{"id":62391,"date":"2020-04-16T10:58:38","date_gmt":"2020-04-16T10:58:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=62391"},"modified":"2021-08-31T08:06:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T08:06:44","slug":"5-razoes-pelas-quais-os-empaticos-se-apaixonam-sempre-pelo-potencial","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-razoes-pelas-quais-os-empaticos-se-apaixonam-sempre-pelo-potencial\/","title":{"rendered":"5 raz\u00f5es pelas quais os emp\u00e1ticos se apaixonam sempre pelo potencial"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Apaixonar-se pelo potencial de algu\u00e9m significa idealizar a pessoa que est\u00e1 ao seu lado.<\/p>\n<p>Significa n\u00e3o ser realista em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao que s\u00e3o atualmente e concentrar-se no que poder\u00e3o vir a ser se atingirem a sua capacidade m\u00e1xima.<\/p>\n<p>Significa agarrar-se ao que poderia e deveria ser, em vez de ver e aceitar a realidade.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62400 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-at-woman-sitting-at-the-table.jpg\" alt=\"Homem e mulher sentados \u00e0 mesa em frente um do outro, junto \u00e0 janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-at-woman-sitting-at-the-table.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-at-woman-sitting-at-the-table-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-at-woman-sitting-at-the-table-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>However, sometimes it also means being blind to the present and putting all your hopes in the future \u2013 a future that may never pan out the way you imagined it.<\/p>\n<p>Tricky, right? Well, the truth is that many people out there do this: They love someone\u2019s potential instead of the actual person.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, os emp\u00e1ticos s\u00e3o os campe\u00f5es neste dom\u00ednio. Cometem este erro em quase todas as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es e aqui est\u00e3o 5 raz\u00f5es pelas quais o fazem.<\/p>\n<h2>1. V\u00eaem o melhor em toda a gente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62397 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-talking-to-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher loira feliz a falar com um homem enquanto est\u00e1 sentada \u00e0 sua frente\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-talking-to-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-talking-to-a-man-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-talking-to-a-man-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The first reason why empaths have a habit to fall for someone\u2019s potential lies in the fact that they see the best in everyone surrounding them.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, even if an empath meets a toxic person, somehow they\u2019ll manage to see their good sides.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que se tornem amantes de um narcisista, ver\u00e3o para al\u00e9m dos seus defeitos.<\/p>\n<p>Not only that, they\u2019ll also put a lot of effort into convincing themselves, the object of their affection, and everyone else that there is something good in this person.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62403 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-siting-close-to-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"Homem e mulher sentados perto um do outro no ch\u00e3o durante o dia\" width=\"800\" height=\"503\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-siting-close-to-each-other.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-siting-close-to-each-other-300x189.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-siting-close-to-each-other-768x483.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They\u2019ll try hard to put the focus on their qualities.<\/p>\n<p>Estas s\u00e3o as pessoas que t\u00eam tend\u00eancia para justificar os outros.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eam a capacidade de o compreender mais do que qualquer outra pessoa, como se tivessem andado uma milha no seu lugar.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, conseguem sempre arranjar desculpas para todos \u00e0 sua volta, especialmente para aqueles de quem gostam.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Atraem as pessoas que precisam de ser reparadas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62404 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-drinking-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"Homem e mulher a beber caf\u00e9 sentados ao lado um do outro numa mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"501\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-drinking-coffee.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-drinking-coffee-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-drinking-coffee-768x481.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s get one thing straightened out. It\u2019s not just an empath\u2019s fault when they happen to fall for someone\u2019s potential.<\/p>\n<p>Na verdade, estes romances, como todos os outros, t\u00eam sempre dois sentidos.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 que, quando uma pessoa est\u00e1 magoada, subconscientemente pede ajuda.<\/p>\n<p>Even when they act like they don\u2019t need it, they will accept all the help they can get.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62405 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-of-couple-holding-hands.jpg\" alt=\"Grande plano a preto e branco de um casal de m\u00e3os dadas\" width=\"800\" height=\"501\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-of-couple-holding-hands.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-of-couple-holding-hands-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-of-couple-holding-hands-768x481.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 exatamente isso que acontece neste cen\u00e1rio: As pessoas que precisam de ser consertadas s\u00e3o atra\u00eddas pelos emp\u00e1ticos.<\/p>\n<p>Broken people sense that the empath is one who won\u2019t judge them and the only one who will put an effort into getting to their core.<\/p>\n<p>So, when a damaged guy gets a hold of an empathic girl, he won\u2019t let her go easily. Instead, he\u2019ll stick to her with his life.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019ll know that this woman is the only one who can eventually help him see the light. He is aware that she is a once in a lifetime chance.