should take all the time you need to make it less painful for yourself. Even though he doesn’t deserve it, you love him.<\/p>\nTer uma conversa honesta consigo pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nTrabalhar a sua autoestima<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nPassar algum tempo sozinho<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nPense no seu futuro<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nEscrever-lhe uma carta<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nLivrar-se das coisas dele<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nDon’t force yourself<\/h2>\n
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