![\"Homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-near-window.jpg\")
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Maybe he\u2019s had a painful experience from his last relationships, maybe he\u2019s had a traumatic childhood.<\/p>\n
Ou talvez goste apenas de fingir ser um tipo duro que se recusa a abrir-se e a mostrar emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n
Maybe he is dealing with an addiction. Perhaps he\u2019s stuck in a rough patch and can\u2019t seem to move his life from a dead spot.<\/p>\n
De qualquer forma, fica-se sempre presa a homens que precisam da sua ajuda em alguma coisa.<\/p>\n
Claro que sim, a maioria das raparigas fugiria para salvar a vida no momento em que se apercebesse disto.<\/strong><\/p>\n Or they\u2019d give these men some time to get their shit together but would stay away from their healing process.<\/p>\n Mas tu n\u00e3o. You wouldn\u2019t leave a man in trouble, would you now?<\/strong><\/p>\n Ent\u00e3o, em vez de perder o interesse, apaixona-se ainda mais por ele.<\/p>\n V\u00ea-o como o seu grande projeto e decide colocar todas as suas for\u00e7as para o ajudar a ser melhor.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ao mesmo tempo, v\u00ea-se a si pr\u00f3pria como uma esp\u00e9cie de super-mulher.<\/strong><\/p>\n Convence-se de que \u00e9 a \u00fanica pessoa que tem o que \u00e9 preciso para o salvar.<\/strong><\/p>\n After all, you can\u2019t leave this guy hanging, can you? He is a lost soul and has no one to give him a hand but you.<\/p>\n Por isso, o seu trabalho \u00e9 tir\u00e1-lo da escurid\u00e3o. A sua miss\u00e3o \u00e9 traz\u00ea-lo para a luz e p\u00f4r a sua vida em ordem.<\/p>\n Ever since you can remember, it\u2019s been like this. <\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s like you\u2019re a magnet for broken men who need repairing.<\/strong><\/p>\n However, what\u2019s in it for you? You constantly give and give without receiving anything in return.<\/p>\n \u00c9 claro que tudo isto o esgota. Tem impacto na sua sa\u00fade mental e deixa-o cansado e exausto.<\/p>\n Para al\u00e9m disso, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 qualquer possibilidade de ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel neste tipo de condi\u00e7\u00f5es. <\/strong><\/p>\n You can\u2019t focus on building a romance since you\u2019re too busy trying to cure your partner.<\/strong><\/p>\n Instead of being this dude\u2019s girlfriend, you become everything else: his counselor, guide, parent, advisor, therapist\u2026<\/p>\n Bem, deixem-me dizer-vos uma coisa: it\u2019s not your job to repair broken men.<\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s not your job to raise them, heal their traumas, or turn them into better people.<\/p>\n It\u2019s not your duty to carry the weight of their emotional baggage on your shoulders.<\/p>\n It\u2019s not your mission to save them<\/a> ou gui\u00e1-los na vida.<\/p>\n You\u2019re not the one responsible for their problems, so you shouldn\u2019t be the one solving them either.<\/strong><\/p>\n Besides, you couldn\u2019t do it even if you wanted to. Remember: You can\u2019t save a man who doesn\u2019t want to be saved.<\/strong><\/p>\n You can\u2019t show him the way if he doesn\u2019t want to see it. You can\u2019t open his heart to love if he\u2019s the one who decided to shut it off.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t glue his broken pieces back together nor can you change the essence of who he is. <\/strong><\/p>\n Most importantly, you can\u2019t make anyone happy if they don\u2019t feel that way with or without you.<\/strong><\/p>\n After all, most of these guys are not even emotionally damaged \u2013 they\u2019re just idiotas<\/a> que se aproveitam do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o carinhoso.<\/p>\n Por isso, por favor, parem de fazer tudo isto. Realize that you\u2019re only hurting yourself while you\u2019re actually not helping them in any way.<\/strong><\/p>\n Remember: It\u2019s not selfish to put yourself first. It\u2019s not selfish to walk away from the ones who can\u2019t give you what you need and deserve.<\/p>\n Instead of wasting all of your time on parenting immature boys who don\u2019t have a clue what they want from life, focus on making yourself feel better.<\/p>\n Em vez de dedicar toda a sua energia a cur\u00e1-los, concentre-se em encontrar um homem de verdade que possa acompanh\u00e1-la na vida.<\/p>\n![\"Grande](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-holding-hands-2.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"Mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-wearing-superhero-cape-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"Homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-at-woman-sitting-at-the-table-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"Mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaving-man.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"Homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-breaking-up.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"N\u00e3o](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/its-ok-to-put-yourself-first-message.jpg\")
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