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Nascem salvadores<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62406 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-wearing-superhero-cape.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher sorridente com cal\u00e7as de ganga azuis e capa de super-her\u00f3i\" width=\"800\" height=\"501\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-wearing-superhero-cape.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-wearing-superhero-cape-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-wearing-superhero-cape-768x481.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Another reason why empathic women fall for potential lies in the fact that they\u2019re born saviors.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re an empath, you think of yourself as this superwoman who can make everything right.<\/p>\n<p>Sente que tem o poder de ajudar todos os que se cruzam no seu caminho.<\/p>\n<p>Not only that. For some reason, you think it\u2019s your duty on this earth to help lost souls reach their full capacity.<\/p>\n<p>You are convinced it\u2019s your job to show them the way and help them become the people they\u2019re destined to be.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Desejam o amor verdadeiro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62407 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-touching-heart-symbol-with-finger-1.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher a tocar no s\u00edmbolo do cora\u00e7\u00e3o com o dedo enquanto est\u00e1 deitada numa almofada\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-touching-heart-symbol-with-finger-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-touching-heart-symbol-with-finger-1-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-touching-heart-symbol-with-finger-1-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You can be guarded and pretend to be heartless, but the truth is that deep down, we\u2019re all looking for love.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019re fine with your single status at this point, but eventually, you hope to find your forever person, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n<p>Bem, os emp\u00e1ticos querem isso mais do que ningu\u00e9m. Eles anseiam por amor verdadeiro e incondicional.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62410 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Woman-sitting-on-the-window-painting-a-heart-on-glass.jpg\" alt=\"Uma rapariga bonita sentada \u00e0 janela e a pintar com o dedo um cora\u00e7\u00e3o no vidro\" width=\"800\" height=\"503\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Woman-sitting-on-the-window-painting-a-heart-on-glass.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Woman-sitting-on-the-window-painting-a-heart-on-glass-300x189.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Woman-sitting-on-the-window-painting-a-heart-on-glass-768x483.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So, once they meet someone they care for, they won\u2019t give up that special person.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, lutar\u00e3o pelo seu ente querido, mesmo que isso signifique aceitar menos do que ele merece.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 que quando um emp\u00e1tico chega a um ponto em que qualquer outra pessoa desistiria, ele continua.<\/p>\n<p>Empurram os seus parceiros para a frente e acreditam que eles podem mudar, mesmo quando todos os outros os abandonam.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Nunca perdem a esperan\u00e7a<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62408 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/hands-holding-hope-stone.jpg\" alt=\"M\u00e3os a segurar uma pedra em forma de cora\u00e7\u00e3o com a palavra Hope (esperan\u00e7a) escrita\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/hands-holding-hope-stone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/hands-holding-hope-stone-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/hands-holding-hope-stone-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Finalmente, os emp\u00e1ticos nunca perdem a esperan\u00e7a. T\u00eam uma natureza otimista e esperam sempre o melhor, mesmo quando tudo parece perdido e sem esperan\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>Um emp\u00e1tico v\u00ea um raio de luz ao fundo do t\u00fanel, mesmo quando est\u00e1 rodeado pela mais profunda escurid\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>They will try pulling out the good in you and keep on inspiring you to become the best version of yourself, even when you lose all faith that it\u2019s even possible.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62412 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/5-reasons-empaths-always-fall-for-potential-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 raz\u00f5es pelas quais os emp\u00e1ticos se apaixonam sempre pelo potencial pinterest\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/5-reasons-empaths-always-fall-for-potential-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/5-reasons-empaths-always-fall-for-potential-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/5-reasons-empaths-always-fall-for-potential-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/5-reasons-empaths-always-fall-for-potential-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Falling in love with someone\u2019s potential means idealizing the person next to you. It means not being realistic about who they are now and focusing on who they might become if they reach their full capacity. It means holding on to what could and should be, instead of seeing and accepting reality. However, sometimes it&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":62396,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29677],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-62391","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-personality-types"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29677,"label":"personality types"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/5-reasons-empaths-always-fall-for-potential.jpg",800,500,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29677,"name":"personality types","slug":"personality-types","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29677,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Hippies, alphas, betas, sapiophiles...Every personality type is unique and contains a particular set of skills. 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