{"id":62457,"date":"2020-04-14T09:06:58","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T09:06:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=62457"},"modified":"2022-02-21T18:48:12","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T18:48:12","slug":"altos-e-baixos-emocionais-da-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/altos-e-baixos-emocionais-da-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Altos e baixos emocionais de um quase relacionamento"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>No in\u00edcio, sente-se entusiasmado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62470 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com um smartphone na m\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando as coisas est\u00e3o a come\u00e7ar, sentimo-nos entusiasmados, da mesma forma que nos sentimos no in\u00edcio de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o nova.<\/p>\n<p>O nome da pessoa aparece no telem\u00f3vel e ficamos com borboletas no est\u00f4mago. Cada vez que te dizem alguma coisa, ficas corada.<\/p>\n<p>O toque acidental do teu ombro no dele \u00e9 como fogo de artif\u00edcio.<em>The chemistry between you is strong &#8211; it\u2019s like a constant electrical feeling. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Sentimo-nos vivos e esperamos que essa sensa\u00e7\u00e3o nunca desapare\u00e7a.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Depois, sente-se confuso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62471 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-photo-of-woman.jpg\" alt=\"fotografia de mulher em grande plano\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-photo-of-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-photo-of-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-photo-of-woman-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You were convinced that you were heading towards a real relationship, but suddenly you feel like he\u2019s sending you mixed signals.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re no longer sure he cares about you as much as you care about him.<\/p>\n<p>It seems now like you\u2019ve been fooling yourself into thinking that one day you\u2019ll become a couple.<\/p>\n<p>You constantly try to figure out what\u2019s happening in his mind but it\u2019s all for nothing because one minute you feel like you have it all figured out and the next you\u2019re back to square one.<\/p>\n<p><em>They always have a way of doing something that keeps you on your toes, so you never really know where you\u2019re headed with them.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>J\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9 paciente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62472 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-eyeglasses.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com \u00f3culos\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-eyeglasses.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-eyeglasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-eyeglasses-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes you feel like you are still on the right track to becoming a real couple, and those days you\u2019re fine with the way things stand between you because you can see it all as a path to something better.<\/p>\n<p>Other days, you are really impatient for your \u2018almost\u2019 to make the damn move already.<\/p>\n<p>Tem a certeza de que gostam de si e se sentem atra\u00eddos por si, e tem a certeza de que gostam de passar tempo consigo. <em>De que \u00e9 que est\u00e3o \u00e0 espera?<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>That\u2019s why you\u2019re constantly questioning yourself<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62474 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-thumb-on-her-lips.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com o polegar nos l\u00e1bios\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-thumb-on-her-lips.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-thumb-on-her-lips-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-thumb-on-her-lips-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Deve dar o primeiro passo? \u00c9 disso que eles est\u00e3o \u00e0 espera?<\/p>\n<p>Maybe they are just shy and want to wait and take things slowly and you\u2019re here blaming them for simply being the way they are. Hmm?<\/p>\n<h2>Fica com ci\u00fames<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62475 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-hugging-man-5.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a abra\u00e7ar homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-hugging-man-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-hugging-man-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-hugging-man-5-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You see them flirting with other people and realize you have no right to be mad at them because you aren\u2019t committed in any way and you have no rights there.<\/p>\n<p>It makes you annoyed &#8211; to say the least &#8211; when they do that, but you aren\u2019t officially in a relationship so what can you do?<\/p>\n<p>They have no obligation to stay loyal to you, but that doesn\u2019t make you feel any better about things.<\/p>\n<p><em>It\u2019s starting to look like they have none of the obligations of a relationship, only the benefits of one.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Come\u00e7a-se a ter medo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62477 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-pink-top.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com top cor-de-rosa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-pink-top.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-pink-top-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-pink-top-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re starting to feel your emotions for this person getting stronger every day and you get really scared that they\u2019re going to hurt you.<\/p>\n<p>At the beginning, you had a huge crush on them and it was fun, but you weren\u2019t as involved as you are now and it was easier to just let it be an almost relationship.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re starting to fear that you\u2019ll leave this almost relationship with a broken heart, and you\u2019ll end up suffering over a relationship that was never even a real relationship.<\/p>\n<p><em>Agora parece que teria sido melhor se nunca lhes tivesses dado o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o em primeiro lugar.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Est\u00e1 desiludido<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62478 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-against-wooden-fence.jpg\" alt=\"mulher encostada a uma veda\u00e7\u00e3o de madeira\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-against-wooden-fence.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-against-wooden-fence-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-against-wooden-fence-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You imagined spending more time together, going places, meeting each other\u2019s friends and family but suddenly they\u2019re gone.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00c9 muito estranho estar de luto por uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o que nunca existiu.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Na sua mente, as coisas estavam apenas a come\u00e7ar a aquecer, mas na realidade j\u00e1 tinham acabado consigo. Sim, sente-se triste.<\/p>\n<p>Acima de tudo, sente-se desiludido porque cortaram as coisas no auge do entusiasmo que tinha pela realiza\u00e7\u00e3o do seu novo amor.<\/p>\n<h2>Finalmente, sente-se aliviado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62479 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-green-shirt-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de camisa verde a sorrir\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-green-shirt-smiling.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-green-shirt-smiling-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-green-shirt-smiling-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019ve had some time to think it over you actually feel relieved.<\/p>\n<p>Sente-se com sorte por <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-feia-verdade-sobre-como-ultrapassar-um-quase-homem\/\">a rela\u00e7\u00e3o quase terminou<\/a>porque, de qualquer forma, nunca foi um neg\u00f3cio real.<\/p>\n<p><em>You feel like you\u2019ve gotten your wings back and you can fly off and find new love.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re no longer stuck wondering how they feel and what they are going to do next.<\/p>\n<p>Agora sabe que o que precisa \u00e9 de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o honesta com algu\u00e9m que o ame, cuide de si e queira o mesmo que voc\u00ea.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62483 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/8-Emotional-Ups-And-Downs-Of-An-Almost-Relationship-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"8 Altos e baixos emocionais de um quase relacionamento\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/8-Emotional-Ups-And-Downs-Of-An-Almost-Relationship-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/8-Emotional-Ups-And-Downs-Of-An-Almost-Relationship-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/8-Emotional-Ups-And-Downs-Of-An-Almost-Relationship-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/8-Emotional-Ups-And-Downs-Of-An-Almost-Relationship-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>At first, you feel excited When things are just starting you feel excited, the same way you do at the beginning of every new relationship. Their name appears on your phone and you get butterflies in your stomach. Every time they say something to you, you blush. Your shoulder brushing against his by accident feels&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":62469,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-62457","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/8-Emotional-Ups-And-Downs-Of-An-Almost-Relationship.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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