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<\/p>\nMuitas pessoas pensam que tudo correr\u00e1 bem na sua vida no momento em que fizerem os votos de casamento.<\/p>\n
They assume that all the problems they had in the relationship are behind them now, once they say, \u201cI do.\u201d<\/p>\n
Bem, a verdade \u00e9 um pouco diferente.<\/p>\n
De facto, um casamento saud\u00e1vel \u00e9 um trabalho constante e requer a defini\u00e7\u00e3o de objectivos matrimoniais, que s\u00e3o cruciais para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o bem sucedida entre duas pessoas.<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
Os objectivos matrimoniais s\u00e3o basicamente algumas metas que se esfor\u00e7am por atingir na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n
\u00c9 algo para o qual trabalham em conjunto, uma forma de fortalecer o vosso casamento e algo que vos inspira e motiva a seguir sempre em frente.<\/p>\n
What are these goals we’re talking about? How do you set goals in marriage?<\/p>\n
Continue a ler e descubra as respostas a estas perguntas.<\/p>\n
15 objectivos realistas para um casamento saud\u00e1vel<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n Um dos primeiros objectivos do casamento que deve tentar estabelecer, se quiser ter um casamento bem sucedido, \u00e9 decidir esfor\u00e7ar-se por constru\u00ed-lo.<\/p>\n You need to understand one thing\u2014no healthy relationship can be built overnight and this especially goes for a romantic one.<\/p>\n Sim, isto significa que tanto voc\u00ea como o seu parceiro t\u00eam de fazer o mesmo esfor\u00e7o para que o seu casamento funcione.<\/p>\n No entanto, tenha em conta que, nalguns dias, um de voc\u00eas estar\u00e1 a investir mais energia, enquanto haver\u00e1 alturas em que a outra pessoa estar\u00e1 a puxar a maior parte do peso.<\/p>\n Keep in mind that marriage is both about giving and receiving and this effort we\u2019re talking about has to go both ways for everything to make sense.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t be o \u00fanico que est\u00e1 a tentar<\/a>, nor can your partner be the only one who cares about your future\u2014otherwise you\u2019ll never make the best out of your marriage.<\/p>\n You probably assume that you\u2019re done with dating the moment you say, \u201cI do,\u201d Well, think again because you\u2019re wrong.<\/p>\n Mesmo que tenha filhos, uma fam\u00edlia, trabalhos di\u00e1rios, tarefas e outros deveres, deve passar algum tempo de qualidade com a sua cara-metade.<\/p>\n I know that you probably live busy lives and that you feel like you don\u2019t have a second of free time but trust me\u2014this marriage goal is crucial for your survival.<\/p>\n Spare some time for just the two of you, without your children and without phones and pretend like you\u2019re still in a relationship.<\/p>\n Pelo menos uma vez por m\u00eas, sair semanalmente data<\/a> like in the old days; it doesn\u2019t have to be a fancy, romantic, candlelit dinner if you\u2019re out of money\u2014it will be enough for the two of you to grab a cup of coffee on your own, without anyone disturbing you.<\/p>\n Infelizmente, muitos casais caem na rotina e esquecem-se deste objetivo.<\/p>\n Assim, sem darem por isso, deixam de ser o que s\u00e3o essencialmente (parceiros rom\u00e2nticos) e transformam-se em nada mais do que co-pais que lutam para financiar um agregado familiar em conjunto.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t forget one crucial thing\u2014you and your other half are a team now.<\/p>\n You\u2019re companions and everything you do, you should do it with joint forces.<\/p>\n Of course, this doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re expected to lose your individuality altogether.<\/p>\n Ningu\u00e9m lhe est\u00e1 a dizer para abandonar os seus amigos, fam\u00edlia, passatempos ou interesses ou para deixar de ser a pessoa que foi durante toda a sua vida e tornar-se apenas um marido ou uma mulher.<\/p>\n No entanto, as coisas ser\u00e3o muito mais f\u00e1ceis para si se come\u00e7ar a ver-se como parte de um casal poderoso.<\/p>\n The good news is that you\u2019re no longer alone in this world and that you have someone to back you up at all times.<\/p>\n Este \u00e9 outro aspeto que deve ser valorizado e trabalhado por si e pela sua cara-metade.<\/p>\n Sim, traz muita responsabilidade porque, a partir do dia em que diz os votos de casamento, as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es deixam de afetar apenas a si, mas \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m um enorme al\u00edvio saber que, a partir desse momento, tem um colega de equipa.<\/p>\n What most people forget is that there is not much point in loving each other if you don\u2019t share mutual respect, which is something you can\u2019t have a happy marriage without.<\/p>\n Afinal de contas, voc\u00eas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o crian\u00e7as e sabem o que significa tratar algu\u00e9m com respeito, especialmente o seu c\u00f4njuge.<\/p>\n No, to set goals doesn\u2019t include you nodding your head to everything they say or that you have to blindly follow their lead; naturally, you\u2019re allowed to have an opinion of your own\u2014you just have to take theirs into consideration at all times as well.