{"id":62631,"date":"2020-04-14T15:32:49","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T15:32:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=62631"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:23:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:23:50","slug":"fazer-de-ti-uma-prioridade-quando-eu-era-a-segunda-opcao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/fazer-de-ti-uma-prioridade-quando-eu-era-a-segunda-opcao\/","title":{"rendered":"O meu erro foi fazer de ti uma prioridade quando fui sempre a tua segunda op\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

Amava-te mais do que a mim pr\u00f3prio e a \u00fanica coisa que me importava era que nunca me deixasses.<\/p>\n

I didn’t mind how you treated me or whether your love was strong enough, like mine was.That was an unexplainable kind of love.<\/p>\n

Cada dia que passava fazia crescer o meu amor por ti, apesar de nunca me teres dado raz\u00f5es para te amar t\u00e3o fortemente.<\/p>\n

I still can’t understand why people fall in love that much when it’s clear that the other side doesn’t feel the same for them.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

No nosso caso, era mais do que evidente que you didn\u2019t share the same feelings for me.<\/a><\/p>\n

My mother said that it’s a half love, a love that makes you blind and all you can see is that other person but not their actions.<\/p>\n

Ela disse que todas as pessoas devem experimentar um amor como esse uma vez na vida.Para mim, foi uma esp\u00e9cie de fen\u00f3meno. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Quanto mais me maltratavas, mais eu te amava. Quanto mais negligenciavas as minhas necessidades, mais eu dava prioridade \u00e0s tuas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A tua rejei\u00e7\u00e3o causou a obsess\u00e3o que eu tinha por ti. Talvez te tenhas apercebido disso e tenhas come\u00e7ado a us\u00e1-lo. Usaste a minha ingenuidade e os meus sentimentos sinceros por ti.<\/p>\n

Considerava os teus amigos e a tua fam\u00edlia como meus e ficava feliz sempre que me convidavas para estar com eles. Continuo em contacto com todos eles.<\/p>\n

Tive de te implorar para sa\u00edres com os meus amigos e a minha fam\u00edlia, porque nunca o querias fazer.<\/p>\n

And every time they’d invite us over or to go out, I had to make an excuse for why you didn’t show up again.I always had time for you.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Tu e as tuas necessidades eram as \u00fanicas coisas que importavam.Estive sempre l\u00e1 para ti quando precisaste de mim<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Pensava que essa era a ess\u00eancia de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel, mas estava enganada; a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o nunca foi saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

I’ve seen so many girls who poured themselves into a relationship. Girls who didn’t appreciate themselves enough to say stop to the man who didn’t deserve them.<\/p>\n

I always considered those girls stupid. And look what’s happening now. Karma knocked on my door and laughed so hard in my face.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I apologize now to all of those girls because I understand what made you stay with a man who didn’t appreciate you.<\/p>\n

O amor. Amor cego, estranho, doentio, incondicional, inexplic\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

I’ll always remember my last birthday, when you stood me up once again and stabbed me right through my heart. It was one disappointment too many.<\/p>\n

I couldn’t take it anymore.<\/p>\n

Foi a noite em que algo se partiu dentro de mim. Apesar de ter sido a noite mais dif\u00edcil da minha vida, fez-me perceber que n\u00e3o mereces mesmo o meu amor.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Aquela noite mudou a minha vida. Apercebi-me que tinha de te tirar do trono e colocar-me l\u00e1 de novo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Apercebi-me de que a minha vida \u00e9 um livro.<\/p>\n

I am the author of it and you shouldn’t be the main character anymore. Hell, you never deserved to be in it in the first place.<\/p>\n

However, I truly believe that God has his reasons for everything that’s happening. Maybe I needed this experience to serve me as a lesson.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Talvez eu precisasse de aprender desta forma que Eu sou a pessoa mais importante da minha vida<\/a> and that I shouldn’t let someone take that place ever again.<\/p>\n

Realizing and admitting that you’ll never be able to love me like I love you broke my heart into a million pieces.<\/p>\n

Trust me, I’m still trying to put them back together but now, it doesn’t hurt anymore.I look at our relationship as the lesson of my life.<\/p>\n

Por muito que ames outra pessoa, o primeiro amor da tua vida \u00e9 e ser\u00e1 sempre TU e nunca deves trair esse amor.<\/p>\n

\"O<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I loved you more than I loved myself and the only thing that was important to me was that you would never leave me. I didn’t mind how you treated me or whether your love was strong enough, like mine was.That was an unexplainable kind of love. Every day that passed by made my love…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":62635,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-62631","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/My-Mistake-Was-Making-You-A-Priority-When-I-Was-Always-Your-Second-Choice-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/62631","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=62631"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/62631\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/62635"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=62631"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=62631"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=62631"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}