{"id":62754,"date":"2020-04-22T12:27:17","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T12:27:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=62754"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:39:15","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:39:15","slug":"agradecer-aqueles-que-mais-te-magoaram","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/agradecer-aqueles-que-mais-te-magoaram\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 por isso que deves agradecer \u00e0queles que mais te magoaram"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando algu\u00e9m nos parte o cora\u00e7\u00e3o, \u00e9 natural que o desprezemos.<\/p>\n<p>Que mais poderias sentir em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0queles que te magoaram e tentaram destruir-te?<\/p>\n<p>Isto \u00e9 especialmente v\u00e1lido para as pessoas mais pr\u00f3ximas de si.<\/p>\n<p>Afinal de contas, s\u00e3o eles que podem aproximar-se mais de si e aqueles cujos movimentos o afectam mais.<\/p>\n<p>When someone you thought you could trust your life with backstabs you, you can\u2019t help but feel betrayed.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62763 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-window-1.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher afro-americana triste sentada \u00e0 janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"504\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-window-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-window-1-300x189.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-window-1-768x484.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 a pessoa por quem fez sacrif\u00edcios e a quem deu o seu melhor, pelo que esta \u00e9 uma rea\u00e7\u00e3o completamente normal.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t care whether we\u2019re talking about your ex-boyfriend who left you, about your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/friendship\/carta-que-a-rapariga-usou-como-melhor-amiga\/\">melhor amigo<\/a> que o utilizou ou sobre um familiar que deveria ter estado presente mas nunca esteve.<\/p>\n<p>O que interessa \u00e9 que essa pessoa o magoou.<\/p>\n<p>Magoaram-no gravemente e deixaram consequ\u00eancias irrepar\u00e1veis na sua sa\u00fade mental e emocional.<\/p>\n<p><strong>That is actually what triggers you the most\u2014these scars they left behind, after they walked away, without thinking about the consequences of their actions.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62765 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-girl-holding-broken-heart-1.jpg\" alt=\"Rapariga loira triste de camisa preta a segurar um cora\u00e7\u00e3o de papel partido\" width=\"800\" height=\"501\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-girl-holding-broken-heart-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-girl-holding-broken-heart-1-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-girl-holding-broken-heart-1-768x481.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A verdade dolorosa \u00e9 que quem o magoou tamb\u00e9m o mudou de certa forma.<\/p>\n<p>Lutou contra isso e tentou impedi-lo, mas algumas coisas estavam simplesmente fora do seu controlo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Com cada desgosto, a rapariga inocente que costumava ser foi desaparecendo cada vez mais. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>S<\/strong><strong>ele estava a desaparecer com cada l\u00e1grima que chorava.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Um dia, ela foi substitu\u00edda pelo novo tu.<\/p>\n<p>She was gone for good and there came along this overly careful woman who decided that the only way to protect her heart was to act as if she didn\u2019t have one.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62766 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/black-and-white-photo-of-woman-looking-upward-1.jpg\" alt=\"Fotografia a preto e branco em grande plano de uma mulher confiante a olhar para cima\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/black-and-white-photo-of-woman-looking-upward-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/black-and-white-photo-of-woman-looking-upward-1-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/black-and-white-photo-of-woman-looking-upward-1-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ent\u00e3o, quem vos pode julgar por odiarem aqueles que vos fizeram isto? Quem te pode culpar por <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/nao-nao-e-preciso-perdoar-sempre\/\">n\u00e3o ser capaz de perdoar<\/a> them? I know I can\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p><strong>No entanto, embora tenha todo o direito de se sentir assim, deixe-me dizer-lhe uma coisa: tamb\u00e9m deve estar grato a cada um dos seus assassinos espirituais.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You heard it right\u2014you don\u2019t have to love them, nor do you have to forgive them but if you\u2019re smart enough, you\u2019ll be thankful for everything they did.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, you might have changed. Maybe you\u2019ve become a pessimistic person.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62768 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-beautiful-blonde-woman.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de uma bela mulher loira com olhos azuis\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-beautiful-blonde-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-beautiful-blonde-woman-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-beautiful-blonde-woman-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Talvez <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/uma-carta-para-a-rapariga-que-ja-nao-acredita-no-amor\/\">perdeu a f\u00e9 no amor<\/a> and kindness. Maybe you don\u2019t see the good in people anymore.