{"id":62454,"date":"2020-04-14T08:55:32","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T08:55:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=62454"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:27:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:27:36","slug":"desvios-que-nao-podem-ser-ignorados","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/desvios-que-nao-podem-ser-ignorados\/","title":{"rendered":"33 maiores inconvenientes que n\u00e3o podem ser ignorados"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>1. Quando um parceiro espera que estejas sempre presente quando ele precisa de ti, mas nunca pensa em fazer o mesmo por ti. <strong>Ter de pedir tudo \u00e9 uma desilus\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>2. If they are unable to say they\u2019re sorry. If someone is unable to apologize when they do something wrong, it\u2019s childish and unattractive.<\/p>\n<p>3. Quando um parceiro parece ter ilus\u00f5es sobre a sua pr\u00f3pria personalidade. Pensa que \u00e9 um tipo de pessoa quando na realidade \u00e9 completamente diferente.<\/p>\n<p>4. <strong>Quando falam demasiado de si pr\u00f3prios e nunca ouvem as suas hist\u00f3rias ou o que tem para dizer sobre a sua vida.<\/strong> When they don\u2019t let other people speak in general or show no interest in anything unless it has come out of their own mouth.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-62458\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bored-woman-listening-to-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher aborrecida a ouvir o homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bored-woman-listening-to-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bored-woman-listening-to-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bored-woman-listening-to-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>5. When a partner is too needy. I love being there for my loved one, but if they expect me to be there for them all the time and whine if I\u2019m not, it\u2019s a huge turnoff. Have a life even when they aren\u2019t around, and I intend to keep it that way.<\/p>\n<p>6. Quando dizem coisas s\u00f3 para as dizer. Quando fazem promessas porque soam bem, mas nunca fazem nada das coisas que prometem fazer.<\/p>\n<p>7.<strong> When they share the most intimate details of your relationship or stuff you\u2019ve told them in confidence with their friends or family.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>8. When they stereotype. If someone judges others based on their skin color, sexual orientation, religion, or gender &#8211; that\u2019s unacceptable to me.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-62460\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-talking-to-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher zangada a falar com um homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-talking-to-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-talking-to-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-talking-to-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>9. E tamb\u00e9m quando julgam os outros com demasiada severidade sem olharem primeiro para si pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n<p>10. <strong>When you\u2019re excited about something or in a super amazing mood &#8211; whether you have a reason for it or not &#8211; and they put you down<\/strong>. Porque \u00e9 que eles fariam isso? Est\u00e3o incomodados com a sua felicidade?<\/p>\n<p>11. When they have low self-esteem it\u2019s a huge turn-off. If you feel like you always have to carefully watch every word you say so you don\u2019t hurt their feelings, that\u2019s way too much drama.<\/p>\n<p>12. When they don\u2019t know how to have an adult conversation or argue in order to resolve an issue. <strong>Quando gritam sempre ou se v\u00e3o embora de forma imatura quando as coisas correm mal.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-62461\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-man-arguing-with-woman-in-the-bedroom.jpg\" alt=\"homem zangado a discutir com uma mulher no quarto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-man-arguing-with-woman-in-the-bedroom.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-man-arguing-with-woman-in-the-bedroom-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-man-arguing-with-woman-in-the-bedroom-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\n13. When they\u2019re so full of themselves and think that you\u2019re lucky to have scored them at all.<\/p>\n<p>14. <strong>When they don\u2019t act like you\u2019re a team<\/strong>. Also, when they don\u2019t support you in front of others or don\u2019t defend you if others talk about you behind your back.<\/p>\n<p>15. Quando fazem batota ou pensam que fazer batota \u00e9 bom. Mentir tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p>16. When you think about your relationship and realize that you\u2019re the only one making plans and initiating things, <strong>and they just let go and don\u2019t really do any work.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-62462\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lazy-man-laying-on-the-sofa-watching-tv.jpg\" alt=\"homem pregui\u00e7oso deitado no sof\u00e1 a ver televis\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lazy-man-laying-on-the-sofa-watching-tv.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lazy-man-laying-on-the-sofa-watching-tv-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lazy-man-laying-on-the-sofa-watching-tv-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>17. When they always have to talk or do something. If a person can\u2019t be with you sitting silently and doing nothing from time to time, it just gets annoying.