{"id":62878,"date":"2020-04-15T09:11:02","date_gmt":"2020-04-15T09:11:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=62878"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:08:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:08:45","slug":"nao-te-percas-a-agarrar-te-a-alguem-que-nao-se-importa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-te-percas-a-agarrar-te-a-alguem-que-nao-se-importa\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o te percas a agarrar-te a algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o se importa"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Don’t be confused between what people say you are and who you know you are.<\/strong><\/em>\u201d \u2013 Oprah Winfrey<\/em><\/p>\n

This quote opened my eyes and made me realize the fact that it\u2019s not my fault if he doesn\u2019t care. That is when I slowly started to let go.<\/p>\n

In the beginning, he probably seemed like every other guy you liked \u2013 someone who will meet the real you, your needs and ideas as they are, recognize your essence.<\/p>\n

Mas, na maior parte das vezes, n\u00e3o \u00e9 esse o caso. Para a maioria das pessoas, n\u00e3o ficar confuso sobre quem s\u00e3o, especialmente nesta altura, pode ser um grande desafio.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

That alone is a huge obstacle. How can we expect someone to accept us as we are when we don\u2019t know who we are ourselves?<\/p>\n

Reconhecer e satisfazer as necessidades de algu\u00e9m de quem gostamos muito e que amamos pode facilmente levar-nos a agradar sem pensar, com base na nossa pr\u00f3pria necessidade de aprova\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When that happens, that means you\u2019ve lost your own approval and things become clear.<\/p>\n

He does not see your effort; he does not see he\u2019s using you; he does not see you\u2019re not yourself\u2026 he simply does not care.<\/p>\n

When that happens, you need to know one thing: You cannot make him care.If it doesn\u2019t happen naturally, it simply won\u2019t happen.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

That is the moment I already mentioned \u2013 a moment to let go.<\/p>\n

Embora possa ser doloroso e devastador, nunca deve duvidar de si pr\u00f3prio, porque a culpa nunca foi sua.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Algumas coisas n\u00e3o foram feitas para durar e, quando acabam, n\u00e3o t\u00eam nada a ver consigo: N\u00e3o h\u00e1 muito tempo nesta vida.<\/p>\n

A auto-d\u00favida \u00e9 algo que acontecer\u00e1 por si s\u00f3, em muitos aspectos da sua vida, e o amor n\u00e3o deve ser um deles.<\/p>\n

Especially not because of one blind-street relationship and a guy who simply wasn\u2019t something you needed at the time.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A sua miss\u00e3o de vida \u00e9 ser voc\u00ea mesmo e atingir o seu potencial m\u00e1ximo. Perder-se a si pr\u00f3prio significa entorpecer-se e perder o seu objetivo e felicidade.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Without purpose and happiness, meeting your potential is quite impossible.You shouldn\u2019t be quiet about what makes you an authentic human being.<\/p>\n

Deves dizer sempre a tua verdade e seguir o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

This will surely make you vulnerable, but it will save you from pushing yourself to be someone you\u2019re not and living the life that\u2019s expected of you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

In other words, you\u2019ll be vulnerable but you\u2019ll be at peace with yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Luckily, when you are sincere about your life, people often recognize that, so it\u2019s true that when you care for yourself, others will follow.<\/p>\n

As pessoas t\u00eam tend\u00eancia a pensar demasiado em tudo e a ficarem irritadas com as coisas mais irrelevantes.<\/p>\n

Talvez em vez de perguntar Why doesn\u2019t he care for me?<\/em> tentar perguntar Why don\u2019t I care for myself enough to take some action and make my life happier?<\/em><\/p>\n

There is a quote by Jung that says that \u201cthe privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

\u201d That\u2019s why I think that in search of love, you should first care about yourself and know yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Recognize your own wants and needs. Recognize the reason why someone\u2019s indifference is bothering you so much.What do we have to prove?<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que n\u00e3o estamos satisfeitos com o que somos? Ser\u00e1 que a nossa depend\u00eancia da aprova\u00e7\u00e3o dos outros nos diz mais sobre n\u00f3s do que sobre eles?<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 quando nos dominamos e aprendemos a cuidar de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios \u00e9 que podemos preocupar-nos com os outros e dar-lhes o amor de que necessitam.<\/p>\n

\"modelo<\/p>\n

Ama-te a ti pr\u00f3prio. Seja gentil consigo mesmo. Reconhe\u00e7a os sentimentos que surgem em si. Desenvolver a auto-empatia.<\/strong><\/p>\n

O autocuidado n\u00e3o \u00e9 apenas mimar-se e comer a comida certa, mas \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m perdoar-se a si pr\u00f3prio pelas coisas que n\u00e3o consegue controlar. Trata-se de deixar a vergonha de lado.<\/p>\n

Shame is a soul-eating feeling. Maybe it\u2019s even the reason why you care about someone not caring. You\u2019re ashamed of not being enough.<\/p>\n

But you are enough \u2013 always \u2013 and the shortest way to find that out is by caring for yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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