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Para o diabo com isso, pode at\u00e9 pensar que perdeu o seu brilho. No entanto, tudo isso \u00e9 tempor\u00e1rio.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>No entanto, as li\u00e7\u00f5es aprendidas ficaram para sempre.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> Each one of them was painful and tough but trust me\u2014they\u2019re all worth it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Todas as pessoas que vos fizeram mal foram, na verdade, vossos professores.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62769 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-woman-on-a-bench.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher jovem e solit\u00e1ria sentada num banco\" width=\"800\" height=\"503\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-woman-on-a-bench.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-woman-on-a-bench-300x189.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-woman-on-a-bench-768x483.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Estavam l\u00e1 para o ajudar a aprender algumas coisas novas sobre a vida e, mais importante, sobre si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Todas essas pessoas m\u00e1s tinham um objetivo mais profundo na sua vida. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>They were there to help you differentiate between the ones who deserve a place in your life and the ones who don\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>Estavam l\u00e1 para o ajudar a reconhecer o mal e para o fazer perceber que nem toda a gente o quer bem.<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly\u2014<strong>agradecer-lhes por a terem transformado na mulher que \u00e9 hoje.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62771 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/hands-with-thank-you-message.jpg\" alt=\"Papel de m\u00e3o com mensagem de agradecimento\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/hands-with-thank-you-message.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/hands-with-thank-you-message-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/hands-with-thank-you-message-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s be real\u2014if it weren\u2019t for them, you wouldn\u2019t have had the experience you do now.<\/p>\n<p>If it weren\u2019t for them, you wouldn\u2019t have had the strength or the inner power you possess now. You wouldn\u2019t have known how much you can take.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca terias percebido o quanto \u00e9s um sobrevivente.<\/p>\n<p>You wouldn\u2019t have known that you can defeat whatever life throws at you.<\/p>\n<p>Se nunca tiv\u00e9ssemos sido magoados, continuar\u00edamos a pensar que precisamos de todas essas pessoas t\u00f3xicas.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62772 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-looking-up-1.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher jovem e feliz a olhar para cima e a sorrir\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-looking-up-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-looking-up-1-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-looking-up-1-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You would be convinced that you can\u2019t make it without them and that you are not capable enough to go through life on your own.<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly\u2014you should thank the ones who hurt you because they taught you the importance of prioritizing yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Mostraram-lhe que nenhuma rela\u00e7\u00e3o pode ser mais importante do que a que tem consigo pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>Ent\u00e3o,<strong> the next time you think about all these people, don\u2019t resent them.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> Instead, know that without the intention of doing so, they\u2019ve actually done you a favor. <\/strong><strong>Be grateful, for they\u2019ve helped you blossom.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62776 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/this-is-why-you-should-thank-the-ones-who-have-hurt-you-the-most-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"\u00c9 por isso que deves agradecer \u00e0s pessoas que mais te magoaram pinterest\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/this-is-why-you-should-thank-the-ones-who-have-hurt-you-the-most-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/this-is-why-you-should-thank-the-ones-who-have-hurt-you-the-most-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/this-is-why-you-should-thank-the-ones-who-have-hurt-you-the-most-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/this-is-why-you-should-thank-the-ones-who-have-hurt-you-the-most-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When someone breaks your heart, it\u2019s only natural that you despise them. What else could you feel toward the ones who hurt you and tried to destroy you? This especially goes for the people closest to you. After all, they are the ones who can approach you the nearest and the ones whose moves affect&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":62761,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-62754","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/this-is-why-you-should-thank-the-ones-who-have-hurt-you-the-most.jpg",800,500,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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