<\/p>\n Mesmo quando os dois t\u00eam atitudes diferentes em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a alguma coisa, n\u00e3o se insultam nem se rebaixam um ao outro, especialmente \u00e0 frente dos outros.<\/p>\n Em vez disso, aprenda a concordar com o facto de discordar.<\/p>\n Also, it is crucial to respect each other\u2019s friends and families, desires, personal time, space and individuality.<\/p>\n Another relationship goal you should strive for is respecting your wedding vows for as long as you\u2019re married\u2014not only having them in mind while you\u2019re newlyweds.<\/p>\n It is remembering that you promised to be there for each other in both good and bad days, in sickness and health and that a break up is the last option you won\u2019t even take into consideration.<\/p>\n Just don\u2019t forget to have some self-respect along the way!<\/p>\n Outra das chaves para um casamento feliz \u00e9, sem d\u00favida, uma comunica\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel, que \u00e9 crucial para a sa\u00fade do seu casamento.<\/p>\n This is the person you share your life with and if you can\u2019t tell each other what you think and how you honestly feel, without holding anything back, what\u2019s the point of your relationship?<\/p>\n When you\u2019re bothered by something, there is no ignoring or silent treatment.<\/p>\n Remember that your significant other doesn\u2019t have the ability to read minds, so there is no theoretical possibility for them to know what\u2019s wrong unless you tell them.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t worry\u2014happy couples argue as well, so it doesn\u2019t mean that your communication is poor if you have some issues.<\/p>\n No entanto, a diferen\u00e7a \u00e9 que eles sabem como discutir. Quando se tem uma boa comunica\u00e7\u00e3o, voc\u00ea e o seu c\u00f4njuge aprendem com as discuss\u00f5es.<\/p>\n You\u2019ll perfect the skill of accepting the other person\u2019s opinion, even if it differs from yours, you won\u2019t insult each other during your fights and you won\u2019t bring them down.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t forget\u2014it\u2019s always you two on one side and the problem on the other; it should never be you against each other.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, uma comunica\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel inclui ouvir o que a outra pessoa est\u00e1 a dizer.<\/p>\n It means acknowledging their words and paying close attention to what they\u2019re telling you.<\/p>\n As it was already stated, you\u2019re no longer alone in this world and as much benefit this brings, it also means that you can\u2019t do whatever the hell you want.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not saying that your marriage should limit your freedom but as soon as you become a rec\u00e9m-casado<\/a>, you can\u2019t go through life the way you feel like it, without taking the other person\u2019s well-being into consideration.<\/p>\n That\u2019s why compromise is one of the smart goals you should put an effort into achieving if you want to preserve the health of your marriage.<\/p>\n Lembre-se que esta \u00e9 uma via de dois sentidos e que ambos t\u00eam de se encontrar a meio caminho se quiserem ter um casamento mais forte.<\/p>\n Tu e a tua cara-metade s\u00e3o iguais; n\u00e3o h\u00e1 pap\u00e9is submissos ou dominantes e ambas as vossas opini\u00f5es e desejos contam igualmente.<\/p>\n Uma vez que ambos t\u00eam a mesma quantidade de responsabilidades, deveres e direitos, ambos devem ter a mesma palavra a dizer quando se trata de tomar decis\u00f5es cruciais relativamente \u00e0 vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Outro objetivo de relacionamento para o qual deve trabalhar \u00e9, sem d\u00favida perd\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n No, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should allow your partner to treat you the way they want, while you should keep on forgiving them and acting like everything is in perfect order.<\/p>\n Instead, tell them when something is wrong and when you\u2019re not okay with the way they\u2019ve been acting.<\/p>\n However, setting goals in marriage doesn\u2019t include either of you holding grudges or being resentful for ages about something in the past.<\/p>\n Se acontecer alguma coisa entre voc\u00eas os dois, falem sobre o assunto e trabalhem no sentido de perdoar, em vez de deixarem que esse assunto se torne um trampolim para o fracasso do vosso casamento.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t mention a breakup after your first mistake and don\u2019t even think about divorce.<\/p>\n Naturally, there are some things you can\u2019t find an excuse for and nobody will blame you for respecting your deal-breakers but please, do your best to be as tolerant as possible.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o se esque\u00e7am de que ambos s\u00e3o seres humanos de carne e osso.<\/p>\n You both make mistakes which you regret and you\u2019re both entitled to forgiveness.<\/p>\n Em vez disso, tenha expectativas realistas mas claras em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu parceiro.<\/p>\n Tente andar um quil\u00f3metro no lugar deles e seja compreensivo, mesmo que eles fa\u00e7am algo para o magoar.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t have to be eternally grateful to your spouse when they\u2019re acting the way a normal marital partner should act.