<\/p>\n<p>18.<strong> Quando s\u00e3o demasiado negativos.<\/strong> Todos n\u00f3s nos queixamos aos nossos parceiros e partilhamos as nossas emo\u00e7\u00f5es negativas, mas ter constantemente uma atitude negativa em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a tudo \u00e9 demasiado.<\/p>\n<p>19. When they have no clear opinions about anything. It\u2019s okay not to have an opinion on everything, but having no thoughts at all about the world is such a turnoff.<\/p>\n<p>20. <strong>Quando falam demasiado dos seus ex<\/strong>. If a partner insists on discussing their past relationships and just goes on and on about them, there\u2019s your red flag right there.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-62463\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bored-woman-listening-to-man-in-the-coffe-shop.jpg\" alt=\"mulher aborrecida a ouvir o homem no caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bored-woman-listening-to-man-in-the-coffe-shop.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bored-woman-listening-to-man-in-the-coffe-shop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bored-woman-listening-to-man-in-the-coffe-shop-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>21. When your partner is that kind of person who\u2019s willing to cause a fight intentionally because they are bored at that particular moment and that is their way of bringing a spark and passion into the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>22. When they think it\u2019s okay to call you names. I just find this to be a huge turn-off: <strong>if you don\u2019t have anything nice to say, don\u2019t say anything at all.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>23. When they don\u2019t give their partner time alone. It\u2019s okay to want to be with that special someone all the time, but if your partner gets mad because you went out with friends, or decided to watch a movie with family, that\u2019s just a huge turnoff.<\/p>\n<p>24. If they don\u2019t have any ambitions in life. Being casual and free I get, but having no ideas and dreams about how your life should look is not attractive. <strong>I sure can\u2019t imagine myself in your future if you can\u2019t imagine me there.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-62464\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-complaining-to-man-on-the-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher zangada a queixar-se a um homem ao telefone\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-complaining-to-man-on-the-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-complaining-to-man-on-the-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-complaining-to-man-on-the-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>25. If they don\u2019t have a sense of humor and don\u2019t know how to take a joke. Taking stuff way too seriously is not fun.<\/p>\n<p>26. Quando mastigam muito alto e n\u00e3o t\u00eam maneiras quando est\u00e3o a comer ou no seu comportamento em geral.<\/p>\n<p>27. If they are unable to express their emotions at all. Some people can be more of a closed book and that\u2019s fine,<strong> mas nunca partilhar nada sobre o que sentem contigo faz com que te sintas completamente exclu\u00eddo do seu mundo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>28. When they don\u2019t take care of personal hygiene. Seriously, what\u2019s with that?<\/p>\n<p>29. Quando uma pessoa \u00e9 t\u00e3o obcecada com o dinheiro, ou gasta demasiado para se exibir, ou \u00e9 demasiado rigorosa com o seu dinheiro e nunca paga nada.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-62466\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-looking-for-a-bill-on-the-dinner-with-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem \u00e0 procura de uma fatura no jantar com uma mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-looking-for-a-bill-on-the-dinner-with-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-looking-for-a-bill-on-the-dinner-with-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-looking-for-a-bill-on-the-dinner-with-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>30. Quando s\u00e3o aborrecidos. <strong>If there\u2019s nothing about a person that\u2019s special or out of the ordinary, I just can\u2019t see myself being attracted to them.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>31. Quando s\u00e3o mal-educados com o pessoal de servi\u00e7o. Isto \u00e9 t\u00e3o embara\u00e7oso e faz com que nunca mais queiramos sair com eles.<\/p>\n<p>32. When your partner thinks it\u2019s okay to make fun of others. Being a bully is not attractive.<\/p>\n<p>33. When they try to make you jealous, and it\u2019s so obvious they are doing it on purpose.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-62473\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/33-Biggest-Turnoffs-That-Can\u2019t-Be-Overlooked-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"33 maiores inconvenientes que n\u00e3o podem ser ignorados\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/33-Biggest-Turnoffs-That-Can\u2019t-Be-Overlooked-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/33-Biggest-Turnoffs-That-Can\u2019t-Be-Overlooked-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/33-Biggest-Turnoffs-That-Can\u2019t-Be-Overlooked-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/33-Biggest-Turnoffs-That-Can\u2019t-Be-Overlooked-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. When a partner always expects you to be there for them whenever they need you, but they never really think about doing the same for you. Having to ask for everything is such a turnoff. 2. If they are unable to say they\u2019re sorry. 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