<\/p>\n No entanto, um dos objectivos de relacionamento<\/a> para o qual se deve trabalhar \u00e9, sem d\u00favida, a aprecia\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Show your partner that you appreciate everything they\u2019re doing for your marriage and be thankful for the effort they put into setting goals for your future together.<\/p>\n Show them that you appreciate their sacrifices and that you\u2019re more than proud of having them around.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t take their efforts for granted and put a smile on your face for every little thing they do for you.<\/p>\n Of course, expect the same treatment back. Don\u2019t allow your spouse to behave like it\u2019s okay for you to move mountains for them, while they don\u2019t have to lift a finger.<\/p>\n Apesar do que muitos casais possam pensar, a intimidade \u00e9 muito mais do que sexo e a\u00e7\u00e3o no quarto e \u00e9 um dos objectivos mais importantes do casamento.<\/p>\n Sometimes, it\u2019s all about holding hands, having weekly date nights, looking each other deeply in the eyes while not saying a word, spending quality time together and knowing each other to the core.<\/p>\n Sim, ter uma vida sexual de alta qualidade \u00e9 um objetivo poderoso e algo para o qual se deve trabalhar.<\/p>\n I won\u2019t lie to you though\u2014you won\u2019t have a rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a> if it\u2019s only based on the physical aspects.<\/p>\n No entanto, se quer um casamento mais forte, a sua vida sexual tamb\u00e9m deve estar em ordem.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o h\u00e1 lugar para o ego\u00edsmo no quarto e \u00e9 crucial que ambos estejam satisfeitos.<\/p>\n Tal como em tudo na vida, encontre um meio-termo.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t do anything you\u2019re not comfortable doing but make sure you please your spouse\u2019s well-being.<\/p>\n No entanto, um objetivo inteligente \u00e9 aumentar os seus n\u00edveis de intimidade tamb\u00e9m noutros campos.<\/p>\n Liguem-se de formas diferentes e fa\u00e7am o vosso melhor para refor\u00e7ar a vossa liga\u00e7\u00e3o dentro e fora do quarto.<\/p>\n O objetivo mais poderoso em qualquer casamento \u00e9 a f\u00e9.<\/p>\n Even if you don\u2019t believe in God in traditional terms, I\u2019m sure you do believe in something or someone to whom you pray and who you think can give you a hand when you\u2019re going through rough times.<\/p>\n You and your spouse don\u2019t have to respect the same God but it is important if you\u2019re both united in praying for the success of your marriage with joint forces.<\/p>\n Mesmo quando as coisas est\u00e3o a correr mal, tenham f\u00e9 que v\u00e3o conseguir, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n Besides, respect each other\u2019s beliefs. Remember\u2014God is all about love and it is insane to argue about religion, as long as you both want peace, understanding and compromise.<\/p>\n Um dos objectivos di\u00e1rios que todos os casais t\u00eam de atingir \u00e9 a amizade.<\/p>\n Your partner is not only your lover\u2014they should be your melhor amigo<\/a> tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n Sabes como tratas o teu melhor amigo? Faz o seu melhor para o compreender, para aceitar as suas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es, para o apoiar em todos os momentos e nunca o julgar.<\/p>\n No entanto, tamb\u00e9m se espera o mesmo tratamento em troca.<\/p>\n After all, this is your person\u2014the first person you go to when you\u2019re going through some trouble, the first one you tell all the bad and good news to and someone whose advice you always take into consideration and listen to.<\/p>\n This is your confidant, the person you\u2019re not ashamed to show your darkest side, someone you\u2019re not scared of exposing your vulnerabilities to and a person you consider to be your family.<\/p>\n Bem, embora deva manter uma vida social saud\u00e1vel e as amizades que tinha antes do casamento, o seu c\u00f4njuge deve tornar-se o seu amigo n\u00famero um.<\/p>\n Para al\u00e9m de tudo isto, deve ser a pessoa com quem mais gostamos de passar o tempo, a pessoa com quem nos divertimos e algu\u00e9m ao lado de quem podemos ser n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n Remember your wedding vows? How you both promised never to leave each other\u2019s side, no matter what?<\/p>\n Bem, isso inclui apoio incondicional.<\/p>\n Estabelecer objectivos inteligentes no casamento significa contar com o seu c\u00f4njuge para o apoiar quando todos os outros o abandonam, para o apoiar na sa\u00fade e na doen\u00e7a e para acreditar em si, mesmo quando perde a f\u00e9 em si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n O seu parceiro conjugal deve ser a pessoa em quem pode confiar, a quem pode contar os seus segredos mais profundos, a quem pode confiar a sua vida e a quem nunca o deixar\u00e1 pendurado.<\/p>\n They should be the wind beneath your wings, your biggest fan and ally, someone who pushes you forward and who doesn\u2019t let you give up.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re setting your own goals for a successful marriage, please don\u2019t forget about accepting the other person for who they really are.<\/p>\n \u00c9 claro que todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es, e especialmente uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00e3o s\u00e9ria como o casamento, exigem uma certa adapta\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n However, it doesn\u2019t mean that either of you should change the essence of your personality just to please the other person.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t fool yourself\u2014your love can\u2019t change someone and if you try modifying your partner or molding them to fit your standards, while deep down this is not what they want, you\u2019ll sentence both of you to a life of misery.<\/p>\n You and your spouse are grown-ups. You\u2019re individuals with already formed personalities so you have no other choice but to completely accept each other, together with all of your flaws.<\/p>\n \u00c9 importante ter expectativas realistas mas claras e normas<\/a> desde o primeiro dia.<\/p>\n See whether you\u2019re compatible before getting married and see whether this is the person you can see yourself growing old next to.<\/p>\n Se se aperceber do contr\u00e1rio, pode aceitar as suas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es ou afastar-se a tempo.<\/p>\n Remember\u2014nobody likes being parented and told what to do or how to behave themselves for you to like them more.<\/p>\n Outro objetivo inteligente para o seu casamento \u00e9 a confian\u00e7a m\u00fatua.<\/p>\n This means that neither of you will doubt your partner\u2019s words, that you\u2019ll believe that they wouldn\u2019t cheat on you or betray you in any way possible and that there won\u2019t be some quest\u00f5es de confian\u00e7a<\/a> no vosso casamento.<\/p>\n O ci\u00fame \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m um aspeto importante da confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n Yes, there is an amount of healthy jealousy in every romantic relationship but as soon as it turns into possessiveness, it\u2019s time to make some changes between you two.<\/p>\n Finally, there is no point in achieving any of these realistic goals we\u2019ve talked about unless there is love.<\/p>\n Se querem que a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o resulte, devem amar-se incondicionalmente e para sempre.<\/p>\n1. Esfor\u00e7o<\/h2>\n
![\"Marido](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Husband-cooking-for-wife.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"Mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Woman-piggyback-man-park.jpg\")
<\/p>\n2. Tempo de qualidade<\/h2>\n
![\"Casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-date-wine-glasses.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"Casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Man-hug-woman-coffee.jpg\")
<\/p>\n3. Companheirismo<\/h2>\n
![\"Casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Couple-walking-grass.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"Grande](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Close-up-clasped-hands-wristwatch.jpg\")
<\/p>\n4. Respeito<\/h2>\n
![\"A](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Woman-Man-talking-sofa.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"Mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-comforts-man-head-down.jpg\")
<\/p>\n5. Comunica\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/h2>\n
![\"Casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Happy-couple-arms-propped-table.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"Homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-pinches-woman-nose.jpg\")
<\/p>\n6. Compromisso<\/h2>\n
![\"Homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Man-propped-elbow-woman-looks-down.jpg\")
<\/p>\n7. O perd\u00e3o<\/h2>\n
![\"Casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Man-comforts-upset-woman.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"Mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Woman-pinch-nose-man-back.jpg\")
<\/p>\n8. Aprecia\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n
![\"Casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Couple-hugging-man-behind.jpg\")
<\/p>\n9. Intimidade<\/h2>\n
![\"Casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Couple-bed-pizza.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"Casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-kisses-woman-forehead.jpg\")
<\/p>\n10. F\u00e9<\/h2>\n
![\"Casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-praying-lake.jpg\")
<\/p>\n11. Amizade<\/h2>\n
![\"Casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Laughing-couple-hugging-autumn.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"Casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-couple-hugging-roofdeck.jpg\")
<\/p>\n12. Apoio<\/h2>\n
![\"Grande](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hands-woman-smiling.jpg\")
<\/p>\n13. Aceita\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n
![\"Homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Man-bun-hugging-woman.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"Mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Woman-hugs-man-closed-eyes.jpg\")
<\/p>\n14. Confian\u00e7a<\/h2>\n
![\"Casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Couple-touching-foreheads.jpg\")
<\/p>\n15. Amor<\/h2>\n
![\"Casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Couple-relaxing-river-dock.jpg\")
<\/p>\n
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